If your into role playing and experimenting, get a Libra woman But only if its long term…we learn as we go We love to “talk” too, so be very honest

Just as the prior Gems I’ve encountered (one male, one female) in relationships she enjoys submission. I personally think she finds it comforting because it’s a way to shut her brain off, focus on ONE THING…pleasing her partner. She then praised me for being so strong and bossy.

I knew what I had to do and went right to it. Within a 15 minute car ride my Gem lover girl and I had made a silent agreement that I would soft dom her and I spent the afternoon setting down rules like she would have to hold my hand in public, not open doors for herself, and ask me permission to go to the bathroom.

She was over the moon!

I am not very into dominance because even with a Cap Rising and Sun, my Aqua Moon/Venus/Mars fears tyranny in any form and is too relaxed to be hardcore…angry bossy lady. So I let her know that too, it’s not a problem because she has someone like that for her…which is good. I told her I would be picky on my dom and keep it soft, but she’s responded well…. socially and sexually.

The same is true of Libra, I’ve found.I think it’s the Air element.
But Libras especially are prone towards sex in the head, fanatasies, erotica and imagined encounters.
Some of what is imagined actually happens, too, but it’s still all a big fantasia- like dream.

Zeb, I totally agree with AE & Jeff: some women will go for it, some won’t, but that applies to anything. The underrated Gemini shyness coupled with all that Cancer might make this hard to do, but: you’ll just have to put yourself out there, in your own way of course, and see what happens. You’d be surprised at the number of mainly hetero couples I’ve run across in my lifetime that engage in crossdressing, cross-gender play, etc.. If you really get into it, a local Tri-Ess chapter can be a helpful and interesting place to begin, particularly for CD’s or TG’s who identify mainly as hetero.

Above all, you’re a Gemini– there’s no need to take anything too terribly seriously! Have fun, enjoy, and the right girl will wander up eventually…I’m sure you’ll know her when you meet her.

@Anon- Good luck with your Gemini! I’m Piscean, have dated several Geminis or Gemini-heavy people in my life– they make me crazy, but in a good way. I’d definitely recommend the Gemini/Pisces match, so long as, like you say, the Piscean can keep the idealism in check and the Gemini can work on the vulnerability issues.

One note, though: start taking turns playing the “parent role” from the beginning. Pisces and Gemini are the most changeable, child-like signs in the Zodiac, and somebody has to be the mommy/daddy sometimes. If either one of you get stuck in the role full-time, the whole thing will go down the tubes very quickly– the resentment will build, and you’ll hate each other within months. Make it into a game– that works for both signs!