How to Seduce and Get Your Sagittarius Man to Commit
April 1, 2008 by Jeffrey Kishner
The following guest post is by Lisa Saliture.
Calling all Cowgirls! Get your cowboy boots and your lasso ready, you are about to enter the “corral of love” to catch yourself a Sagittarius man, so brush up on your riding skills, and find a comfortable saddle for the ride of your life.
If you have ever dated the archer, you know he is good at dating, but he’s a little tricky to catch. Sagittarius is symbolized by the Centaur — half horse and half man — which clearly gives him the ability to remain independent and roam the planet like a wild stallion, only slowing down long enough for sexual conquests and many short-term relationships.
Sag Man Traits
The zodiac sign Sagittarius is ruled by the largest planet in our solar system, Jupiter, giving this man a flavor of confidence, optimism, freedom and the need to expand his adventures into greener pastures. He loves to indulge in an abundance of adventure, travel, and as many women as possible. His positive attitude and sexy smile are infectious, and can become an instant addiction for the unsuspecting female. The Sagittarius man is a physical creature, and will put 100% of his energy into pleasing a woman in a relationship, using his imagination to make it a wild and tantalizing destination for her.
The Sagittarius man is turned on by an athletic, sexually open-minded woman who has her own friends and isn’t available at his beck and call. He loves a woman who is adventurous, impulsive, and as direct as possible — especially when it comes to sex, since this man thinks of sex as a sporting event. Repetition bores him, so keep him on his toes by keeping him guessing.
Seducing a Sagittarius Man
If a Sag man is attracted to you, he will let you know right away — by being blunt with whatever words he can spit out of his mouth. Unfortunately, his mouth is not connected to the part of the brain which controls tact. Instead, his thoughts go straight to his mouth without anything stopping him — except his foot, after it’s too late. A fun-filled date with a Sag man is the way to capture his heart, and a few activities he is sure to enjoy are: paintball, gambling, sky diving or horseback riding, since his fantasy is to be a rough and tough cowboy. Once you agree on having an adventurous date with a fun-loving Sag man, you are on your way to seducing him into your side of the horse stable for a roll in the hay. Just don’t mention commitment anytime to soon, or he will run for the hills.
Getting Your Sag Man to Commit
Here’s the deal with Sagittarius men — after he has you thinking you’ve finally met the man of your dreams, you literally could end up waiting a lifetime for this guy to actually commit to a long-term relationship. The dilemma for the single female who spots him and wants to lure him into her pasture for the long haul is: How do I get him to commit? This is where your lasso techniques are really helpful. An idealist who sees the silver lining in any situation, the Sagittarius man will take a chance on love, and dive right into romance with reckless abandon. However, he has a keen sense of when to sprint like a bolt of lightning when the words commitment or marriage is mentioned. If you want your Sag man to commit, you will have to deal with his freedom-loving behavior, his wild streak for adventure, and his philosophical, deep discussions about the meaning of life. Your ability to develop patience is necessary. Give him adequate time to understand your goal for a future together. One way to achieve this level of self-discipline is to consider practicing meditation and advanced yoga. These mindfulness and relaxation techniques can help you keep your sanity while hanging with the jovial Jupiter boy.
Here are a few pointers for getting your Sag man to commit:
Love Yourself First
Figure out who you are and what you need in order to have a rewarding long-term relationship. Once you’ve developed your own activities and interests in life, you’ll ooze an air of sexy confidence, which is irresistible to the Sagittarius man. When you find a Sag who rocks your world, you won’t scare him off by being clinging or blaming him for not making you happy. You are the only person who is responsible for making yourself happy. Your confident and independent attitude will help him realize that you are strong enough to leave if you aren’t satisfied with his level of commitment.
Set the Dating Rules Groundwork
When you are casually dating a Sag man, you have to set the dating standards from the beginning. Luckily, Sag loves honesty and cutting to the chase, so laying the groundwork upfront through communicating to him should be a cinch. By explaining what you want out of the relationship, you are letting him know you are not going to casually date forever. The Centaur will realize that you aren’t going to waste your time dating someone who isn’t serious or who wants to keep dating other women. He will listen to your needs if you don’t whine or ignore what he has to say about his needs in the relationship.
Understanding His Needs
It is important to the Sagittarius man that you understand his needs in a long-term relationship vs. a casual dating situation. Being a good listener shows you can understand his point of view. If your goal is to make him happy in a long-term committed relationship, you have to be open to what life has to offer. In other words, come out of your comfort zone and make life an adventure. Spontaneity is the key word for getting this fire sign to commit to you, which means you want to always make time for getaways, show interest and challenge his mind with deep conversations, and be experimental when it comes to pleasing him in the bedroom.
If you remain his best friend, show him that you trust him by willingly giving him a little freedom to do his own thing, and of course maintain the patience of a saint, your Sag man will always return home. When he does finally fall in love and commit, the Sagittarius guy believes in the idea of life-long soul mates exploring the universe together, which makes this fire sign worth waiting for — even if it does take a lifetime of adventure to keep him permanently grounded in your world.
About the Author
Lisa Saliture is a Marketing Communications Specialist and freelance writer. She recently started Astrology Dating Match, a web site that will match singles by using the most compatible aspects of their love planets in their natal charts.
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What’s that photo supposed to be?
a hoof !
I have removed the hoof photo. I apologize for the confusion. I thought it was humorous.
I’m sorry I missed the photo. It must have been great if you needed to remove it
i dont get what was wrong with it. lol. anyway, sagittarius….i am friends with a lot but somehow the buck stops here. reading this i think, unsurprisingly. not really each others styles. i guess the adage is true – opposites clash.
now jeffrey has some computerized image of a horse. Nice!
Sags are cool in my book.
I Love Sags. Fun! Fun! Fun!
Enjoyed he blog. Sag Men are truly the best. As a Sag Woman who has been married to a Sag Man for 32 years, it definitely is an adventure from begining to Present time, and I can say with 100% surety that it is not for everyone! You might also consider finding out his number characteristics before wanting to commit!
Being around Sag men brings out the adventurous, spontaneous side in me like no other sign in the zodiac. I love how when we hang out, there’s no real “plan”; we just go with the flow, and I always expect the unexpected. As far as a committed relationship goes? The Taurus in me hasn’t been able to trust Sag men enough to know they’ll want to settle down with me, but they excite me like no other!
Good Morning. What are some spontanuous sexual things would your reccomend to keep your saggi male interested. Comments are appreciate. Thanks!!!
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Hello everyone…
I am new in this blog…
I am very happy to find this blog and meet other people who also interesting in horoscope…
Anyways…Am an Capricorn girl…and been involved with a Sagittarius man…
We’ve dating since high school (since 5 years ago) and it was an on-off relationship…
I was the one who always broke up with him and he was the one that try so hard to ask me back…n he always did a good job and did all the efforts to win me back…
I wasn’t sure that time that he was the one for me…make it worst, I was falling in love with his best friend who is Pisces man…
But as time goes by, now I realize that he is the one for me…
FYI…we broke up 3 years ago (reason I continue my study in overseas and he stayed back, but also I was not sure that time that I loved him ) and last year I met him again and he was with another girl….
I was the one make the decision for the breaking up and he was pretty upset that time but he just couldn’t say anything…I’ve been always the one took control from the beginning…so when we met last year …I call him right away and ask him to meet me…
He told me that he was with another girl this time (he has been in lot of short term relationship with other girls since we broke up), and I didn’t say anything….but I could feel that he still had feeling with me…
The day after we met, he broke up with his girlfriend and started going out with me again…
We had lots of fun, he can’t help his self to not touching or kiss me…and I also really turned him on…
We talked about our future and he also mention how many kids he wants when we get married…I felt this is really strange…overall we spend much of our time talking about our time in high school and he told me how he wanted to spend much time with me…
During Christmas he asked me to meet his family (uncle, aunty,)…
Now, I am away from him….but we still commit to each other,…
I always told him to not worry about me, coz I am fully committed to him now…
But now I am scared, is he really love me after all I’ve done to him and can he commit to me cause he is kinda guy like flirting around and as I told before that he was with lots of girls after we broke up, now with me being faraway from him, I am worry he might turn back into his old hobbies, dating lots of girls…
Please help me, are we compatible? Is he really love me ??? are we great together ???
Laluna
Wow, interesting. I am a sagittarius female and have the biggest crush on a male sagittarius and he reminds me a lot of my self but man he is taken yet always flirting with me. He does have a big sense of humor and I love it because I do as well, however I am not one to get involved with men who are already taken but I just can’t handle this attracton towards him. He is always flirting with me, though I try hard to avoid him. I get excited just thinking of him. There is chemestry between us big time! I wonder if we are compatible.
Sag man is frustrating, annoying, angering, and worst of all, seductive.
There was a time when I had two back-to-back Sag men who piqued my interests for the same reasons, and ended things for the same reasons.
I suppose I was attracted to both of them for the spontaneity, the adventure, and enthusiasm- for the sensuality and magnetism.
I found that these two men in particular were not fond my intensity- while other men are flattered or intrigued by men, Sag men were completely repelled. As I was unwilling to change who I was, and they equally unwilling to be bound by me, both these affairs were short-lived.
I actually still don’t quite understand the Sag man, and I can’t quite say that my ego is still a little bruised from it all. The Sag man……… ARGH!!
hi i am a capricorn woman and i’ve known this saggi guy for 3 months…i am in a serious long term relation with this other guy and met this saggi guy 3 onths ago thru a networking site and man..we hit it off rightaway…i mean…i have even had problems with my lover for haviing spoken to this saggi guy at weired times…i am jus unable to control my feelings…and it has come to a point wherein i am just not happy with my lover anymore btw my lover is a scorpio…..
so this saggi guy was also attracted to me …i mean we started having intimate talk and mind yu all this was when we haven’nt even seen each other
….but for some reasons he decided our friendship had to end since his parents wantd him to marry a girl of their choice(which is quite the deal in India where we hail from)_…and when he mentioned that to me…i must’ve cried my heart out…and then i emailed him n mentioned how i actually felt for him ..i mean we started having intimate talk and mind yu all this was when we haven’nt even seen each other
please somebody tell me…what to do…i am going crazy ….
this is my email id
sheetalraghavan@gmail.com
i wil appreciate advice
thanks
Oh I found this article V ERY interesting.
“One way to achieve this level of self-discipline is to consider practicing meditation and advanced yoga. These mindfulness and relaxation techniques can help you keep your sanity while hanging with the jovial Jupiter boy”. … DefinitelyHAD TO ! ( I´m Libra with Venus in Scorpio :S ) and it´s working … and it´s worth it.
And the patience of a saint: uhmm the Sagittarious guy: Sun & Moon in Sag + Venus in Aquarius…. some of my friends tell me I´ll be canonized haha.
i recently became friends with a male sag,and by god do we get along! we felt this unbelievable chemistry and fell for each other pretty hard. unfortunately he currently has a partner which hasnt been going too well. so i was thrilled when he said that he wanted nothing more than to be with me. i dont usually get involved with guys who are already taken but what we felt just took over and i couldnt resist him. needless to say this just made him want to be with me even mote! however being the decent he is said that he would have to have a talk with his girlf…they decided to give their relationship one last go. i was obviously devastated and felt incredibly stupid for having fallen for him.
I told myself that if i really wanted to be with him would be to just get on with things,he refused to let me leave his life as i mean a lot to him and we are incredible friends, so i decided to just be patient. Im obviously not going to sit around waiting for him but he has said many times how amazing a relationship with me would be. I guess if we were meant to be then it will happen sooner or later. any advice would be much appreciated as this has all happened in the past month or so!!!
I’m a libra but my venus is in scorpion and that probably tells the reason that I hv problems with my Sag lover. He’s happy that I give him a lot of freedom but he admits he has this commitment issue. I don’t think I can wait for him forever.
Libraf :
I´m a Libra with Venus in Scorpio too. Very difficult Venus for a Libra I know, believe me. To seduce him… easy!! Libra + Venus in Scorpio, he´ll *want you* sexually speaking… you´ll always find ways to have his attention in that area. and you´ll make his life brighter and happier…but ,about you waiting for him to commit, mmm… maybe you have tried not to push him all the time so he feels ok and *free* (ugly word for Venus in Scorpio uh
) and *maybe* this way he´ll decide that he´ll commit? *sigh*…
Of course as a Libra , you don´t want to argue about that, but your Venus in Scorpio will give you heartache and headache when you see that the close and commited relationship you want with him is not happening *yet*. Oh yeah, he´ll think you are very patient and understanding. And it might be difficult to *see* how he feels free and *flirts* with other women cause he´s charming and sexy and funny and many find him very interesting. So you have to *curve* your possible feelings of jealousy and posessiveness, and say *oh, he´s not being serious about that*… and some day he´ll stop that.
And time goes by, and you wait… and maybe, depending on his age,and also where he has his Venus (please don´t tell me in Aquarius!!), he´ll *decide* that he doesn´t want to look for greener pastures anymore. And that YOU and YOUR relationship are what he was looking for. That your love and what you give him are enough to fill his heart and his life.
Or… while you wait patiently, without being clingy,allowing him to be free, without arguments, only true love, a good friendship, lots of care and attention for him, the best sex ever… he´ll *decide* that he´s not ready or prepared for a commited relationship and he´ll start dating another girl, who doesn´t want a committed relationship with him, and you´ll be the last to know, because they don´t give explanations of anything, they are *free*.
I truly hope that the option number one is his choice.
xoxox
ana
HI IM AN AQUA /GIMINI MOON, DATING AN SAGE MEN AND FOR SOME REASON IT IS EXTREMELY HARD FOR ME TO GET HIM TO COMMIT TO A RELATIONSHIP WIT ME .
I never deliberately seduce Sagittarius Men. When they are interested in u, it is obvious to see.
I have dated 2 Sagittarius so far. And I found that we get along very well, even though there is not a single similiarity in our horoscope signs.
I’m a Cancer with Scorpio Moon and rising. It just happened coincidentally that I have dated Sagitt for the past 4 yrs. Never deliberate. Only know until now.
The 2 sagitt that I have dated are:
- Aquarius Moon
- Pisces Moon & Libra Rising.
They always cheer me up. Like a happy Sun setting up in my world. My current bf is the Pisces Moon and Libra Rising.
It is true that they don’t like emotion talks. It turns them off, somehow it gives them burden, they just feel irritated over this kind of thing. I’m quite emotion but don’t rrly express it. That is probably why I can get along with Sagitt.
Another reason why I like them because they are straightforward and express their thoughts without much hesitation. Personally I’m quite insecure and suspicious of other people. With Sagitt, they always talk what they think and don’t rrly hide anything from u. Which makes me more comfortable getting along with them, not worrying that they won’t like me. (Even so, they will probably tell me right away.)
So far for all the Sagitt that i have dated, I don’t find every of them flirtatious at all.
My ex bf – Sagitt with Aquarius Moon – seems to be flirting ard with girls but he’s actually quite loyal. (Especially when they found the one) They can settle down. Even after 2 yrs when I broke up with him, he still claim that he cannot forget about me and said that I’m the one who care for him more than any girls out there. And he regretted not treating me well in the past. *He has violent prob* He even called my friend up trying to patch with me through my friend’s help.
My current bf – Sagitt with Libra rising and Pisces Moon – is imaginative and happy indiv. He’s observant and always take note of details. (I can be careless sometimes) We had been dating for 2.5 yrs and we have been v. happy together. He scares of emotion burden and I do not talk abt inner emotions to him at all. The good thing being with a Sagitt = u can learn to be less emotional and more an explorer in life. I love the pace that he’s taking me along. Although he can be v. lazy at times, but he is quite independent and don’t mind me clinging on/relying on him.
However, be sure that u give him some space/intervals to do his own things. He does not like restrictions.
The sagitt that I have known so far, they are all very bad liars.
U will know once they lie. LOL!
I’ve been dating a sag. since a year, but we still have conflicts. He doesn’t trust me how much he should even though im onest to him and all of his explanation is that he learned how to never trust woman. Last time we spoke about our realtionship, he told me that he has serious intentions with me, like how he see’s us in the future, and how he wants everything with me but he is not ready to get married yet.
i am a sag female dating a sag male. he is the quieter type and im the extroverted kind. we get on incredibly well, and there is a tangible chemistry between us which is amazing. he knows what im going to say and i know what he is thinking. sex with him is amazing. he is free, daring and open-minded just like me. we cant keep our hands off of each other. i love being with my sag man!
I am currently dating a sag. I have known him for a lil over 2 yrs and we have dated since march 2007. as a leo …if i see something i want i usually state claim quick and that gotten me in trouble in the past with bad relationships. so this time i decided to wait it out and my sag man came to me in mar 07 and said your my girl. since then we have dated. then it took him a while to say he loves me and that took me for a shock. but he said it in exactly one year from when we started dating. (not sure if he knows he did that. lol)i have no kids right now and soon to be 34 i am getting that itch to have one but only in wedlock. i want my first tattoo for my bday and my sag man wants me to put it on my pelvis with his initials. (he said because that is where his baby will come from) well i have no ideal how to take that. i am willing to do that for him but ….. how do i know we are going to be long term. he is in the military so therefore we dont spend much time together and it is hard to read him. so….to tattoo or not to tattoo? his initials are easy to change to words…just an fyi.
I met a Sag a little over a month ago. I am an Aquarius. It was interesting reading this article cuz it talks about them wanting to be independent. While this Sag is, he is also boardline clingy. Just when I think he is gonna make me bolt, he backs off just enough to keep me interested. While neither of us are looking for anything serious. I cant help but feel like we are both in denial. LOL We talk every day, all day. “us” is never the conversation, life and just the world as a whole is all we ever talk about. We both are very active and busy, but it seems like when every we get a minute away from our friends we spend it together just relaxing.
Hi,
yes read every ones comments. Definitely it is not the fault of the Sag. guy, not to commit.I read a very interesting story, that says, once one very young boy had sex with his mother and she only waited to give birth to the baby of this act of his innocent child.Soon after giving birth mother became a tree. The baby grew big on his own.Animals helped the baby.Hence the Archers love animals.At that time planetary rular was Julitar, the planet of expansion and blessed these children as the Stars of Heaven and as children of God.Hence they have all noble traits.But modern man has parents to teach them limitations. When u study Natal charts, there are other planets and houses to control our attitude and behaviour.
As a mother is very important to bring up a child and has become an emotionless tree, the Ancients contribute this factor. Father is important to discipline a child, in this case the father was a young child who was busy playing in the nature.We need to study the Genetics, home environment and the school and work environment too. still the planets have an impact on human behaviour.There is nothing much we can do. let time decide and make the conclusions of our future. pl. have patience and play it safe too. Not to hurt others and not to get hurt yourself too. do take care.
Thanx.
I’ve been casually dating a Sag Man off and on for about a year now. He seems like he likes me and would like to bo with me but for some reason he then procedes to NOT BE COMMITED TO ME. We talk about us being together one day but what the hell is that s***…right. I love my sag he is so sweet, charming, and man is the sex full of flames!!! LOL But I don’t get it. I give his ass space, hell i like space (i’m a sag!). Can some one please help me out!? What am i doing wrong?
I can only say that Sagii’s are amazing!! you will fall from day 1. I guess tSagiis do like the chase and the challenge, therefore I recommend anyone who is trying to seduce a sagii is to make them suffer a bit…Dont call them, wait for them to call you, Now once your togther give it your all, Make it a happy time, Laughter is a PLUS!!! Be happy and Make your Sagiii Happy..
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