How to turn a Libra woman on
January 15, 2009 by Lynn Seah
The Libra woman is not easily turned on, because stimuli must first be filtered through her head. After all that cerebral activity, you’d think she would have lost her sense of lust. However, the brain is the largest sex organ of the body, so the best way to turn her on would be to stimulate her mind — she’ll readily turn to fluff and honey! However, she can sense if you try too hard to turn her on, and there’s nothing more off-putting than a choreographed move. Spontaneity is the word.
The Sun in a woman’s chart points largely to the type of man she goes for. A guy with charm who dresses well and exudes inner sexiness will naturally get her hot. The Libra woman doesn’t go for looks alone, mind you. She’s the embodiment of Venus, and doesn’t really need another one. She much prefers a man who appreciates the Venusian in her.
The Moon, Mars and Venus are also signs to look to if you want to seduce her. Since Libra — a Venus-ruled sign — tends to have a reticent, receptive energy, having her Mars, Venus or Moon in a “stronger” sign will modify her turn-ons quite considerably.
- A preponderance of Earth energy makes the Libra a little more shy and reserved, but this doesn’t mean she won’t be kinky in the bedroom.
- Water energy makes her more emotional. Doing things for her would engage her emotions and lust for you.
- Fire energy means she likes action. Take her somewhere exciting, turn up the lights, and be that popular flashy stud.
- More Air means conversation stimulates her. She will love it when you read her poetry, or quote her often.
Since Venus loves all things luxurious, treating her like a princess will turn her on. Libra is also ultra-sensual, and some sweet food like honey, strawberries or whipped cream may suit her taste. Remember, there is a hidden voyeur in the most frigid of Librans, so you can be sure that masks, mirrors, or illusions of glamour really turn up the heat. When you’ve managed to capture slightly more attention from her, you can up the ante with candlelights and roses … the works!
Libra rules the kidneys, lumbar region and butt. Gently stroking the small of her back will make her hot for you. Libra is in love with love, and love and lust goes hand in hand for this sign. Turn her on by stimulating her imagination and desire. She appreciates romanticism because it makes her feel valued — and in turn, you’ll have a tender and skilled lover in your hands, right off the pages of a romance novel!
About the Author
Lynn Seah has been studying astrology for over 12 years. She also holds an honours degree in psychology, and believes integrating astrology into psychological research and practice can help illuminate the numerous blindspots yet to be discovered in the territory of human behaviour.
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Oh Boy.
Simon,
Your response indicates possessiveness. This does not portend well for the relationship. If my relationship with my ex Scorpio is of any indication, Scorpio _Cannot_ give their partner any room, even if they say they would.
In any case, best of luck keeping her scales in balance.
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As for women.. my conviction is: let them be, or be without them. Otherwise you bring yourself misery.
a Leo. (this comment is worth what you paid for it
Well I think i’ve just been told off!! lol
Just would like to clarify a couple of points as I reread my post and yeah I did come across as abit of an ass! I could see what I was trying to say, just didn’t say it properly.
I can’t believe that i’m getting called selfish when she was the one that disappeared off the face of the earth without so much as a post it note.
To me that is “all about her” not all about me and I do not have a problem with wanting space just don’t be rude, selfish, mean etc by disappearing there is a little thing called COMMON COURTESY, a simple text saying I feel like s*** and will call you in a couple of days would have been fine by me and understood.
I NEVER want to own anyone or possess them, been in relationships where they want that and I find it boring, I like the fact I have to keep on my toes and keep thinking of different ways to woo her again and again.
I was 100% worried about her and in a bit of a panic because she was in pain and I didn’t know what was going on so if that means i’m possessive, jealous or i’m just thinking of myself then I feel pretty sad for the human race.
To sum up if lack of COMMON COURTESY is a libra trait then you are right we are not compatible at all as I find that rude and just plain cruel!
PS painkillers I mentioned were a couple of asprins to take the edge off
Simon
you Scorpio guys get a bad rap LOL
I know a few Scorpio husbands that don’t crowd their wives and even encourage them to take time to themselves. I think it comes down to maturity….
My Aquarian guy’s father is a Scorpio and he is so suportive of his wife in all the things that she does. I have a lot of Scorpio friends and find them easier to get along with then other people.
BTW my BF’s mother is a Scorpio too as is mine
I never felt suffocated as a child, my mother has always encouraged me to find “my way” of doing things and has always had a great live and let live attitude. She taught me at a young age how to survive and not care what other people say, “as long as you like yourself”
I think that Scorpio’s help Libra’s see the world clearly. I’ve never met a Libra/Scoprio couple that didn’t get along either.
Oh BTW Simon
Being a total brat is not a Libra trait, I’ve met a lot of self centred people that were other signs…..My ex husband is a Libra (dominating, possesive, selfish), and he is not like my brother (thoughtful, kind and intelligent) who is a Libra….It isn’t her sign it’s her personal character. I think that you should just tell her plainly how you expect to be treated. Unfortunately, 5 years in a bad marriage taught me that we can’t change people so don’t be surprised if she doesn’t understand what you mean. Selfish people never get it…..
Thanks LibraLady, you cheered me up, nice to know i’m not such an Ogre! lol
I have always encouraged friends and going out, my ex of 7 years used to go out when I first met her, tuesdays was girls night (90% blokes lol) loved it, several reasons, she got to see her friends and relax and I got some quiet time myself.
I am always supportive of anything my girl wants to do.
LibraLady ……. again you have hit the nail on the head!!!
I am very thoughtful, way too kind, too bloody intelligent for my own good!! and can (but ignored) see a selfish person a mile away.
Just plain shame is all I have left to say as I feel we were 99% right together..
Leaving things to fate!! and can see where that is going!!
Will let you know what happens….. Promise!
Sorry for being so blunt Simon, I am a mother and do tend to act like one at times.(;
You obviously care for the girl, but she may have a very legitimate reason for not getting back to you, like running low on credit, or not being in the right frame to deal with it at the time…I do that. Not meaning to be rude, just have a million other things to think about and can’t stop. Whatever the reason, there will be a good one no doubt. Nice to know some Scorpios actually care about the girl. I had one who said he wanted to settle down with me, but he was also screwing about 8 other women…and others between sets when he was performing (a guitarist), then got upset that I didn’t wish to go along with his antics. Mind you, I was also doing all his admin and taking his phone calls etcetera. You must have a better rising sign than he did. As I have said before, good luck if you still wish to pursue this girl. We don’t generally hold grudges.
Simon
Since you feel so stronly for this woman, I really hope things change for you. I am in love myself right now and although this time things are fantastic, I have had a hurtful past, I know how bad it feels to love someone totally and have them rip your heart out…..I hope that things get better for you
Barb Libra/Monkey
Hey, I thought we were notorious for holding grudges
Libra lady, no, one of our greater traits is in fact, that we don’t hold grudges…unless you have a scorpio rising or similar…they are the gbrudge holders. I am able to get over stuff and see the other side of the argument and generally feel for the opposition…as is a common thread in my posts.(:
HE HE HE You really crack me up LibraLady hold a grudge geeeez been a week and not a thing …. yes you girls can hold a grudge but ok with that as I have decided I am a little above what she is doing to me (have to say unlike me) so no point in going any further as I like my heart where it is and I know it’s genuine and true.
Barb Libra/Monkey .. sorry you have had some bad experiences but really no need to bite my head off …. some of us are really really really and can I say it toooooooooo really NICE for our own good.
I will be appreciated one day and looking forward to it.
Thanks for you help everyone, feel free to drop me a line or 2
Cheers Simon