Comments on: Are you better off being single? (Part Two: Uranus)

By: confused

confused — Tue, 26 May 2009 06:47:11 +0000

Omg. I read this article and my heart sank. the guy I like is an Aries and he has has Sun Square Uranus; Moon Square Uranus; and Venus Square Uranus. I very much would like to have a sustained relationship with him ["I could see you as my soul mate" -- his Libra moon talking!?] but he’s already turned me down. He says he’s not ready to go there yet, needs to do his own thing…

WHAT HOPE DO I HAVE???

By: rebecca

rebecca — Sat, 04 Apr 2009 14:42:36 +0000

Read part one and two, anyone have any input on how uranus and neptune in the 7th house might play out? (since they’re so contradicting) I mean, how can one be both striving for dependance and independance within relationships? I should know myself enough to be aware of how it works, but unfortunately I don’t and just find myself confused about what I really want.

By: firey_ice

firey_ice — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 01:42:43 +0000

omg..both part one and two describes me to a t..prominent neptune and aqua rising and uranus aspects..i unconsciously stayed single for 23 years ..(with some fleeting crushes along the way..)

By: AstroMaze

AstroMaze — Sat, 19 Jul 2008 21:04:00 +0000

Hmm, If being a single is probably the best thing but yet if within love relationship. It would works with two hearts in one to defeat whatever our goal is.

By: jenmoon

jenmoon — Fri, 18 Jul 2008 22:42:00 +0000

Another cosmic joke for you: Sun/Venus/Chiron in 7th, sun/Chiron conjunction on descendant…vs. Sagittarius moon and Venus quindecile Uranus.

I tell people that I can’t be happy no matter what my partnership status, because both sides cannot win

By: leslee

leslee — Fri, 18 Jul 2008 21:58:00 +0000

Yes, and what Laura said, being honest with self and partners! Astrology helps clarify things so you can be honest, I think.

By: leslee

leslee — Fri, 18 Jul 2008 21:56:00 +0000

It sounds torturous to have such profoundly different outer planet influences simultaneously affect one's love life.

The benefit of astrology is seeing it spelled out rather than just wondering what the hell is wrong with me! It doesn't change the patterns that are there, but it does provide insight and maybe clues as to what might work. At the least, or maybe not so least, it helps with acceptance.

By: Laura F. Walton

Laura F. Walton — Fri, 18 Jul 2008 19:21:00 +0000

I can completely relate, to the post and the comments (especially yours, Leslee and Shygirl!) I’m a little more relaxed about my relationship ambivalence right now, mostly because I’m actively ignoring it. Uranus transiting my Pisces Sun helps; active, conscious avoidance is a fine old Aquarian/Uranian tradition, and I’m making good use of it while I can

Seriously, though, I have no idea what the solution is for this conflict of needs. Uranus is trickier to deal with than I realized when I was younger. Recognizing the conflict for what it is– that’s a valuable step. Being honest with oneself and with partners and potential partners–that’s another.

Beyond that, all I seem to be able to do is keep experimenting. The best thing about Uranus, I think, is that willingness to keep trying new approaches…of course, the big tub of Aquarian mental sunblock that gets doled out with every dose of Uranus can come in handy, too!

By: Jeffrey Kishner

Jeffrey Kishner — Fri, 18 Jul 2008 18:26:00 +0000

It sounds torturous to have such profoundly different outer planet influences simultaneously affect one’s love life. Cosmic joke indeed.

@insightful heart, thanks for the feedback. Ideally, I’d like to straddle the edge without being offensive. Sometimes I like to be provocative just to shake things up. If I’m going to be doing this for a long time, I need to keep myself awake!

By: leslee

leslee — Fri, 18 Jul 2008 16:52:00 +0000

Perhaps I should do a post on outer planet combinations…

Sounds good to me!

I also have Neptune sextile my conjoined Venus and Pluto, just to make sure I have all the outer planets involved. sigh. Did I mention my 5th house Saturn (square Sun)?