If she loves you, she will grab you with both hands and if she wants to be best friends she will let you know, but in the nicest possible way. She sounds like a nice person, so you should be fine. I think Cancer is a good sign combination for me as my moon is in Cancer.

Anyway, good luck and I hope she grabs you with both hands and if she does please treat her right, because too many men take our good natures for granted and bruise our hearts. Only the special men know how to make us happy and we only really want true love, not a second rate version of it.

Good Luck

HELP ME WITH THIS!!!

i have an important question to all sag-women.
im cancer-man and very much in love with…. my best friend (sag-woman).
this great woman walked into my life years ago and ‘beamed’ herself ‘up’ into my closest-friends circle, by just being this – there it comes again – honest, positive, people-loving, funny human being.
as part of the problem: im more then 10 years older then she is, which always put me back in taking action. she was my funny, young and sexy friend…
but the clock ticks and now, years later, we have been more together, she went through crisis, so did i, we supported eachother – never had sex, but always feld the need to – .
my sexy, funny friend turned into a strong woman with a warm-beating heart. and now….
now i find myself completely in love with this beautiful, warm-hearted woman!
what hit me: she is honest to others, but most of all, to herself! experiencing this in a woman is… well, what can i see: i want her to be mine.

question: im going to tell her this and see how she responds. she calls me her ‘best friend’, she ‘loves me down to her heart’, she feels like we ‘grew more towards eachother’. these statements of her give me hope that she feels something too. but she is sag and they have this funny thing with confusing friendship and love.
how do i appraoch my sag-woman in this manner. i feel nervous like a school-boy.

for those who know cancer-man: this is not some funny-being-in-love thing. i haven’t been in love for a very long time. she is so important to me as a woman and human being..

please, give me some advise!
thanx

i.
am.
very.
excited.

i hope this works out!

about a month ago i started talking with this sag male, and he’s kind of fun to talk to and all. he pretty much flat out told me that he liked me. okay yeah whatever, that’s how sags work. but i told him that i only liked him as a friend, and even though i can tell he still wants to be more, he got back with his old girlfirend and seems to be okay. but now i’m lonelier then ever.

that is until a few days ago. this guy at work wants to play matchmaker. he thinks me and this cancer guy that i work with would be the cutiest couple– and hes been spreading the word. he keeps saying how we have the whole “Nick and Norah’s Infinate Playlist” vibe going on, and to tell the truth- that’s exactly the kind of thing that i want. so i’ve been texting this cancer boy, who the matchmaker has also talked to, and it’s been really fun. since i’ve found that i’m pretty great at reading people, i can tell right away that he is really sensitive. we were talking about how nighttime kind of sucks, except for when you get to go outside at midnight in the summer and lay in the grass looking at the stars. i told him that i wished there were more nights that could be like that and he responded with: “stick with me girl and there will be.” it was the perfect thing to say, and i doubt he realizes it. i think i’ve fallen for him…

and i’m scared, for two reasons. one, it turns out that he’s best friends with the sag guy i mentioned earlier. can you say awkward? and two, i’m afraid that all of the things that all of these other sag girls have mentioned will come true for me. i’m scared of being dropped, and i know that this perticular cancer has done so before.

so do i take the chance and get a few starry nights? or save myself some heartache. right now i’m getting ready to take a leap.

about a month ago i started talking with this sag male, and he’s kind of fun to talk to and all. he pretty much flat out told me that he liked me. okay yeah whatever, that’s how sags work. but i told him that i only liked him as a friend, and even though i can tell he still wants to be more, he got back with his old girlfirend and seems to be okay. but now i’m lonelier then ever.

that is until a few days ago. this guy at work wants to play matchmaker. he thinks me and this cancer guy that i work with would be the cutiest couple– and hes been spreading the word. he keeps saying how we have the whole “Nick and Norah’s Infinate Playlist” vibe going on, and to tell the truth- that’s exactly the kind of thing that i want. so i’ve been texting this cancer boy, who the matchmaker has also talked to, and it’s been really fun. since i’ve found that i’m pretty great at reading people, i can tell right away that he is really sensitive. we were talking about how nighttime kind of sucks, except for when you get to go outside at midnight in the summer and lay in the grass looking at the stars. i told him that i wished there were more nights that could be like that and he responded with: “stick with me girl and there will be.” it was the perfect thing to say, and i doubt he realizes it. i think i’ve fallen for him…

and i’m scared, for two reasons. one, it turns out that he’s best friends with the sag guy i mentioned earlier. can you say awkward? and two, i’m afraid that all of the things that all of these other sag girls have mentioned will come true for me. i’m scared of being dropped, and i know that this perticular cancer has done so before.

so do i take the chance and get a few starry nights? or save myself some heartache. right now i’m getting ready to take a leap.

Im a Sagittarius girl with cancer rising. I have fallen in love with a Scorpio male with Capricorn rising and I have been told we are doomed to failure. However, what most people say about Sag I really do not relate to, as far as love matters are concerned. I take my relationships really seriously and the only reason I have not married yet, is because no one loved me deeply enough. I don’t see how that makes me automatically incapable of a lasting relationship. Ever since I can remember I used to dream about the kind of man that would love me on the deepest level possible and now I have found this in a Scorpion. Its weird, but if I read the Cancer/Scorpio relationship it is our relationship described perfectly, but I am a Sag?

I do have Sag qualities definitely such as being dreadful with money – I am so terrible and trying to improve, I have bouts of clumsiness also even though most of the time I am graceful (well I hope so anyway lol). I can laugh at myself big time and do have a sense of humour. The animal loving side of me is extremely strong and I think I have a special connection with them, especially dogs. I hate injustice and suffering and it can keep me awake at night sometimes because I feel so bad for other people.I am very sociable and know how to have a good time BUT my real longing is for my soul mate who’s emotions run as deep as mine.

I can see how Scorpios get totally misunderstood by people. I had a Scorpio friend who this happened to, but I had a great friendship and understanding with him. I don’t see my loves personality as something negative at all. The moods I have too, the fear of being hurt I fear too, the sensitive emotions bubbling under the surface is me too. We are so alike its scary, but I have less protection around my heart and trust more easily. The love between us is so strong its like nothing I have ever experienced. I love the fact he has shown me his inner self virtually at the beginning of our relationship which I have heard is very very rare. I am honoured that he shows me this side, as he has told me NO ONE ever sees inside him.

He is so strong externally but dreadfully vulnerable internally and that, touches my heart in a way that has moved me to tears. I find him to be such a beautiful person. I can see how he is dominant and controlling but with good intentions and I actually find this very manly and I respect this. It makes me feel safe and secure. His intense needs make me feel the highest level of sexual longing for him. I want my man to be a real man which is the Sagittarian side coming out possibly. As long as I am not bossed and disrespected, I’m fine. When someone tries to do this I have the ability to make a joke out of it and am the master at diffusing anger and negative emotions. Many people have said I should be a diplomat Lol.

It seems that my Cancer Rising sign is really strong with me and in terms of love and relationships the Sagittarius sun part of me does not seem to come into play at all.

ME SUN –> Sagittarius MOON–> Cancer MARS–>Scorpio VENUS –> Capricorn

MY LOVE SUN –>Scorpio MOON–>Capricorn MARS–>Leo VENUS–> Sagittarius

If anyone has a comment about our planets I would love to know.

Thanks