Lucky (I feel) for us, we didn’t waver when we got together – we were married w/in 6 months and I do believe that sometimes those kind of things work out (ours did for a long time and probably would have indefinietley except for some unfortunate unforseeable events that would/could have happened even if we had dated 3 years before we got married).

Being both fire signs, it was nice that we cut to the chase and used that fire and zing to get where we really wanted – then, it was pretty nice, we both needed and liked space and it worked well living together (he had Taurus moon and I Libra moon so co-habiting was ruled by the same planet .

I have Scorpio on my 7th but my pluto conjuncts my moon and so I always needed that Cancer nurturing in a relationship too (cuddles etc…). Don’t ever feel bad for your needs; we are all different and what in the world would we do w/out wonderful Cancer hugs in this world??!! I say, try to find a way to make sure you get this need met, maybe when the feeling is right, talk to your Sag about this need. What is his chart like? Does he have any Cancer stuff to provide you? That may be very important. It is for me. The Sag I was married to had mars in Cancer and that was enough for me – it did the trick and it was a blessing for me (that came out from him often enough) and now the person I am dating has, again, thankfully, at least one planet there, jupiter!!!