Though Aquarius may seem like one of the most complicated signs in the zodiac, they are actually quite simple to figure out. Ruled by the trickster planet Uranus, the Aquarian loves to do the opposite of what we want, expect or think. “Contrary” is the word to watch with Aquarius. So maybe you’re getting tired of your Aquarius’ need to be different, rebellious and “outside the box,” and are looking for a way to get your Air sign man to leave you. Of all the signs in the zodiac, Aquarius is probably one of the easiest to get rid of. Not only will they not take it personally, they may not even notice, as their general level of detachment can keep them somewhat removed from the day-to-day activities of the average person. They are also the most inclined of all the signs to really end up being one of your friends post-breakup, and in fact, you both may enjoy this relationship even more than your romantic one, as Aquarius thrives more in situations of friendship than deep intimate relating. Read on for some practical tips to drive an Aquarius man away:
Ask for More
The first step in getting your Aquarius man to leave you is to demand more time, energy, commitment, attention or emotional intimacy. More even than the average man, Aquarius men need space and freedom to roam and wander. When they begin to feel constricted, confined or hampered from this desire, they simply rebel and take whatever time and space they need without asking for it. Once you ask for more, you may find they simply disappear, no questions asked.
Nothing bores an Aquarius quicker than normality. So if you once wowed them by sharing your revolutionary new idea for communicating with aliens, or found common ground in your shared hobby of collecting used ice-cream sticks, drive your Aquarius away by showing an interest in the status-quo. Say yes to the nuclear family, the white picket fence, and the American dream. Faster than you can say, “apple pie,” your Aquarian will be out the door.
If you really, really want your Aquarius to leave you, the best thing to do is simply to be honest and tell them you want out. While this may make the Aquarius love you more — since they have a deep respect for truthfulness and honesty — they will also likely be able to quickly let go and move on. Their distant emotional nature can lend them an air of detachment that can actually be welcome in a break-up situation.
So if you’re trying to get rid of an Aquarius man, it’s clearly not all that hard to do. The trickier task is how to catch them and keep them in the first place, but that’s a whole other blog post….
About the Author
Fern Feto Spring, M.A., has been practicing astrology since 1990. She is a graduate of Steven Forrest’s astrological apprenticeship program, and has a Master’s Degree from Sonoma State University. Fern is the co-author (with Jen Zurick) of “Simply Sacred: Everyday Relationship Magic,” a just released book from Clean Sisters Press. Contact her for readings and astrology classes (on-line and in person) at www.wisestars.net.