You’re intensely concerned with maintaining your privacy to begin with, and this week will do little to allay your concerns about revealing what’s really going on underneath that cool façade. It’s like a game of chess: you’re able to spot, well in advance, the ramifications of your next move – namely, expressing your deepest concerns. Maybe you’ll unwittingly walk (or talk) yourself into a trap of your own careless devising if you don’t think through every possible outcome. How exhausting! The easiest way to keep all of those narrative threads straight is to simply say them out loud. Your partner, if you have one, can handle it.
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i’ve been playing chess with a scorpio for some time now. (i have a scorpio moon.) but i’m just utterly at the end of my rope. i feel like i’m in a soundproof booth screaming I LOVE YOU at the top of my lungs as i watch him feel so lonely, ye he can’t see me. how are scorpios of the world feeling right now? lonely? needing love? or progressing slowly. i know his professional and career is improving the most it has in years but i’m not so sure about his love life.
sad libra
Silly guy needs a wake up call
Im scorpio rising, and what you just described would kill me…..The guy needs someone to shake his world up and open his eyes…. Unless he is toying with you, he might be taking his time to make his move… Wear something black, flirt with him, dont be shy, thats how I ruined my chances too many times, if he is single, just let him know, which will shock the hell out of him LOL, or flirt like youve never flirted before and then get him tro chase you… Remember we Libras look good in tight pants, LOL, let him see what he’s missing
EARTH TO MAN, COME IN DUDE!!!!!!! WAKE UP STUPID , HOT WOMAN WANTS YOU, DONT BE STUPID EH……
Maybe he needs glasses?
hi ladies, i’m nov 8 scorpio and i can tell you yesterday and day i feel crap. dont wanna leave the house, too lazy to cook, i wish a pizza would just show up at the door so i can return to the dark mood alone.
i’ve been here before and it passes. for me, it happens to be a creative spurt, i play guitar. so i honor this, although it sucks to not want to be around anyone.
so, i’d advise 1 of 2 things – 1- give your man some space, thats what i’d want. 2- know that he might not want to express these dark feelings, but let him know you love him no matter what and he may tell you exactly how he feels, which might help. i just started dating someone and i would love to tell her, but i feel like its too early in the relationship and could destroy it.
it’s really strange but I felt exactly the same yesterday. In a pit of sadness and anxiety wondering what the hell is wrong with me. Today it’s lightening up so not sure what that’s all about.
Yes it’s definitely nice to be flirted with when in those kind of moods as it takes the emphasis off yourself.
i had a feeling things would lighten tomorrow. i went and got drunk with a girl friend tonite which is always nice, cept for the ride home, but i feel like u2 says it right, “i’m gonna go crazy if i dont go crazy tonite”. sometimes we gotta cut lose, and that brings us back.
Hi , Im a female Scorpio 6th of Nov , and sometimes I dont understand it ! Sometimes when we scorpios slip into that space , its quite by accident and we dont realise its happened until its happening . Yes , we can be a bit weird , and yes sometimes we seem to be on the same channel as the rest of the world , but we find ourselves with a foot on this ” conscious plane ” and the other on something of even parallel , and hey its taken 40yrs to get a grasp on that one !The point being , we are travelling in the same direction , to the same destination , the universe just grabs us and says , your gonna see , hear and feel from all angles ! That seems to be an unavoidable par for the cause . But please remember Scorpios love loving , and love being loved , if you can sometimes think out of the box , you will get the most amazing time of your lives good luck girls
scorpio male
You’re a good guy.
I have days like that too, what the hell am I doing….What’s wrong with me. Right now my life doesnt make any sense. Things that arnt suposed to be happening are hitting me in the head, I feel more of a loss this time of year due to my fathers death last year, its hard to look at my new elationship without wondering what he woud have thought, its hard to explain to my son that it’s okay to have holidays without his grandfather when deep down it looks like a big farce to me….the weather gets depressing, people start acting weird at work and the mall is full of people that don’t seem to make any sense. From what I know of you, You deserve to be a lot happier. I think that maybe its time that a new love came along because thats what you need and deserve. Of course with that comes another set of problems. Either things arnt working out the way you want or you end up feeling youre the one stalling things. No matter what it’s as if you just can’t win. As for getting things right, I feel so stupid because I don’t think I’ll ever get things right. What I want and what I can handle right now just doesnt seem to blend well….Ever feel like your at the crossroads? I’m beginning to feel like running. Isolation would be great right now, I’m torn between this and that, but I cant run because that would be cowardly and I don’t want to show my son that….As for you, I’m really glad that we started talking before because you help me understand men a lot better. Its a lot easier to relate to someone when theres honesty. Thank you. BTW you helped me focuss on my sons needs so much better too, I appreciate that and hope that you find your smile soon
I’m a cancer girl interested in a scorpio male and I’m running into the same problem as LibraLady. I’ve been talking to this guy for about five months now and sometimes I get hints that he likes me but he never admits that he likes more than just friends. We talk everyday and tell each other everything pretty much but if I tease him of “having a crush on me” he says “oh I don’t think so.” Oh, here’s the kicker…I met him on a dating website.
cancergirl82 –
what are the hints he likes you?
I feel very calculating right now but earlier in the day ife so emotional depressed and sad like the world was nothing andi do not belong here. Everything collapsed dow on me. It was difficult. And latle thats how i feel. Like giving up and or that i need a brake but life is not going to allow that whole well. I guess this is another fight before relaxation if there is such a thin as peace of mind
I feel very calculating right now but earlier in the day ife so emotional depressed and sad like the world was nothing andi do not belong here. Everything collapsed dow on me. It was difficult. And latle thats how i feel. Like giving up and or that i need a brake but life is not going to allow that whole well. I guess this is another fight before relaxation if there is such a thin as peace of mind. oct. 26 scorpio
Phenix – so many times in my life i go thru these dark patches, the severe ones lasting a week or so. i feel i might be moving out of this one, but still not real interested in being too social – unless alcohol is involved. but this time, i just chose to honor this dark patch, knowing its just who i am right now. it will pass. i feel like its a thing we gotta ride out. for me, its not like i want to be cheered up, i just kinda need to go thru it. is that how it feels for you?
Its more like mylife has been somthing unreal of dark. And if i stop now my life will get worse if that were humanly possible. Mines more of i must continue there are no times for stops. I couninue on an a pattern beheld of someone programed. If i should feel it is usually sadness though myscorpiowoman always finds someway to bring me back its just getting worse round this week especially. Dark pattern or not ill eal with the excess feelings when i have a break from my obligations.
phenix – yeah thats tough. fortunately, i havent worked in 2.5 years so i dont have to deal with anything when i’m in it.
but just prior to that i was in a job where for the last 6-12 months i was going thru the motions. i didnt have the sack to quit, but finally got thankfully laid off. i guess i’m still kinda stuck, waiting for “work” to come along that i remain passionate about for more than 3 days. sounds like you got a family and obligations, i managed to avoid that, but at least you have the comfort of a mate to help bring you through. thats great. hope to find that one day myself.
mike:
He tells me that “if he didn’t like me then he wouldn’t talk to me everyday and I’m pretty much his walking journal.” However, its like pulling teeth to know if he likes me for more as he says I am the first person to get very close to him as he went through an emotional rollercoaster with his last gf. I know scorpios do not like to reveal how vulnerable they are. However, what I am to think that he wants to be on vacation w/me for a year? I don’t know which way I’m going.
I thought I was the only onw who felt lost and alone. This feeling of sadness has been living with me for a few weeks now…………I juust want to be alone. I am not interested in leaving the house unless I have to and I have been drowning myself in my BORING job because I need something to occupy my time but I would much rather just stay in bed. I know this is a phase, I just dont know whats wrong with me ever since my bday came and went i have felt so down. I should be celebrating this milestone in my life, not wishing it would go away. I have been stuck in a rut for a few years now and I don’t see a resolution, I am just going with the motions. I was dealing with a lot of personal issues, my mom got really sick, one of my relatives is in a LOT of debt, one of my close girlfriends was in the hospital, and on top of all that I am deeply in love with someone who is not interested in talking to me at all. Maybe this is how my life is supposed to be. Everyone says things happen for a reason but does you whole life suck for this long period of time? AM I DESTINED FOR SADNESS FOREVER?
cancergirl – i’m assuming you’ve met in person and your talking is on the phone or texting or in person? if all the communication is via email and you’ve never met, than thats different. assuming you’ve met in person, has it gotten physical? if not, then make a move. my hunch is there might not be an attraction on his part, he sees you only as a friend. in order to find out for sure, you’re going to have to push it. tell him, “we need to talk” and then tell him about your feelings for him and watch how he responds. try to do this in person. or if that is too blunt for you, then the next time you see him, look for any way to start touching him – a backrub, foot massage or even better a hand on the leg while your watching TV.
scorpsweetie – during the last few years of my life, i’ve really had to develop faith, along with a “glass half full” approach. i practice telling myself, “this is just how things are now and i am learning”.
as for the guy you love, when you are ready, you will move on. maybe there is a reason you’re to feel this hurt/ache now that is not clear to you.
do you think if another great guy came along who WAS way into you, that you’d feel better?
To all the sad scorpios – pain is a great motivator. you just have to give it direction. We always want to fight to get away from it but its really useful when you use it to your advantage. It’s a masterful teacher, an inspiring muse, a revolutionary cause. Take your pain and DO something with it. Don’t waste it. Some of the best things in my life have been spawned from suffering. So suffer well.
countess – any suggestions?
Countess , youre onto it ! My sentiments exactly , As I read down the page its all doom and gloom , lets all try and turn it all around , weve all commented on the negative , we all know what thats about , so lets wrap that up , send it out to the universe to be dissolved and start inviting in the POSITIVE , Life will start feeling so much better and go with that . If life was so predictable , would we be where we are now ? Jump back in the drivers seat of life people , and Believe , were all destined for better things
Thanks for the feedback Mike.
Early this morning…he said this to me “no i wouldnt pass up a great thing why do you think i still talk to you cause im not passing up a great thing”
I guess I have to figure out here in the next few weeks how this plays out before I go abroad for vacation.
c-girl – i’m confused. he invited you to go live with him for a year abroad? do you see him, or is this all online?
Cancer girl-ive been in somewhat of the same situation with a cancer girl it diddnt work out. I ust to tell her good things come and go but great things take time. We ended awhile after wked her but i diddnt really want to be with her. It took her a year to get me. and almost another to lose me.
Countess-pain ism any things but a motivator. I usually channel it into writieng or excercsse but beyond that its not really useful unless used with anger for adrenaline i had an unfourtante day where i provoked another scorpio into a fight. I feel somewha bad for the imasculation but i feel more dissapointend that it wasnt exccpted. I must calm down maybe before i unless pent up feelings. Im trying to learn howto unleas them for a brighter view but instead i wallow in them. Never knowing if the result will be axiety depression or anger.
Mike an advice for a younger scorpio? Im ninteen. Im sure its better to learn from the experiance of another scorpio. we are alot alike scarily. Ive studied scorpios its interesting. My gfs one my best friend and her bf are one our other freind is one coe to think of it i hang with alot of scorps.
Not all online; however, we do live in different states so I dont see him face to face often. I travel often domestically and internationally, but he did invite me to go abroad with him for a year.
well, sorry to be blunt, but its not really real then. long distance is fun and sexy and mysterious but it’s not real life. if you want to take a big, big chance, go for it, but i’d say you’ll be much healthier looking in your own backyard. must be tons-o-guys where you are. make yourself available and go for it. keep the long distance in perspective.
Maybe the abroad thing would have led to chances. All i know is I kinda ovoidedgoing out with my ex cancer. She was such a great friend. Thouh i couldnt ignore when i came back that shed whisper n her sleep that she loved me. And id listen on the other side listen to her sleep.(sigh) i feel like such a jerk. I shouldve wiehged what the break up really meant. We were engaged. Scorpios have a flaw that ive noticed. We channael love into our lover and outside of that not really with friends. Most scorpio guys dont have many friends at all. Though nothing will ever happen if you odnt say. I knew my cancer liked me for a long time but i never said and for a year i pretty much ignored it.
Phx…why did you ignore her for a year although you knew she liked you?
Mike
I don’t mind packing up and moving to make a relationship work. Neither one of us wants the “fun” relationship kind of thing. Close or not…all relationships take work and I don’t mind that at all. It just seems as though one minute I get the confirmation of possibly more than friends and the next minute we are “best friends” and I’m sick of the in-between.
I can move abroad or stay abroad whenever I like so I’m thinking I may just do that to get my mind off of him so to speak.
Much like mike said i thought it was better to date in your own backyard as he put it. I just diddnt want anyone close to me. That aas the year i was learning to feel more then anger pain and depression i was confused about feelings becuase i hadnt been shwon kindness and i was unleashing anger the whole year. The next year my idiot self realized that i loved her and then almost in our second year i ended it with the thought that shell be happer with someone else becuase her world and mine are so different and life is hard enough. Hopefully shell get what sehs searching for in the end though she may not realize it i wasnt right for her. It wouldve have been great i admit but i wasnt ready for it any of it. She was such a hppy person butsad and lonley she needed someoen to tae care of her and i need to figure out how to live life and find what i m searching for. Ive found it but now im searching for a deeper answer.
Idk if its its just me but ever notice us scorps seem to be detached from life aot almost like there waiing or searching and nothing else matters. Like everyhting else is a distraction. Idk maybe its a random thought.
@ phoenix – i cant speak in total context but it seems my scorp regards life that way. Completely detached. And then it sucks him in and he suffers so he fights to detach to the point of apathy, but even that takes a toll on him. there is no happy solution. he’s damned if he do and damned if he doesnt.
@mike – when i’m knee deep in agonizing pain, like true suffering, the soul draining stuff, i seek out something NEW. And then i make myself obsess over it. I’ve learned about quantum physics, yoga, tibet freedom acts, just random stuff that i always say one day i’ll get around to doing and then i’m like “f-it, ive got the time, instead of spending all this time thinking, pondering, drowning, i’m going to throw it into something else. I actually read the bible one time – not because i’m christian – just so i could argue points of it in an educated manner. I paint (i’m no painter but i always say one day i’ll do it) and oyu know what? the pieces came out GOOD! I actually sold some of them on etsy jus tto get rid of them. I take all that focused energy on feeling so wrecked and i say “screw this. this is a lot of energy, i could do better with it than crying on my pillow and creating self induced panic attacks and fantasies of writing in blood” lol.
Suffering has major momentum but if you just let it wreck havoc inside of you its wasted. Take it and get crazy with it.
countess that stinks about your scorpio.
And i like that maybe its tme for a new hobbie. I went from drawing, to excersice to writing songs to peotry to playing guitar to writieing stories now im writeing a play but ive always been interestedi n yoga nad mediation. So is yoga any good?
og kuddos on the reading it to argu with it lol thats basically what i did lol
Countess:
Taking frustration and finding hobbies is a good thing. Since I’ve been through up and downs w/my scorp…I’ve become a better runner. When I run, I can not focus on any negative thought. I’ve always been a big reader and I read to the visually impaired anyways, but you find yourself into a book more and appreciating art more.
Mike & Phoenix:
I’ve pretty much given up where is this thing leading to? I’ve pondered, thought and the mixed messages is too much for a Cancer. We’re patient but everyone has their limits. Pretty much, if he does get around to realizing that he truly wants to be with me I’m pretty much not going to be around either way.
@phoenix – i LOVE yoga. its better than drugs and the same high as sex. Lol. My clearest visions always come to me when im in practice. Its like i can see the world how it really it is, not my imperfect human perspective. Its like an internal body massage, a challenge thats pleasing not arduous, an enlightenment and a cleanse. I cannot suggest it highly enough. Altho i dont enjoy it as much practicing at home as i do at a studio. The one i used to go to did all classes by artifical candle light (battery operated candles). Altho outdoor yoga is truely inspiring too. YOu actually feel like you’re perfectly in sync with the world around you, like you can almost hear the earth’s heartbeat and yours is beating in the same time. And you needn’t be an enlighted person to experience these things. Just open.
Try it. You’ll definately feel totally different when you leave than when you walked in.