If she loves you, she will grab you with both hands and if she wants to be best friends she will let you know, but in the nicest possible way. She sounds like a nice person, so you should be fine. I think Cancer is a good sign combination for me as my moon is in Cancer.

Anyway, good luck and I hope she grabs you with both hands and if she does please treat her right, because too many men take our good natures for granted and bruise our hearts. Only the special men know how to make us happy and we only really want true love, not a second rate version of it.

Good Luck

HELP ME WITH THIS!!!

i have an important question to all sag-women.
im cancer-man and very much in love with…. my best friend (sag-woman).
this great woman walked into my life years ago and ‘beamed’ herself ‘up’ into my closest-friends circle, by just being this – there it comes again – honest, positive, people-loving, funny human being.
as part of the problem: im more then 10 years older then she is, which always put me back in taking action. she was my funny, young and sexy friend…
but the clock ticks and now, years later, we have been more together, she went through crisis, so did i, we supported eachother – never had sex, but always feld the need to – .
my sexy, funny friend turned into a strong woman with a warm-beating heart. and now….
now i find myself completely in love with this beautiful, warm-hearted woman!
what hit me: she is honest to others, but most of all, to herself! experiencing this in a woman is… well, what can i see: i want her to be mine.

question: im going to tell her this and see how she responds. she calls me her ‘best friend’, she ‘loves me down to her heart’, she feels like we ‘grew more towards eachother’. these statements of her give me hope that she feels something too. but she is sag and they have this funny thing with confusing friendship and love.
how do i appraoch my sag-woman in this manner. i feel nervous like a school-boy.

for those who know cancer-man: this is not some funny-being-in-love thing. i haven’t been in love for a very long time. she is so important to me as a woman and human being..

please, give me some advise!
thanx

i.
am.
very.
excited.

i hope this works out!

about a month ago i started talking with this sag male, and he’s kind of fun to talk to and all. he pretty much flat out told me that he liked me. okay yeah whatever, that’s how sags work. but i told him that i only liked him as a friend, and even though i can tell he still wants to be more, he got back with his old girlfirend and seems to be okay. but now i’m lonelier then ever.

that is until a few days ago. this guy at work wants to play matchmaker. he thinks me and this cancer guy that i work with would be the cutiest couple– and hes been spreading the word. he keeps saying how we have the whole “Nick and Norah’s Infinate Playlist” vibe going on, and to tell the truth- that’s exactly the kind of thing that i want. so i’ve been texting this cancer boy, who the matchmaker has also talked to, and it’s been really fun. since i’ve found that i’m pretty great at reading people, i can tell right away that he is really sensitive. we were talking about how nighttime kind of sucks, except for when you get to go outside at midnight in the summer and lay in the grass looking at the stars. i told him that i wished there were more nights that could be like that and he responded with: “stick with me girl and there will be.” it was the perfect thing to say, and i doubt he realizes it. i think i’ve fallen for him…

and i’m scared, for two reasons. one, it turns out that he’s best friends with the sag guy i mentioned earlier. can you say awkward? and two, i’m afraid that all of the things that all of these other sag girls have mentioned will come true for me. i’m scared of being dropped, and i know that this perticular cancer has done so before.

so do i take the chance and get a few starry nights? or save myself some heartache. right now i’m getting ready to take a leap.