Comments on: Capricorn boyfriend and his business partner: Are they just friends?

By: Leanne

Leanne — Thu, 03 Sep 2009 01:01:03 +0000

LOL “They sleep in the same bed but dont touch” Come on!! WAKE UP, I feel like I should slap you (if I could do that virtually). Leave him, its clear he’s cheating on you and you are so easy to lie to (I can tell from your letter).
WAKE UP AND SMELL REALITY.
People are different, just because they were born on a certain date and they happen to be a capricorn, that does’nt mean they fall exactly under that type of personality profile. You cant just categorise people, there are a lot of factors that make us who we are.

By: badnoozbetty

badnoozbetty — Fri, 28 Mar 2008 06:07:00 +0000

haha Cap dude done pull the goatie wool over ur eyes itchy itchy whatever turns ur crank girl but ur the one he loves maybe tainted love aint so bad

By: Christine

Christine — Thu, 27 Mar 2008 11:50:00 +0000

@Hannah – I agree, it does sound insensitive… at best.

@Karen – you’re right! Nobody likes to be told “you have to change for me.” I liked the way you put it: be firm, straightforward, and loving.

By: Karen

Karen — Thu, 27 Mar 2008 06:15:00 +0000

Virog woman dating a Capricorn who is close friends and actually sleeps in the same bed with his friend and business partner.
I believe it--he does not love her as he does you, and I doubt he sleeps wiht her in a sexual way--I doubt her ever has, or , if so, it was a long while back.
I have men friends I've been close withlike that, and I know men that have women friends that live in their homes etc--no sex no romance or intrigue or even "thoughts"..
However--if you and he are that close now, and your guys business partner friend lives wiht her boyfriend then it is time for this to stop.
It *is* difficult when the best freind is the opposite sex, because what does one do when one or both get serious with someone else?
But I agree with Christine who wrote the article.

I think we just have to speak up.
No--not"I think you're just awful, stupid, and wrong".But we have to say something like "I feel too uncomfortable with it, even though I know what the situation is".
I am *sure* he would not be so thrilled if you slept in the bed wiht your best guy friend.
I've seen this type iof thing become an issue, no one wants to be confronted made to feel like a bad child, or told they even have to change.
But it may very well have to.
Think of how you'd prefer to be spoken wiht if it was you, and do that--be firm, straightforward, and loving..

By: Hannah

Hannah — Tue, 25 Mar 2008 18:54:00 +0000

AUGH.

That is totally unacceptable. In my humble opinion, that is. Even if he isn't "doing anything" that is still unacceptable, insensitive behavior.

Oye vey!!!!