Comments on: Do you love your man for his Venus? http://sasstrology.com/2008/01/do-you-love-your-man-for-his-venus.html Thu, 18 Mar 2010 08:49:39 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: LibraLady http://sasstrology.com/2008/01/do-you-love-your-man-for-his-venus.html/comment-page-1#comment-60026 LibraLady Fri, 29 Jan 2010 20:42:10 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2008/01/02/do-you-love-your-man-for-his-venus/#comment-60026 Gangsta of Love I totally get what you're saying. Men that are soft and hard....Hard bodied but soft hearted, at least that's what I like My friend in school was attracted to every gay man she met, funny thing is she married a tough rugged guy with little emotion..Yet in high school guys in drag turned her on....Interesting Gangsta of Love
I totally get what you’re saying. Men that are soft and hard….Hard bodied but soft hearted, at least that’s what I like
My friend in school was attracted to every gay man she met, funny thing is she married a tough rugged guy with little emotion..Yet in high school guys in drag turned her on….Interesting

]]> By: LibraLady http://sasstrology.com/2008/01/do-you-love-your-man-for-his-venus.html/comment-page-1#comment-60024 LibraLady Fri, 29 Jan 2010 20:37:16 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2008/01/02/do-you-love-your-man-for-his-venus/#comment-60024 My Aqua guy has Venus in Pisces, he is so sensitive and dreamy for this. His Mars in sagitarian, and cap moon and Taurus Rising, He has traits from all of these signs and he is wonderful but I think it is his Pisces Venus that makes him so attractive to me the most. I have a Scorpio Venus so it gets very emotional when we discuss life things, Ladies, if you can cry with your man sometimes, it makes life easier......If you have a sensitive man that doesn't mind crying when you cry it feels like another connection......He actually gets it when I'm tellling him how I feel. I think he is healthier then most men his age just because he can release My Aqua guy has Venus in Pisces, he is so sensitive and dreamy for this. His Mars in sagitarian, and cap moon and Taurus Rising, He has traits from all of these signs and he is wonderful but I think it is his Pisces Venus that makes him so attractive to me the most. I have a Scorpio Venus so it gets very emotional when we discuss life things, Ladies, if you can cry with your man sometimes, it makes life easier……If you have a sensitive man that doesn’t mind crying when you cry it feels like another connection……He actually gets it when I’m tellling him how I feel. I think he is healthier then most men his age just because he can release

]]> By: EcritureFemme http://sasstrology.com/2008/01/do-you-love-your-man-for-his-venus.html/comment-page-1#comment-60021 EcritureFemme Fri, 29 Jan 2010 20:28:35 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2008/01/02/do-you-love-your-man-for-his-venus/#comment-60021 You know, I really feel drawn to outgoing, intelligent, humorous, loud guys, but they never seem to be drawn to me: one of the ironies of how my Sag Mars plays out. The men who approach me tend to be the soft-spoken, supportive ones, and by "approach" I mean don't find me too over-bearing and rebuff my friendliness. LOL! I enjoy people most who show a good balance of both masculine and feminine traits. In both men and women, I like tenderness and don't mind an impassioned speech, but guys who behave badly and then confess in floods of tears make my blood boil. Being a little choked up by a movie is fine, or shedding a tear when moved by an intense emotional moment (like getting married or having a baby) is desireable. I appreciate people who are strong enough to let themselves feel their feelings, but not get bogged down by them. They tap into the strength of femininity. The sexiest man I know takes no care of his appearance in the Venusian sense (his clothes are torn, too short, covered in paint and glue, and his idea of grooming is stubble all over his head and chin that happen to be of the same length), but he is very much in touch with his inner woman. I've lost quite a few pairs of panties to his wardrobe; he favors the colorful and bold, even slutty, perhaps thanks to his Arian Venus? Meanwhile, he's a tall, manly-looking man in a male-dominated industry, opinionated and full of common sense (Moon in Taurus, Mars in Taurus). The contradictions totally turn me on. Could it be my own Aquarian Venus with the dispositor in Scorpio responding to his Aquarius Asc. and my moon in Leo sitting in his 7th? A Cancer Sun/ Aquarius Moon man with Venus in Leo totally captured my heart too, once, but he confused me, treated me very badly, and turned out to be a mess. At first, he seemed sensitive to just the right extent, but turned out to be gaming me. You know, I really feel drawn to outgoing, intelligent, humorous, loud guys, but they never seem to be drawn to me: one of the ironies of how my Sag Mars plays out. The men who approach me tend to be the soft-spoken, supportive ones, and by “approach” I mean don’t find me too over-bearing and rebuff my friendliness. LOL! I enjoy people most who show a good balance of both masculine and feminine traits. In both men and women, I like tenderness and don’t mind an impassioned speech, but guys who behave badly and then confess in floods of tears make my blood boil. Being a little choked up by a movie is fine, or shedding a tear when moved by an intense emotional moment (like getting married or having a baby) is desireable. I appreciate people who are strong enough to let themselves feel their feelings, but not get bogged down by them. They tap into the strength of femininity. The sexiest man I know takes no care of his appearance in the Venusian sense (his clothes are torn, too short, covered in paint and glue, and his idea of grooming is stubble all over his head and chin that happen to be of the same length), but he is very much in touch with his inner woman. I’ve lost quite a few pairs of panties to his wardrobe; he favors the colorful and bold, even slutty, perhaps thanks to his Arian Venus? Meanwhile, he’s a tall, manly-looking man in a male-dominated industry, opinionated and full of common sense (Moon in Taurus, Mars in Taurus). The contradictions totally turn me on. Could it be my own Aquarian Venus with the dispositor in Scorpio responding to his Aquarius Asc. and my moon in Leo sitting in his 7th? A Cancer Sun/ Aquarius Moon man with Venus in Leo totally captured my heart too, once, but he confused me, treated me very badly, and turned out to be a mess. At first, he seemed sensitive to just the right extent, but turned out to be gaming me.

]]> By: Richard Vasquez http://sasstrology.com/2008/01/do-you-love-your-man-for-his-venus.html/comment-page-1#comment-58013 Richard Vasquez Sat, 26 Dec 2009 05:06:24 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2008/01/02/do-you-love-your-man-for-his-venus/#comment-58013 I have Sun conj Venus square Uranus and opposed by Neptune. There were times when as a musician I wore my hair long and women would give me crap about them not knowing whether I was a boy or girl. Just because some of you guys look more beautiful than women. I of course would tell them "Lady you're crazy" and walk away. I've always identified with Male Y chromosome traits. I shot stuff with bow and arrows and BB guns, carried around a M60, an M60 gunner for my reserve unit. I also would tear up during some movies and love songs. I have a moon 1st house in Sagittarius conjunct Saturn so I am sporty play tennis, I am a dominant football player too. So yes I enjoy sports and I look good on the tennis court too. (once had a mob of too young HS girls watching me play tennis...I wore red my favorite color of course) That Valkyrie sounds like the girl of my dreams. Despite my macho childhood and such. I still would play like Ken as my little sisters played with their Barbie dolls and I love little animals and torn between making sure they are fed or protecting them fiercely. There are some women whose overt macho side brings out the macho side of me. While making them feel feminine. I've had that effect on Tom Boy girls before. Oh and how they hated admitting that they love me and sometimes they'd like corner me and pin me up against the wall and start kissing me. Or I enjoyed wrestling with the Tom Boy girl next door. She sometimes would get a little too carried away and get me in a leg scissors on my head, a little too close to her crotch for my liking. She would get too rough when aroused. She was much taller than me and overpowered me and liked pinning me down and looking down at me. It was quite strange we were both kind of young barely into puberty. Still I sometimes have no doubt that if she hadn't moved across the state that she eventually would have ravaged me and repeatedly. Her heavy breathing as she overpowered me and got on top of me with all her weight on me. It took a while to arouse me but she did. I was too young to have sex with anyone. so we didn't but there was some sexual stuff going on between us. She would apologize to me after roughing me up and just about ravaging me. Then leave me alone. Til our next row. she played football with me and my friends in later months as I grew stronger and more coordinated. Play softball with me and my friends too. She still could overpower me when we wrestled though. I ran across her years later at a classmates wedding and she was the maid of honor and of course she saw me and we danced the night away at the reception. She looked pretty good in a dress and she had some serious curves and cleavage. She was still taller than me and held me tight really tight as we danced. This time it was me pursuing her..and she was receptive. she went back across the state and I was only there for the wedding and I didn't ever see her again. :0( I think she had a fiancee back home or something and she had to go. though she did invite my family to her younger brothers wedding in hopes that I'd show up. She didn't say goodbye to me that night so I refused to see her because of it. That was that. Baby Baby don't look back..it wont do no good. I have Sun conj Venus square Uranus and opposed by Neptune. There were times when as a musician I wore my hair long and women would give me crap about them not knowing whether I was a boy or girl. Just because some of you guys look more beautiful than women. I of course would tell them “Lady you’re crazy” and walk away.

I’ve always identified with Male Y chromosome traits. I shot stuff with bow and arrows and BB guns, carried around a M60, an M60 gunner for my reserve unit.
I also would tear up during some movies and love songs. I have a moon 1st house in Sagittarius conjunct Saturn so I am sporty play tennis, I am a dominant football player too. So yes I enjoy sports and I look good on the tennis court too. (once had a mob of too young HS girls watching me play tennis…I wore red my favorite color of course)

That Valkyrie sounds like the girl of my dreams. Despite my macho childhood and such. I still would play like Ken as my little sisters played with their Barbie dolls and I love little animals and torn between making sure they are fed or protecting them fiercely. There are some women whose overt macho side brings out the macho side of me. While making them feel feminine. I’ve had that effect on Tom Boy girls before. Oh and how they hated admitting that they love me and sometimes they’d like corner me and pin me up against the wall and start kissing me.

Or I enjoyed wrestling with the Tom Boy girl next door. She sometimes would get a little too carried away and get me in a leg scissors on my head, a little too close to her crotch for my liking. She would get too rough when aroused. She was much taller than me and overpowered me and liked pinning me down and looking down at me. It was quite strange we were both kind of young barely into puberty. Still I sometimes have no doubt that if she hadn’t moved across the state that she eventually would have ravaged me and repeatedly.
Her heavy breathing as she overpowered me and got on top of me with all her weight on me. It took a while to arouse me but she did. I was too young to have sex with anyone. so we didn’t but there was some sexual stuff going on between us. She would apologize to me after roughing me up and just about ravaging me. Then leave me alone. Til our next row. she played football with me and my friends in later months as I grew stronger and more coordinated. Play softball with me and my friends too. She still could overpower me when we wrestled though.

I ran across her years later at a classmates wedding and she was the maid of honor and of course she saw me and we danced the night away at the reception. She looked pretty good in a dress and she had some serious curves and cleavage. She was still taller than me and held me tight really tight as we danced. This time it was me pursuing her..and she was receptive. she went back across the state and I was only there for the wedding and I didn’t ever see her again. :0( I think she had a fiancee back home or something and she had to go. though she did invite my family to her younger brothers wedding in hopes that I’d show up. She didn’t say goodbye to me that night so I refused to see her because of it. That was that. Baby Baby don’t look back..it wont do no good.

]]> By: Gangsta of Love http://sasstrology.com/2008/01/do-you-love-your-man-for-his-venus.html/comment-page-1#comment-58004 Gangsta of Love Fri, 25 Dec 2009 22:39:43 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2008/01/02/do-you-love-your-man-for-his-venus/#comment-58004 One more thing:i get turned on by gay guys (theyre just much hotter usually), make up, cross dressing unless its too believable, guys with long hair, emotional guys, sensitive types, i don't like pessimistic whiny aholes: thats no fun no matter the gender. I like my men soft but hard :) like that one persons name said. Lol I think that says it all! One more thing:i get turned on by gay guys (theyre just much hotter usually), make up, cross dressing unless its too believable, guys with long hair, emotional guys, sensitive types, i don’t like pessimistic whiny aholes: thats no fun no matter the gender. I like my men soft but hard :) like that one persons name said. Lol I think that says it all!

]]> By: Gangsta of Love http://sasstrology.com/2008/01/do-you-love-your-man-for-his-venus.html/comment-page-1#comment-58003 Gangsta of Love Fri, 25 Dec 2009 22:25:43 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2008/01/02/do-you-love-your-man-for-his-venus/#comment-58003 I actually like feminine qualities in guys. They need to look like a guy but I'm attracted to guys who are different in a sense that who they are as a person sort of doesnt conform to those expectations of how they should be. And I'm just turned on by feminine guys (who still embody the masculine) I dont know what that is. Thats a huge turn on I actually like feminine qualities in guys.
They need to look like a guy but I’m attracted to guys who are different in a sense that who they are as a person sort of doesnt conform to those expectations of how they should be. And I’m just turned on by feminine guys (who still embody the masculine) I dont know what that is. Thats a huge turn on

]]> By: DJ http://sasstrology.com/2008/01/do-you-love-your-man-for-his-venus.html/comment-page-1#comment-49245 DJ Sat, 19 Sep 2009 18:28:33 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2008/01/02/do-you-love-your-man-for-his-venus/#comment-49245 I would much prefer a guy to cry to please me, it really works on my emotions, and makes me feel safe. If we're watching a movie and I see him tear up, I have to say I am impressed by it. I do happen to be a modern girl though, maybe not all gals are like me. My Mars sign is in Gemini opposite Neptune. I would much prefer a guy to cry to please me, it really works on my emotions, and makes me feel safe. If we’re watching a movie and I see him tear up, I have to say I am impressed by it. I do happen to be a modern girl though, maybe not all gals are like me. My Mars sign is in Gemini opposite Neptune.

]]> By: LilyTheFrilly http://sasstrology.com/2008/01/do-you-love-your-man-for-his-venus.html/comment-page-1#comment-44590 LilyTheFrilly Tue, 11 Aug 2009 14:27:03 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2008/01/02/do-you-love-your-man-for-his-venus/#comment-44590 I haven't decided on a dream guy and it's probably not a good idea because you'll never really know who comes into you're life - dreams are like that; they come and go on their own. It's a lot more suprising and fun. I don't have any preferences except that I don't want to "mommy" him (The last guy has his venus in Cancer and surpringly it just didn't work out). I'm actually attracted to a lot of types of people (maybe this is my Libran nature to like everyone). One day I'm falling heads of a heels at a passionate Scorpion in the business field (I wish I could look crisp in a suit), then along comes a mellowed out Virgo with a jam band. I haven’t decided on a dream guy and it’s probably not a good idea because you’ll never really know who comes into you’re life – dreams are like that; they come and go on their own. It’s a lot more suprising and fun. I don’t have any preferences except that I don’t want to “mommy” him (The last guy has his venus in Cancer and surpringly it just didn’t work out). I’m actually attracted to a lot of types of people (maybe this is my Libran nature to like everyone). One day I’m falling heads of a heels at a passionate Scorpion in the business field (I wish I could look crisp in a suit), then along comes a mellowed out Virgo with a jam band.

]]> By: neptunelover http://sasstrology.com/2008/01/do-you-love-your-man-for-his-venus.html/comment-page-1#comment-14877 neptunelover Thu, 05 Feb 2009 01:51:22 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2008/01/02/do-you-love-your-man-for-his-venus/#comment-14877 All right...first to give you some astrological facts about myself: Sun in Capricorn in 2nd house ASC Scorpio Venus conjunct Uranus in Sagittarius in 1st Moon in Aquarius in 3rd Mars in Libra in 11th Now I'm ready to confess:)...I just adore androgynous, effeminate, Neptune-colored men!...I'm attracted to that sensitive soul/romantic poet / rock-star ideal (think Byron of XXI century :)...I love them for their fragility, sensitivity and empathy...Being able to cry is a plus:) It's not that I think all men should be like that, it's just that I don't notice macho alpha male types at all, I find their kind of sexuality repulsive and aggressive...Which is in the end all a matter of taste, isn't it? I guess it's my Mars in Libra's fault-as it would symbolize "weaker" men...and VE0UR gave me the preference for the unusual... All right…first to give you some astrological facts about myself:

Sun in Capricorn in 2nd house
ASC Scorpio
Venus conjunct Uranus in Sagittarius in 1st
Moon in Aquarius in 3rd
Mars in Libra in 11th

Now I’m ready to confess:)…I just adore androgynous, effeminate, Neptune-colored men!…I’m attracted to that sensitive soul/romantic poet / rock-star ideal (think Byron of XXI century :) …I love them for their fragility, sensitivity and empathy…Being able to cry is a plus:)

It’s not that I think all men should be like that, it’s just that I don’t notice macho alpha male types at all, I find their kind of sexuality repulsive and aggressive…Which is in the end all a matter of taste, isn’t it?

I guess it’s my Mars in Libra’s fault-as it would symbolize “weaker” men…and VE0UR gave me the preference for the unusual…

]]> By: Michelle http://sasstrology.com/2008/01/do-you-love-your-man-for-his-venus.html/comment-page-1#comment-1515 Michelle Mon, 13 Oct 2008 00:41:00 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2008/01/02/do-you-love-your-man-for-his-venus/#comment-1515 @anon<br/><i>And sometimes as much as I am drawn to it I fear his softer side thinking he might be bisexual. He laughs when I've mentioned this to him. He doesn't get mad though. He is that strong in his sense of self. And I know I am just falling prey to society and history not the reality of who he is. I think men who are in touch with their Venus side make the best lovers, fathers and friends.</i><br/><br/>This is such a great statement. My bf has well integrated "female" planets. He has tons of water and nearly all of his planets are in feminine signs. He's sensitive, he has depth and he is my best friend. Yet there's this horrible duality of wanting a masculine and sensitive man, then projecting that societal fear that he might be gay if he's <i>too</i> sensitive. As an Aries Sun, Merc and Venus, I have had to train myself to stop looking for myself in him...he could easily say that I am too masculine and fear that I am gay! With Venus in Virgo, and Mercury in Libra, he is incredibly tactful, courteous and polite. He often demonstrates more of the "feminine graces" than I do. I tend to be aggressive and I lack tact and sensitivity. @anon
And sometimes as much as I am drawn to it I fear his softer side thinking he might be bisexual. He laughs when I’ve mentioned this to him. He doesn’t get mad though. He is that strong in his sense of self. And I know I am just falling prey to society and history not the reality of who he is. I think men who are in touch with their Venus side make the best lovers, fathers and friends.

This is such a great statement. My bf has well integrated “female” planets. He has tons of water and nearly all of his planets are in feminine signs. He’s sensitive, he has depth and he is my best friend. Yet there’s this horrible duality of wanting a masculine and sensitive man, then projecting that societal fear that he might be gay if he’s too sensitive. As an Aries Sun, Merc and Venus, I have had to train myself to stop looking for myself in him…he could easily say that I am too masculine and fear that I am gay! With Venus in Virgo, and Mercury in Libra, he is incredibly tactful, courteous and polite. He often demonstrates more of the “feminine graces” than I do. I tend to be aggressive and I lack tact and sensitivity.

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