Do Taurus men love sex?
June 2, 2008 by Jeffrey Kishner
Not all men are equally into sex. A Gemini may just prefer to talk about it. But a Taurus could probably live on it — provided he’s also well-fed.
Every sign of the zodiac is “ruled” by one of the planets in our solar system, and the ruler of Taurus is Venus. The second planet from the Sun is archetypally related to the goddess of love, beauty and art. Venus is a sensual, erotic planet. In mythology, the Greek Aphrodite was a beauty who frequently cheated on her husband, Hephaestus.
So, Venus has needs, and her zodiac placement indicates the style in which she fulfills them. Taurus happens to be an Earth sign. Of all the four elements (Earth, Fire, Air, Water), Earth is most concerned about the physical body, what can be experienced with the five senses. Taurus doesn’t put as much stock into intuitions, inspirations and thoughts as what’s here and now. This sign lives and breathes sensation. The texture of someone’s skin, the smell behind a lover’s ear.
The added benefit of lovin’ with a Taurus man is that his is a fixed sign, which means that once he gets going, he’s got stamina for the long haul. Taurean sex is akin to the slow food movement — he savors every bite!
What Taurus doesn’t do
Taurus is neither experimental (Aquarius) nor into power games (Scorpio). He does not need to be worshiped (Leo). He’s not into talking about it (Air), and although he loves to connect, he’s not all mushy (Water) during lovemaking.
Comment below: Dish about your Taurus lover!
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Wulkure
Sounds a bit scarey too, Me personally, I would probably just keep my thoughts to myself and never act on them LOL But I would be fantasizing…noone can arrest you for that, of course if you ever see a pair of big green eyes peeking out of a scarf, Id advise you to run, cause you sound hot
well i wudnt recommend it, to establish tht sme1 is hot just cuz he/she talks tht way…maan i kno so many guys who look retarded (forgive my arrogance) but cud probably outtalk the smooth operator Mr Clooney heheh….i guess this is comin frm a typical Taurus who dosent believe in beauty till he has seen it…
Im a very fast runner…yeh i wud be running…..but towards u…..damn tht wuz cheezy… guess its time to hit the sack…
To ALL women out there…ALWAYS believe wht a Taurean man says about ur looks…its 100% true….even if he says smethin awkward like ” ur skin is soo nicee” means thts one of ur physical appearance tht turns him on…
always notice…wen ur getin physical…he will touch ur body in certain areas ( well not only touch…)and if its not too vulgar…he will mention tht he likes those aspects of ur person…and plz dont be surprised if he jumps u wen u r in a secluded spot…
like i did to this shy girl i metioned earlier…our mall has a parking lot on the terrace…so wen we got there i attacked….hehe cuz we were ALONEEE…
understood ladies..???questions about marriage wud not be answerd with much knowledge cuz i havent kissed the bride yet…(donno wen i will tho…..HAHAHHA)
any other queries are welcome….
ok im crashin…
Hi Wulkure,
I got a Q.
What is it about a bull who never said ‘i love you’ but call me my love during our intimate time. OH he did slipped that word only 1 time during our intense sex. We been dating for almost a year now and have constant contact with none of disappearing act from him (yet).
Lately we spend so much time traveling together and went thru some emotional drama, he said he hates me… i asked if he is serious he said yes he hates me 10 times than he ever hated anyone…
Really that made me very sad and cry so much but after few minutes when we cool down we hug and had one of the hottest sex and everything get back to normal.
I mean you said bull always be direct and say what he feels, so what this is all about? he really start to hate me? or just being childish?
Thanks.
Beauty
…(i hope u are one)… read up my previous comments…Taurean men rarely say hurtful things to women…if he says he hates you…he must have been pretty pissed off…but dont worry he din mean it….cuz if he did…he wudnt say ‘I hate you”…he wudnt say anything to u actually and wud just disappear frm ur life….which apparently did not happen…so chill…
He said ‘I hate you’ cuz he knew ud be sad and wud soften up…yeh thts 1 bad thing about us Taurean men…we mess with ur emotions to get wht we want…
Do u kno wen u shud take his talk seriously??? wen he is cool and calm….and says hurtful things…
Having spent soo much time with him…no dont worry…..hehe the funniest thing about us is tht if we have spent a long time with a female…and its not working…we may breakup but regret it later….cuz tht bond of trust tht impossible to obtain frm a Taurean will be lost….
Atleast i regretted my break-up ( i wuz with her for 6 months)…
smile chika…uve got a sex-machine of a bf…heheheh
We will never say ‘I love u” unless we mean it fully….
Hi Wulkure,
Thanks so much for your reply. Yes, I also guess he doesn’t really hate me as he said but then why saying it? Its funny but ironic because it’s been almost a year and never heard him saying the ‘I love You’ word, but got ‘I hate You’ instead…
He said I’m too emotional and too nice person, he said a few times about training me to bemore arrogant and tougher, it was one time when i told him he can never changed me and he got pissed saying he can and will succeed. I feel like he is manipulating me, I want to be tougher but not by someone force.
I don’t understand why he start doing this. When we first met, he said I’m the nicest person he ever met and the sensitive and emotional kind of person I am that make me so cute, but why he wants to change me, the personality he was attracted to? He even told me how I should treat my own staff…
I’m perhaps next to the most stubborn ass so it’s hard for me to give in and lose my individuality so now I’m considering this relationship to be over…
Beauty is how he call me, and as you said Taurus are 100% true when he say about women’s look, so i better believe it
beauty, i had mine asked me to marry him the first time i rubbed his foot lol.
if he constantly sees you, that’s a good thing. but with the drama, he might start to disappear. depends on how dramatic things could get. i actually tell mine more hateful stuff than i hate you but he only takes it as a joke. of course i only meant it as a joke as i know he wouldn’t take it literally. but make fun of his insecurities, he’d get mad.
Hi anotherariesgirl,
More likely it’s me who started and wanting to disappear… I’m not into drama really, but this guy keeps provoking me. He tried to break my wall. He tried to push me beyond my limit. I don’t know why if I’m experiment project to him or if he is trying to prove something that I’m not really nice like I present myself as… because I don’t curse and I never say ‘f***’
When we first get to know each other, i feel so comfortable because he never expect anything from me and allow me to be me but the more we got involved and got into deep, i feel he try to control me to the point that he tried to mess and bring out my extreme my emotion. Why say thing when you don’t really mean it? like ‘i hate you 10 times than i ever hated anyone’
Our sex is great. Yes he loves sex of course like every guys but I never with any one who love giving pleasure like him. He doesnt mind if he got satisfied but he needs to give it to me. I don’t know may be this is sex for Taurus.
Anyway I have to say I been reading this site from a long time ago and agree with many while disagree with a few. I have to say I can’t understand this ‘disappearing act’ some girls are complaining about. I mean I truely understand and agree when a person keep distant or take time and space to think things thru or when being hit by something or feel insecure but can’t understand the disappearing as in no contact AT ALL for many days or even weeks! Not to mention ‘love’ but if you really care for a person, you don’t do this regardless of sign.
As simple as Taurus, they are direct and forward, you will know it if they really like you because they show the full attention or not at all.
off topic but i need to share this.
I come up with this name ‘BeautyandTheBull’ because not only that he calls me ‘beauty’ but he told me few times he wanted to have a land or farm so he can get himself couple of cows as pets…hahaha! OMG! that was so funny!
Beauty..
the sex is exclusive for Taurean….thankyouverymuch….
btw r u filipino?
hi beauty,
i can’t really say much on the disappearing act other than the things i mostly read here. my bull hasn’t done that to me, i mean disappear without contact. he seemed distant, yes. sometimes he comes to my place but it feels like his soul ain’t with him. when he’s away and quiet, he’d still say hi or he lets me know to not worry cuz he doesn’t feel well. mostly he’s asleep due to his nature of job. that’s why i’m pretty secured he doesn’t cheat on me lol. cuz he get exhausted easily with his work and he wants to save the energy for some lovin lol.
oh yeah, he did disappear one time but approx. 1 1/2 day i think or 24 hours. he turned off his phone bec. he stayed up late after playing games with his buddy and he slept all day. i was pissed cuz he turns off his phone whenever he does that and we had an agreement to watch a football game. i was wondering what the hell ever happened to him. what if a real accident happens and i can’t contact him? gah
Wulkure,
Yes, I’m asian but no not filipino. May I know what the impression I gave for you to guess that?
anotherariesgirl,
hahaha! 1.5 days is not disappearing…. at least not in my logic. I can relate so well what you said there…’it feels like his soul ain’t with him’…… The only time oh no 2 times when i experience such phenomena is when he is working! (of course!) and when he is smoking pot…
wht gave me tht impression…well the fact tht ur soo emotional…and sensitive which is not a bad thing ofcourse…….ma bad!
anotherariesgirl….
Not that is makes any difference for me at this point, but something you said does make me curious…..and if any one would have the benefit on knowing this from experience you certainly would….
quote….”cuz he get exhausted easily with his work and he wants to save the energy for some lovin lol.”
My (now Ex) guy is this way…..it is as though his work just drains him-I mean really just wears him out totally. Then, I thought-maybe it is this way with all these guys? They dont want to have to work, but they have to. And just by “having to work” it is like being forced to do something they dont want to…and in doing that it just…drains them of energy?
Anyhow….just curious what you thought.
hehe wulkure, i am filipina
lemme guess, the lady you’re talking about in the mall or wherever is a filipina?
beauty,
i think the reason why he asked you if you’re filipina is because you mentioned you are too emotional. i have an old guy buddy who’s also a taurus and who’s married to a filipina and said the same thing. my bf said that too. i think this is a common Asian trait (female), because that’s what i’ve heard from the guys at work too who are married with Asian women.
haha but my bf and my old buddy knew a lil that we filipinas have a reputation to become hostile when hurt lol. one of my bf’s buddies threw plates at him when she got mad.
about the 1.5 days, haha for an aries with so lil patience, 24 hours is considered like a decade. when he spends time with me and he looks distracted, i know that he’s worrying about something. mostly, just lil things that make him anxious…and yeah it’s like work stuff that he doesn’t really have to worry about. i think it’s because of the fear that he might lose his job and he would not perform well. i always give him credit though for his hard work in his job. he always get awards like hard charger of the month, he got some nice evaluation from his boss, and i’ve heard nice feedback about his work. he kinda hates his job in the navy cuz he deals with paperwork, processing pays or travel claims and now they moved him to customer service. he complains a lot about it and i told him it’s because he’s not a people-person. he agreed and he told me what kind of job stirs his interest and it’s mostly routine-kind-of-work lol.
btw, i’m just curious. what’s your sign?
?Wulkure,
Ahhhhhh! now i see it! thanks so much for asking this, also for telling the reason. Now I can see something better! hahaha really appreciate your insight! (seems like this emotional and sensitivity trait become somewhat Asian girls trademark…lol.)
anotherariesgirl,
Double Hahahaha!
…because I’m Aries too! LOL.
I didn’t mention it earlier because I saw in the other topic where a pool of Aries girls sharing similar names similar story even Aries myself got so confused…
Anyway something to share about Taurus men and the sex. I had experience with 2 Taurus men so far and I got to say they are the only 2 men who actually gave me what they call ‘orgasm’…. LOL. The last one was because he loved me (well that was his claim but I don’t buy it really because we only dated for 3 months)so he did everything to make me happy. With this one I’m riding…I mean dating now, I would guess our sex is very compatible.
And I got to say yes I’m openly very sensitive, but my taurus is secretly sensitive…hahaha. I mean he likes to act and express it out so insensitively and rude but inside I sense his vulnerability but again, the more he got vulnerable to the more he protect himself and build stronger shield against thing (in this case perhaps ‘me’) that he foresee a chance to hurt him.
oohh lol! we have a lot in common then hehe.
you know, i’m beginning to think that the aries-taurus combo has some sexual factor in it. i read about it once but didn’t really pay much attention. when my bull told me his birthday, my initial reaction was, “they say that aries and taurus are compatible in bed.” i blushed when he told me, “oh bed huh.”
during the first few months of dating, we would try to watch a movie while we’re in his room then the next thing you know is ooops…he’s taking off his shirt lol. there’s a time that we finished one whole album of songs for the rendezvous. you know how wild we could sometimes get. i would suggest things which at first he finds crazy but when he gives into the idea, he’d tell me how freaky but amazing it was. now he’s got a new place, he’d like to try it out in the balcony while overlooking the sea.
since this is a sex topic, i’m just gonna share some juicy details hehe…
sometimes i would ask him to pull my hair, but not in a painful way. i would like to try blindfolding him or tying him up lol but he doesn’t want it. he said i might do something really freaky. he liked it when i placed a menthol strip in my mouth and gave him oral pleasure. he was so shocked because i told him to wait for a second, slipped it in my mouth then just…ooppsss lol
best thing he’s done was when i asked him to watch this video about making a woman squirt. he said he’s curious so i showed him. he’s a fast learner and sometimes he’d give me 5 in under a minute. i’m not kidding.
one funny adventure of us was when we’re trying to experiment with props. you know those massagers they use in japanese porn? we were gonna buy a shoulder massager one time at a big japanese store. it has all things from food, furnitures, sex toys, electronics. we didn’t get it from the sex toy section, but you know..a couple buying a massager? what would you think we’d do haha. i was so ashamed to buy it, i left him in the cashier haha. he’s so mad.
he’s got foot fetish and one thing he likes is look at my feet and suck it. he told me to put a blue nail polish but i changed it to red. he thought he didn’t like red but when he saw it, he’s like…damn, that looks hot.
when he’s tired and i’m feeling it, he complains. he said i’m a nympho haha. or he’d call me something racist (i know he didn’t mean it in a racist kind of way), like LBFM.
quote….”cuz he get exhausted easily with his work and he wants to save the energy for some lovin lol.”
My (now Ex) guy is this way…..it is as though his work just drains him-I mean really just wears him out totally. Then, I thought-maybe it is this way with all these guys? They dont want to have to work, but they have to. And just by “having to work” it is like being forced to do something they dont want to…and in doing that it just…drains them of energy?
Anyhow….just curious what you thought.
@rowdy, sorry i didnt see your post earlier. i have too many tabs opened.
they work too hard that’s why they get exhausted. my bull is a sailor, though he does paperwork in the office, they have some exercise drill in the morning. they do it now like 3x a day and reaaaaaaaaaally early. like he has to wake up around 5am. if he’s got duty, he also needs to wake up early to clean the office and pick up the mail. sometimes, he guards the gate and literally just stand there for 12 hours with lunch and i think about 3 15-minute breaks. he gets the next day off, but he normally would just sleep to recover. if he’s got a weekend duty or some event, they still have to go there. so i really give him props for spending time with me. that’s why recently we mostly do it in the morning when you know…it gets stiff lol. in the evening too but not when we’re about to hit the sack…or else he won’t perform. he’d like to give me the homerun.
anotherariesgirl,
What a Sexerience! Yep its sex forum but you can do us a favor by moving fast to the ‘Astrology of Kink’ section because its getting rateX now…hahahaha!
Foot fetish…. Mind you, mine even put my heels on the top of TV or fridge or cabinet where he can look at it…
I just recently had my first and his best according to him) sex in the pool experience few weeks ago. Was more erotic because we were both naked under the full moon night…
anotherariesgirl…and Beauty&TheBull….
That is waaaay to funny/uncanny….mine is a truck driver so he spends countless hours driving-even when he shouldn’t-because thats what the job requires-and he does work very hard at it-so it does the same-just wipes him out and he has to get his rest in. I am a road warrior too-just not a truck driver, and running 14-16 hours is greuling, but for him to run 24 hous, rest 3 hours and turn around and do another 24 hours-that is tough! So I do give him tons of credit there.
As for the foor fetish…..mine has this thing about him too, must be in thier DNA. He would always have me put my feet in his …lap. He really like them cause they are so tiny….a womans 4!
Hope thats not an overshare.
anotherariesgirl- get over the embarassment of buying sex toys and just do it….you will have sooooo much fun with them! Me and my girlfriends have closets and drawers full of them…and everyone of our guys love the addition of them….so just go for it!
wow hihihi…sounds nice. makes me think of the lake…hmnn…most memorable but not really kinky and somewhat funny and uncomfortable. me and my friends together with my bull, we went to a lake near mt. fuji. nice scenery during sunrise and sunset. it was quite romantic and after dinner and some games with friends, they gave us one whole cabin alone by ourselves. it was fall, i think. but it was really cold there that we didn’t have to take off our tops hahaha.
actually, we’re moving from all that kink to working our friendship and companionship now. we still do it and it’s still amazing. we only see each other now on weekends, sometimes he’d come at least once on a weekday. work really kills the sex drive on weekdays, even for me. ahh…life’s just too fast here in tokyo
hi rowdy,
that’s not overshare girl, mine’s TMI haha
damn, your guy’s overworking. that’s not good for his health. mine also used to work long hours in the factory. from a rubber to electronics factory. he said he would carry big blocks of rubber or plastic and put it on a machine. they sometimes do it on a night shift. he tells me that there was a time he’d be out of the house’s door and would literally crawl on his way in. i think they like doing jobs using physical strength?
about the sex toys, i normally don’t get embarrassed if it’s a specialty shop. plus most sex toys sold here in japan in a supermarket type of setting are sold in a gift box. they would have a sample on display and pick some of the boxes. what made it embarrassing was, the massager was not in the sex toy section. it was in the sale section and most of the people in the cashier were buying food lol. then he’s the only white guy in the store that time, with me, holding a box of massager. there’s just so much people in he attracts attention lol.
oh i remember one more funny thing when we’re walking back home to his place. for some reason he was smiling by himself. i asked why. he said it’s something silly, you wouldn’t really like to know. then when he finally told me, he said that he’s thinking that he had a 13″ thingie and we’re in a party with my filipino friends. he said maybe i told my friends about his thingie, so when everyone got drunk, they told me to tell him to show his thing haha. he said, no way! crazy! but convinced him and he showed it to everyone while they all laugh at him saying funny things in my language lol. i was like what was that all about? 13″ thingie, daydreaming while we’re walking? hahaha
i don’t know what that means. if it’s got anything to do with his manhood. his secret fantasy. a metaphor of his non-sexual thoughts relating to his ego or insecurities. or he’s just plain goofy in a weird way.
yeh we like to do physical labour….cuz thts wht beasts of burden like us do…ehhehe…so by default a Taurean man is wayyyy stronger than he may look
( im not very big but i can outlift men a foot taller to me)….
Not big on using our heads too much unless we chase sme1 and knock em flat….
hahahahaha…..as I never use any toy so may be it’s me who should move my ass out from this forum… hahaha
Yes you Taurus guys are way too strong, I always consider myself the toughest girl among girls around me but i never seen anybody so strong like this Taurus guy before, its incredible and crazy at the same time how he can got all the energy after enduring 24 hrs working nonstop…
But funny thing is what got him sick often is diarrhea, either by eating too much or eating bad food…hahaha.
haha wulkure you are so funny. i am beginning to think if you are really a taurean cuz you like sharing your secrets
i mean, the two (or two-personality?) taureans who happen to lurk here are quite reserved when sharing info about them.
lol @beauty,
don’t worry we won’t teach you how to use it here. but if you want to you can always holla at me and i’ll give my e-mail LOL
oh talk about diarrhea! i thought that was only an excuse…but yeah mine often get it too haha. i think it was on our 3rd date before, he said he’s gonna meet me in the club cuz me and my guy buddy were going to hang out cuz he’s leaving soon. i was texting him but he’s still with his buddies and they’re having bbq. after an hour he said he might not make it because his stomach hurts. so i thought, okay this is 3rd date and he’s giving me an alibi. i think he’s not interested anymore. so i said, okay but we’re gonna hang out still here. about an hour again, he came up lol. i felt bad cuz he looked pale. he really had diarrhea but he showed up cuz he said he can’t imagine me sitting there in a room full of guys hahaha
guess tht had to do smthin wit the date of my birth…15 may….
remmber……Taureans go to lengths to get sme booty….heheheheh so if this helps my bulls….im all for it….we r reserved but only in public…
Jana!!
My guy’s Birthday is 16 May…
BTW, Wulkure, do you (or Taureans in your knowledge) dislike sensitive girls? what do you do/handle if your gf is very sensitive? (i mean emotional) but as I checked with my gfs, they all confirm that it’s not me being too emotional vut my guy is quite rude and mean and that they would not only just cry but ran away long time ago…
Nope no sensitive girls….i like bold and sassy chiks!!cuz im pretty rude (by nature….ive got a dont give a rats-ass attitude) so inorder to put up with tht attitude…u need to be a bit non-sensitive too….i like girls who defy me..answer me back…keeps things rude and interesting….heehehe…girls who make me chase em…
spine-less and meek girls are a BIG turn-off…
acutally…if shes sensitive..but hot & healthy…i cud give it a shot….hehhehe…wht we too have needs u kno????!!!
Thanks Wulkure,
Very well described: rude by nature and the dont-give-a-rats-ass-attitude ! Exactly the guy I’m seeing now !
The last time anyone saw me crying was a year ago. So I really doubted why i lose so much my fcuking tears with him too often, then i figured out that is when I really trust you is when I lose my guard down and allow myself to show the real feeling I always have it in control. Because my normal time with any people is direct to the point of being mistaken as being rude and cold.
To lose a guy who is smart, funny, sexy, strong, dependable, Taurus (LOL)… is ashamed but to lose myself for a guy who might not worth it is a crime. Well so good to say it but so bad to practice… will see…
Oh yeah, you Taurus guys need more than just a shot (in the ass)!!! hahaha…
anotheraries…
no tht girl is from Kahsmeer…
Beauty….thts funny!!
yeh more than a shot…well i dont mind a bit…IFF ur administring it….hehehe
I guess we Arab Taureans are more aggressive wen it comes to biting booty….
Honest to God, Wulkure….will you ever grow up? you’re over 40 yrs old for Christ’s sake!!!! I think it’s pathetic the way you carry on, but in your nature I guess.
Oooops, sorry Wulk..was mixing you up with another bull- naughty by nature, you are a bit younger? Like 15 maybe???!! LOL
Hey im really soorry it din work for u n ur Taurean…guess ur not much of a looker huh?
feel worse for the Bull tho……..
…Hell no, great to play around with for sex, annnnnd that’s about it.
says you darlin…
Yo Libralady…whr u at??
dont leave me all aloooone on this farm full of ducks….
I am a Taurus woman and I am with a Taurus man, I really, really, really like him, however he bites and bruise me and even do I told him not to do it he continues. Also, I do have a 13 years old son and my son wants to meet him and as of today he still gives me the story about. “It is you time with your son; enjoy it” I do not want to interfere. What is that supposed to mean?
We have been together for five months. What do you think? Should I continue. I do want to marry again. I am divorce and he is too. Oh he is been married FOUR
times.
Your comments.
“i like girls who defy me..answer me back…keeps things rude and interesting…”
lol, honestly, he’s the only guy who can handle that nature of mine.
@claudia
maybe he’s not yet ready to meet your son, or more likely he doesn’t want to be attached yet. you know how easy it is to be attached with a kid then it will break the kid’s heart if it doesn’t work out. anyway, 4 marriages? for me, that’s not good.