Comments on: Cancer man wants to make flirtatious Gemini girlfriend jealous

By: stormshadow8

stormshadow8 — Sat, 09 Jan 2010 00:25:46 +0000

Wow…I wish I had found this site two weeks ago. I’m a cancer man, and currently have been in relations with a gemini woman for a little over a year. One thing I can tell you all. The Gemini woman is what every man in the room wants. Her personality alone will fill all empty glasses of hope, that you will find true love. She gives you that happiness that you are so happy you came out that night. She is excellent at making the cancer man’s blues go away. However, it will come to terms with the size of your wallet, and the willingness to let go of her flirting ways. A gemini will, deep down, want you to provide for her all the way. Making sure that she has things above and beyond what you can give her. If she thinks there is any room for potential to make herself grow more, then she will find herself into you. If you’re willing to let her free spirit look, and make eye contact with anyone in the room. Then it will work. You have to be willing to forget she is acting like a flirt, and let her live her own life. She’s going to need a little space. A few months ago, we took a short break for a month. Until I saw what was really out there and found myself doing everything I could to win the gemini hearts back. She ended up coming back, for the remainder of last year. We ran into a little problem the last few weeks, and i started to get jealous of how she was acting around other guys. I started to get really clingy. Violent, and lost my cool on a number of occasions. It turned her off. She doesn’t like someone clinging on. She needs room. She needs to be able to spread her energy into the world. Now that the holidays are over, and the fact that there will be nothing more for me to provide her with, I have gotten the taking a break conversation yet again. I have apologized for being possessive, however this time it may be too late to win her back. She doesn’t see anything more that she can gain from me. I have nothing left, because not only did the gemini woman heel my bluesy blue heart, and filled it with love. She also took everything I had in my heart and crushed all my dreams and passions in life. Telling me that she didn’t believe I could ever achieve any of my goals. The gemini has excellent verbal skills. She is always on her feet, and quick witted. Stemming from the way she always flirts in the room. They have issues with commitment. However the cancer man usually always willing to give up everything at a shot of love. Because if you have cracked into the cancer shell, he will be left vulnerable to be taken advantage of. When you hurt a cancer man’s dreams, he is left with nothing. No hope at life at all. My only advice to all of you cancer men out there. Maintain a constant form of mutual communication. Make sure that you continue to be sexually active with your partner. If things come to light, that she is not in the mood you must find a way to keep her interested. Cancer men can tend to be very needy, and very hands on. If you find yourself becoming a little too grabby, and too in the moment let her go. Don’t ever muscle your way into her life. She will run away from that. She wants to remain friends however, and that will be the hardest thing for me to do right now. Because like we all know cancer men are very sentimental, and never forget anything. It’s very hard for both parties to forgive and forget. But if you can do both, and somewhere find that mutual agreement. Then everything will work. Good luck to you all. I’m right there with you.

By: Loura

Loura — Sun, 03 Jan 2010 17:41:54 +0000

I am a gemini girl, its not that we flirt, its that we are great conversationalist we love to share and hear other people view on every and anything. Most time if I like someone i wud not talk to them unless they speak to me first. This is bcuz i wud like 2 know that the person is attracted 2 me first. So if it seems she is flirting she is not, she maybe just talking and being friendly. However most men seems to be very attracted to gemini women since we are very intelligent, down to earth and we can be their best buddy. lol we are very committed once we found the one but we are easily bored, hence we feel the need to do new things which includes meeting new people.

By: chloe

chloe — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 21:47:14 +0000

Here’s a detail that will put this whole thing to rest.

I’m a Gemini female. I only flirt when I’m NOT interested in someone. I DO NOT flirt with a person if I am genuinely interested in them. Why, you may ask? Very simple: We want a man who will fall in love with us for our minds. This is true for every Gemini woman I have ever met. If a Gemini female is flirting with a man she is either bored, trying out her latest new vocabulary addition, or playing with you or testing you (but only if you have played with or tested her). This is perhaps why we have the reputation of being the ‘heartbreakers’ of the zodiac; interest is perceived where none actually exists and men are left wondering “what happened?!”.
So, this is all news to me.

By: LibraLady

LibraLady — Tue, 29 Sep 2009 00:26:58 +0000

LOL, Ive met a few Taurus women that were a force to be reckoned with When their guys did them wrong, it was nasty…..

By: Lola

Lola — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 22:47:35 +0000

I have a Gemini stellium in the 12th house – Sun, Venus, Saturn, Mecury and the Ascendant.

I’ve dated several Geminis and I think I’ve got a pretty good handle on them now.

One thing you do not want to do is play emotional games with a Gemini, you have to be pretty adept at this and believe me, it is not easy to try and get one over on a Gem, no matter how smart and accomplished you think you are (Im a Gem and even I learned this the hard way). If a Gem has been hurt previously, they will be highly sensitive to it and they will know just where your games are coming from and how. They dont need proof of your game playing, they only need to suspect it and its all on, even if you think you’re extremely secure in your relationship they will play back harder, meaner and with emotional detachment and the worst thing is – you wont even know it unless they want you to. So if you plan on trying to make one jealous, be really sure you know what you’re doing because once the damage is done a Gem can walk away and not give you a second thought.

The best thing you can do to secure a Gem is to love them, openly and honestly. Let them grow accustomed to your love and show reassurance by actions as well as words.

Breadtalk said it best “show CONSISTENT care, passion and love to her for she wants to see how true your feelings are to her. Be “visible” every now and then by calling her or texting or seeing her everyday.”

A Gemini has difficulty with intimacy, no matter what they tell you. Feeling emotions deeply is scary for them but once they develop trust for you and are able to trust your love for them, they can be the most loving and loyal people you could imagine and they will begin to be open with it – dont take advantage of it because they will detach from you in a heartbeat. Flirting is a fancy for them, if they are serious about you then they look at flirting as a battle of wits (notice how bored they get when the person they are flirting with starts to get taken in by it).

I dont think there is any other astrological sign that is as intuitive and ruthless as a Gemini except maybe Scorpio. But thats another story, my last long term relationship with a Scorpio was definitely my last relationship with a Scorpio!

By: Kat

Kat — Tue, 05 May 2009 17:12:54 +0000

I had dated with three cancer men and i am a gem girl. Never there is a good ending.
Anyway, the way you can stop her being flirty is simple – ignore her.
Cos i am being ignored now – by a cancer man and i am really hurt.
The colder he is to me the deeper i love him. He’s a prick! Loser!
Anyway, if u need a suggestion that will definitely work for u, i am quite sure.
Stop calling her
Stop texting her
Give her pleasurable sex that she can’t forget (remember, cos she’s a flirt)
Make her jealous by showing her some evidence that you might be dating with other girls

By: Suffering Leo

Suffering Leo — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 04:14:55 +0000

I’m dating a Gemini man and boy is he a flirt. He works in retail and is constantly meeting new people (mostly women) He gives them his phone number and talks to them at work and at home. He says it’s nothing. He is always at home and 99.9% of the time I know where he is or what he is doing. He tells me he loves me and he knows what is good for him. He tells me he is not trying to sleep with any of them, he just likes to flirt and have conversation. Well, it drives me NUTS!! Leo’s can be a bit jealous and no matter how much I try and hide it, my jealously always seems to win. I don’t know what to do. Do I ignore it or leave?

By: Breadtalk

Breadtalk — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 11:03:03 +0000

Good day to everyone, especially to Jeffrey!

I don’t think you can stop your Gemini woman from flirting especially if the relationship had just begun coz her feeling is not yet progressing. However, you should show CONSISTENT care, passion and love to her for she wants to see how true your feelings are to her. Be “visible” every now and then by calling her or texting or seeing her everyday.

Show to her that she is very important to you until she loves you back so deeply.Do not be threatened on what she is doing (like talking to other guys) for she just wanted to see how you react on such, so better show that you are jealous but not totally freaking, huh…

Believe me, in few months, she will be chasing after you!!!

By: sassygirl

sassygirl — Thu, 22 Jan 2009 12:35:41 +0000

well iam a gemini (female) and im in a situaTION similar to this and my advise to you is to not let it get to you she’s goin to flirt its in her nature what human doesnt its normal but to a certain extent if she gets out of line simply tell her how u feel but if u keep going back and forth you going to b left alone, and what i’ve recently found out after dealing with my cancer guy is that cancer men are very jealous and insurcure and have problems expressing themselves and saying how they truly feel about a situation and after seeing what your asking advise on i find that to be true, instead of hiding behind your emotions tell her how u feel instead of holding back , because at the end of the day looks how on her askig for advise you not her she’s out there fliting away

By: Angels

Angels — Sat, 20 Dec 2008 01:58:18 +0000

Currently (and only temporarily) me (Scorpio) and my Scorpio friend are renting a place with his mother (a Cancer) and her boyfriend (a Gemini), and even though I go out of my way to avoid the boyfriend – for reasons I’m about to state – every time they are drinking and get in an argument, I hear her hollering my name, asking him why he doesn’t just go talk to me (aka the slut) since he likes me so much and is waiting around for me to come out of the shower just to get a glimpse….. and blah blah blah.

The insecurity is so extreme on her part that she conjures up irrational ideas and reasons to be angry every time something doesn’t go her way, and then proceeds to manipulate and play guilt trips.
She is a pretty dysfunctional person, to say the least… not that all Cancers are, but (and this goes for my kind too ) there can be a tendency to let insecurities take you and your loved ones for an emotional roller coaster ride.

In regards to jealous Cancer and social Gemini… don’t let her interactions with the opposite sex make you insecure. Love her for her and don’t jump to negative conclusions or try to manipulate a desired response out of her to satiate your insecurity, or you surely will push her away. Talk it through, Gems do love talking after all, do they not?
That’s my 2 or 3 cents on the Can-Gem love dynamics, tho it goes for any relationship. ;P