You’ve been feeling it for a long time: this instability in your love life. Sometimes when it feels impossible to make a choice, the Universe provides you with a fresh set of circumstances that forces you to acknowledge your reality. If Tuesday’s eclipse doesn’t formally clarify where your relationship is at, then perhaps you prefer living in ambiguity. Your mate seems to use work as a means of checking out from the relationship, while you lean on friends for security. If one of them were in your shoes, what would you tell them to do? Now, give your best advice a try.

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