sun- pisces
north node/ascendant node: libra
moon-aquarius
mercury-pisces
venus-pisces
mars-cancer
jupiter-gemini
saturn-leo
uranus-scorpio
neptune-sagittarius
pluto-libra

my chart:

sun-cancer
north node/ascendant- aries
moon-pisces
mercury -leo
venus-leo
mars-capricorn
jupiter-pisces
saturn-sagittarius
neptune-capricorn
pluto-scorpio
lilith-gemini (does this even matter??)
south node- aries as well. is there any importance of the north-south node?

hope someone would clue me in a little!

This seems typical to me, also being a Pisces, but obviously a woman, and whose Venus is in just about the opposite, a fire sign, Aries… A major cause of discord between my ex and I as I was very demonstrative and yes, “agressive” in expressing how I felt about all aspects of “being in love”, whereas my ex Pisces guy not only didn’t want to reveal his feeling for awhile, but once he did, didn’t want to be in that vulnerability place! Therefore, he created reasons to retreat and then judged me when I acted on what he had led me to believe! I honestly have to say that it is very difficult to deal with a Pisces guy when not only is his sun there, but also his Venus and even his Mars! It would be a piece of cake if our genders had been reversed, but somehow, it seems to me that Pisces just seems to suit a female more easily (as we are responsive, sensitive and all of that “feminine” energy) which to me, is fine in a guy, in fact, it can be a gift with the gentleness, etc. in a way. Yet if a woman has a strong sense of fire as I do, even though attractive, it tends to make her the agressor and him the responder, which in terms of gender, just doesn’t work, unfortunately. I would like to hear what others think of this in terms of Pisces guys with other strong Pisces influences matched with women who are stronger in their fire energy than their water energy.

This seems typical to me, also being a Pisces, but obviously a woman, and whose Venus is in just about the opposite, a fire sign, Aries… A major cause of discord between my ex and I as I was very demonstrative and yes, “agressive” in expressing how I felt about all aspects of “being in love”, whereas my ex Pisces guy not only didn’t want to reveal his feeling for awhile, but once he did, didn’t want to be in that vulnerability place! Therefore, he created reasons to retreat and then judged me when I acted on what he had led me to believe! I honestly have to say that it is very difficult to deal with a Pisces guy when not only is his sun there, but also his Venus and even his Mars! It would be a piece of cake if our genders had been reversed, but somehow, it seems to me that Pisces just seems to suit a female more easily (as we are responsive, sensitive and all of that “feminine” energy) which to me, is fine in a guy, in fact, it can be a gift with the gentleness, etc. in a way. Yet if a woman has a strong sense of fire as I do, even though attractive, it tends to make her the agressor and him the responder, which in terms of gender, just doesn’t work, unfortunately. I would like to hear what others think of this in terms of Pisces guys with other strong Pisces influences matched with women who are stronger in their fire energy than their water energy.

Hi people, I’m a pisces man in a relationship with a virgo woman. she drives me up the wall sometimes, sometimes i feel like i’m causeing all of this and don’t know what to do. Is it normal??..i hate feeling the way i’m feeling now and i think i do love her….i can’t stand the thought of another man takign her. But we justcan’t seem to get along!!

I think U have misread my being a ‘bitch’ not a ‘bitch’ per ce, i would say, i have let him do the chasing, and we have locked horns, hes a very sound guy, too good to be true, i mean im holding back abit i used to be a doormat dont get me wrong, but have tuffened up,and yes my guard may be up a lil bit right now, but my god, i Cud fall for this guy without a second thought, he calms me, he puts me at ease, and its right what someone said, he Cud AND DOES / IS making me think THAT : REAL GOOD MEN DO EXIST.. though a tiny part of me ‘freaks out’ and thinks ‘ Is he too good to be true ?!?!?’.. Ok ive noticed one or two things like him being secretive ( mostly about ‘business’)but i find him to speak his mind which i hope would be TRUE. he knows im not gullible, and wont share and what im looking for. After yrs of not meeting someone, I wont settle.. but this MAN Is ‘THE DREAM’ !!) and it Scares me To death, and He knows that !!.. id normally run, when i find myself getting close, but he draws me close without realising it, and ITS FAB !!! i had never dated a Virgo b4, and Im hoping hes the one ! <3 ( PS.. IF U READ THE BOOK WHY MEN LOVE BITCHES/MARRY BITCHES BY SHERRY ARGOV, i think u wud understand my terminolgy, Bitches are Sweet as georgia peaches, Just not desperate/chasers/needy) xxx