Comments on: Why You Love Who You Do

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 23 May 2008 18:14:00 +0000

I’m replying to this comment:

“Anonymous said…

I display qualities of a Pisces when I’m feeling romantic (Venus/Mars in Pisces). My Taurus Moon is shown through my resistance to form attachments too quickly, taking it slow but being very reliable and consistent with my affections. My sun in Aquarius remains fairly distant, but the Pisces is always very much involved. I’m appear very aloof about my deep feelings… (1) to keep my freedom and (2) I’m shy about how I feel. It is through my devotion that loved ones know that I care. Actions speak louder than words.”

I have an Aquarius sun, Moon/Venus/Mars in Pisces, and the part with sowing my emotions is quite the similar, with the only difference that in relationships I can’t restrain myself and I usually say those 3 words first ! I’m giving to the bitter end, and aI sacrifice time, finances, and I’m devoted to the person I love. That’s something that caused me a lot of deception of course (pisces – sucker, right?) but I must also agree that I hardly show my feelings to those that deserve it better ! That I think it is a (negative) Aquarian habit ! – Question: How could I make things more easier for me by not committing so fast, or at least how could I not “kill my ego” with this excessive care for my f**k buddy (it’s a joke!) – What’s your experience ?

Thanks !

By: rita

rita — Fri, 16 May 2008 07:27:00 +0000

i agree with hannah. we must follow our intuition… my ex was aries moon in scorpio venus pisces he was in love with me aries moon in gemini venus acquarius, but he was all the time sheating and agressif , lying, i break up, but i noticed that he was attracted by virgo even if the relation with them finish all the time by breakup.
it’s little difficul to match all this .. now i have a lot of gemini around , i like them but they dont fulfill my passionate side like sagittarius

By: Cappy Cat

Cappy Cat — Thu, 08 May 2008 15:19:00 +0000

WOW!! I am speechless!! *applauds* One of the best astro blogs I’ve read and completely comprehensible for us rookies!! Thank you!! I loved this!!!!

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 06 May 2008 22:13:00 +0000

By: Jeffrey Kishner

Jeffrey Kishner — Tue, 06 May 2008 15:59:00 +0000

@shygirl, Stephen Arroyo in Relationships and Life Cycles writes that, for a woman, Venus is her “feminine ego” and that for a man, Mars is his “masculine ego.” We typically identify sexually with the planet associated with our gender. In which case we would project the other planet onto people of the opposite gender (hetero-wise, at least).

By: Shygirl

Shygirl — Tue, 06 May 2008 15:22:00 +0000

I’ve read that the Venus in man’s chart (the sign that Venus is in) represents the kind of woman he is attracted to & Mars in a woman’s chart (the sign that Mars is in) represents the kind of man she is attracted to.I would imagine Venus & Mars play an important role in attraction irrespective of gender, but is there really a gender based difference?

By: Hannah

Hannah — Tue, 06 May 2008 12:15:00 +0000

Very nicely written guest post! Thanks. It's funny. I just had a friend yesterday ask me what signs he might keep his eye out for to date, etc. I was a bit daunted by the question (especially considering he doesn't know a whole lot about astrology).

I answered as best I could, but ultimately told him to follow his intuition. I tried to blend some information in from various areas of his chart. It's not an easy task. Interaction is a tricky thing. I think we already have an inner radar/imprint for the type of person that attracts us.

Anyway, thanks for the post.