[ad#link]Micah (view chart) writes,
My girlfriend is of course a gemini, and we’ve been dating for about 2 months. As you know gemini’s are the flirtatious kind, and I can get a little jealous. But i don’t tell her i’m jealous because i know they hate when you tell them to stop flirting. My question is How Can I make my gemini girlfriend jealous?
Instead of making your Gemini girlfriend jealous, why don’t you just work on your own jealousy issues? Her flirting is triggering your own insecurities about how much of a “hold” you have on her. Perhaps you are afraid she will leave you for someone more interesting. You have your Sun, Moon and Venus in Cancer. This Water sign desires security, and with your planets of needs and affection here, you want to be coddled. When you watch your Gemini girlfriend flirt, your feelings may be akin to that of seeing your mother pay attention to your siblings instead of enveloping you in her love 24/7.
Mars, your action planet, is in possessive Taurus. Your impulse is to take what you feel is yours — and forget about sharing! Planetary heavyweights Saturn and Pluto add to your frustration. Saturn squares your Mars from Aquarius. You don’t feel you belong, and this insecurity only fuels your desire to cling to your relationship. An opposition to Mars from Pluto in Scorpio intensifies your jealousy.
Neither Cancerian clinginess nor Taurean possessiveness are attractive to a Gemini. And trying to make a Gem stop flirting is like telling a car it’s not supposed to drive. Just continue to be interesting so that she stays fascinated with you.
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Comment below: Have you ever made a Gemini jealous? If so, how?