Comments on: Possessive Scorpio man doesn’t want Aquarius woman to have friends

By: grace..

grace.. — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 17:47:27 +0000

I’m from da water..n i juz left my scorpio a couple of days ago..da s*** i’m reading is crazy..sounds like my dude..xcept..i won’t b toyed w..no matter how much it burns,hurts,drives me nsane..i’ma let him go..he is used to letting women go..but he met his match w me..cuz i am stubborn juz like him..i show no weakness..as an aquarius..it would b such a disaster to go crawling bak..it would only give him more power..i’m very beautiful..n i gave him my all..but i don’t have time for games..n neither should any other woman..it hurts ladies..but juz like they came..others will come..he wants to act like he is strong,but he called me the other day crying..guess wat ladies?? they r human…me too..dats y i cry..i guess i didn’t cry on da fone cuz i was all cried out..lucky for me..dats would have been horrible..lol..but i juz told him i hope he can figure himself out someday….told him i loved him..n hung up..dat was hard..but i ain’t looking to keep getting hurt..i’m a very outgoing..cheerful..happy person..sometimes he would juz look at me n said he wish he could b like me…but i tell u wat…i neva want to b like him..i read dey r stalkers…i guess we will c..after all…he said i was da best….:)(to b continued)

By: Eshaan Infotek

Eshaan Infotek — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 12:46:15 +0000

We are EXTREMELY possessive and do have a tendency to want to “lock away” those people and things that we care about and love-at least, when talking about unevolved scorpio men. Do more research into the sign of scorpio and you will find that there are actually several different symbols for the scorpio. The most common are the Phoenix, Eagle, and Dove. The most powerful tool that a scorpio has (male or female) is transformation. When a scorpio decides to change something about him or herself, they act out in their lives something metaphorically akin to the legend of the phoenix. A phoenix will make its nest of flammable materials, lie down smack dab in the middle of it and set the whole thing ablaze, burning its nest and itself to ashes. However, as the legend continues, the phoenix will then be reborn from the ashes more splendid

By: Hurtin Scorps

Hurtin Scorps — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 14:39:12 +0000

Is there any other Aquarius woman out there who are married and dabble in romance and sex with other guy / friends / who are cool with that..

And or is there anyone who would definitley cross that. line..in fantasy

By: Hurtin Scorps

Hurtin Scorps — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 14:37:39 +0000

im in love still with a married aquarius woman. She loves having romances still even when married.. Anwyay she fell into lust and daze over another guy and it bothers me..I need to realize she is married ..yet the fantasy and hot sex with her ugggghh would be sooo good .. I guess i want to get hit by lightning

By: the countess

the countess — Thu, 01 Oct 2009 03:51:31 +0000

oh tonnnyyyy – you should be hanging out on the “how to know a scorpio doesnt love you” thread on here. I know theres at least TWO of us aqua women going bananas over you scorps. Essentially what it seems to come down to is the weird and bizaare meeting the mysterious and disturbed. Hahaha. You can figure out which side is which.

By: Tony71

Tony71 — Thu, 01 Oct 2009 02:39:35 +0000

Man reading all this and that’s me! I’m a scorpio and I have recently met this girl who’s a aquarius. After reading about the auqarius sign and I wonder can we even be in a relationship??

I was in a relationship with a aries and it was amazing but at the same time we argued alot, I do admit most of it was my fault, being controlling, playing mind games. I would hold things inside but when it got to the point I threw the emotions at her. And the sex, well that was simply amazing! We argue then instead of kiss and make up, it was sex and make up. lol

I know once I fall for a girl its all or nothing, I do take care of them but sometimes I think maybe that is what makes the other person push away because paying to much attention or putting them on a pedestal.

Anyways, any advise for a scorpio guy on dating a aquarius girl would be appreciated. I think my 5 year relationship with aries has taught me to try and be calm and not to get jealous for stupid reasons.

It’s hard but I’m learning.

By: Aquarius Angel

Aquarius Angel — Sun, 13 Sep 2009 11:24:17 +0000

Hey I am an Aquarious in a relationship with a scorpio and have been for nearly a year now… although 1st 6 months we were just seeing each other – “not dating” was never allowed to be called this!!!

My scorpio does have these funny lil traits – not possesive or looking at my stuff or not allowing me to have friends or anything – as we trust each other so no need to be, but does have his own emotional things….. BUT hey so do I!

As an aquarian, I love attention so when a bloke isnt given me enogh, sometimes you have to wonder is it really not enough or is it I just need a ridiculously unnormal amount of attention sometimes, theres two people in a relationship and you so can not slate the men all the time, its a two person thing…. in fact back when we were jsut seeing each other… but not dating! I was just as bad as he was, if he saw his friends out and they made a comment about us, I would be the first person to announce that there was nothing going on with us EXCEPT friendship – mainly as I wanted to show my independance and the fact I didnt need him, secondly for pride in case he said it, if i didnt say it first…. so you wonder why these men have issues too!

By: aqua girl

aqua girl — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 22:07:22 +0000

Heh there everyone im an aquarius girl in a relationship with a scorpio man we have been in a relationship for about 8 months now. Everthing written here about scorpio men sounds so much like my guy he is very possessive but in a caring way and it feels nice to have someone want u that much. He is a private person but he needs to know everything about me he will even read my emails but wont let me see his but i dont mind because i have nothing to hide. He has met my family lots of times but didnt introduce me to his for a long time i practically asked him every day if i could meet his family. Since then i have nly met them a few times but he has introduced me to his friends and he does like to show me off. But i wudnt get too close to his friends beacuse he would get very jealous.

This relationship hasnt been the easiest because of his intensity of his emotions i like to think of this as him fighting with his emotions give him a minute to calm down and he will be back to normal again. Sometimes he thinks im crazy but thats just my aquarius personality and he looks at me as if im mad its hilarious!

I do love my scorpio man hes so passionate, caring and mysterious. His look is quite intense almost hypnotizing. He will look totally calm and composed but be careful as underneath this composure he could be ready to erupt so dont get on his bad side. When he loves you he will spoil you like a princess.

The love making is amazing he is always thinking about my pleasure and isnt afraid to try new positions. Scorpio rules the genitals so they have a strong sex drive.

I think our relationship works because i have scorpio rising in my sign and alot of my friends are also scorpios. I let him know if i think hes being too emotional or jealous. I think he has got used to me having lots of friends.

Good luck to any other aqua girls who are in a relationship with a scorpio

By: campbellscorpio

campbellscorpio — Wed, 22 Jul 2009 05:41:36 +0000

WOW Really? Are we that bad? I like what this guy wrote I have something very similar written on my myspace page. Let me further elaborate, If you are dealing with a young/drug using scorpio you probably don’t want to further pursue that relatioship. UMMM Some body said something about scorpios and fire signs? I just happen to love leo women, and have experienced nothing but fairy tale romance, and legendary sex. Unfortunately things happened, not the right time I guess, but we are still friends, and when we look back on our relationships we have no problem admitting how great they were. The whole friends thing is crazy. You should find a scorpio MAN, and not a BOY. Thats the difference. I personally enjoy when my girl goes out, because it means I can hang with the guys, and do guy stuff. Guy friends are no problem, but I want to meet them. I think that’s just being respectful. Also we are men we know what men do and want. Men will be your friend for real, or they will be that snake in the grass that’s waiting for you to get in a fight, so they can be that shoulder to cry on.
I want to help you better understand scorpios. We understand how things work, we study life, we notice every thing, and hardly forget a word. Maybe it can be a problem because sometimes you tell a story and leave certain things out, and we hear that story again and those certain things come out, and then we are like “huh?, thats not what you told me before”.
The jealousy thing can get a lil crazy, but you have to find a scorpio that has come to terms with his weaknesses. I know my jealousy has cost me some great relationships in the past, but now i better understand life. I realize that if I want to have a great woman I have to be patient and understanding, and I can’t be selfish by burdening my lover with my own insecurities, But am I jealous? Yeah scorpios are machismo WE ARE MEN we get jealous… So what everyone gets jealous!!! We are less afraid to show it. I’m a jealous guy!!! If i see you flirting with another guy I’m going to walk over squeeze the crap out of his hand, and kiss you on the lips. Then I’ll walk away, but you better believe I’m going to let this guy know who I am lol and if he gets carried away I’ll let you handle it, but if you don’t you are just being disrespectful. Thats when I get jealous, and thats why to me it’s more of a respect issue.
I can tell you one thing though, not speaking for all scorpios just myself, i know your favorite movie, I know your favorite flowers, I know where to rub your back when you say it’s sore, I know your favorite candy, I know what makes you happy, and I know exactly what to do/say to make you smile when you are having a rough day, and if anybody messes with you i’ll handle it.
Next for those of yo whos man isn’t introducing you to his friends or family don’t pin that on scorpios. These are guys that are players, and they are playin you. If I’m with a woman I am definitely showing her off. We have egos and they are pretty big lol I want my friends to see you…. trust me… I’m showin you off…. to everybody and everyone like “yeah you like that, she’s with me”, I’m askin all my friends what they think, and I’m acting like i’m the man, and as long as you let me have that you can have whatever you want. I mean really I was reading comments about being treated like a princess, and honestly thats what i want you to feel like. She really hit the nail on the head. I study massage therapy, cooking, tantra, the art of listening, acupressure, you name it. If I knew you liked roses I would learn how to grow roses. Thats what a scorpio brings to the table, and yeah it’s intense.
Truth is if you are a young woman, and you are unsure about what you want, You definitely should not date a scorpio. Things have a way of spiraling out of control with us. One day it’s a casual fling the next day you’re talkin about marriage. I can’t say if it’s a scorpio thing or not, but I swear I have had those magical romantic moments that people spend there lives dreaming about, and I’ve spent whole nights laughing about the dumbest things ever.
Well i’m done now lol Just defending the scorpio name. I hope you can make it through my random stream of consciousness, and possibly make some sense out of it. nov,1,1981

By: scorpion eagle

scorpion eagle — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 23:25:06 +0000

Wow… Scorpio guy here… before you run just let me say I agree with you about scorpio men. We are EXTREMELY possessive and do have a tendency to want to “lock away” those people and things that we care about and love-at least, when talking about unevolved scorpio men. Do more research into the sign of scorpio and you will find that there are actually several different symbols for the scorpio. The most common are the Phoenix, Eagle, and Dove. The most powerful tool that a scorpio has (male or female) is transformation. When a scorpio decides to change something about him or herself, they act out in their lives something metaphorically akin to the legend of the phoenix. A phoenix will make its nest of flammable materials, lie down smack dab in the middle of it and set the whole thing ablaze, burning its nest and itself to ashes. However, as the legend continues, the phoenix will then be reborn from the ashes more splendid and far wiser than before.

I used to be the kind of scorpio male that all of you have been talking about. But somehow I stumbled across astrology (funny how things just “happen”) and found that my sign doesn’t have the greatest reputation amongst the others. At first, my stinger rose and my pincers tensed, ready to strike; but then something happened. I asked myself, “what if they’re right?” And after some classic scorpio alone time, where I spent my off hours examining myself and all of my life’s experiences, especially my actions and reactions within them, I found that these others were indeed correct. HUMILITY was one of the toughest things for this scorpio to learn. I used to fight to the “death” every battle, no matter how insignificant, even if I new I was wrong, just to win and prove my point. Now I completely despise any and all unnecessary drama, and I find that more often than not, people want to learn there own lessons through their own life experiences. It doesn’t matter one iota if I am right in telling them how a certain situation is most likely to play out quite different than they hope. They must walk down that path of lesson on their own to teach themselves the same wisdom. PATIENCE is definitely a virtue and I am learning that even if you know the answer to someone’s question, sometimes it is better to say, “I don’t know”, offer them a loving smile, and let them walk down the path to become their own teachers.

What I am tryin to say is that these scorpio men are spiritually and emotionally young. But once they learn to turn that analytical scorpion eye inward, and begin working on themselves with brutal honesty, you will be AWE-STRUCK at how far they will go. Its much like a train: takes forever to build momentum, but once it gets going, LOOK OUT!

There are general characteristics that all scorpios will display, such as the ones you have encountered. We get A LOT of bad press, which doesn’t help our situation much, but we are the sign of extremes. We can and are usually the worst of the worst, but we have the ability to become the best of the best.

I used to hate aquarians because the old me could never, and I mean NEVER, get one of you caught in my emo web ; ) But I have since learned that I need to learn detachment from my DEEPLY POWERFUL emotions in order to manage them appropriately… And guess who I am taking my observational lessons from? You guessed it, my aquarian friends. They have so much to teach me about this subject and I just can’t get enough. In return, I teach them the value of deeply felt emotions and how they can and do inspire oneself to attain the highest of heights and conquer mountains. But of course, as an aquarian, the desire to do so is completely up to you… : )

Don’t worry about the scorpio mood swings too much. That’s just part of the scorpio package and we know we’re moody. Just give us some space and check in once in a while to find out when we’re done processing and are ready to come back out into the world again. Oh, and don’t ever take a scorpios emotions for granted, no matter how out of place they may seem. Honor them and let the scorpio vent (try not to laugh). Later, when they calm down, you can both have a good ole chuckle at the hilarity of it all.

Much more I could say but I’ll leave it there… g2g. Peace my aquarian friends. Don’t rip me too hard!