P.S. Congrats on becoming an honorary Scorpio! )

I totally agree with the being brilliant in bed and that he worshipped my vajavaj and he has never had a one night stand and hates anything to do with men leering at woman, outside of a committed relationship.

He also has some issues around sex and shame, as his Mum caught him self-loving at 13. He went for psycho-sexual counselling for it and said after 6 sessions “I’m cured” but I knew he was lying.

I am possessive. I just. Cannot. Deal. With. Another. Person. contaminating my relationship. My bond. My connection. Whatever. NO I won’t share it. It can’t leak. Open relationships just don’t deal well with me and I won’t be able to function emotionally with that partner.

I have sun opposes pluto, pluto sextile neptune, pluto inconjunct mars. Then that’s it. I guess pluto doesn’t have a lot of outlets. Only through my sun or neptune or mars.

And I look back at the last relationship I had. The person has a T_Square of Venus squaring Moon-Pluto opposition. Yum. I probably might just be that or something. He has a LOT of pluto aspects and said he’s not jealous at all. He might be obsessive about something (like an idea) but that’s it. So he obviously has people living out his pluto aspects.

So this allows me to question a great deal if outside of relationships I am more of my “outgoing” yang planets, and inside relationship I shift to the nesting Taurus sun opposes Scorpio Pluto.

Also, sex. I am indifferent about guys in general. But not about sex.

You are outed. You are closet Scorpio!

I have by a very wide orb, moon opposite Pluto and yet I manage to attract men who become obsessed with me. Sure they will do anything for you, but they expect you to pay with your soul, because somehow you ended up owning theirs.

I prefer to keep my soul to myself, thank you. I steer a wide course away from such men, because I find that level of intensity scary.

People with significant Pluto influence in their lives tend not to understand that attitude, because for them the journey is about living that intensely.

Bf: stellium of Sun, Uranus, Venus, Pluto conjunct in the 8th, all intercepted in Virgo. He also has Neptune and the Moon conjunct in Scorpio. Saturn conjunct Chiron sets everything off by creating multiple T-squares from Pisces/2nd and Jupiter/Leo/7th finishes off by making a mess of kites.

Me: Sun and Mercury/8th. Venus on the cusp of 7-8th, Jupiter on cusp of 8-9th. Sun and Venus make wide oppositions to Pluto. I also have Uranus and the North node in Scorpio.

Plutonian men who want nothing less than to possess every part of me. They think the way to your soul is through your vajayjay and treat it that way.

I agree with both of these statements! Bf wants to know everything about me. I know that he gets jealous, but perhaps because Uranus is involved in his stellium, he never attempts any possessiveness. I would also say that he is obsessed with women.

Omigod, AE, that is too perfect…and too too true. I like the use of the word “sacred” too– there’s just so much mysterious transformative power connected to sex, with the Pluto people, there’s really no other word to describe it.

Jeff, fantastic article! I also have the Plutonian markers: Pluto/Sun opposition, Pluto/Moon square, and Pluto trine Venus, Mars, and Saturn. My Mercury sits in my 8th (Pluto’s house) and my Pluto sits in my 3rd (Mercury’s house.) Obsession with sex = sex writer, perhaps?

Even my artwork often takes on sexual overtones…I say it’s a good thing. The more I use my Plutonian nature in a creative, expressive way, the less trouble I get into in my relationships!