Pisces man retreats from Virgo woman

May 1, 2008 by Jeffrey Kishner  


Chrissy included birth data for herself (chart) and her Pisces guy (chart) and writes,

I would like to know if my relationship with the Pisces man is capable of going the distance, and if so what does a Virgo woman and a Pisces man have to be willing to do to make the relationship successful?

Pisces man tends to retreat and go “missing” for periods of time and Virgo woman goes BANANAS whenever this happens. I get the feeling that I frustrate Pisces man a lot, and that is not my intentions. My main issues with Pisces man is that his actions don’t always match what he says. He says he loves me, but he seems content to go weeks at a time without taking me out on a date. What gives?

Opposites attract, as they say … but they also drive each other nuts. Virgo’s all about the details, whereas Pisces can’t find his keys. They both share an orientation towards service. Helping others is their meeting place, and they make a great team, for Pisces provides compassion while Virgo does the case management.

But there’s way more than Sun sign compatibility to this relationship. Pisces does need time alone, as this sensitive sign gets overstimulated easily. However, your Pisces guy needs to feel independent for other reasons, and this impulse may be driving his absences. Both his love planets — Mars and Venus — are in “I want it NOW” Aries, making a 120-degree angle (”trine”) to his Moon, Jupiter and Uranus in fiery Sagittarius. His Moon (needs) requires lots o’ space, and Jupiter and Uranus are the two most excitable and adventurous planets in the solar system. He may be a peaceable Pisces, but he’s also a very restless soul who needs inspiring experiences to feed his soul.

Meanwhile, you have your Moon and Ascendant in controlling/possessive Scorpio, and Sun and Venus in risk-averse Virgo. These “yin” signs are not an ideal match for his Fire. He may feel held back by you, hence his apparent frustration. But I wonder if (on some level) you want a guy who’s occasionally missing? Your Mars-Uranus conjunction can correspond with a young man (Mars) who is distant/unpredictable (Uranus).

There are two ways to go with this: either stop trying to control him (so that he doesn’t feel he needs his space so much) or tell him it’s unacceptable to not date you on a frequent and predictable basis. The latter option is called “stating your needs.” His Fire planets could tell you you’re making too many demands on him, in which case he might split entirely. Or his Pisces Sun — which needs to be pinned down once in a while, because Water needs form — may fall into line with your expectations.

Comment below: What do you think Chrissy needs to do with her Pisces guy?


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90 Responses to “Pisces man retreats from Virgo woman”
  1. Piscesman says:

    And additionally Pisces Queen…..this Pisces man isn’t unreachable because of his cautious determinations. That’s a Virgo’s character. He’s unreachable because he’s not ready to relinquish his ease of fantasized living. Where Another Virgo keeps his hope alive, he’ll continue to play. Sounds to me like another virgo is nothing more than a stepping stone towards his insistence of matured reality. Unless you advise her to lose this anchor of emotional baggage, you thus play also. Of all the signs available to play, only the cancer is an easier mark. Get real queen bee.

  2. Pisces Queen says:

    Piscesman…maybe your opinion solely relates your own nature as a Pisces man..but the sun sign is not all that matters and definitely isnt the only predictor of how a Pisces man will behave. Your response to this blog is exactly my exmaple of how overly and unworthily self-confident Pisces men can be….Not only is my father a Pisces and has been with my mother for over 35 years, i have several Pisces men in my family and numerous friends who have dated Piscesmen….your knowledge about your own sign is limited as I can see by the unneccessary vocabulary you are using in a simple blog….Pisces men think they are playing but in all honesty, their hearts are too fragile to truly play for long…which is why many go back and forth and never know what they want…if you want to believe that Pisces men are not cautious with their heart then you are highly mistaken and maybe should do some self-reflection….the biggest Piscean fear, both male and female, is being hurt because our hearts are hard to repair….as Another Virgo stated, he told her that he had been hurt many times before…so what now he all of a sudden is a player…please….he is trying to be a player and not get too attached to any one woman because of the ways he was hurt before…please be advised over confidence is usually a sign of insecurity…take heed.

  3. karenturner says:

    Okay, I have to step in at this point and say that whoever said that Pisces men are very different from Pisces women has a good point!.. Sorry, Piscesman, but I have to support what PiscesQueen has to say..As is typically the difference b/w men and women, us ladies tend to see the big picture…In this case, all of the other influences, moon, Venus, etc..

    In fact you sort of gave me hell for being too agressive with my Pisces guy.. You said we aren’t an Aries.. True, but somehow you overlooked that my Venus IS in Aries, with my Mars in Sag…in fact, I have a grand trine in FIRE, more fire than water for me.. while his Venus and Mars are both in Pisces.. So yeah, I am more agressive than he is, which I already knew…

    It is difficult for a woman anyway to play the “waiting game”.. just hanging out to see what a guy does.. To wait two months, as I did, for him to communicate…and even then still at my request, which you berated, took an enormous amount of effort and patience.. esp for a woman who is more fire than water…even though my soul is totally water…You asked if it was years we had been together… No, it was months…but incredibly intense for months.. more than most people are over years… I understand the creation that two Pisces can indeed create, but for us, the creation happened in moments, literally… It was just my belief that it could be created outside of the sensuality realm, in the water, as opposed to his belief that it couldn’t.. again fire and water..

    And in fact, not to be critical, but I also notice that your reponses remind me of his.. unclear and vague.. it is difficult to understand exactly what you are saying, which was why I asked him to clariy and he got frustrated with “having to explain”.. But isn’t this better than having misundertandings?

    Karen

  4. Piscesman says:

    I just have to say…….good luck trying to find ground in the Pisces fantasized concepts of reality. Keep me updated on how that works out for you.

  5. Pisces Queen says:

    I have a funny intuition that Piscesman must be single…lol…”fantasized concepts of reality”??????…you could have just said “fantasies” since the word alone implies something that is a dream and not yet reality….search your inner-self please…for the sake of whomever you are dating or will be dating…lol

  6. karenturner says:

    Just as I said….these kind of comments are so vague and unclear that they sound on the borderline of what amounts to passive/agressive behaviour or avoidance!

    And besides, I am not trying to find “ground” so to speak… It is my belief that you create your reality and it doesn’t have to live totally in the dream world…

    My relationship with my ex fiance, a Scorpio, was for the most part, a great one, ended due only to his anger issue with women, from his JAP mom.. and of course, he was a psychotherapist!.. However, we were able, for several years, to create a blend of “fantasy” with “grounded” reality!…So, yeah, it is entirely possible to be a Pisces with the dreaminess included and still create a life that is adventurous, playful, expansive and all of those delightful things that keeps a Pisces willing to stay here on earth! :-)

  7. Piscesman says:

    Pisces Queen, I apologize for the flair of composition my writing encompasses. I write for a living and find it difficult to deviate from my innateness. If you had read earlier correspondence, you would have known I am, indeed, married; before the scribing of your intuitioned presumptions were inked. Irregardless of your dislike toward my redundancy, the validity of my claims hold true. I’ve been self reflecting for better than 50 years. It’s the outward reflections that prove a difficult realization.

    Karen, my dear…..whether you want to admit it or not, the truth of self absorption is humanly dictated. Any opinions I may offer are rooted within the realm of selfish criteria. And I’ll share a secret for the women of this world that pertains to a mans relative acceptance: Whether it be life understanding, values of self worth, perceived notions of agreement, intuitive blinks of first impressions, definitions of ’stand-up guy’ or relational fortitude…..Men filter all through the burden of ego’s. You likely will not agree due to the fact of your not being a man. Believe me when I tell you our gender hangs on favorable receptive return in every aspect of life. Weak neccessity? Yes! But keep in mind, yours is the dominant sex; intellectually speaking. You just lack the requirement of implementation. Here’s the relegation of fact that defines every deep seeded action and reaction of every human soul who resides on this earth. Women are emotional; men are strategic. As simple as that. And this has no pertinence to signs or wishes. It just is.

  8. Another Virgo says:

    Ok.

    Pisces Queen, do you really think this Pisces guy decided what I am testing him out? And the fact what he refused borrow me money mean what he is not interest in me? At least that is how I feel about all that. I know, I really annoyed him with my requests but his lack of attention drove me nuts completely!

  9. Piscesman says:

    I await your emotional responses

  10. Piscesman says:

    Another Virgo……Stop the wishy washy approach. He doesn’t want to formulate to your distressed needs. He wants to know that you’re willing to move on. That’s when you play from a position of strength. Presently, you feed into his strength of allowance. Unless you help him understand that he wants to pursue you, your actions are useless. You may have already stepped past the point of reversal. If you’re within the parameters of a relationship, he would prefer to give you money. Loaning doesn’t feed his need. Your need is more important. If you’re not in that stage of relative commitment, money issues are irrelevantly deadly.

  11. Another Virgo says:

    Piscesman

    Yeah, I also feel what the fact of his refusal to give me money shows what he has no interest in me at all. But maybe I asked way too much I don’t know.

    How I can help him to understand what he wants to pursue me? Any advice? Should I be bitch or should I be nice? I tried both, I don’t know. Nothing works.

  12. Another Virgo says:

    Piscesman

    To be honest with you, I almost get over him when I asked him lend me money. I really wanted be just friends, beleive it or not. I thought if he will just give me money that’s mean he’s interest in me, but chances were very slim I understand it, but honestly I was 100% sure he will borrow me money. Naive virgo, lol:)

    But he is so weird and so eccentric, I am sure he does not see someone else , he is really in love with his job.

  13. Pisces Queen says:

    Piscesman, my apologies…I didnt know you were married….the reason i stated that you use unnecessary words is because I am a student and we are always told that the more simple the words the better….

    Another Virgo, you and Piscesman may be on about his unwillingness to lend you money being a sign of his disinterest. I think you may be best off ignoring him or straight out asking him….from my experience…If Pisces men are interested they tend to come back around right when you start to move on…also, when asked directly how they feel, they never want to hurt another’s feelings so if he feels for you seriously, he will say it or he will say it but say he isnt ready for a relationship. Problem is that if he is not interested, he may not say it outright because he doesnt want to hurt your feelings….You may get lucky by asking him in the negative…but then again with Pisces men only time will tell….however, I will say this…if he is seriously interested in having a relationship with you right now…you will know by his actions and he may even say it..but if he likes you but is not interested in a relationship right now…then he wil avoid answering the question…this is just from my experience anyway…

  14. Piscesman says:

    another virgo….you sound like a very nice woman. I can only make this as simple for you as I’m vacantly capable. Unless you are ‘truly’ able to send this guy packing; you’ll loose everytime where desires meet outcome. Unless he knows you’re able to move past his hold on you, that hold will become stronger and less desirable for him. Give me an idea of timeframe if you feel so inclined: How long have you known him? If you layed out you’re affection too quickly, he’s already gone. As I’m sure Pisces Queen and Karen will state otherwise (they’re so in tune to the male reference of mind), prolonged manipulation of desire is a requirement for the pisces man’s sense of longing. Without it, you’re swimming against the current. Watchout for the sucking effect of those under tolls. Mystery is the magic that peaks interest of the artful mind. Make it too obvious, and that guy is history.

  15. Piscesman says:

    Pisces Queen….I can most likely surmise correctly that your studies are more inclined toward business than the compositional arts. Your teachings are relevant in one aspect, and totally misguided in the other. I appreciate the importance of both.

  16. Another Virgo says:

    Piscesman

    We meet in January through dating website. His intentions were to have kids and family. I was very desperate to have relationships as well. He told me what his biological clocks are tickling, I told him mine are tickling as well. He offered to move in togather after like two weeks of dating, I did not say “Yes”, I decided to play cool and said ” I will think about it”. Week later he appologies and said he is not ready for relationships. Which I do beleive was true. He met a girl through the same website a year ago and fall in love with her, and she dumbed him for another men only in December but she did not tell him about it, she asked her friend to tell him what she died. He find out what she is alive and happy with another men like few days before meeting me. He told me he feels himself “used and abused” from all that.

    Than he’s got into severe accident and was in hospital for a long time, he called me and we chat with each other on regular basis. I have mentioned him what I am still desperate for relationships and upload my profile on dating website again. He started to tell me what I should be carefull with all those crazy men on internet, and he thinks I am not ready for relationships ( I’ve got divorced short time ago). But I said to him, what I am desperate. Because I really was! He was released from hospital two weeks ago, he promissed me what we will meet with each other once he will be released etc. etc., but instead he’s got heavy into his job and stop even call me, he called me once and I have mentioned him what I miss him and want to see him. he said he is busy right now. Than I asked him to borrow me money, he did not reply anything, said he will call back, but he never did. I sent him text message what I did not expect him turn his back on me and what I am very dissapointed with his behavoir ( he mentioned me that I can always rely on him as a friend). And nothing. I guess he’s got dissapointed in me.:)

  17. Piscesman says:

    I can’t begin to understand the rapidness of yours and his progression. Doesn’t make sense. It takes time to formulate a relationship of trust and understanding. You both seem ungrounded to me. Move on.

  18. Another Virgo says:

    Last week I contacted this Pisces men, he told me he can not borrow me money because he does not have any at the moment. Recession efected him and his business very badly according his words. Than he told me what he can not talk to me and he doesn’t wanna see me in April because it is the end of financial year and he extremely stressed. So he politely asked me don’t bother him. I don’t know he lied to me on money question or no though.

    I am very dissapointed. I will never get involved with Pisces men again. He switched from total adoration to complete ignorance within such a short period of time. Problem is I still like him, and I feel so bitter about everything because I do beleive we were a perfect match.

  19. Another Virgo says:

    Well, it is turned out this Pisces men met another woman in the end of March, dated her and they are move in togather on May 11.

    At first I didn’t beleive him because he told me it after I accused him in lie and emotional abuse, and said to him what I do not want date him or have any relationship with him. Than I went further and told him what he will never ever find a woman.
    But now I think he didn’t lie.
    What upsets me most is what he didn’t tell this to me in the beggining what he is dating someone else, he lied to me what he is busy with work and everything.

  20. Piscesman says:

    A perfect match would include continued adoration. Without that, perfection is without merit.

  21. Another Virgo says:

    Yes, I agree with you. 100% he is not interest in me and made it clear, but I don’t know did he made up this girlfriend or no. This is what bothers me the most.

  22. Virgo girl says:

    What if a pisces tells you his deep feelings for you? and is he lying..? are picses really liars like people say they are?? i dont understand why..

  23. Another Virgo says:

    Virgo girl,

    His deep feelings for you can gone within short period of time without any reason. They are definetly are not able to provide sense of stability in relationship which virgos are looking for.

  24. Another Virgo says:

    My Pisces men keep amusing me. It is been 7 monthes since last time I saw him.

    I offered him get together many times , just hang out as a friends. He always promissed me to do it but never was able find a time for me. He said he is extremely busy with work , he faced foreclosure on 4 of his properties and extremely stressed out. Every week he promissed me “Next week, next week”. Than last time he called me in June and said what he does not mind start dating again, but he will be back in the beggining of July and we will get together. It is second half of July, he is still not back to the country and he does not return my emails, my phone calls- nothing. And I really needed his help as a friend. But he just went MIA somewhere outside country.

  25. Karen says:

    Oh yes, in this instance, Piscesman is right.. His feelings can vanish in an instant for reasons he doesn’t even begin to comprehend…

    I will, however, add to this and say that once a Pisces connection is established strongly (in the case of my ex Pisces boyfriend and my Pisces self), the intensity, I am beginning to believe will never vanish…

    Though he is not presently active in my life, he maintains an intense connection through doing such things as writing about me (this being a negative assessment of his projection of himself onto me) in his match.com profile!!.. I told him that I must still affect him greatly for him to add that to his prior existing profile… And then he removed it. But once the intensity is there, it can still show up, even if in a passive-aggressive way!..

    So, in many ways, I find that just like the dolphin that he tattooed on my ankle, he will always be present with me in one form or another~

  26. Mr Fisch says:

    hate to interupt.
    I’m a bit of a pisces myself and I think the “missing” times are totally sacred.
    We don’t dissapear for lack of love rather we revel in it. Were like social camels, who feel the best place for them is in the desert away from people. It’s there that the feelings we have absorbed are analysed and luxurated in. untill we need more.

    To keep a pisces,

    Value his time(even if just one day a week) and feelings , Dont belittle them (even thru a veil of words) we can tell.

    be straight, you want something? ask for it. I have never met any pisces who likes interpreting clues

    it makes us out to be kids. but in essance we are
    when we feel totally accepted,
    we return in kind

  27. Karen says:

    I appreciate you perspective, being a Pisces myself…A few questions, though, of things you said…

    I’m not sure that I get what you mean when you say that during those vanishing times, we are reveling in love…I know that I need my time away to sort of be in a meditative space, so I can really “get it”… But I don’t view that time as essential to reveling in love, but do that when I am present with my guy..

    I did value his time, he didn’t value mine, conversely…And two months is way too long to remain in a cave, totally uncommunicative…Again, there are certainly times that I, who is naturally very outgoing, don’t want to talk with anyone, when I am having intense feelings…esp if sad..

    You are right about the belittling, we are sensitive…and return love easily…

    Unless there are other factors, like passive aggressive stuff going on (my ex Pisces guy), for whom vague comments could drive me crazy, as yeah, I didn’t like interpreting clues…When I would try to clarify, he would always say he didn’t want to have to explain anything…

    I welcome your comments…

    Karen

  28. ralph says:

    im a pisces man interested in a Virgo woman.. i find her very attractive and our conversations are very stimulating. We have known each other for less than a week and ive already asked her about what kind of a boyfriend she is interested in and whether she has one, she replied by saying that shes not interested in flings and is looking for something serious….. i know the problems fire and water may face but something tells me i should go for her but not rush in..
    how would you folks suggest i proceed

  29. sg says:

    to ralph :

    Im a pisces met a virgo 3 weeks ago, and hes been spot on we had our first date last week, and hes nothing like ive met b4, ive been celibate and been messed about,and the virgo man has everything i cud desire, and hes So different hes blown me away !!!… i play hard to get because im scared to jump in wiv both feet,and can be a total bitch at times, but i find the virgo speaks his mind ‘ ie’ i can be a nasty bitch at times, but it makes him want me all the more .. I know who i want and i hope i get it, any advice, let me know ! good Luck !! :D

  30. Karen says:

    What the hell is what I would ask both of you?…Why do you feel you have to be someone other than yourself?.. I can see the validity of thinking things thru carefully before acting, which I freely admit I have not been the best at, being too impulsive.. Which, however, is the opposite of just playing the game (and in real life) being the bitch!.. And why would any man want a woman who is a bitch anyway?..This, I will never get, unless it just makes him feel that he is able to at least get the chance to conquer her over and over again.. And surely years of that would get old!.. I truly don’t get this…

    My Pisces ex and I have finally seemed to reach a peaceful place to be and it’s nice.. and was authentically created, at least on my part and I think his, as well, after alot of difficulty in reaching closure…

  31. sg says:

    to karen:

    I think U have misread my being a ‘bitch’ not a ‘bitch’ per ce, i would say, i have let him do the chasing, and we have locked horns, hes a very sound guy, too good to be true, i mean im holding back abit i used to be a doormat dont get me wrong, but have tuffened up,and yes my guard may be up a lil bit right now, but my god, i Cud fall for this guy without a second thought, he calms me, he puts me at ease, and its right what someone said, he Cud AND DOES / IS making me think THAT : REAL GOOD MEN DO EXIST.. though a tiny part of me ‘freaks out’ and thinks ‘ Is he too good to be true ?!?!?’.. Ok ive noticed one or two things like him being secretive ( mostly about ‘business’)but i find him to speak his mind which i hope would be TRUE. he knows im not gullible, and wont share and what im looking for. After yrs of not meeting someone, I wont settle.. but this MAN Is ‘THE DREAM’ !!) and it Scares me To death, and He knows that !!.. id normally run, when i find myself getting close, but he draws me close without realising it, and ITS FAB !!! i had never dated a Virgo b4, and Im hoping hes the one ! <3 ( PS.. IF U READ THE BOOK WHY MEN LOVE BITCHES/MARRY BITCHES BY SHERRY ARGOV, i think u wud understand my terminolgy, Bitches are Sweet as georgia peaches, Just not desperate/chasers/needy) xxx

  32. sg says:

    (ps) I didnt mean Bitch as In = treat him badly, Christ Im a Pisces, Its not in my nature one bit !!!….

  33. Kaybee says:

    To all of you,

    Hi people, I’m a pisces man in a relationship with a virgo woman. she drives me up the wall sometimes, sometimes i feel like i’m causeing all of this and don’t know what to do. Is it normal??..i hate feeling the way i’m feeling now and i think i do love her….i can’t stand the thought of another man takign her. But we justcan’t seem to get along!!

  34. sg says:

    shes probably testing u, depends how long uve been together, what stage ur at/ ur ages etc etc,, id say if u love her try and work through it, from what ive read about Virgos,and ive just met one not long ago, they are shy at first, and for sometime !! but once there in there in !! goodluck X

  35. sg says:

    (ps) OR TO THE OTHER EXTREME !!!… CALL HER BLUFF !!! PROPOSE TO HER !!!!

  36. Watcher says:

    let me help you out with this pairing it wont F**cking work… Sure there is mountains of potential here and it would be a great match but Virgos especially Virgo women are emotional cowards that tend to just turn feelings off, run for the hills dig a mile deep bunker stock it with supplies and sit and wait for the second coming before they will even thing about coming up for some fresh air. As a pisces it is frightening to think that anyone could live in such denial about their own feelings and emotions (yes a pisces just said that) but my God it goes beyond infuriating and borders maddening. Pisces if you are in love with a Virgo take my advice Turn on you superhuman piscean copping powers and swim away there is nothing but hurt here… You would almost be better off messing with a Aries… at least they where their indifference and arrogance on their sleeve so you see it coming.

  37. sg says:

    Watcher…PMSL !!!! I love the last comment, im a Female Fish, and i like/liked a VIRGO man, Shudve known better, my mums a VIRGO,shes a coldhearted cow at times lol and i dont see her for months on end, she never shows love,affection, emotion etc etc, its WRONG…..lol
    Shame really !!!!….. hi 5 to u, that made me smile :P xx

  38. Karen says:

    I just read this.. and basically knew it, as my ex boyfriend had his VENUS IN PISCES–Venus in the signs indicate how you express your emotions in personal relationships, especially in love and marriage. It also provides clues to your attitudes toward money, personal possessions, creature comforts, and social and aesthetic values. Venus is in its exaltation in the sign Pisces, and the love principle reaches its highest evolutionary development. Your deep compassion and sympathy verges on spirituality and may be expressed that way. You are romantic and sensitive, and unless you recognize clear demonstrations of love and affection from others, you may feel lonely and disappointed. You need to avoid letting disappointments develop into martyrdom. Your extreme emotional sensitivity can make you afraid of being hurt by rejection, which can cause you to hesitate to express your feelings. The clear message here is to practice risking expression to avoid missing friendships and romantic opportunities. Try not to allow your strong emotions stand in the way of objectivity in your perspective of reality.

    This seems typical to me, also being a Pisces, but obviously a woman, and whose Venus is in just about the opposite, a fire sign, Aries… A major cause of discord between my ex and I as I was very demonstrative and yes, “agressive” in expressing how I felt about all aspects of “being in love”, whereas my ex Pisces guy not only didn’t want to reveal his feeling for awhile, but once he did, didn’t want to be in that vulnerability place! Therefore, he created reasons to retreat and then judged me when I acted on what he had led me to believe! I honestly have to say that it is very difficult to deal with a Pisces guy when not only is his sun there, but also his Venus and even his Mars! It would be a piece of cake if our genders had been reversed, but somehow, it seems to me that Pisces just seems to suit a female more easily (as we are responsive, sensitive and all of that “feminine” energy) which to me, is fine in a guy, in fact, it can be a gift with the gentleness, etc. in a way. Yet if a woman has a strong sense of fire as I do, even though attractive, it tends to make her the agressor and him the responder, which in terms of gender, just doesn’t work, unfortunately. I would like to hear what others think of this in terms of Pisces guys with other strong Pisces influences matched with women who are stronger in their fire energy than their water energy.

  39. Karen says:

    Subject: Being a Pisces guy with other energies in Pisces, as well…I just read this.. and basically knew it, as my ex boyfriend had his VENUS IN PISCES–Venus in the signs indicate how you express your emotions in personal relationships, especially in love and marriage. It also provides clues to your attitudes toward money, personal possessions, creature comforts, and social and aesthetic values. Venus is in its exaltation in the sign Pisces, and the love principle reaches its highest evolutionary development. Your deep compassion and sympathy verges on spirituality and may be expressed that way. You are romantic and sensitive, and unless you recognize clear demonstrations of love and affection from others, you may feel lonely and disappointed. You need to avoid letting disappointments develop into martyrdom. Your extreme emotional sensitivity can make you afraid of being hurt by rejection, which can cause you to hesitate to express your feelings. The clear message here is to practice risking expression to avoid missing friendships and romantic opportunities. Try not to allow your strong emotions stand in the way of objectivity in your perspective of reality.

    This seems typical to me, also being a Pisces, but obviously a woman, and whose Venus is in just about the opposite, a fire sign, Aries… A major cause of discord between my ex and I as I was very demonstrative and yes, “agressive” in expressing how I felt about all aspects of “being in love”, whereas my ex Pisces guy not only didn’t want to reveal his feeling for awhile, but once he did, didn’t want to be in that vulnerability place! Therefore, he created reasons to retreat and then judged me when I acted on what he had led me to believe! I honestly have to say that it is very difficult to deal with a Pisces guy when not only is his sun there, but also his Venus and even his Mars! It would be a piece of cake if our genders had been reversed, but somehow, it seems to me that Pisces just seems to suit a female more easily (as we are responsive, sensitive and all of that “feminine” energy) which to me, is fine in a guy, in fact, it can be a gift with the gentleness, etc. in a way. Yet if a woman has a strong sense of fire as I do, even though attractive, it tends to make her the agressor and him the responder, which in terms of gender, just doesn’t work, unfortunately. I would like to hear what others think of this in terms of Pisces guys with other strong Pisces influences matched with women who are stronger in their fire energy than their water energy.

  40. jolie says:

    ok guys i have a question. i saw there are many people highly debating the pisces man issue here so i dare to squeeze in and ask for some info, since it looks like some of you have knowledge of the interpretations of planets and stuff. if you can help, please do so. my question is not related to the virgo girl topic but just in case…
    i am seeing a pisces man, we’re not having a relationship but we’re just hanging out and sleeping together (very classy, i know). his chart is as follows:

    sun- pisces
    north node/ascendant node: libra
    moon-aquarius
    mercury-pisces
    venus-pisces
    mars-cancer
    jupiter-gemini
    saturn-leo
    uranus-scorpio
    neptune-sagittarius
    pluto-libra

    my chart:

    sun-cancer
    north node/ascendant- aries
    moon-pisces
    mercury -leo
    venus-leo
    mars-capricorn
    jupiter-pisces
    saturn-sagittarius
    neptune-capricorn
    pluto-scorpio
    lilith-gemini (does this even matter??)
    south node- aries as well. is there any importance of the north-south node?

    hope someone would clue me in a little!

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