How can an Aries woman and a Scorpio man work it out?
May 26, 2008 by Jeffrey Kishner
Equality is all well and good in relationships, but it is not often a reality. There is usually a dominant partner, and the nondominant one often willingly cedes control. People with strong personalities frequently don’t want to constantly spar with someone else — they just want to rule the roost.
However, when two Mars-ruled people get together, power struggles inevitably ensue. Mars is the warrior planet. It governs our impulse to act on our needs and desires, to go out into the world and get what we want. Mars is competitive — it likes to conquer.
Although Aries and Scorpio are very different signs, they are both traditionally ruled by the red planet. (Scorpio’s modern ruler is Pluto.) Aries is a cardinal, fire sign (with a positive or masculine polarity); Scorpio is a fixed, water sign (with a negative or feminine polarity). Along the zodiac wheel, they are inconjunct, or at a 150-degree angle from each other. As far as compatibility goes, they have absolutely nothing in common. I don’t mean to dissuade any readers from this Sun-sign match, for there are many other factors beyond Sun signs that contribute to compatibility. But the Sun is the “force” of one’s personality, and surely Aries and Scorpio are a challenging match.
Aries is direct and impulsive, blazing a path for others to follow. This Sun sign native tends to be egocentric, thinking only of her own needs and how to get them met. She does not typically consider the impact of her actions on others. However, she has boundless energy to initiate projects and inspire others to help bring them to completion, as Aries often loses interest after her first burst of energy.
Scorpio is introverted and secretive, probing the depths of emotional experience. This Sun sign native experiences feelings intensely, and can be somewhat suspicious of other people’s intentions — based on Scorpio’s ability to “suss out” their hidden motivations. Scorpio has a strong drive, and he can use his “fixed” determination to carry projects through to the very end. His desire for intimate connection is so strong that he has developed a reputation for possessiveness and sexual voraciousness.
Anger
These signs express their anger in vastly different aways. Aries will forcefully and immediately unleash her rage upon whomever is in her vicinity, but once it is out, it is out. She no longer dwells on the feeling after it has been discharged. If she has hurt someone’s feelings, she may apologize — “You know I didn’t mean to take it out on you!” Scorpio, on the other hand, lets his anger fester. An unevolved Scorpio will strategize how to exact revenge upon whomever made him angry. But even an evolved native may brood, mixing his simmering pot of rage and smelling his concoction until he thoroughly understands the root of his anger. It may not be evident to an outsider that Scorpio is pissed, whereas it would be hard for Aries to hide this emotion from others.
Sex
The Scorpio man has been known to indulge in taboo expressions of sexuality such as bondage, domination and sadomasochism. Obviously, his idea of a good time can take hours, whereas the Aries woman may prefer sex both simpler and quicker. Remember, Aries is the first sign of the zodiac, not as psychologically complex as Scorpio, more into a to-the-point, animalistic, getting-off type of sexual expression. And she’s unlikely to submit easily to a man’s will to dominate, as hers is a Mars-ruled sign. Other Scorpio men will aim to merge souls through prolonged eye contact during intercourse, whereas Aries just isn’t that into the emotional intimacy. These differences may lead to an incompatibility in the bedroom (or anywhere else, for that matter).
Can They Work It Out?
There are always success stories for each Sun-sign combination, and I’m sure readers will share in the comments section how they’ve shared wonderful times in an Aries-Scorpio relationship. I believe other horoscope factors can help to make this relationship work, such as the usual harmonious Sun-Moon and Venus-Mars interaspects. But most importantly, the key to success in any relationship is understanding and flexibility — the latter of which neither of these signs has, being that they’re not mutable!
Both Aries and Scorpio should not become overly reactive to each other’s vastly different styles of self-expression. Scorpio can learn from Aries by being more up-front about his anger and not holding grudges. Aries can learn from Scorpio by learning the art of follow-through and having the patience to plan an attack rather than react immediately. Hopefully, their respective Venus and Mars placements will increase their compatibility behind closed doors — otherwise, Scorpio may feel sexually frustrated — and that only spells danger.
Comment below: Share your Aries-Scorpio relationship experiences.
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My Mother(Diagnosed bipolar)= Scorp Sun/Cancer Moon/Virgo Venus and Mars in Pisces (Neptune Conj Sun, Mars Opp Ascendant, Venus Opp Mars)(aka the Victim)
My Father= Aries Sun/Moon In Scorp/Venus Aries/Mars Taurus….(Venus Opp Saturn & Neptune..Moon Opp Mars, Jupiter)(aka the savior)
It started off victim/savior and then degenerated into a strange “us against the world” mentality with them and they both got lost in drinking, then it got violent and stayed that way until they divorced.
I was 7 and happy to see my parents get divorced. IT WAS THAT BAD!
My mother moved on to find guys who are willing to victimize her over and over again (drinking, drugs, physical abuse) and my father has been alone….has not even been on one date for 18 years. I asked him about it and he says “a man has to know his limits”.
This is an extreme example…but yeah…I don’t recommend it unless there are some seriously compatible planets under the hood!
Howdy!
Very interesting. Well, my parents are also a Scorpio/Aries combo. However, I think the other planets in their chart help to mitigate the influence.
My dad is an Aries with moon in cancer and sag rising. He also has several personal planets in Taurus which I think ground him, along with the cancer which helps him relate to my mom’s water-sign planets (she has a stellium in Scorpio).
My mom is a Scorpio sun with moon and rising in Leo (which compliment my dad’s Aries sun and his Sag rising). I think they are actually quite alike in many ways though you may not realize it until you had known them for a while. Their expression may be different, but they are water/fire combos (with some other stuff thrown in).
My parents relationship is by no means perfect, but they have done well considering having five children and various challenges, and they have been married for 33 years this year! I think they seem to get closer and more relaxed as the years go by.
However, I do think that being in a household with all that fire and water, etc, makes for an interesting dynamic. We’re quite the eccentric and artistic (read: temperamental) bunch.
They have 5 children and 2 of us are Aries, 2 of us are Sag, and there’s one Aquarius, but she’s a double Sag (sun and moon). So…hehehhee. Wowza!
Two of us are artists, one of us is a writer, and the other two are teenagers but exhibit the artistic and creative tendencies present in the family.
Anyway—I’m sorry to rant but this was something I had to comment on having seen the Scorpio/Aries dynamic in action. I think it can go either way. I do feel that it is a feisty and possible challenging relationship, but like any relationship it has potential for good or ill.
Astrology is an influence not a death sentence, so good luck to any Aries and Scorpio combos out there (obviously there are many factors to be considered).
Good article, Jeff! Though-provoking.
Hannah
my first love was a Scorpio who was a few years younger than me. I am an Aries. when we first met, we couldn’t stand each other. i thought he was a pretty boy and a mr know it all. and he, well, let’s just say he thought i was a word that rhymes with witch! we were teenagers back then & we laugh about it now!
we would argue and fight and make up just as fiercely. the chemistry and tension between us was ELECTRIC! even now, over 10 years later, when we meet for coffee – its there.
in some ways it was a weird teacher/student relationship. we learned alot from each other and although he’s married to another woman with 3 beautiful children, we’re still very close and love each other.
how we fell apart? 2 things, i went off to college and on to conquer the world, thinking he could wait for me without exactly coming out and asking him to and 2. more recently, it’s come out that he thought i didn’t want children. at the time, i didn’t and he is big into family.
But luckily we still have each other in our lives! =)
I have a scorpio man as lvoer. He needs me for regular sex and deep talks since his relationship with an aires woman seem to be very unfulfilling.
/independent capricorn
I have sun, mercury and venus in Aries, yet I did not recognize myself in any part of the description of Aries. Especially the parts about not following through (I’m known for my dogged perseverance), not being able to hide our anger (I tend to brood and put on a smiley face while plotting vengeance), getting over anger quickly (nope, I hold grudges and plan to continue doing so – most people don’t learn anything from being forgiven), liking quick sex (what? any guy who goes ‘wham bam’ on me is taking his life into his hands) and not being into staring into eyes/emotional intimacy during sex (what? creating emotions in my partner, staring into his eyes, reading his feelings…I feed off emotions during sex, crave them). It’s not the first time I’ve scratched my head at descriptions of Aries but either I’m the most un-Arien Aries or this blog relied so heavily on stereotypes that it lost its way.
a quick fyi: even though i’m still close with my scorpio ex, i want to mention that despite the chemistry and tension, we haven’t crossed that line. above all things, i want him to respect me…so i can’t do it and maintain a friendship.
stillness: don’t feel bad. i hold grudges. for a LONG time. i’m learning to let go of things..finally! maybe you have alot of scorpio or virgo elsewhere in your chart?
Ari3sfire – No planets in Virgo and Saturn is my only planet in Scorpio. However, I do have a Mars in Taurus and Mars opposition Pluto (described as “scorpionic” on cafeastrology.com) that might explain things (plus sun trine saturn and moon trine saturn – so maybe the scorpio influence from my saturn in scorpio is strengthened that way?). I definitely don’t feel bad about not forgiving easily and I love my Aries traits.
I think they can! I am an Aries with a Cancer moon and my boyfriend is a Scorpio with a Gemini moon. I think my Cancer moon makes me more sensative and emotional which works with Scorpio and I think his Gemini moon makes him a bit more easy going emotionaly which works with Aries. In the cliche sense Scorpio and Cancer are perfect match and Aries and Gemini are a perfect match as we have both of these in our charts it works well. Also in terms of sex anyone can tell you Aries woman + Scorpio man = HOT SEX
I would also agree with the last post. I’m an Aries with a Cancer moon as well and me and my Scorpio are going stronger than ever. Admittedly it was a challenge initially as I was not used to the silence and intensity. But over time as you gain a Scorpio’s trust there is a loyalty and sensitivity hidden below the surface. My advice is: hang on Aries girls, and learn to relinquish the lead, he’s made for just that sort of thing
Hi i am an aries and my X boyfriend is a Scorpio,we broke up 2 months ago after a 2 year of relation,We were madly in love with each other,but i don’t understand what happened suddenly that he said that he don’t love me anymore but still cares about me.The way he behaves with me now a days,it just takes my heart out.He is still the same way passionate about making love.but he don’t love me.he is planning to get married in a year or so.but how do i tell him that i still love him and want him back in my life.I don’t know how to express in words but i am madly in love with him.He don’t want to listen about us anymore,he ignore my talks when i talk something related to us.help pls
hey i can i know…what is my Sun and moon
visit astro.com to find out your Sun and Moon signs
Yes I'm not so sure about the fundamentalist description of an aries…like any sign there is either the evolved side and the unevolved side…Scorpios & aries have both…don't think aries are into instant gratification either or that scorpios aren't..scorpios can be extremely self-involved like aries, the scorpio's lust for power can turn into dangerous narcissism…I've seen it happen.
am i aries girl with a scropio guy friend who im madly love.we have great tymes together, talk alot (every day),n have great sex together. the chemistry is INTENSE. i once confessed i like him but sume agrument lead him to mistrust me and not like me at all.thru tyme, we became great friends now. he moved on and fall in love wit a leo older women. i help him n adive him about her tho i am very POssesive of him n jealous.one thing he doesnt know is i hide my feeling for him n repressed it so he would b happy falling for this women (shes got a bf ). it s almost a year now since our freindship. its eating me alive that i have to endure watching him get closer to this woman. i want to CUT HIM OUT OF MY life but i LOVE him TO DEATH. were pyhsically attracted to each other but on his view, we r not at all emotionally attracted.i try to b soo patient n see wat hpnds but i keep getting closer to him but never in an emotional or romantic way. i dont know what to do? HELP!!!HELP!!!!
I am the double Aries wife to a Scorpio and we are the proud parents of a Leo daughter (8/17/08)
For whatever reason, our relationship works. I adore my husband and I enjoy his intense emotions – certainly it keeps me on my toes. He is a very deeply devoted husband and father.
I enjoy that he accepts me for me and even goes so far as to participate & assist in some of my performance art. We are complete opposites but enjoy each others company.
I think perhaps that for an Aries to work with with a Scorpio, we have to let go of our need to dominate – Let your Scorpio mate rescue you and take charge. Let him know he is needed and don't be afraid to delve into your deeper emotions. We Aries do have deep emotions we just suck terribly when trying to get in touch with them. (deep emotions are one fire that burns us and often painfully)
I have no advice for a Scorpio, mine seems to understand me far more than I often understand myself. You can find no greater mate than a Scorpio. My husbands greatest happiness is our family. I modeled and yet he finds me more beautiful now, as the mother of his daughter.
As for how they are with children, we shall see – ours is still a newborn.
Independent Capricorn, you wrote 3rd post down that your scorpio needs you regular sex and deep talks because he is not getting it from the Aries he is with. He must not be a strong scorpio male, or must be weakened by other aspects – as a strong scorpio would leave the aries if he was not in love but unfortunately if he loves the aries and she will not succumb to his wiles, then he will find another woman he can treat as a doormat, aries woman believe in respect and scorpios love integrity..there must be love between the aries and scorpio so be careful, when she gives him what he wants he will drop you like a hotcake -I’m sorry to be brutally honest but I’ve seen this happen to a friend of mine who is a capricorn. I think you know this otherwise you wouldn’t need to reassure yourself.
i am an aries woman who is wild about a scorpio man that i have seen after three (3) years, but i have known him twenty (20) years. how do i deal wit my passions regarding him there is 10 year age gap between us and i don’t want to lose him-period
I am an Aries woman married to a Scorpio. We’ve been married for 20.5 years and it’s been turbulent, for lack of a better word. But somehow we’ve managed to make it work.
I sort of think the original post was spot on. I am impulsive and somewhat domineering whereas my husband is well thought-out and calm. I think the whole “opposites attract” factor developed early on and where I lack, he excels and vice versa. Our polar opposites compliment each other. Though I will admit that it hasn’t always been a harmonious relationship.
Because we’re both determined in ways maybe others aren’t, we decided to work together to achieve success as a goal. Whether it be financial, emotional, matrimonial or physical, we both wanted end results that worked for both of us.
Listening to one another was a beast, we’re both stubborn and defiant. We both believe our own beliefs to be the one that counts most. Me, the Aries, was more forthright with my feelings, needs, wants (and probably more appropriately, demands) and he was a harder dig to figure out. But through the forest, I could see trees and eventually, though not right away, I could ‘hear’ what he was saying as opposed to being present when he said it.
I tend to over-analyze where he’s a free pragmatic thinker. He is truly the stabilizer in the relationship. Most often times drawing me back to reality when I go off on wild tangents. He is the calm in my storm.
My Scorpio husband is a wonderful listener and I credit most of my success to his ability to help me see things in the common sense of situations. In return, I am the fire under him that enables him to create magic professionally and when wanting to become self-motivating. I am always proud of my Scorpio husband and compliment him on almost all things he does and I believe he quietly cherishes this.
True I am extroverted and he not so much, but many of our friends and family feel far closer to him friendship-wise than they do me. They describe him as loyal and dedicated, thoughtful and deep. I’m in agreement. I’m outspoken, brash (to a fault sometimes) but will go to the ends of the earth to protect those around me.
My Scorpio is also a wonderful father to our teenage Virgo sons. They love the relationship he has with them, but they also respect his discipline and role as a father and role model. They go to him when they want sound advice and come to me for validation and praise, among other things.
Parenting styles differ greatly, but we both agreed early on that we would never undermine the other when it came to our children, and we never have. When one of us doesn’t agree with the other, we discuss it with each other and never let the boys know that there’s conflict. Ever.
If this gives you any insight into what CAN be a successful and doable relationship, I hope you will take heed. An Aries/Scorpio relationship CAN work, if you’ve both got your eye on the prize; that “prize” being a happy, healthy, constructive relationship filled with lots of happy times and memories to last a lifetime.
(oh, and yes, the sex is STILL explosive and amazing!!!)
I bet sex was/is the best for both of you. Only Aries can take that heat and respond accordingly, not being intimidated.
I simply hate that I can’t control my scorpio lover, and he fact that he constantly nags me about all my issues…..it drives me crazy….i avoid talking to him…but I feel so close to him at the same time…we talked about marriage yesterday…and now I’m on the verge of a nervous breakdown..because I think he may be serious…..I’m equally terrified of losing him and marrying him…..
most people are 2 selfish to compromise & be truthful with personal agenda ( in general). If people were 2 have God in their life, they wold be capable of loving & compromising with each other no matter what ( sun or moon sign)!
each sun or moon sign have positive or negative tendencies in personalities. I am an aries, I know the negative influences in my personality, I have rejected those negativities 2 better myself & became what I am today because I wanted 2. anybody can have the same maturity when a heart is close to God. I am aware of most sun & moon signs personality traits, so I know how to act appropriatly & compromise with each sun signs. that is because I care abouth others. Any one has the abiltity 2 do the same, if one cares enough to better themself . ( immature )sun sign personalities are: sagittarius ( inconsiderate & self gratification, never sexually loyals), capricorn has lack of ambition, drive, passion, romance& boring. Aquarius are self centered & non emotional opportunist in love with freedom to the point of been careless. Aries man are unfaithful casanovas & aries woman are jealous, competitive of other females, indulge in sexual activities with married man for self gain, scorpio have shamless sex with any one in any places ( not afraid of diseases I guess ). cancer are dangerous to the point of commiting a crime of passion & very frugal, accusing & victimising other of the evil they do. leo are never wrong & careless abouth others ideas .virgo are unemotional thinking the grass is always better on the other side. taurus are unemotional and selfish.geminy are arrogant & self denial in the hard times. ect…people, u got a lot of work to do with ur maturity. remember, what ever you do onto another will come back at you.
I am a Scorpio woman in love with an Aries. I had a deep yet light relationship with my Aries man a few years ago. The lack of emotions exhausted my intuitive nature that made me call it quits! I did not mind mental-telepathy but I NEEDED at the time a very clear communication with anything that would help with our self-discovery and purpose–instead it became a chore.
Though I was mysterious I delivered clear messages that I honored every stubborn inch of my Aries rebellious spirit. I know that NO other sign can unveil his deepest rooted emotion like how I pretty much yanked out in 2005. But that’s ok, because I soaked it in my Scorpio water since then in hopes to neutralized and energized his new being to transformation for his future.
I am over whelming to him, but after so many years being apart for so long, the chemistry is still bright and shiny. However years back, I cut him off so COLDLY and severly that his passion for our love has died emotionally– physically it still lingers. Thinking of playing off that to slowly court him to his senses. I am a SCORPIO-INDIGO lady that knows waht she wants–and I want this man for the rest of my life. I control my future. I am willing to be flexible and humble to win my soulmate back. I must have found this blog just so I can release the hurt I have and all the ego that has blocked my flow.
Since I am on here, these are some tips for Scorpio and Aries match.
Scorpios do not get over-emotional and affectionate, Aries loves an independant partner not a needy one!
Scorpio do surprise him with your wit, the faster the better! They love smarter people.
Scorpio have manners and control your urges–do NOT to be too demanding.
Scorpio hold back in wanting to scold your partner over small stupid things!
Scorpio do not abandon, neglect or ignore an Aries trying to say sorry. Oh–they never say sorry they do better things like orchestrate gestures that heal. Don’t be too stubborn to see the signs of a@*-kissing.
Scorpios continue to lead, Aries love other leaders!
Aries just go with the flow and make effort to show some emotion!
Aries never give up, Scorpios NEED you to prove your love and the prize is worth it. I was too blined to see my man’s commitment, now I’m paying the price.
For the most part I feel that these two signs are very compatible if focused on each others needs instead of being so stubborn.
I feel if I continue to just love unconditionally, I will naturally find my soulmate back in my arms forever.
I’ll invite you all to my wedding if it happens!
V
I meant…when it happens.
V
well im an aries and girl and my boyfrind is a scorpio. we love each other and get along good but at times we get it arguemnts every now and then. you see he can have a smart mouth and whenever some1 gets smart with me i jus naturally get smart back. but we both notice whenever we argue with each outher we be smiling. its amusing to us and i think the arguements kinda like spark up our love for each other more. its really jus how the aries and scorpio handle and workout the relationship with each other. u can never change the past but u can always change your future by want you do now in the present….
Sure, it is match made in heaven. Who else can challenge Scorp? Both like challenge and both like strong persons. LOve those creatures
I’d marry a Scorp. the one I know, in a second
sex is good, both love sex. it is important. Fire, desire, passion to share
I dated a scopio man for over 2 years. It has never been a quiet time for us even for a week. We constantly argue, and break up. However we can’t be apart. We don’t have sex for over 6 months. I do not think sex is that important to both of us. He avoids talking about marriage, because he did not have a completed family from his parents. But he does not want to leave me, because I am too nice to him. I don’t feel the harmony between us after 2 years, never feel that we are so in love that we become one person.
i am an Aries:sun/Leo:moon/Libra:rising woman and I have recently started dating a Scorpio man. We were friends before hand for a year and then he admitted to me that when he saw me that he knew he knew we would be in love. So, this flattered me and scared me a little because he told me this on our first date. However, I am in college and he is not and I have devotions to carry out before him. He is a strong respectful man, but very deep and emotional. Personally, too much for me at times. I tried to express to him that if we dont work out we still have our friendship and he told me not to think like that because we will work out. He is romantic and very determined, but the emotional side of him is HUGE. I believe Aries women can be sensitve and selfless, I just think we pick a time to be that way. If an Aries woman wanted to settle down I think her and a Scorpio can work it out. However, if she is not ready, and he is, the two may have to back away for awhile because emotions can run high.
I’m an aries lady and I enjoy scorpio men. My moon is in scorpio so I understand that eternal inner struggle they have with themselves. Fire+Water ya know.
The only problem I have with them is that after that sizzling attraction is over we both just drift apart. I’m kind of flighty in my relationships.
They still own my heart, though. ^^
i am aries and has successfully been married to a scorpio man for 23 years ,it’s had it’s ups and downs ,but 75%has been positively good,with four children ,he has been the best of dads. all relationships can work out well if there is understanding of relating well to each others differences
I have been in love with a Scorpio man (Aries woman) for four years and he is married. We met at work and the sparks flew; I was in a very bad marriage and so was he but he is not planning leave right now; although he won’t really talk about it. Recently, my interests have been diverted to match.com and I have had secondary release of libido that only he understands. Recently, he asked if I would have sex every day with him, in the morning. That is the closest he has come to commitment and an inkling of his plans to leave his family for me and my family. That being said, I think that we are moving to a stronger commitment. While I am an Aries, my rising is in gemini so that I think we are softer together, not in the bedroom yippee, but in every other area. He has released me to be myself and I believe that we will find a successful niche together love and business wise. I believe this sign can be supremely compatible and I do not have to keep my mouth shut. I am naturally diplomatic so it works extremely well for us. Weddin bells are in our future so wish us luck.
I am an Aries woman and my boyfriend is a Scorpio. He took my virginity. I was 14 1/2 and he was 17 1/2. We have dated on and off for 24 years. Two of those years was consistant. We seem to not be able to let go of each other. I will always love my Scorpio. Neither one of us married or had any children. I am now 40 and he is 44 1/2. We talk about marriage and children. I just don’t know. We argue constantly. We are both dominate types. We argue and don’t listen to each other. Now that we are more serious about our relationship, we talk things out more. We may get mad at each other after an argument, but we don’t stay distant from each other for long. Our sex life is OFF THE CHAIN! I realized that sometimes, I have to let him take the lead. He loves that, and it calms the storms a lot. Remember, give a Scorpio an inch, and YOU can take the mile. Scorpios love their Aries, and vice-verse.
I am an Aries women and I have been friends with my Scorpio man for the last 14 yrs. We recently started sleeping together after loosing contact for over 2 yrs and I feel like where has he been all of my life. We just seem to “fit”. He told me that he has wanted me since the first day he laid eyes on me, I knew that then I just ignored it and we have managed to remain good friends after all of these yrs. I recently went through some old pics and came across quit a few of him that I took back when we were in high school. I told him that I must have always had a secret crush on him and now that I think back I actually got jealous when he told me he was getting married (divorced now-back on the market). We both have been through some tough relationships and I think thats what makes us even closer today. He brought his daughter (7yrs) by and I too have a daughter (4 yrs) who was with my sis at that time. I was playing with her and I felt like she was my own I asked her when was her birthday and she told me and the hair on my arms stood up. Her and my daughter were born on the exact same day I could have fainted. I don’t know why he surfaced back into my life but I do know I’m not letting him go this time. Who knows what the future may bring!
Hi there all aries /scorpio people…
Unfortunately I live with a man, who has had a very intense movie like life, and somehow I have fallen into this with him,… I dont want to give too much information on this, however, I feel I want to let go now.
I am Aries,… his sexual preferance is always on the table never in the bed,… and porn,.. and really just not connecting emmotionally, it’s more an animal instinct for him, sex. We live in South Africa.
Aries might find that emmotionally it is hard to connect with scorpio, since the energy make up is so different about the two of you. Aries, is full frontol, straight to the point says it how it is…
no time for small talk,.. all fire and go.Then regret what they have just said,… oops I have done it again, we need to think more carefull how we say them, and when,…
Scorpio brood on the whatever has happened, and just find it difficult to get over it,.. they need some days…then they act as if nothing has happened,..
Aries,.. remember,…. deep down.
I believe we are put into astral signs, to work through our energetic ways,.. and are brought together with people, to learn more about ourseleves.
Each life we come back in different roles and signs, and sexes.
We are brought together to teach one another pure and unconditional love. T know through our problems, that the ultimate answer is LOVE and forgiveness over everything else.
When we met an Aries/Scorpio,..it is t test ourselves, what we need to work on within!!!
We need to look at our partners as mirrors, that refelct our own problems back,.. If you always act like a victim, you will daw towards you an abuser,…
and so on…
Love your self completely,… do not compare yourself to media/ tv/ whatever,.. it is just another way to contro you and make you fearful of who you really are,…
Anyone interested; read; secret flower of life, by drunvalo melchizedek.
I am an aries, moon leo, rising taurus.
My partner whom I have always loved, is a scorpio,…We are spiritual teachers for the new coming age of change,… do not let fear guide you, listen to love and your inner voice.
With universal love to all,
Nicole
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I have been dating at scorpio man for 2 yrs… we have our ups and downs, every other week…it seems to get worse and then the sun comes out, we love eachother alot , but I dont know if it will work. I love communication, and I cannot stand the intense silence when he is mad or disappointed. I love this man so much, but it seems were trying to fit the circle into a square…HELP ME ARIES WOMAN…ADVICE?
I’m a scorpion male that been dating an Aries women for 5 years. We recently broke up the main reason was that I couldn’t deal with her shady demeanor. She is beautiful and I have never felt this way about any female in my life. She is my soul mate and I owe a lot to her for opening my mind as much as it is today. I’m not perfect I have made my own mistakes in the 5 years but I never cheated or had any affairs. This women was my life and I became so weak to her powers that I think it made her look else where for emotional gratification and even sexs too. I can’t prove it but my gut has been telling something for almost 4 years now. And I kept staying with her. She once got a phone call from a married man and my stomach felt like s***t. It’s hard for me to write this because I really planned my whole life around the Aries women. I moved from NY to NC almost 10 months ago for her and as soon as I moved down she went back to NY for 3 months and broke up with me. I had to work to pay my bills while she was in NY going to clubs and living her life. She kept blaming that I was the problem and that I complained, I was telling her what was wrong but she turned it around and played the victim. She surprised me and showed up in NC I was happy and fell for her again. She kept going back and forth to NY through out the 10 months. IT took a toll on me emotionally, physically, and mentally. We got into an argument and it got physical I was heart broken that I could push her. Still to this day I can’t stand what I did and it will kill me for ever. I have gotten help and I have been seeing therapy because I’m way to smart and good hearted to allow myself to lose myself over someone. She told me she is moving to NY and I just lost all interest with her and I can’t keep doing this to myself. I found out that she is getting drunk and hanging out with the wrong people. I’m all alone in NC no family no friends (a few I met) I don’t know what to do. The thing about a Scorpio is that they will find a way in any situation to stand tall and continue. I love the Aries women I wish things were different but I can’t be with someone that has cheated on me or that has no respect for me. I just woke up I was up all late reading this page and my Aries women called me and left me a message on my voice mail saying “It’s me just wanted to know how you were doing, you know I don’t need you but I don’t want to never talk to you” WOW she has ignored all my calls and texts for about a month and this is what she leaves on my voice mail. I’m not responding to her anymore I’m happy with my life I don’t see her anymore and it’s helped me get over her. I travel for work now and I’m sad that I’m never going to find true women that I could love and be loved back the same way. I’m 29 years old I miss feeling being in love. This is hard for me I’m afraid she is going to get hurt and that guys are going to use her and that kills me, when I know I was treating her well. I will always love Aries women even her.
I’m an Aries woman (Taurus rising) who met a Scorpio man (Libra rising) 6 months ago and started dating 4 months ago, of course he asked for my number and since I did not answer his call (I was in another room) he waited until we ‘casually’ met again…… almost 2 months passed by. It has been wonderful. I respect his need for privacy (I need mine too) I’m really not that curious. So far I know little about him but he interrogates me (I find that very entertaining, don’t feel manipulated or anything like it, actually, it flatters me, I’m aware that I give out info because I want to do so) all the time. I wish I’d know what’s ahead.
i am an aries woman (aquarius rising, taurus moon) and i have been hypnotized by a scorpio man (no idea of his rising or moon), i am still in his web some 1 1/2 yrs-2 yrs and powerless!! my venus conjuncts his mars, our love is strong and yes, he needs to feel in control and dominant in every situation. he is egotistical, pretty much a big damn baby (whom i love to spoil), and has a mean streak like i’ve never seen. he’s jealous, snoopy and very secretive. i am super sensitive and cry at the drop of a hat when he hollers, but i am addicted to his love and 5 minutes in his arms, i have forgotten what i just said and i will not let this man go , i am defenseless!i agree 100% with factory girl!
I am an aries woman and have been with my scorpio man for 4 months and let me tell you there is no other than a scorpio man. He is sweet, patient, kind, funny, and very sexy! We are on teh same level of maturity, although he is still a big kid, he is highly evloved in the family life as he has 2 young children that he raises and I have 3 young children that I raise ( boys). There is never a dull moment. We moved in together about 2 moths ago and things are great, we haven’t had one disagreement, I am sure eventaully we will, but I am not worried that anything could destroy us. We have such an intamicy between us , it is so fufilling being this mans woman.. I only hope that everyone has had these feelings, and finds the happiness I have found.. He is so honest, and most importantly, his integrity.. says what he means, means what he says. I AM THE LUCKIEST WOMAN ALIVE!!
I’m Aries and just now getting acquainted to a Scorpio man. I don’t much about scorpios except for the fact that I had an ex-colleague who was of that sign and oh the fireworks in the office! – we were both headstrong and wanted to lead, had strong independent personalities, but he was devious about things, while in typical Aries fahion I was upfront. All of it together, fireworks. I do seem to recall though that at times we were on the same wavelength. Hmmm. Too long ago though, can’t really remember.
Anyways, I wasn’t particularly thrilled when I discovered my date was a scorpio. Truth be told, I actually moaned ‘oh no’ inside of me. Since then I have been reading abuot Scorpio, which I never bothered with before. I’m drawn to the intensity and the depth of feelings they are supposed to be able to feel, I am fine with the jealou possessive side, cause hey, that’s how I am too as an Aries woman ha! I’m just not sure I will have the patience to put up with all the mood swings etc. to attain the fusion of souls. No to mention he’d better not try to manipulate or control me! Hey, I’m an Aries, I’m a free spirit!
Scorpio females and Aries males seem to work it out just fine.
Scorpio men don’t like women with any pride or self esteem.
Aries girls please realize that you just want him to fall for you so you can dump them. It is just a silly powerplay… and you know it!
I am totally mesmirezed by my Scorpio, I have no intentions of dumping him.
Hello all:
The new year began and I decided I would be single, january its yet to be over and here comes the scorpio I die for.
I dreamed of him and building a family, we stop seen eachother two years ago, after breaking up for many reasons that were beyond my control,I wont let a man hurt my pride. Here we are again today, starting all over. He is my everything.
I wonder how long will it last? Is this another (moment) of love? Iam sick and tired of trying, trying, trying and trying. This time ill let him take control, I wont have the anticipation I had in the past.
Its a bit confusing, I want him to give me all I need, I dont want to want no one else but him since his been there for eachother and constantly runs back to eachother: I wish we would just be! So After a night of hot love making, I’ve decided to test the waters: If he doesn’t reply to my request on facebook in regards to our next step (would it be better face to face?, ill find out what’s happening in his mind and figure out what he wants because my clock is ticking and I wont allow him to toy me around more than what he already has as much as I love him.
Advice please.
Sincerely,
77arieswomen who believe in the universe power to make things work.
im aries n my boyfrien is scorpio we r happy together n 4ever if god want us 2b together…………………..@.@