I questioned myself. “I actually… have… respect… for…. this…..?” It was a new found appreciation. It was a life-altering and profound appreciation.

In “If I were a Boy” what I appreciated most was the story line. That story is OFTEN never told. I asked a fellow guy the other day (Cancer sun + Libra Moon) what he thought of it and he said the same. He also loved the twist. But I really, really question what men think of the video, or if they would care enough to sit through it and see anything out of it at all. Because at the ‘twist’ when the guy smirked and unapologetically blurted, “It’s not like I’m sleeping with the girl,” I just felt the hurt (for the girl). It affected me (perhaps my pisces rising took it hard).

In Single Ladies, I really wonder what was the significance of the mechanical hand? And why was there a ring? And isn’t she married? And is she just propagandizing that marriage sucks?
But still, I liked her video and I really give her props to her and her crew and video producers, etc. I liked it a lot.