Comments on: Cancer man wants to make flirtatious Gemini girlfriend jealous http://sasstrology.com/2008/05/cancer-man-wants-to-make-flirtatious.html Sat, 07 Nov 2009 20:54:43 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: chloe http://sasstrology.com/2008/05/cancer-man-wants-to-make-flirtatious.html/comment-page-1#comment-54057 chloe Thu, 29 Oct 2009 21:47:14 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2008/05/09/cancer-man-wants-to-make-flirtatious-gemini-girlfriend-jealous/#comment-54057 Here's a detail that will put this whole thing to rest. I'm a Gemini female. I only flirt when I'm NOT interested in someone. I DO NOT flirt with a person if I am genuinely interested in them. Why, you may ask? Very simple: We want a man who will fall in love with us for our minds. This is true for every Gemini woman I have ever met. If a Gemini female is flirting with a man she is either bored, trying out her latest new vocabulary addition, or playing with you or testing you (but only if you have played with or tested her). This is perhaps why we have the reputation of being the 'heartbreakers' of the zodiac; interest is perceived where none actually exists and men are left wondering "what happened?!". So, this is all news to me. Here’s a detail that will put this whole thing to rest.

I’m a Gemini female. I only flirt when I’m NOT interested in someone. I DO NOT flirt with a person if I am genuinely interested in them. Why, you may ask? Very simple: We want a man who will fall in love with us for our minds. This is true for every Gemini woman I have ever met. If a Gemini female is flirting with a man she is either bored, trying out her latest new vocabulary addition, or playing with you or testing you (but only if you have played with or tested her). This is perhaps why we have the reputation of being the ‘heartbreakers’ of the zodiac; interest is perceived where none actually exists and men are left wondering “what happened?!”.
So, this is all news to me.

]]> By: LibraLady http://sasstrology.com/2008/05/cancer-man-wants-to-make-flirtatious.html/comment-page-1#comment-50594 LibraLady Tue, 29 Sep 2009 00:26:58 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2008/05/09/cancer-man-wants-to-make-flirtatious-gemini-girlfriend-jealous/#comment-50594 LOL, Ive met a few Taurus women that were a force to be reckoned with :) When their guys did them wrong, it was nasty..... LOL, Ive met a few Taurus women that were a force to be reckoned with :) When their guys did them wrong, it was nasty…..

]]> By: Lola http://sasstrology.com/2008/05/cancer-man-wants-to-make-flirtatious.html/comment-page-1#comment-50584 Lola Mon, 28 Sep 2009 22:47:35 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2008/05/09/cancer-man-wants-to-make-flirtatious-gemini-girlfriend-jealous/#comment-50584 I have a Gemini stellium in the 12th house - Sun, Venus, Saturn, Mecury and the Ascendant. I've dated several Geminis and I think I've got a pretty good handle on them now. One thing you do not want to do is play emotional games with a Gemini, you have to be pretty adept at this and believe me, it is not easy to try and get one over on a Gem, no matter how smart and accomplished you think you are (Im a Gem and even I learned this the hard way). If a Gem has been hurt previously, they will be highly sensitive to it and they will know just where your games are coming from and how. They dont need proof of your game playing, they only need to suspect it and its all on, even if you think you're extremely secure in your relationship they will play back harder, meaner and with emotional detachment and the worst thing is - you wont even know it unless they want you to. So if you plan on trying to make one jealous, be really sure you know what you're doing because once the damage is done a Gem can walk away and not give you a second thought. The best thing you can do to secure a Gem is to love them, openly and honestly. Let them grow accustomed to your love and show reassurance by actions as well as words. Breadtalk said it best "show CONSISTENT care, passion and love to her for she wants to see how true your feelings are to her. Be “visible” every now and then by calling her or texting or seeing her everyday." A Gemini has difficulty with intimacy, no matter what they tell you. Feeling emotions deeply is scary for them but once they develop trust for you and are able to trust your love for them, they can be the most loving and loyal people you could imagine and they will begin to be open with it - dont take advantage of it because they will detach from you in a heartbeat. Flirting is a fancy for them, if they are serious about you then they look at flirting as a battle of wits (notice how bored they get when the person they are flirting with starts to get taken in by it). I dont think there is any other astrological sign that is as intuitive and ruthless as a Gemini except maybe Scorpio. But thats another story, my last long term relationship with a Scorpio was definitely my last relationship with a Scorpio! I have a Gemini stellium in the 12th house – Sun, Venus, Saturn, Mecury and the Ascendant.

I’ve dated several Geminis and I think I’ve got a pretty good handle on them now.

One thing you do not want to do is play emotional games with a Gemini, you have to be pretty adept at this and believe me, it is not easy to try and get one over on a Gem, no matter how smart and accomplished you think you are (Im a Gem and even I learned this the hard way). If a Gem has been hurt previously, they will be highly sensitive to it and they will know just where your games are coming from and how. They dont need proof of your game playing, they only need to suspect it and its all on, even if you think you’re extremely secure in your relationship they will play back harder, meaner and with emotional detachment and the worst thing is – you wont even know it unless they want you to. So if you plan on trying to make one jealous, be really sure you know what you’re doing because once the damage is done a Gem can walk away and not give you a second thought.

The best thing you can do to secure a Gem is to love them, openly and honestly. Let them grow accustomed to your love and show reassurance by actions as well as words.

Breadtalk said it best “show CONSISTENT care, passion and love to her for she wants to see how true your feelings are to her. Be “visible” every now and then by calling her or texting or seeing her everyday.”

A Gemini has difficulty with intimacy, no matter what they tell you. Feeling emotions deeply is scary for them but once they develop trust for you and are able to trust your love for them, they can be the most loving and loyal people you could imagine and they will begin to be open with it – dont take advantage of it because they will detach from you in a heartbeat. Flirting is a fancy for them, if they are serious about you then they look at flirting as a battle of wits (notice how bored they get when the person they are flirting with starts to get taken in by it).

I dont think there is any other astrological sign that is as intuitive and ruthless as a Gemini except maybe Scorpio. But thats another story, my last long term relationship with a Scorpio was definitely my last relationship with a Scorpio!

]]> By: Kat http://sasstrology.com/2008/05/cancer-man-wants-to-make-flirtatious.html/comment-page-1#comment-28468 Kat Tue, 05 May 2009 17:12:54 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2008/05/09/cancer-man-wants-to-make-flirtatious-gemini-girlfriend-jealous/#comment-28468 I had dated with three cancer men and i am a gem girl. Never there is a good ending. Anyway, the way you can stop her being flirty is simple - ignore her. Cos i am being ignored now - by a cancer man and i am really hurt. The colder he is to me the deeper i love him. He's a prick! Loser! Anyway, if u need a suggestion that will definitely work for u, i am quite sure. Stop calling her Stop texting her Give her pleasurable sex that she can't forget (remember, cos she's a flirt) Make her jealous by showing her some evidence that you might be dating with other girls I had dated with three cancer men and i am a gem girl. Never there is a good ending.
Anyway, the way you can stop her being flirty is simple – ignore her.
Cos i am being ignored now – by a cancer man and i am really hurt.
The colder he is to me the deeper i love him. He’s a prick! Loser!
Anyway, if u need a suggestion that will definitely work for u, i am quite sure.
Stop calling her
Stop texting her
Give her pleasurable sex that she can’t forget (remember, cos she’s a flirt)
Make her jealous by showing her some evidence that you might be dating with other girls

]]> By: Suffering Leo http://sasstrology.com/2008/05/cancer-man-wants-to-make-flirtatious.html/comment-page-1#comment-27533 Suffering Leo Thu, 30 Apr 2009 04:14:55 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2008/05/09/cancer-man-wants-to-make-flirtatious-gemini-girlfriend-jealous/#comment-27533 I'm dating a Gemini man and boy is he a flirt. He works in retail and is constantly meeting new people (mostly women) He gives them his phone number and talks to them at work and at home. He says it's nothing. He is always at home and 99.9% of the time I know where he is or what he is doing. He tells me he loves me and he knows what is good for him. He tells me he is not trying to sleep with any of them, he just likes to flirt and have conversation. Well, it drives me NUTS!! Leo's can be a bit jealous and no matter how much I try and hide it, my jealously always seems to win. I don't know what to do. Do I ignore it or leave? I’m dating a Gemini man and boy is he a flirt. He works in retail and is constantly meeting new people (mostly women) He gives them his phone number and talks to them at work and at home. He says it’s nothing. He is always at home and 99.9% of the time I know where he is or what he is doing. He tells me he loves me and he knows what is good for him. He tells me he is not trying to sleep with any of them, he just likes to flirt and have conversation. Well, it drives me NUTS!! Leo’s can be a bit jealous and no matter how much I try and hide it, my jealously always seems to win. I don’t know what to do. Do I ignore it or leave?

]]> By: Breadtalk http://sasstrology.com/2008/05/cancer-man-wants-to-make-flirtatious.html/comment-page-1#comment-15257 Breadtalk Mon, 16 Feb 2009 11:03:03 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2008/05/09/cancer-man-wants-to-make-flirtatious-gemini-girlfriend-jealous/#comment-15257 Good day to everyone, especially to Jeffrey! I don't think you can stop your Gemini woman from flirting especially if the relationship had just begun coz her feeling is not yet progressing. However, you should show CONSISTENT care, passion and love to her for she wants to see how true your feelings are to her. Be "visible" every now and then by calling her or texting or seeing her everyday. Show to her that she is very important to you until she loves you back so deeply.Do not be threatened on what she is doing (like talking to other guys) for she just wanted to see how you react on such, so better show that you are jealous but not totally freaking, huh... Believe me, in few months, she will be chasing after you!!! Good day to everyone, especially to Jeffrey!

I don’t think you can stop your Gemini woman from flirting especially if the relationship had just begun coz her feeling is not yet progressing. However, you should show CONSISTENT care, passion and love to her for she wants to see how true your feelings are to her. Be “visible” every now and then by calling her or texting or seeing her everyday.

Show to her that she is very important to you until she loves you back so deeply.Do not be threatened on what she is doing (like talking to other guys) for she just wanted to see how you react on such, so better show that you are jealous but not totally freaking, huh…

Believe me, in few months, she will be chasing after you!!!

]]> By: sassygirl http://sasstrology.com/2008/05/cancer-man-wants-to-make-flirtatious.html/comment-page-1#comment-12852 sassygirl Thu, 22 Jan 2009 12:35:41 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2008/05/09/cancer-man-wants-to-make-flirtatious-gemini-girlfriend-jealous/#comment-12852 well iam a gemini (female) and im in a situaTION similar to this and my advise to you is to not let it get to you she's goin to flirt its in her nature what human doesnt its normal but to a certain extent if she gets out of line simply tell her how u feel but if u keep going back and forth you going to b left alone, and what i've recently found out after dealing with my cancer guy is that cancer men are very jealous and insurcure and have problems expressing themselves and saying how they truly feel about a situation and after seeing what your asking advise on i find that to be true, instead of hiding behind your emotions tell her how u feel instead of holding back , because at the end of the day looks how on her askig for advise you not her she's out there fliting away well iam a gemini (female) and im in a situaTION similar to this and my advise to you is to not let it get to you she’s goin to flirt its in her nature what human doesnt its normal but to a certain extent if she gets out of line simply tell her how u feel but if u keep going back and forth you going to b left alone, and what i’ve recently found out after dealing with my cancer guy is that cancer men are very jealous and insurcure and have problems expressing themselves and saying how they truly feel about a situation and after seeing what your asking advise on i find that to be true, instead of hiding behind your emotions tell her how u feel instead of holding back , because at the end of the day looks how on her askig for advise you not her she’s out there fliting away

]]> By: Angels http://sasstrology.com/2008/05/cancer-man-wants-to-make-flirtatious.html/comment-page-1#comment-8680 Angels Sat, 20 Dec 2008 01:58:18 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2008/05/09/cancer-man-wants-to-make-flirtatious-gemini-girlfriend-jealous/#comment-8680 Currently (and only temporarily) me (Scorpio) and my Scorpio friend are renting a place with his mother (a Cancer) and her boyfriend (a Gemini), and even though I go out of my way to avoid the boyfriend - for reasons I'm about to state - every time they are drinking and get in an argument, I hear her hollering my name, asking him why he doesn't just go talk to me (aka the slut) since he likes me so much and is waiting around for me to come out of the shower just to get a glimpse..... and blah blah blah. The insecurity is so extreme on her part that she conjures up irrational ideas and reasons to be angry every time something doesn't go her way, and then proceeds to manipulate and play guilt trips. She is a pretty dysfunctional person, to say the least... not that all Cancers are, but (and this goes for my kind too ;) ) there can be a tendency to let insecurities take you and your loved ones for an emotional roller coaster ride. In regards to jealous Cancer and social Gemini... don't let her interactions with the opposite sex make you insecure. Love her for her and don't jump to negative conclusions or try to manipulate a desired response out of her to satiate your insecurity, or you surely will push her away. Talk it through, Gems do love talking after all, do they not? ;) That's my 2 or 3 cents on the Can-Gem love dynamics, tho it goes for any relationship. ;P Currently (and only temporarily) me (Scorpio) and my Scorpio friend are renting a place with his mother (a Cancer) and her boyfriend (a Gemini), and even though I go out of my way to avoid the boyfriend – for reasons I’m about to state – every time they are drinking and get in an argument, I hear her hollering my name, asking him why he doesn’t just go talk to me (aka the slut) since he likes me so much and is waiting around for me to come out of the shower just to get a glimpse….. and blah blah blah.

The insecurity is so extreme on her part that she conjures up irrational ideas and reasons to be angry every time something doesn’t go her way, and then proceeds to manipulate and play guilt trips.
She is a pretty dysfunctional person, to say the least… not that all Cancers are, but (and this goes for my kind too ;) ) there can be a tendency to let insecurities take you and your loved ones for an emotional roller coaster ride.

In regards to jealous Cancer and social Gemini… don’t let her interactions with the opposite sex make you insecure. Love her for her and don’t jump to negative conclusions or try to manipulate a desired response out of her to satiate your insecurity, or you surely will push her away. Talk it through, Gems do love talking after all, do they not? ;)
That’s my 2 or 3 cents on the Can-Gem love dynamics, tho it goes for any relationship. ;P

]]> By: Huey http://sasstrology.com/2008/05/cancer-man-wants-to-make-flirtatious.html/comment-page-1#comment-8677 Huey Sat, 20 Dec 2008 00:23:03 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2008/05/09/cancer-man-wants-to-make-flirtatious-gemini-girlfriend-jealous/#comment-8677 Bravo, Geminis ! Only a Gemini can justify flirting while having an affairt at the same time. Geminis indeed have excellent communication skills thats for sure.Lets analyse the real problem here. Cancer man jealous of Gemini Girl flirting. Clearly from this post it appears that flirting is a innocent game to Geminis. But not for cancerians. Being a long term guy, flirting to cancerian are like the initial stages of ultimately falling in love and perhaps getting married some day. Thats what Geminis dont seem to understand why Cancerians are insecure of their partner flirting. To Cancer male, it means their partners are looking for new options and the relationship he is in, is terminal. Bravo, Geminis ! Only a Gemini can justify flirting while having an affairt at the same time. Geminis indeed have excellent communication skills thats for sure.Lets analyse the real problem here. Cancer man jealous of Gemini Girl flirting. Clearly from this post it appears that flirting is a innocent game to Geminis. But not for cancerians. Being a long term guy, flirting to cancerian are like the initial stages of ultimately falling in love and perhaps getting married some day. Thats what Geminis dont seem to understand why Cancerians are insecure of their partner flirting. To Cancer male, it means their partners are looking for new options and the relationship he is in, is terminal.

]]> By: Sal http://sasstrology.com/2008/05/cancer-man-wants-to-make-flirtatious.html/comment-page-1#comment-6861 Sal Thu, 30 Oct 2008 05:27:01 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2008/05/09/cancer-man-wants-to-make-flirtatious-gemini-girlfriend-jealous/#comment-6861 Btw, im not a gemini but my friend is-:) Btw, im not a gemini but my friend is-:)

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