Secret conversations give you too much to stew over. If you obsess over the current state of your love life, you’re bound to miss the chance to really find your heart’s desire, at least as far as romance is concerned. Worry less about the impact of someone else’s words, and focus more on the whisperings in your heart. Can you see a greater plan at work, and thus make more sense of your turmoil? There may, in reality, be no conflict between what you both want. To a large extent, your tumultuous emotions are self-inflicted. Hurts so good, right?

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