Comments on: The Astrology of Kink: Beneath the Shell of Cancer

By: Stubborn bull

Stubborn bull — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 17:17:39 +0000

I can’t believe how true this all is!!!
It seems like it took forever to finally get my Cancer into bed. We had to connect emotionally before we could physically. Being a Taurus… I’m a little opposite on that, and luckily I am patient or he would have drove me mad with sexual tension.
I kid you not, I think I have been corrupted. I have NEVER been with anyone so adventurous and kinky in my entire sexual history!!! It was definately a surprise, that’s for sure. He’s always so well dressed, and well mannered, but he’s a little dirty boy between the sheets. I think he totally loved how shocked I was and maybe even got off on it. lol.
I seriously feel like such a prude now. It was well worth the wait, and connecting and reconnecting and doing everything I could to comfort him and ease him out of that shell. WELL WORTH IT I’ll be smiling for atleast another week!!!!

By: Jen

Jen — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 18:07:03 +0000

Huey,

Although this happened quite awhile ago (January), you have given me a little clarity. Unfortunately, the man works like 100 hrs/week right now until next month, so I haven’t seen him since that night. We still keep in touch by texting a good amount, but it’s still hard for me to tell what he’s thinking. Me being a Sagi (w/ Scorpio Moon and Gemin rising-haha!), I want to be very direct with him, but I know it could potentially scare him farther into his shell. Also, I don’t want to be selfish when he is dealing with job stress. But I have mentioned that I like him twice now, tell him he’s handsome, etc and he changes the subject… It’s getting frustrating! I have a little hope, though, since his Venus and Mars are both in Taurus.

By: Huey

Huey — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 16:06:05 +0000

Jen,

I think you have raised the expectations for him when you got physical too quickly. He may be thinking right now that you think he’s isn’t good enough for you. I suggest you take some initiatives to keep in touch with him.

But don’t give in and have sex either. Take it slow. If you continue to talk to him for a few more days, he’ll get back to his normal self.

By: Geminigirl

Geminigirl — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 17:09:23 +0000

I waited and waited for the Cancer guy to speak his true feelings for me. And when we came to speak of his life, etc. I think it became too intense and he withdrew. I am okay with that but I do care for him dearly. I will see him tonight for business but nothing more. I’ve started to date a wonderful Sag. He is older than me by 13 years but he is so young and heart and definitely shows he cares far more by calling me multiple times a day, taking me to dinner, etc. The Cancer always was fighting his problems and although I was dedicated to our friendship it started to wear on me. I wanted to receive back and Cancer was just too wrapped up in his stuff. It’s okay because I do believe that he needs to take care of himself right now. It’s just nice to be freinds for now and let my heart move foward with another if that is what is to be…..the Cancer was amazing and I love him a lot…

By: VirgoLovesTaurus

VirgoLovesTaurus — Sat, 27 Feb 2010 19:35:22 +0000

I love my Cancer Man

U got urself a keeper there honey….congrats!!

By: Dee

Dee — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 23:33:56 +0000

I believe that Cancers are very easy influenced into being erotic and sensual sex gods and goddesses.

By: Jen

Jen — Sun, 24 Jan 2010 17:22:33 +0000

I recently met a very wonderful Cancer man. We really hit it off and things got physical quickly, though it didn’t progress to actual intercourse yet. So, I know that Cancer men are sensitive, and I’m worried that I may have hurt his feelings or confused him, because the last time we were together he wanted to have sex and (in order to protect my own feelings, should this be all he was after) I turned him down. I haven’t seen him since because he is working 15 hour days (another reason I turned him down) and lives about an hour away from me, but until recently we were keeping well in contact via email/texting/online chat. Over the last week I have noticed a steady decline in the amount of attention I’m receiving from him. I’m wondering if he took my decision to wait as rejection, or if this is just part of the Cancerian moodiness?

By: MS. Moody Nurture

MS. Moody Nurture — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 22:13:56 +0000

Cancers are best compatible, with Scorpios, and Pisces. No matter what gender it is.

If your breaking up with a cancer, be up front, and cut and dry. It depends on what one of our moods you do it in, because it depends whether you need to be soft and caring, or firm and decisive. It will always take us awhile, but give us a week, or more, and we’re moved on. My favorite quote is; “everyone is willing to fall in love”.. and as Cancers, we sure are, and we’ll find the others who are too.

Your cancer most likely already knows that your not as into them as you were before, but we sometimes just don’t care, and turn it from reality, to our dream world, which you probably experience as us falling deeper and deeper. With that said, we don’t like people who lie to us, and silence hurts more than anything. Make sure you dont ever want anything with them though, because once you’ve cut us loose, and we’ve backed away, its hard for us to believe your feelings again.

Cancers are all about home, and security. I have always found Geminis attractive, but then i find that they are too flighty, and less concerned about the same things I find necessary.

By: DollCake

DollCake — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 11:01:21 +0000

Ria, I think ur guy has intense scorpio effects either the rising sign..his moon or his venus..or maybe another less romantic yet as lusty like maybe aries or gemini am not sure..but this is not loving romantic canerian behaviour lol.
I got 2 crabs attached to me like babies and one of them I am currently dating..really I don’t know what to do don’t wanna break the other’s heart and he is a good person and looks cute and truely loves me..he hasn’t been in love since his last engagement 6 years ago..I don’t want to cut him off yet he keeps falling deeper as the days go by.
It’s really driving me mad..and if my current guy knew any of that he would go gaga!!

By: Don't know what to do..oh gosh

Don't know what to do..oh gosh — Mon, 04 Jan 2010 16:09:11 +0000

Mine is getting distant but there is a reason for that as he will be relocating this year about 2 hours away from where I live. He is a total gem of a guy, very sweet and caring. He told me I was a bit agressive (me the Gemini..the communicator of the zodiac). I do know what I want in life that is for sure. So I just wait and play the game and see where it falls, but for now just friends. We have been lovers for a bit of time but once the emotions got to entangled he backed off. We had some enduring moments together though. When I met him for the 2nd time over his house we danced in his living room and he got teary eyed over some James Taylor music. Oh gosh, I wish he wasn’t moving…I could so see myself with him because he is emotional by nature like me….