The Astrology of Kink: The Polymorphously Perverse Pisces
October 10, 2008 by Laura F. Walton
Leather and lace, fringe and fetish … in this series, we’ll take a peek at the kinkier side of the zodiac. Each sign has its own distinct sexual flavor; by combining the various tastes you find in the natal chart, each person’s unique sexual recipe begins to emerge. We’ve finally reached that most changeable, most unfathomable sign of the Zodiac, the Pisces.
Pisces is the most mutable of the mutable signs. Those influenced by this sign are born actors; they can be anything, to anyone, at any time. They can play the top, the bottom, the middle, the outside; one of a twosome, threesome, or fourteensome; the exhibitionist or the voyeur; the boy, the girl, both, or neither — in fact, if you can imagine it, Pisces can do it, and probably has. But … why?
The key is that Pisceans derive satisfaction almost solely from giving their partners pleasure. So, you have a Piscean friend who’s suddenly gone from impeccably-clad, black-tie dominatrix to wispy, giggling, pastel ditz? She’s changed lovers. Her entire persona will draw itself subtly around the new partner’s tastes; she’ll morph into the girl of his or her dreams, with very few compunctions or self-doubts.
It’s quite natural and it’s almost subconscious. They’re good at it, too. Pisces influences (particularly the Sun, the Ascendant, or Venus) give a kind of intuition that other folks call “psychic.” When a Fish tunes into their lover’s unspoken sexual wavelengths, the result is nothing short of fantasy fulfillment; they take great pride in their ability to extract and enact even the most carefully hidden desires.
Most are fundamentally bisexual, and both sexes often remain attractively gender-fluid. One of the few things that tend to remain constant include an enjoyment of heightened sensation; many Pisceans like a little pain with their pleasure, as well as long, drawn-out teasing sessions or sensual play.
The Piscean sex drive is very instinctive and often cyclical. When they’re in heat (with Pisces, this is a completely apt description) everyone within a hundred miles knows it; they radiate a kind of deep sexuality that is similar to Scorpio’s yet slightly more dispersed. Small mobs of admirers accumulate overnight, like alley cats when a housebound Persian is feeling frisky.
Here’s a little clue: Pisceans don’t actually live in their own bodies. Their sensitivity seems to reside some few feet away, at least. They can have extremely intimate contact (some would call it “sex”) without ever touching someone; artistic Pisceans make good use of this, using the sexual/sensual sensitivity to fully engage with whatever person, object, or scene they’re in love with at the moment.
Some of the best parts of Piscean sex happen in this non-contact way, and some Fish remain perpetually disappointed by the act itself. They then compulsively seek out new sexual experiences, trying to physically match the psychic merging that is so familiar. Until these Fish learn that physical merging is one thing and psychic merging another, each to be enjoyed on its own terms, they can be restless, self-destructive, and completely unreliable.
The physical drive is strong, but not at all assertive; for instance, the Pisces Mars is sensual and amorous, but rarely aggressive. It can be sneaky. If you’ve ever had accidental sex (say, you were snoozing in a big chair with a new beau and whoops! you both wake up in need of a towel and some Chinese takeout) you probably encountered the Pisces Mars in action. Like water dripping on stone, it’s gentle, subtle, and effective — unless you’re the jackhammer type, of course.
Pisceans are mutability incarnate. Like water itself, they can change shape in an instant to fit almost any situation. Some folks find this annoying, but some find it fascinating and beautiful; if you’re one of the latter, a Piscean lover may suit your tastes. Be prepared to go all the way, though. Deep dreams and fantasies are Pisces’ territory, and they’ll never be happy with superficial facades. If they find a fantasy they like, they’ll act it out for you, as close to perfectly as possible. And if your wildest dreams happen to coincide with theirs, you could have a dream lover for life. Make a wish….
About the Author
Laura F. Walton is a writer, artist, and arts instructor based in Texas. She has been a practicing astrologer for nearly ten years; she specializes in areas of sexuality, individuality, and creative self-discovery. She has contributed forecasts for print media, and currently provides monthlies on her blog Astro What?
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What a scaringly accurate and great description! Fits me to a “T”, except the bisexual part. I’ve never been attracted to other women.
Here’s a little clue: Pisceans don’t actually live in their own bodies. Their sensitivity seems to reside some few feet away, at least. They can have extremely intimate contact (some would call it “sex”) without ever touching someone; artistic Pisceans make good use of this, using the sexual/sensual sensitivity to fully engage with whatever person, object, or scene they’re in love with at the moment.
Can you explain this a little bit more? I am a pisces rising. Where is my sensitivity? So, lets say I live in my coffee cup (I’m holding a coffee cup right now as I am typing this). So, when someone caresses my coffee cup, I could feel aroused?
you can get off on an energetic connection with another person without physical contact. I doubt your coffee cup will get you off.
ARE YOU SERIOUS?!/1
I just thought my imagination was so strong.
Reminds me of that scene from the movie 40 Days and 40 Night, where the chick got off by a flower.
I have had so much fun reading this series! All in all it was excellent.
I knew that I’d have to wait until the end to see “mine” as my sun and venus are in pisces, though I had a little bit with aries (mars) and scorpio (asc) this was certainly my defining moment.
I was certainly not disappointed. My lover (remember him, the cancer sun/mars/venus boy?) thought it was written about me personally. No one believes that he can bring me over the top without laying a finger on me. Part him (yes, the mars/venus/sun conjunction) certainly, but he claims no one else is “free” enough to allow it to happen. That is what she was talking about – for the person with the coffee.
In the kink community I cannot count how many times I’m asked “dom or sub?” I usually smile and answer “I’m an opportunist”. I feel like printing out this article and handing it to them when they as that question because it describes me much better than my three word, non-committal answer.
The only thing I’m disappointed over is that the series is done. Bravo. Thanks so much Laura. Thanks Jeffrey for hosting it. This one was definitely worth waiting for.
May, if your coffee cup ever does get you off, let me know…I’ll take mine with skim and three sugars, please.
Did Jeff’s response help? It’s how I’d describe it, as a Fish myself. Pisces rising is usually just as sensitive as Pisces Sun (sometimes more so, depending on the rest of the 12th) so I’d expect you’ve noticed a tendency to feel what other people are thinking or feeling or wanting or hiding or are too scared to mention aloud. In fact, I’d go so far as to say there’s a tendency to feel what other people actually are inside, secrets and layers and defensiveness aside.
It doesn’t get much more intimate than that. Sometimes a Pisces-influenced person can achieve more intimacy in an hour’s conversation than a person has achieved in a lifetime with their partners.
It’s a fact of life, but it’s tough to explain without resorting to words like “auras” and “psychic fields”, and the connotations of those words grate against my Capricorn Moon to no end. I hope someone else chimes in….
And thanks Valkyri! We must’ve posted at exactly the same time; I wish the series weren’t over, too, but there’ll be more on this topic, I feel quite sure
And I think I’ll be borrowing your line…just a smile and three words, “I’m an opportunist.”
Laura, I think this is your best one of this series. That's a compliment to you from my Pisces Mars squared by Neptune. Pisces sexual energy is so elusive & hard to define & yet you've done a marvelous job.
Sorry to see your series end, may be you'll write something else?
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you for this series.
You’re a wonderful writer and truly insightful.
Laura will be doing a series on Venus-Mars squares, hopefully for each sign combination if there’s enough interest. I agree that she’s an awesome writer and am happy to have her on board!
fooeey.Exept for one or two women I know, and I suppose Jeffrey,too most Pisceans are just full of it.And I don’t mean sexuality.I mean another word that begins with letter S.
Pisceans “tune in” allright, and pretend.
sexy my foot.
She completely forgot the feet, but okay.
mmmmmm yummy Pisces lovers! wooohooo!!!!!
Lol, Fallen Angel, that’s because I find the feet thing highly overrated, and so do many of the Pisceans I’ve known and canvassed. I mean, a foot massage is better than a whack with a big stick (well, sometimes) but it’s not the huge turn-on it’s supposed to be, at least not for me.
I’m funny about my feet in other ways, and like to go barefoot, but that’s about it. Anyone else?
niceeee i’m bi too! and i def need to lay off the physical thing and focus on finding psuchic connection
I agree with the feet thing. Not a big turn on to me, and I’m a double pisces. Although my feet are perpetually cold! (that’s not a metaphor into relationships… i think
I’m a Pisces and although I’m not into feet, I’m way into how women use their feet, e.g.,. dancing.
Now that makes sense to me. I’m a musician and I can’t stand when people aren’t moving in the crowd!
@ ink: “Although my feet are perpetually cold! (that’s not a metaphor into relationships… i think
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I’ve dated quite a few fishies and there is always something going on with their feet! I was a manicurist for a while and I always end up tending to their feet. I don’t know what it is just every time I am with a Pisces as soon as I see his feet I feel the need to put them in my hands and fix them and make them feel good.
I’m having a sense of deja vu, perhaps I’ve written that before.
Also, the cold feet and relationships thing? No way with Pisces…you guys aren’t afraid to just throw yourself into something with a woman…women always ask if you guys are being sincere because it gets really emotional really fast and I have to tell them to suspend their disbelief…it’s always “Instant Fairy Tale! Just Add Pisces!!
@ angelineelise
So true! I find the most difficult aspect of getting into a relationship is having to tone it down several notches… I’m getting better at it with age though. Hopefully I can find someone to match the intensity though (scorpio women?)
True bliss is the intimacy that occurs between a male Pisces and femaie Pisces (and perhaps the older, more experienced the better, both in our 50’s)! The melting together is unlike anything one could have ever imagined! Although not together at the moment (another posting), I cannot imagine that either of us will be satisfied in nearly the same way with another. That was one reason for getting back together the last time we broke up, as it is a totally surreal experience. I am not sure how he feels, as he is in his cave at the moment, but the draw is as strong as gravity is for me. Once this occurs, are we desitned to keep coming back together to re-create it (yes, meaning in this lifetime)?
I love, like, enjoy the part of this fantasy land of sex and experience throughout the eyes of a moment
settling for less than standard of pisces by drawing the subtle tastes around
the new partner’s tastes
pisceans leave the lovers who can’t shape or conform into their full potential or unwillingness to coop with the hidden high drive in the bedroom scene by pisces.
false, fake, plastic, and superficial lovers must leave the room of this undoing mindset which can not keep even the quietness, wetness, and scaleness of pisces in the harbors of such kink and entertainment.
pleasure and pain are accompanied with grace and beauty if only they can meet or exceeds the Pisces level of pleasure and pain. Hence, bondage is in the equation for you and all the others.
where does this lead you to?
physical drive strong but rarely aggressive
wishy-washy we may be as if it works or doesn’t match the fantasy = dreams = reality equstion.
physically we want it the sex and the package if the mindsets are in tune then the cosmos are more than enough for the first episode and the ones following after.
Amazingly, I am completely shocked that some signs of the horoscopes run away from such bondage for the fears overlayed by the sign of born, and align stars.
peace out, love, and prayer
David shout to the kink polymorphously perverse pisces
Wow,thanx. Everything you said Laura is spookily close except the bi thing. I always throw myself into relationships and love to please my partner before myself, I get off on her getting off. This article has given me a clearer understanding of myself thank you Laura and Thank you again Jeff
yes it’s all true – I’m a male Pisces and I’m so quiet and innocent on the surface but underneath there’s that kinky side – oh lordy. I’m completely transmutable and will morph into anything to please a lover. I’ve been caned by a girl, worn all her clothes and underwear when making love and generally acted out all manner of fantasies and role-plays. I get intense satisfaction from knowing that a girl is getting pleasure in ways that she hasn’t before and in ways which surprises her.
wow. spot on. im a fish and you got me to the “T”…i didnt used to agree with you on the feet thing – but ive noticed that its true. We Do have feet quirks. Mine is detesting wearing shoes (despite my love of purchasing them). However you are right in that i dont find interaction with feet in any way, disgusting wold be apt! This was a great read. thanks!
I love the title… thats me
I am a pisces girl and is this is crazy true, except the bi thing for me.
I suggest pisces girls should try to stay away from alcohol when ,”in heat”- because not only does it enhance your loving factor, drunk people and sober alike might want to take advantage of your ultra feminine sexuality, and you will be an a very submissive state, lusting.. Only to regret it later.
Pisces people, like myself can make love to anything with just their eyes. And make it nearly impossible for someone to stop looking at them after the stare penetrates the other persons eyes.
I also believe pisces more than any other sign ( from me and friends alike ), loves to be dominated. The part about pleasure increased with a little pain, applies strongly.
Pushed up against the wall, dominated completely, is more the roll I believe we like to assume.
The rough sex, maybe not kinky ropes and handcuffs, but passion- us seemingly weak girls wont mind a couple battle bruises and scars in the name of good sex.
Mermaid
WOW pisces women are some serious freaks, so u have never been with a woman before???
*sigh* Fantasy is his middle name. I love a drunk Pisces. He’s very fluid and fun in so many ways. Alot of them enjoy pool, shower, bath sex. They’re fabulous lovers if you want something slow, romantic, and different.
As a cusp (Aquarius-Pisces), I can say that this applies to many men as well.
To be clear, for those who think we are just “acting” and not genuine:
It’s not acting, it’s just what happens. I can have an intimate conversation with almost anyone, anytime, even if given only 10 minutes. This is good and bad. It’s good in that I can relate to almost anyone, become their confidante, and help them express their repressed sides. It’s bad in that I can never tell what I REALLY want, because I become anything to anyone. I fall in love so often, I have no idea what’s real or not. In fact, the only thing that saves me from myself is my Aquarius which tends to protect me (although not very well) — at least during daylight. I’m essentially a walking war zone in my head…
So, it’s not acting for the sake of acting, it’s being what is unavoidable. Water has no choice but to shape to it’s container. It’s not pretending to do it, it just does. And it does it better than anything else.
As for feet:
In college, one of my female roomates would constantly seduce me through foot massages — so, there might be something to that. And I doo loooove them.
Someone mentioned Scorpio-Pisces. That is just crazy intense. Really. Emotionally intense. And awesome.
Capricorn-Pisces is awesome since we can coax them out of their safe zone into trust faster than anything else and they are actually quite sexually gifted and dominant. Mmmm.
Aries doesn’t have enough emotional capacity to capture our interest (so far). But, they are open to an amazing amount of perverse dirty pleasure in bed.
Gemini is fun, quirky, but not dominant enough to be satisfying.
Cancer is an almost cheesy emotional combination (try watching an emotionally charged movie, I DARE you not to both be weeping like babies). Pretty much always simultaneous orgasm in bed.
Taurus is lots of hyped sexual fun, but it never ever ever works. But, that is probably my Aquarius, who the hell knows.
Oh, and you forgot to mention the incessant romancing the past…
I’d love to hear about the lover combinations from actual experience. I only wish I had been paying attention to birthdays more. I want to know what their signs were!! (Especially the super hot flame outs).
My Aquarius an has hisVenus in Pisces and was born premature due to his mom getting injured, he was meant to be a Pisces….After reading this article I am totaly convinced that he is a Pisces at heart, he is the description of sexuality, he will do anything, he has all these fantasies and doesnt care which gender he petends to be or wants me to be, it all okay to him….He recently told me about his youth when he was curious about everything including being fascinated by bisexuals and drag queens…he seems to have info about everything perverse under the sun, but he doesnt act perverse…its hard to describe. He seems to be like a teacher, he can teach things he has never tried before himself, he teaches me things I didnt know existed……very interesting guy…and he wants to watch…..too bad I cant be the exhibitionst he wants me to be LOL
He doesnt like feet though…..he likes bums
Greg
after reading your post I am going to message my guys feet next time I get near him and see what happens LOL
He gets wild if kiss his neck…. has a woman gotten you aroused lke that? If I dare nibble his ear, he gets extremely hot…..I dont know if thats hisPisces venus, Aqua sun or Taurus rising…but Im a Libra sun, Scorpio Venus, Scorpio rising and I can make him heat up within seconds……and he can drive me crazy with just a look and a growl……
lovemypisces says:
November 24, 2009 at 11:24 am
*sigh* Fantasy is his middle name. I love a drunk Pisces. He’s very fluid and fun in so many ways.
I find that Pisces is better drunk that sober. Soner he is stiff and scared (not the good stiff)
Drunk he is so much more fun!
Mermaid says:
The part about pleasure increased with a little pain, applies strongly.
Pushed up against the wall, dominated completely, is more the roll I believe we like to assume.
The rough sex, maybe not kinky ropes and handcuffs, but passion- us seemingly weak girls wont mind a couple battle bruises and scars in the name of good sex.
I only have Saturn, Lilith & Chiron in Pisces but I love that as welll….
LibraLady,
Absolutely yes on teh ears and neck. Ears are a killer though (if done right). I become a raging dirty do anything whore if you get my ears right. Mmm!!! HAHA!
I am a major ass man. Women feet are ok, sometimes they turn me on, but ass and eyes are where its at first for me.
And you’re right. We are amazing when we’re drunk, aren’t we?
Greg-
My Pisces guy goes nuts when I run my tongue over his ears. Never knew that turned guys on so much!!!
Amazing drunk? Don’t know about amazing but much less inhibited.
He has Mars in Pisces, too. All that Pisces makes him a little scared I think….
Yeah, I remember all too well. Bliss. Totally. Uninhibited, sensual. All quite lovely, in his words. Both of us Pisces. In our water world, bliss didn’t even begin to describe the experience. He was Pisces Mars/Pisces Venus. I am Sag Mars/Aries Venus. Had we been opposite genders, bliss would have lasted forever. But yeah, it’s hard for that much Pisces in a guy to pull it off on a day to day basis in the ordinary realm.
Oh, he has even more Pisces than that. He has Mercury & Chiron in Pisces as well.
I have some Pisces, too, but minor stuff so we don’t always mesh. But the chemisty is OFF THE CHARTS!
I just wish he could be a little bit more attentive outside the bedroom.
Greg
You sound like a real devil LOL
Leo Lady…
A little scared and wishing he could be a little more attentive outside the bedroom, boy, does that sound familiar! So does the chemistry being OFF THE CHARTS! I will never find that again, have finally just surrended to that idea. Am now dating a Leo actually, who has a big heart and communicates, without retreating, etc. Chemistry is good, but NOTHING will ever be like my Pisces guy experience. But I gotta say, it is nice to have some consistency and have across the board connections and stability. Will always miss the Pisces bliss, though. Sigh..
Karen,
Yeah it seems as though chemisty can make up for a lot of other stuff that Pisces doesn’t have but a little Leo forthrightness and honesty would be nice along with that chemistry!!!
I really don’t understand my aqua boyfriend whose ven and mars are in pisces. he seems to be nothing like what the astrologers say about this mutable sign. Right from the beginning he told me he hated general women and he continued to live by this statement. He doesnt even talk to a woman properly. But he treates me like a queen. But yeah he told me a secret and that is he didnt commit to anyone in the past because they were not his dream girl which he found in me. We get along really well. However, my ven is in capricorn and mars in aquarius. Could be that he saw my earthy sign as a clay pot for filling up all his watery emotions?
forgot to mention what happens in the bedroom between us. i looooove the fact that he is not into traditional way of having sex. he hates it as much as i do. but at the same time he is not at all passive. me being a cap must be on the top of him, but he always ends up on the top of me. we simply love trying everything which includes both romantic and unorthodox methods.
Wow…pisceans are something else! I just started a relationship with one. (He’s Pisces sun & mars, Aries venus, Cancer asc, And I’m Scorpio sun, Capricorn venus, Cancer mars & asc) We had an almost instant connection, and I had no clue he could match my intensity! Normally I’m on edge and nervous with a new guy, but we’re so comfortable together it defies explaination. Needless to say I’m one impressed scorpio!
Oh, and i forgot to mention: The pleasure & pain thing is insane! I was nibbling on his neck and running my fingertips up and down his spine, and before i knew it, I was the one against the wall! lol. He luvs my butt and can’t keep his hands off, I luv pisces <3!
Well lets see Im a fish
1)Pisces are actors if by that you mean role play then yes I love role play( I do an exellenct slutty nurse my aqua venus smiles sneakily)
Threesomes hah hah hell they better be finne looking thats all Im saying
2) oh Laura,you imply that we are capable of being nothing but mere sexual servants saying that, are we born only to serve? if that is what being a pisces means ,soley serving someone else never getting anything in return well f*** me Id rather die and comeback something else I am nobodys whipping girl unless Im doing the whipping
I get my satisfaction sexually speaking from A) just feels physically so damn good my partner is making me touch cloud nine
B)What we are doing is so damn filthy and shocking (imaginines the look of some of the uptight prudes that go to church in my towns facial expression,) lets just say the alter carpet got very warmed up one night
C)It feels good to show my partner how much I love them because they love me so much in return so why wouldnt you be demonistrative of love to someone who loves you so much
I love mystery but it not always to tune in on what my current piece of meat is into.
Its more to do with the fact that you have aroused my interest enough to intriege me to the point that I sense you will not be the same in bed ( that is if your lucky enough to make it to my bed as in only those who I deem worthy of a proper conversation with make it to my bed, but hell honey if your all looks and no BRAINS then all Im looking for is to get mine youll get yours and off you pop, there is no need to talk I mostly just wanna screw untill we scream ) as all the other meatheads at the bar trying to size up whether or not to give it to you from the front or back (or both if your feeling energetic;))
Fore play ,Hell whatever comes to your mind and if I like the sound of it.
Bi Sexual ha ha hell no I have problems adknowledging the finer of my own sex but I chose my team years ago.
Sensual hah hah hell NO , I like my pleasure rough and hard and utterly truly filthy ( the filther the better)
I do not go in for gentle sweet loving I love hard rough sex unless my backside is absolutelty red raw and covered with whelts then you aint shown me a good time, I really only like it from behind I dont really like to see someones face during sex.
Word of warning I am a switch. I have no problems letting you tie me up and have your way with me. But honey unless I get to pin you hard to my bed and my have my way with you then we aint screwing. Youll get yours but I will always get mine.
But all this is always consenual it is completely my choice as it is my partners. I had a normal healthy childhood there is just something about rough sex that appeals to me it is my preference alone as much is anybodies elses preference is theirs.
Contary to most peoples opinion fish dont need to connect with people at least I dont I dont need to connect with them I just need 20 minutes of intense bloody torturous heat untill I am screaming from equal volumes in pain and pleasure a few minutes to ah hem compose myself and then that is that all done thank you
I just cuddling and lying there and talking after sex I just want to get up and out. The minute you try to be tender is the minute I frankly puke I loath tender ,senstive sex I am unromantic I hate being touched after sex.I dont know why maybe the seem reason why I dont like kissing for long periods of time to personal ?
but thats me I wonder if other fish are different ?