Weekly Love and Sex Horoscope: December 3-9

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The week starts with love planet Venus sextile Pluto. This 60-degree angle brings intensity and depth to friendships and professional relationships. You may have a long, deep conversation with a colleague or acquaintance that evokes erotic attraction. Whether you get off on hearing a friend’s dirty secrets or you have an obsession-of-the week with some guy at your monthly networking meeting, recognize that sexual energy is a sign that you’re truly connecting. The feeling will pass if you want it to … but you may get lucky if you act on it!

On Wednesday, Venus enters Scorpio. The love planet is in this Pluto-ruled sign until the 30th. In relationships, you’re no-holds-barred, going for the throat. Nothing less than total consumption of your lover will do. The upside is the potential for mind-shattering sexual intimacy. The downside is jealousy and possessiveness, paranoia that your lover is sleeping around. You want total control over another person, and guess what? Not everyone wants to succumb to your will. Now, if you can find a willing slave or submissive, then you have my blessing. But otherwise, you’re just going to get into energy-draining power struggles.

On Saturday, Mars sextiles Saturn. The planet of sex is both retrograde and in sideways-moving Cancer. Being direct about you want has never been more of a struggle. Saturn in Virgo can help you be more clear and defined about your desires. Just don’t present your lover with an alphabetized list of your kinks.

Comment below: How has your love and sex life been this week? (Spare the graphic details, of course.)

I am not currently writing love horoscopes for each sign. Check out Jeff Jawer’s love horoscopes at Tarot.com: Aries – Taurus – Gemini – Cancer – Leo – Virgo – Libra – Scorpio – Sagittarius – Capricorn – Aquarius – Pisces. Be sure to look at your Rising Sign if you know it.