The following guest post is by horary astrologer Christine N. Davis.
I’ve been a single Sagittarius for a very long time, with one serious relationship and many dates over the years. I wanted to know if a long-term, settled and happy committed relationship is likely for me within the next 5-10 years or so.
I have been out of the dating loop for a while, so my own confidence needs re-building. I have been doing quite a lot of transformation work on myself. And I’ve been trying to affirm my own sexuality in a positive, gentle, feminine yet powerful way, especially now I am leaving the “maiden” phase of my life, and having to get to grips with this.
I’d rather be in a positive, life-enhancing relationship that works through the ups and the downs than be in one for the sake of it which could cause much emotional or psychological angst and worry. I think it’s much healthier to be positive and single,
than to be in a negative relationship.
Also, my Scorpio ex rang me up at Christmastime, asking if I would get back with him. Then I found out that he’d just ended a relationship. He also admitted he’d been on the rebound the first time he and I got together, too. I thought: “On the rebound the second time – I don’t think so!” So I’ve ended that friendship once and for all. And it’s been a liberation.
I’m only wondering now if there will be a future, solid relationship in the offing for me. I am wondering, too, if I have missed out on meeting “Mr. Right” – maybe I’ve walked right past him or worked with him or something and not even realized!
M. says, “Might I meet my Mr. Right?”
There’s a curious quirk about the way some relationship horary charts behave. Your question is perfectly clear about wanting to know about Mr. Right; this chart (view the horary chart), though, mostly wants to talk about Mr. Right Now. Not your Scorpio ex, but your coming-up-next. I’ll show you what this chart has to say about the next guy plus any prospects for the future.
First, the chart shows immediately how important this quest is for you. With such a late degree on the ascendant, it reflects your fear that it may be too late, as you hinted about approaching midlife. Also, the condition of the Moon, representing your emotional side, spells out your stress. Moon is in its fall, in the Via Combusta, and ruled by Mars, the dispositor of the Arabian part of marriage. Your longing for The Relationship is breaking your heart.
Mercury, representing your mind, tells the same tale. It is ruled by Jupiter, which rules this chart’s 7th house of partnership. You want a partner more than anything. Mercury is in its detriment and its fall in Pisces: you feel the lack of partnership keenly.
Mercury, though, has a powerful ally right by its side: Venus exalted in Pisces. Venus represents your feminine powers of attraction, and in Pisces, it’s truly a depiction of the sacred feminine: positive, yet powerful. Both Mercury and Venus are in the angular 10th house, and planets that are angular are well situated to go out and get what they want. Venus wants The Relationship too, and she’s in the best shape of all three of your planets (Mercury, Moon, Venus). Whatever you’re doing to enhance your femininity and sexuality… keep on doing it, it’s working in spades. And when you go out, let Venus do the talking.
In the near future, I do think you’re on track to meet someone; again, not necessarily Mr. Forever, but someone to enjoy and to let off some of the “where’s-my-relationship” steam. Mercury (that’s you) applies immediately to sextile Jupiter (that’s him) in just under five degrees. Taking five degrees for five months, and accounting for the fact that I received your question in late March, I believe that you’ll meet your next boyfriend by the end of this summer.
Is he long-term relationship material, though? I think you’ll be the best judge of that as you get to know him. He looks marriage-minded, anyway, and willing to play the sacred masculine to your sacred feminine; but I wouldn’t necessarily make long-term plans with him. Not all our relationships are meant to last, though; we can be on the train for the destination we want, but there’s nothing wrong with (and lots to gain from) taking a delightful detour in various charming towns along the way.
What about the long-term view? From this chart, I honestly think you are destined to make it happen. Following the horary rules to answer, “Will I ever meet The One?”, everything I come up with says, yes, yes, of course, yes.
M., your femininity is the source of your greatest strength. You do contain a core of feminine beauty, archetypically so. Work it, use it, and don’t let the unproven theory of “I’m too old, it’s too late” stop you from boarding the train of love at any station you like.
Thanks so much for asking. My best wishes to you!
About the Author
Christine N. Davis (askchristine.wordpress.com) offers traditional horary astrology readings. Her writing has appeared in The Mountain Astrologer. For private consultations, visit her website at www.askchristine.info. If you would like Christine to consider your question about relationships for Seduction Central, email her at firstname.lastname@example.org.