From my experience there are three kinds of scorpio men, and I was with one once-however he was the more shy type-and that did not work well for me at all.
I once met one who was the kind who is drawn to the darker side of things-and he instantly percieved me as a threat to him-imagine that.
The end of last last year I met one of the last kind-the strong more agressive one who is drawn to the light, yet does not fear and embraces the dark….just like me. And while we have never met each other-he lives in england-me in the USA, we have this connection that is completely uncanny. We have become very good friends, and have come to trust each other very deeply. More often than not we write to each other and frequently we find that no matter what the subject-we are both thinking the same things-at the same time-totally unbeknownst to the other. We are both as complex as we are simple, and while we share most of the same interests, there are-thankfully several differences. Those differences are a good balance and they tend to compliment each other. One day we will meet each other when he takes a holiday (Brit vacation that is) over here….as he has only been here once when he was still in the British Armed Forces, but never really got to leave the base he was at, and has always wanted to see America.
He is really an amazing person, and I have the utmost respect for him. We have built a very solid friendship, and I know we will get along fabulously when we do finally get to meet one another.
This type of scorpio man has me truely intruiged. I find myself fully attracted to his inner and physical strength. He is so much like me, yet different. It has been quite refreshing to be very honest. That innate intense understanding of each other is kinetic. And we both think that it is a good thing we have had much time to get to become friends and really get to know each other before we ever meet. We have spoken on the phone many times, and once a close friend was concerned about my relationship with him and wanted to talk to him as well-as she felt that she needed to know what his intentions were. We were working together that day, out in the field, so when he called I put him on my speaker phone in the car, and we all had a grand time on that one. Later after the call was concluded-she commented on how both I reacted to him, and how he did to me-she said it was like we had known each other our whole lives and sparks were just flying off the bluetooth-LOL. She also noted it was a bit spooky, and never really could pin down why she felt that way, just that it was a very profound connection between he and I that she could literally just feel in the air.
I told him later about her comments, and we both agreed she hit that one perfectly. Most of the time we can not explain it-so we have learned to accept it and roll with it.
This type of man is completely new to me….as I am to him as well. Neither of us take this lightly, and we both beleive that a necessary caution is the main thing between us. Slow and steady has built a solid and trusting friendship.
While I have never met him in person, we do have lots of pictures of each other, and……he has the most amazing eyes! He says the same of me from my pictures. Noteworthy here-the two previous scorpio men I mention also had “the eyes”, but I have come to beleive the intensity in them is very much dependent upon the individual and the path they walk in life. The shy one-did not have those hypnotic qualities….the “criminal one” did but only to a certain extent. This one has me drawn to him like a moth to a flame-no kidding-really. And he describes me for him the same way. I have always heard it said that the eyes are the window to the soul…..and I think perhaps this may be the most true with scorpios.
Because he and I have built a trusting….truely trusting freindship, we have some very very deep philosophical discussions. And when those discussions to to “us”, it really gets spooky. We have both learned that we can tell each other those things we can not tell any one else. The depths of these intense discussions have really brought both of us to a whole new level of intensity, and a strange inner peace for ourselves respectively. Everyone has some kind of fear deep inside that we dont want to share with anyone. What we have found-and it is so freeing-is that we can over come that with each other, and in turn helps us see, feel and accept everything on an amazing journey we are taking together. We have a tremendous respect for one an another now. And neither of us is afraid the other will “leave” now matter what is ever said. Since we both fully acknowledge that cold and mean tendacy within ourselves, and for each other, it is the ultimate in honestly between us-we can hide nothing from one another. You would think this would drive us away for need of privacy-and at first it did-but we have gotten past that now. We no longer get into heated disagreements because we do understand one another so well….especially our dark sides and what triggers them.
The most difficult obstacle for us is own own willfulness. We both want what we want and will go to great lengths to get it-which has caused many arguments at first, but now we understand how to reach middle ground and still get what we want. When we realized this, life got a lot easier between us-instantly….and has been every since.
Both of us agree we wished would would have met when we were much younger but that it most likely would not have ever worked out, as we both had to go through lifes lessons in order to fully appreciate each other now…..for who and what we are respectively.
Fate does pave the way-whether we want it to or not.
We both know that in each other we have found the ultimate friendship. Where it goes from there remains to be seen….but we both already know the answer to that one, which is why waiting is easy. Our favorite saying….”One day….one day”.
Becasue we are so much alike, we have both discovered that if we “give” what we would want to “receive”, we are both deeply satisfied. How easy is that?!
Is that what a soulmate is supposed to be?
We are both in total agreement that half the battle is won, but the other half and….sorry to say this, but it is so true for us both…the hardest test-and by far the most important of them all is yet to come. That is the physical aspect-for with out that part of the connection, all the rest is merely a great friendship. That is not a bad thing if that is what you seek, and that is all we sought at first. Yet we both know…really know the importance of what has yet to be discovered and experienced. Those who look at this…especially non-scorpios-do not always understand what this means-or how important this part really is, but some do. It is about the natural connection-and how strong that really is. It is the part of the story that can make it…or break it.
That to us is what makes a soul mate.

My Scorp/Libra Venus is the only man I’ve met who is truly into lingerie! Very into art, venusian things and traditional beauty!!

“You are best off respecting his different impulses, instead of expressing needy insecurity about how much he loves you.”

Ture sometimes….Mr. Scorp has a mars cancer, he would love for me to cry about how much I love him sometimes!!