How do I make my point though that I want to connect with him in a higher level (meaning no sex for a while) without scaring him completely and have him run away to someone else?????
I want him to take it easy cause he gets worked up as soon as he sees me and it doesnt help when Im trying to have a serious conversation.

Pls Help, Laura!!!!

I’ve had few encounters with Libra ladies, the most recent of which you know of more than anyone else

Seems, from reading other posts, women find it hard to read Leo men. If I am a typical Leo, then this applies: make Leo think it’s him who initiated the pursuit. Project a sense of helplessness. The more subtle the interaction the better. Make it seem like you’re a prey that he just got his eyes on in the distance. This works for me at least.

On the other hand, Leos are truly self-centered.. they could easily miss on all signals. Leos go about their daily life with self absorption.

A good read on Leo’s psyche is the red Sextrology book. It could be taken as a little satirical at some points, but I found it close to true.

I have actually had great experiences with Leo…

The way I see it is this, he is the King of his castle and wants nothing more than to make you his Queen that he adores…always one of those guys who if you fluff him a little he will do anything for you.

But he’s no Cancer sacrificing for love..the fluff is necessary!

I often found myself picking one thing I really liked and modifying it and he was always glad to comply. But once again..a little butt kissery is needed. “Your so hot when you do (this)…sometimes I fantasize (this)!” and he was always on it!

When all else fails tell him he will LOOK hot doing what you want in a sultry way…he always wants to look hot.

My ex Leo was always with the titles with me too…regal! “How is T Town’s baddest, smartest, tastiest, most sexy woman ever doing today!?!?”

I love my behind some Leo!

Also May, I agree with the strong woman thing..I think that all Leo men take great PRIDE in their women, and like them to be as powerful as they imagine themselves to be!

He told my roommate a year ago, that he was tired of “good girls.”
“I’m tired of dating good girls. I want to date bad girls.”

Then my Leo rising Leo Mars ex once told me along the lines of, “I wish you would just dominate me.”

I think Leo men want a powerful women in their bed. So keep that in mind when you keep “praising” the ego!!

I dated a Leo Rising Cancer Sun with Leo Mars.

Show off!!!
The truth was, what he was trying to “show off” or “give” wasn’t even to my liking. Boo Hoo, somebody didnt like your performance. When I suggested something, he’s sulking, saying, “But I tried to give you the best of sex.” YEAH. The best of sex according to YOUR universe. Participation from the audience/partner is IMPORTANT, don’t you think ?

Here’s a hint for partners: overt remarks about his or her sexual style make Leo stubborn, sullen, and hurt.

Tell me about it. The days I kept sending him internet porns or articles suggesting new ways to make love (which had nothing to do with him, but he thought it did) made him hurt. I find that with Leo prominent people, you just have to let them think it’s “their idea.” Which is tiring afterwards. NO. It can’t always be your ideas.

A simple “Hey, I’m bored — let’s get drunk and do it in the neighbor’s treehouse!”
Perfect example!

And well, dramatic indeed. One time we made love, he said I looked like a “Princess.”

…weird