Air signs like to talk things out — yet the three members of this clan do so in vastly different ways. Take, for example, Libra and Aquarius. Libra talks as a way of building a one-on-one connection, and one of her prime assets (as well as liabilities) is being able to view an issue from multiple perspectives. This understanding helps her to moderate between opposing parties, and suits her well for careers in mediation, law and public relations. However, this ability to balance the scales can work against her in her personal life, for in trying to please everyone, she may neglect her own needs.Aquarius, on the other hand, approaches relationships from a more detached perspective. The Water Bearer is friendly, to be sure, but in a more impersonal way than Libra. Aquarius talks to spread ideas through the collective, as his ultimate purpose is to improve the lot of humanity. He has fairly fixed ideas, and thus is less able to be swayed by someone else’s viewpoint. He feels confident that his ideas are revolutionary, yet he also feels misunderstood because so few embrace his vision. This sense of alienation can make him unyielding in discussions.
What happens if you put Libra and Aquarius in a romantic realtionship? As much as these two Sun signs are compatible, they have their differences. Libra, being an initiating cardinal sign, will attempt to resolve their problems, yet Aquarius can be so stubborn in his belief of “how things should be” that Libra — able to get where he’s coming from — jumps off the fence (where she lives much of the time) to his side.
After having compromised numerous times, Libra’s anger starts to build up. This Venus-ruled sign may be refined and polite, but everybody gets angry! Libra just has a hard time owning and expressing it. After all, Libra is opposite from Aries, the Warrior, who has no problem blowing off steam. As Aries is direct, Libra can express her anger indirectly. For example, if she does not want to agree with Aquarius but also does not want to be upfront about it, she may use indecision as an act of defiance.
Comment below: Share your Libra-Aquarius relationship experiences.
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Great post Jeffrey! You are really taking the air out for a walk lately and I really think thats rad!!!
My husband has his venus in libra and I have my venus in aquarius..I laugh because when we talk about our relationship or when he is expressing his romantic love he is so typical libra. He uses the word “balance” every five minutes!! “we need to have a balance, this needs to be fair” and of course, I am like…”I researched this entire thing, I know it it’s insides, outsides and all sides and darn it, it’s this way!!”
But his libra really makes him unafraid of having a unique relationship that aquarius requires, which is good.
One of our major sticking points is the space issues. I think his libra feels the need for the presence of his “second half” a great deal and because I’m in love I feel free. I enjoy my love as not having to babysit it and go off in my head. When I do this for longer amounts of time, it drives him nuts. His mars in cancer makes him a passive-agressive warrior. He has to give it up because I am too airy “dense” to notice or too detached to care (moon and mars in aqua). We ususally have to fall back on our air to talk it out.
Ah yes the water bearer. I dated one for 7 months and that was more than I could bear. I rolled with the spacyness and stubborn for the sake of being stubbor-ness for as long as I could. Air signs are still great for one minute they are in lala land and then next they are zeroing to the bottom line of whatever issue is at hand. Fabulous. Great feed back. 2 Snaps for you Jeffrey.
coolness. i never got 2 snaps before.
thanks, angelineelise. It’s nice to hear a real-life example of libra-aquarius in action.
I am a Libra in love with an Aquarius… We both have aries rising, which makes for an interesting dynamic. It is certainly true that I tend to dither a bit more than him (and also like things to be more planned and organised), but in general, this is a soul mate relationship, a meeting of heart, mind and body that I had only ever dreamed of before. Simply wonderful.
yay!
yes, great insights. i’m a libra and i never even *really* considered the fact that my agression is passive and hesitant/indecisive… you caught me!!
i’ve been dating an aquarius/pisces cusp for 3 1/2 months (i’m a libra/scorpio cusp) and i literally just broke it off with him today. there is too much friction and misunderstanding between us, it is maddening and i can’t see myself devoting my future to him at all. i feel there is someone else awaiting..
some of our reasons for conflict:
- he is sag rising, i’m scorpio rising.
- he has a gemini moon, i have a taurus moon.
-his jupiter is aquarius, mine is pisces.
our conflicts are very emotional and drawn out, often about his politics vs. my spirituality, his stubborn intellect vs. my more emotional/artistic ways of communicating.
i wish the best of luck to other aquarius/libra couples, however.. my mother and father are a libra/aquarius couple married for nearly 35 years and still together loving one another! it can work
by stopping from reading horoscopes crap.
By using the libran ability to compromise, to understand where hes coming from.
But also, using his preference for space and certain detachment, to help build up their own independance, and maybe learn not to wear their heart on their sleeve!
Im a libra beginning to think so much passion all the time is such an unstable way to be. the ups and downs outweigh the periods of balance for me…maybe this aquarian man can give me some stability with his aloofness. Maybe i could use the space.
i’m a libra who met and was instantly drawn to an aquarius boy last march. within 2 weeks we were hanging out several nights a week. great sharing. great talking and honesty. within another 8 weeks we had finally decided to try dating after kissing one night (surprise for me!). things were amazing. we had plans to travel together after the election (we were both campaign workers). by the time my birthday rolled around the first week of october, things were colder than the fall air with us. he just completely pulled away. after the election i found out from a 3rd party that he had slept with another woman in september and gotten her pregnant. she decided to keep the child (of course he’s now about the be a dad). they are not together. he and i have barely seen each other in the last 6 months (we hooked up NYE and then had an argument 2 weeks later). the 2 times we’ve seen each other since have been this month (May). I’ve had progressive dreams about him EVERY NIGHT for 3 months. he acts friendly enough the past 2 times but never responds to IM’s i send (platonic always). he acts like he wants to be friends but can’t seem to get it together to actually do that. he told a mutual friend that it about killed him to be so cold to me last year but it was the only way he knew to drive me away so he could deal with his messes.
this guy, while he is a young soul and very repressed emotionally, totally has some karmic connection with me but i don’t know how to connect with him right now. i don’t want to be angry at him anymore. i miss my friend in him. how do i get past his aquarian frigidity???
i am an aquarius man in love with a libra women, she is my everything and will always be. i find so much in common with what this insitefull piece has showed me.thankyou for my reassurance of my wonderful relationship with my love ashley
Great post!
I am absolutely IN LOVE with the libra/aquarius combo. Whether its a frienship or something more, in my opinion, this is truly a surreal match.
My Best friend is an aqua, we do everything together,and i always find myself in the most halarious/unusual/exhilarating situatios when im with him.
It seems we’ve become too good of friends to take that “offical” plunge into a relationship. We’ve joked about it (but over drinks of course.Cant get emotion out of an aqua any other way
) and I think we’re both afraid of ruining what we’ve built up.We have almost a psychic bond, its unreal how we seem to be so well suited for eachother, on every level. He’s such a typical aquarius and im the typical libra. Dont think id want it any other way!
We hardly ever fight/argue, but when we do- i find myself hopping off the fence into his side of the yard, trying to save face. Though i ll admit, when i know im right, i can usually persude him to see things my way
and the issue is usually gone as fast as it appeared.
I love air signs, i find there is a respect level there, and a level of maturity that can always be found. Thanks for the great insight.
Okay, Aquaman is trying to come back — this time, after a month long “pilgrimage” — whereabouts unknown. (See previous posts on “Aquarian Man Acting Distant” page — we have been in a long distance for about a year, he gave me a ring after two months, I’ve been trying to relocate to his state, he says he knows that I am the love of his life but the way that he goes AWOL drives me nuts.) Anyway, love him to pieces, know that we are probably soulmates, yada, yada but this disappearance thing is offending my Libran sensibilities and I’m getting sick of it. (Personally, I don’t mind having more time to myself and I’m not the clingy/needy/snooping type at all, but I feel like he takes me for granted, knows I’ll always be there etc. and, hey, I want to teach his a** a lesson.) Need to hear from all the Aquarian men out there. What’s up? What did it take to finally get you to “act right”? With any other sign, I’d probably give him a healthy dose of his own medicine, disappear myself for a while and know with certainty that the light bulb would go off and he’d come to his senses. However, all the stuff I’ve read on here about Aquarian men not being jealous and being able to rationalize love and move on without a second thought gives me pause. I don’t want to loose him but I am not going to be in a relationship with someone who blurs the line between freedom and lack of respect. In the words of our president, I feel like this is a “teachable moment.” (LOL — had to laugh at that, sorry.) Other vital stats: he’s Aqua Sun but cuspy with Capricorn; Moon in Libra; Venus in Capricorn, Mars in Aries. Me: Libra I; Virgo rising; Moon in Gemini; Venus in Leo; Mars in Leo. Thanks for any feedback — think I might post this in the other Aquarian man post(s) as well.
Whenever Ive argued with Aquarius men, its been more like an exchange of wit and sarcasm, both congratulating eachother on “good comeback” It was never a real fight, just like a verbal joust, like mutual practice, always waiting for the others comment. I really enjoy talking with Aquarius men they can insult you and make you feel better at the same time, its hard to describe
BTW I’ve never had a problem with blowing off steam. I don’t use indecisiveness as protest, when I have a problem with someone, I tell them. We all have a fuse, rub me the wrong way and you won’t get silence, I assure you
All this “libra indecisiveness and/or lack of temper” is a myth….
Ive never had a problem deciding anything in my life….
And not all Aquarius men are genuis either. Some probably are but not all. I enjoy conversations with aquarians, they have all sorts of things to say that help you feel at ease but a Libra doesn’t always rely on one to help her decide things, another myth….. When a crisis hits my house, I know what to do right now, Im not a flake and I can solve problems very quickly. Everyone just mistakes our thinking outloud as indecision, we are extroverts, remember. We just think outloud. HOw many other people of other signs are struggling on this site right now trying to decide what to do with their relationships? NOT ALL Libras…. intersting isn’t it?
My Aqua guy and I had our first verbal exchange a couple days ago, it was not like the fights I had with my Libra ex, I found it very hard to stay angry with him, and after he explained what he had really meant by the comment that ticked me off, I realised that it was a misunderstanding. He even found a way to make it up right away, leaving me to feel very silly…After I thought about it after, I have more respect for him now, he took the time to explain himself. Its amazing how communication can put out a fire at first spark.
I am a libra women in love with a aqua man, we met online and have been together for about 4 months. In the beginning things went slow. it took 3 dates before he even kissed me. i was beginning to think he saw me more as a friend. it was hard, being a libra i require lots of love and attention and he is not like that at all. I;m so in love with him and he says he loves me too, but i feel he is in his own world and i’m left out. i try having lots of deep discusions about how i feel and where this relationship is going. but he still acts like a friend. we have this weird chemistry that is hard to explain. we now live together and things are good except the attention thing, he is very touchy and holds my hand however we barely kiss and even make love. it is very confusing i only hope things improve and i really feel we can build a great life together. we never argue. I heard aquarius men need space i hope this is true and i don’t ruin things.
We don’t argue anymore when we disagree, it’s gotten worse then that now, we cry…. He keeps making me cry with those sad eyes every time I think I’m mad at him he looks so hurt that I lose it…… Yet he accuses me of making him cry with my pout..I don’t even pout….Is there some strange cosmic force changing us?
Anyways it used to be so much easier to get mad and stay mad……I hate being emotional
im a libra i have an aquarian wraped around my fingers. he’s cool we been dating for three months now.he told me he loved me 2 days after we met.he’s always asking me what did i put in his food.like in put something in there to make him fall in love with me.any way im a detacted libra i dont like people all in my space up in my place or in my face for too long and that drives him crazy.so he came to vist me one day at my house and then i didnt see him for three weeks.he should of never pulled that stunt.of course being the srong black woman that i am i dint call because i really didnt care.lol he call me all up set asking me why i din’t call to see if he was allright.and i told him the phone works both ways.and i havent had a disapiring act out of him sence.
My Aquarian fiance and I never argue, and thats in 6 months of sharing eachothers company at least 4 times a week. We talk on the phone everyday. He always calls right when life is getting frustrating and makes me feel better. The other day he said something I did’nt understand and after he explained it I seemed to be the only person in the room that understood that he had said something nice, everyone else was mad (?) A day later there was a misunderstanding and he wasn’t mad at me, which I would have deserved.(I would have been mad at me) He is the kindest person that I’ve ever met. I don’t think I could be mad at him. He fixes everthing when it comes to feelings. He always knows how to make everything better just with a few words…….Some people think these guys are not in touch with emotion, but he is very in tuned to my emotions. I finally have peace in my life. When I told him that, he cried…He said noone ever liked his ways before. I was thinking, what, are they crazy? He is amazing.
I’ve never been treated the way my guy treats me. He has focussed on our upcoming move to a place together, putting my sons needs first, the most thoughtful person I’ve ever encountered (besides my mom, LOL)I told him that I would like to live together before we get married and he totally understood and came up with some ideas to make it easier for my son. (should be our son, he is the father figure in his life)From the first day we met I have found my fiance accomidating towards me and my familly. I can’t do enough to show him how much I love him. The way he treats his familly too, is wonderful. Just like my father was, he is a man that thinks with his heart….
We had our first real fight today (if you can call it that) Do Aqua Men always leave the room to get the last word in, then circle around just to throw in another few words, LOL He walked away 4 times during the disagreement and kept trying to shock me with big words well, oooohhhh. When he gets mad he looks so sexy.
I’ve been separated from my Aqua man for about 15 years and I’m a libra, I’m single now and so is he, for some unknown reason I’m always drawn back to him, even after my failed marriage and lovers in between, in my eye’s its always been him. We here high school sweeties, but broke up on bad terms, I’m hesitant now to make contact with him because I don’t know whether he still is holding grudges towards me, plus I wouldn’t be able to bear it if I saw hatred in his eyes towards me. But on the other side of the scale we could re-unite and be together.
Don’t know about this one really.
I am an Aquarius woman. time and time again, throughtout my life, I have been in a mutal
attraction with charming, handsome, Libra men. But it always ends up with them expecting
everything in the world from me. while they have little to give in return, and if they do, what
I wanted, is givne to someone else. And I am suppose to over look it or be labeled
uncaring.. And all of the Libra men I have known were also bisexual…Guess. they were
just to pretty..!! LOL.. I have figured out that libra man’s basic interest is rather
infantile.. looking for a mother to advise, consol and nuture them.. To bad.. I want
a masculine, intelligent man..I kind of prefer Taurus, I know they are a little crude or
misinformed at times.. but they can accomplish what they start out to do.. Which
thirlls the heck outa me..!!
I found something that helps my Aqua Man and I both, when he has a bad day at work I let him discipline me, it seems to help us both
When I have a bad day at work I let him discipline me, that works too 
If its just for fun, it isn’t wrong, right? LOL
Okay maybe we’re sick but it keeps us feeling 20…..not bad for a couple of old pervs…..Im 40 and he’s almost 40.
LibraLady says:
October 28, 2010 at 3:49 pm
I found something that helps my Aqua Man and I both, when he has a bad day at work I let him discipline me, it seems to help us both When I have a bad day at work I let him discipline me, that works too If its just for fun, it isn’t wrong, right? LOL
I think that is really cute. As long as the Boss does not fire him, and he comes home and kills you.!
DAM DISSAPOINTING, THATS HOW IT ALWAYS TURNS OUT..!!
GET A PUPPY, IF ALL YOU WANT IS PEE ON YOUR CARPET.!
Laura
puppies are like men, you have to train them……
I’m a Libran and am absolutely head over heels in love with my Aquarius man. We clicked almost instantly, and no, though it wasn’t love at first sight, there was just this incredible attraction from the word go. It’s been two wonderful months, and whether we are just lounging about around the house, hanging with friends, or even taking a stroll, there’s never a dull moment. He not only stimulates me intellectually (might i add, more than any guy has ever managed to), but we are also almost exactly alike in terms of our personality traits, stuff that we like, etc. (i discovered that we even used the exact same brand and make of toothbrush, except his was blue and green and mine just blue). The best part though is that his mum too is a Libran like me, and his dad an Aquarian. I could just go on and on about a zillion other ways that we are similar in, but it’d never end. So yes, basically all i would say is that no matter how close you might be to an Aquarian man, at times you just have to let him be. He loves his independence and space, which might lead him to act a little aloof sometimes, but eventually he will come around and make sure you know that he didn’t mean to hurt you in any way. More mature than most other signs and both gentle and kind, the Aquarian man though hard to get through to emotionally at first because of his overcautiousness, especially in matters of the heart, once won over, can turn out to be one of the most passionate and best lovers a woman could ask for. Especially so if the woman in question is a Libran!
LadyLibra:
Libra men cannot be trained. They sneak a lot. And sometimes brag about it.!
Blind to their own faults, and want you to take care of their mother. Not to
mention selfish as hell…. I wanted to give my whole heart. but everytime
I did all I got was more mistreatment.. he wanted to see how far he
could go..Had to take him to court.. which I hated, but I knew he
and I would never part.. if I didn’t, and he just did not make me happy.
Oh hell sure.. I loved looking at him..gorgeous..!! But it takes more
than that for a good relationship..A lot more.
I just hope he finds what in hell ever he is looking for. I am staying
single after this one..!! Horribly dissapointing.
Aquarius here..
Do you think that if you HATE MEN.. then you must be Gay?
Or maybe turned Asexual..?
Libra men are so vain and selfish ..
why do astrologers pick them for Aquarians.,
I do not like to suffer.
Laura
No, it doesn’t make you gay, just not loved properly yet, you just haven’t been treated right yet. I am divorced from a Libra man, I know exactly what you mean about some of them…..It was hell. My Aqua guy and I are soul mates, but not all Aqua or Libras are the same, I would die for him, he would die for me.
Huma
I know exactly what you mean, its great. My Aqua Man and I started out the same way, its been over a year now and we’ve been living together for 4 months now, its been better ever day. I honestly think I’ve fallen in love with him more than once, it just sort of happens, I look at him and wham, its like falling again. Everyday he does something or says something that makes me like him more and the love is intense. I keep finding new reasons to love him.
So I’m an Aquarius sun/venus with a heavy venus in my chart (Taurus). in the begining of a relationship with a Libra sun/mars/merc guy and our moons conjunct at taurus and his north node conjuncts my sun and squares my moon. I can’ be sure but I think his ASC And I feel like fate is trying to bring us together because there are times when I shyly try to avoid him but lo and behold he comes around the corner. Even the taboo quality to our relationship (I’m obviously his first gay attraction) and we have this emotional and physical attraction that is just really powerful and magnetic.
Aquaman
I think it is fate, My Aqua guy and I crossed paths several times over 20 years but never really “met” untill 2009. We had mutual friends, the woman he secretly loved for 15 years is married to my brother now, LOL
ironic that it was she that introduced us, we worked in the same area years ago, when I was marreid to a monster, so was he, so many things like that… He knew things about me that I never told him and there are so many other things that its amazing. You and you soul mate will just keep bumping into eachother untill fate decides to merge you. He just might be your soul mate. He might not have even known he was gay untill he met you. Honestly, I never felt alive untill I met my soul mate.
Aquaman
My Aqua Man is Taurus Rising, OMG Taurus influence makes a man romantic
Sometimes that Libra penchant for just capitulating can actually make me MORE frustrated than whatever I was frustrated about in the first place. I mean, they do something that frustrates you, then when you call them on it, their immediate response is something to the effect of “Oh, you’re right, I was so insensitive, what was I thinking? You’re absolutely right about everything!” Then they turn about and do the same damn thing that just frustrated you, and they seem to honestly not realize why you’re frustrated all over again. They just say those things to “keep the peace” and smooth things over, not because they genuinely care about your feelings. Libra, like each of the air signs, thinks they’re right.
Minor tangent, but Aquas think we’re right and aren’t shy about it, because we don’t generally care about the individual, we care about the world at large. Gemini thinks they’re right and is less shy than Libra because they are genuinely charming (at their best) and feel like with enough chatter they can convince anyone of their rightness. Libra on the other hand takes the wholly different tack of simply knowing they’re right while subtly trying to convince you that you agreed with them all along. They will shift and twist and alter their point of view until you both agree, and by such tactic “keep the peace”.
Damien
I don’t really feel like I’m manipulating him, he seems to think along the same lines as I do for a lot of things,and he thinks he’s in the drivers seat, stroking a mans ego can actually do him a lot of good. I’ve gotten perfect strangers to do things that made them feel better, why not give that kiind of feeling to my guy? Besides, he gives me something wonderful, he knows how to nurture my inner child, which is silly, but he does this for me anyways, he see’s exactly where I’m vulnerable and never uses it to his advantage, he never ever made me feel like I’m being judged. He is the first person that I can say that about. He is so in tuned to everyones feelings, and yes it does seem universal, but there is a special way that he treats the ones he loves, he treats us as first, Its the same amount of loyalty that a Scorpio shows a loved one, I think that a lot of people can misjudge this.
LOL, yes, I’ve done that. Its a lot easier to get the project started or the fire out of a conflict when someone thinks he made the decision, or thought of the solution himself, you arn’t suposed to know that though, ha ha….Occasionally, my Aqua Guy catches me doing it, mostly though, he thinks he’s just a genius, hey, why not. He’s happy, I’m happy
Damien
I care about his feelings a lot. If I do anything that he couldn’t stand, I wouldn’t do it, at least not when he’s there, But Damien, come on, when someone tells you not to do the laundry, they’ll do it when they wake up, my god, I can;t just leave the damn laundry all day, I’ll do it myself. Is that what you mean? “I’ll do it myself?”
Agreed with Damien. I’m quite turned off by most Libra’subtle manipulative tactics. They say one thing and do another behind your back. Its also weird to see how someone seems so friendly, charming and peaceful can be such a jealous and controlling character quietly. Most Libras want to be no.1 in the room. They won’t let you off easily if you take away their limelight. Their usual weapon is gossiping and spreading rumours about their enemies. It’s actually very effective considering the wide network most of them have. There are some nice Libras but the bad ones just make your skin crawled.
in my opinion, I think these two would collide. Libra wants things settled immediately by talking things out while Aquarians tend to beat around the bush. Not a good thing in my book.
@LibraLady
I have been reading your comments for a while now, trying to figure out something personal (about an aqua man). It’s just really confusing- in every thread when it’s about giving tips, explaining something about your relationship, or just describing something, you only point out ‘wonderful’ details of your relationship, how your man worships and adores you, how perfect everything is, and how deliriously happy you two are, which basically prompts to amount the level of head-scratching going on about the aqua men.
1. Please be specific, don’t pour all the sugar and sweets from your relationship if you want to clue someone in. We get it, you are together and you think you’re his everything. Good for you.
2. Ever considered aquarius men have a way of working nobody knows of? that they store details and pieces of your behavior, episodes, etc, in one of those secret drawers of their minds, to let them out later on and drop the hammer when you least expected? Check out the three comments from Libras, they were pushed aside though everything worked magically and they’re still wondering what went wrong.
3. Hope you can grasp the scope of this message and not the harshness behind it. Just trying to ask for details from Libras involved with Aquariuses, and not clap at the chicken dance. Had to be straightforward and less ‘diplomatic’. I’m not Libra after all.
@ vovi
Thank you, finally someone who’s voicing a rather contrasting opinion than the typical horoscope myths of Libras being so fascinating, amazing people, perfect diplomats, perpetual altruists, sacrificing themselves, Libra women are charmful and everybody else is jealous, pretty much everything zodiacs say about Libras. I have yet to meet one like that…to me everything you said is perfectly pertinent. And real. Those manipulation techniques, the promiscuity that gets them ‘far’, the meanness, dishonesty and jealousy works for aqua since they’re not really aware of what’s going on outside their word- social skills zero. If i could sum it up- Libra women and Aquarius men get along so well because they’re the eternal oblivious minds and scattered attention while Libras are manipulative and sneaky- it’s causation, not correlation. hehe! yes i’m terribly jealous, bla bla bla, we all know it, everybody who isn’t Libra is, so let’s skip this part.
@ NewlyWedLibraLady
‘ he see’s exactly where I’m vulnerable and never uses it to his advantage’- wait and see. I promise you. And you won’t even know HOW you missed those hints- you are manipulating him, and he pretends to not notice. But he does. And it amounts.
I am a Libra woman in a relationship with an Aqua man and it is very different than any other relationship I have been in. I never know where I stand with him as two months into the relationship he stopped telling me how he felt about me and about us…but still talks to me everyday. Things have hit a rough patch right now. We have not seen each other in two weeks and I usually am the one asking him to do stuff. I am determined that until he asks me to do something, he will not see me but I don’t know if I can stick to that. Maybe it’s like someone said that Aquas don’t feel like they need to babysit their relationships. But what has made it worse is he decide for religious reasons he did not want to have sex I am assuming until we are married…if it gets to that point. He has his moon in Taurus which I have been told makes it impossible for him to have any physical contact without wanting to have sex. Because of this our physical contact has only consisted of a hug and kiss at the door when I leave. For a Libra that has been very hard, especially since in the beginning he would hold me, and run his fingers through my hair and the first time we were intimate, we had sex 5 times that night. Trying hard to adjust to this but I’m not sure how much more distance I can take.
it sounds like aquarius men have zero social skills so thats why libra women can easily control and manipulate him. (i read that in other astro websites too, so he’s pretty much doomed)
my father is an aquarius and has cheated on my libra mother, he hates her really and sleeps in separate bedrooms from her. but she has a hold over him – her undying devotion to religion and to hark on him on his unloyal and cruel ways. he drinks like a fish because, according to him, it helps him forget that he’s actually with that woman. it’s a very bad match but astrologers like to put these two together.
as for the commentor who said ‘why do astrologers put aquarius with libras? or other air signs – gemini ? when in truth, they actually in a greater consensus, are attracted to non- air signs or their own air sign (aqua – aqua, gem – gem, lib- lib) well use your brain and listen to your own heart, not what other people say. astrology in my opinion can help a person feel good about themselves – to look at the positives, not tell you who you should fall in love with. if it’s with a so called incompatible sign, why not? you could learn alot from that relationship and even find your true love.
to those who said libras are manipulating and sneaky…i agree to a certain extent.
they are cardinal signs, so according to astrology, they know how to strategize…meaning, they will calculate your every move. libras are one of top in chess tournaments too. so in a relationship, they’re sneaky because they have to be…they are just using their ‘nature’ to strategize your move.
i have this school collegue at were i go to work, and she’s a libra, but because i dont pay attention to her much, she spreads gossip about me and puts me down (the commentor above saying a that they have a wide social net is correct, so they’re terrible to have as enemies, but if you’re an innocent, and they jsut hate you because yhou didnt pay attention to them, and didnt care, they usually get their just desserts) people usually get karma after being plain nasty. i dont pay much attention to her because i dont really like her as a person so im not going to be a hypocrite and be all nicey nicey. i’ll be polite because there’s no need to be impolite and mean, it’s uncalled for. but i’m not about to be friends with her. i guess she so desperately needs my ‘friendship’ or something.
thankfully, this month has been a blessing and i was offered to transfer to another department, although she’s still in the same building.