Questions for Love Advice Needed
I have decided start a love advice blog that does not utilize astrology. It will feature my usual brand of profound psychological insight and quirky humor, without all the New Age HooHah. Please submit your love advice questions and I may be able to answer them on my new blog. In fact, I’m more likely to answer them there than here, because I have to create lots of quality content for it before I even announce its name and web address. The only downside is that I will disregard any questions that mention taboo words like Scorpio and Uranus. But most of the advice I dole out here doesn’t rely on astrology anyway — I only use the fancy words to make myself sound smart 
Please use the link above to submit your question — don’t ask your question in the comments section. Thanks!
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I tend to believe that I’m not naive about men, since I’ve dealt with every kind imaginable in my 38years of life, but even still, I’m amazed at the way some men behave.
Recently, I met this gorgeous guy online on one of the top dating sites. He sent a “wink” to me showing his interest, and the next day he emailed me wishing me a Happy Valentine’s Day. It was a nice surprise, since I wasn’t dating anyone seriously.
So, we started emailing, and getting to know eachother, and after about a week, he called me the first time at 1:30AM on Sunday. I didn’t answer because I was sleeping, and I figured it would have been liquid courage talking for him.
So, he waited to call me until the following Saturday, and ended up calling me 4 times that night, and left several messages telling me he was very interested in me, and wanted to meet for dinner.
Well, I didn’t answer my phone that night, because I was actually on a date with someone else that night. I sent a quick text on my way home from the date, saying yes, I’m still interested in you, let’s talk tomorrow.
Anyway, he called the next night, and the Tuesday after making sure I understood he was interested, and wanted to confirm that I wanted to meet him somewhere for dinner that coming weekend. I said yes, and was really excited.
Three days later, I emailed him some ideas about where we could go to meet for dinner, and blah blah blah. No response.
The next day was our scheduled date, and by 3pm I had not heard from him. So, I left a nice text message and asked if he was planning on meeting tonight, and if not, no big deal. Just let me know, so I can make other plans.
He did respond quickly, and said he just couldn’t do it because he wasn’t ready to get back into the dating scene, and said he was sorry.
He had mentioned earlier that week after I asked about his longest relationships he had, and he mentioned his last girlfriend, who he dated last year. She moved to California, and it didn’t last after about 6 months, because of the distance. He said he was ready to move on. He also admitted he did miss her still.
My question is – after canceling our date, which wasn’t a big deal to me, but the thing is that he hasn’t contacted me, or responded to me at all in the past two weeks. I called once, and emailed once,(friendly, brief conversation) and no response at all.
Why would he still be on the dating site if he’s not ready to date, and why would he not choose to work on a friendship with me if he was so interested in me a few days before our first date???? I just don’t get it. I really need a male opinion of how to handle this. If I leave him alone, will he eventually contact me when he’s ready, or did our one moment to meet pass, and that’s it?
Lisa, thanks for your question. After you asked, I added to the post above that I’d like readers to ask their questions via the form to which I linked. I will consider your question for the love advice blog.
Now you’re talking Jeff.As you know I love astrology–but most people need to know something more too.
Good luck to you.
I do know.
I write love and sex advice almost every day of my life.
Jeffrin, I was wondering where is this new blog of yours?
I saw you have a questionaire or form with which to ask questions, but where is the actual blog?
Proserpine
@Karen, since when was I “Jeffrin”? I’m not telling – yet – where my new blog is. It’s going to be a surprise.