Sagittarius woman only needs Cancer man when she’s lonely
December 7, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
MJ submitted his birth time (click chart to view) and writes,I’ve been with this girl since 2002, and we break up since 2006. But, i can’t forget about her! She’s unpredictable. As an example, I stopped contacting her because she said so, but out of the blue, she called me like nothing happen before.I don’t think i can forget about her. True, i was “cheat” and lie to her while she’s complete honest and faithful to me. I don’t understand why she wanted me to give an explanation or reason behind all my action. Sometimes, it drives me mad. Even, when we’re argued, she talked based on her own logic. In every argument, it was me who’s silent – she’s on the winning side. Every argument i make, she reverse it.
Are there a future for us for being together again?
Is cancer compatible with sagittarius?
By the way, she did mention she needs me when she’s lonely but no longer love me or need me when she’s not lonely. Can’t she lie a bit? it – honestly – hurts me. But, i love her and wanted her back.
How can win back sagittarius woman?
I know you love her, but it’s not going to work out. The truth hurts — and no one’s more likely to tell it like it is than a Sag — but you need to accept it. She only wants you when she needs your Cancerian nurturing. When she’s not feeling lonely, she’s out having adventures and enjoying her freedom — because that’s what a Sagittarius needs to do.
The time of birth you gave me was right on the hour, so I don’t know how accurate it is. However, it’s possible that you have Pisces Rising, which would accord with your propensity for lying. Pisces would prefer fantasy to reality, and is willing to pull the wool other their own (or someone else’s) eyes to manifest their visions.
In your chart, Venus — symbol of the young woman to whom you are attracted — is opposite independent Uranus. This aspect suggests that either you are drawn towards women who are averse to settling down, or that you feel this yearning for freedom in relationships. There’s nothing wrong this this, but it conflicts with your basic Sun sign nature, which longs for security and coziness. (Your Scorpio Moon also desires intimacy and can’t handle the abrupt changes in love brought on by your Venus-Uranus opposition).
Your North Node conjoins your Cancer Sun in your Fifth House of Romance. Bringing sensitivity and care to the realm of love is a requirement for your spiritual growth. You deserve more than a woman who comes to you only when she needs some coddling.
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As a Sagittarius woman who dated a Cancer man, I would just accept that this relationship will not work out in the long run. For me, I appreciated the nurturing that my ex-boyfriend gave me….initially…but it turned into a controlling and manipulative type of love. This not the type of love that a Sagittarius ultimately seeks. My ex-boyfriend would also lie repeatedly and I found this completely unacceptable. In the end, I found that my Cancer man was cheating and lying about it to me, so we could not even remain friends. Sagittarius has a “live and live” motto, so I would imagine, when your ex-girlfriend contacts you…it is really out of friendship and curiousity…and nothing more than that. My suggestion is to find yourself an Earth sign. I think you will be much happier with a rock-solid woman. As for me….I found myself an Aquarius man….who is my best friend and fellow adventurer……a true soulmate.
Well I am going to try and be nice, but Cancer man:
YOU CHEATED AND LIED TO HER!!!
Of all signs you could do that with, this is not the one to mess with. Sagittarius people cannot tolerate a liar. You have lost all your footing in this relationship, and there is almost no chance in hell you will get it back.
If she wants to forgive you, she will. But there is NOTHING you can do to make her forgive you. It’s up to her. Otherwise, let her go, and LEARN YOUR LESSON. I don’t think you deserve her.
Have you lost your mind? If you love her, then you will think about what is best for her, and she deserves a loyal and honest man.
If she says she is over you, then she is over you. A Sagittarius woman does not NEED a man, so once you screw up….good luck.
I am a Sagittarius…
I agree COMPLETELY with sagilarious. Sadge women CANNOT be lied to…no matter what. You would have had a better chance of telling the truth…and seeing if she could accept that….or be your friend. This woman cannot be your friend…because nobody wants LIARS as friends. You have no footing…and you have no chance. Lessson learned.
I hate to say this, but Cancer men (maybe because it is a feminine sign) are hard placed. Their manipulations, control, self-absorption…not to mention the WHINING…is not in alignment with the positive and idealistic nature of Sagittarius. You didn’t really love her…or you would not lie or cheat. You loved yourself.
As sagilarious said….the Sadge woman doesn’t need a man! She will walk regardless….as she cannot be controlled and is too independent for you.
I was wondering how this comment about how cancer and sadge are not compatible would apply to me. Meaning that since Im sagittarius with cancer rising am i crazy? what does my sign mean then and how important is the cancer rising part of it. my moon is gemini and my venus is scorpio.
LOL Jensagg
asking people if you’re crazy is a rhetorical question
don’t go there because they’ll ass-ume you are
and ya, Moon in Gemini is usually half-crazy and Venus in Scorpio is brutal in bed
@jensagg, it just means that — like most people — you’re complex. You come across initially as sensitive and nurturing, yet your essential nature is adventurous and freedom-loving.
I’m a cancer sun with a sag moon and my boyfriend is an aquarius with a libra moon. I have a cancer venus and scorpio mars and saturn and he has a pisces venus and aries mars. And I have two other planets in sag. What is up with this? We’re not supposed to be compatable,but he initiated the relationship and calls and texts me more than i do. I don’t even feel the need to call every day. I thought aquarians were supposed to be detached and need a lot of space, but I feel like I need more space than he does. I even feel safer when I’m not in a relationship, but I have stong feelings for him and care about him and I don’t want to be with any other man. What is up with this?
I’m a Sag woman who was attracted to a cancer man intensely for some time. I loved the Cancer energy, seemed to reach deep down into my more insecure areas. Very nurturing. However, even with little things like crossing the road he’d want to keep me safe when I just like to dodge the traffic quite happily and safely my own way!! After being in his company for about 6 months I’d had enough, I became very confused as he seemed to have set ways with everything which conflicted with my come what may attitude. We just didn’t get each other. I think of all the signs I would never consider again Cancer would be right up there with Gemini men. Previous comments are so true in that Lying to or questioning the truth of a Sagittarian is enough to drive them far from you. You see we do always tell the truth (as we see it) for better or worse and we do appreciate the truth in the same way.
You ask why she wants reasons for your actions, I would guess that she is trying to understand the root cause of why you do the things you do or because you’ve lied to her before and she just doesn’t trust your word in anything that you say.
How to win her back? All I know is that to cheat on her shows lack of respect for your relationship with her and that trust has been broken, this will never be forgotten. Personally I would learn the lessons from this relationship and move on with your life in a more positive and honest way opening the door for new experiences and people. If your crabby claw can’t let go this could also be too much for her, it’s kind of suffocating to be held onto too tightly – for a Sag!
The only way to begin to mend or make the peace with her is to speak from your heart – BE HONEST with her and give her the best of your being….Sorry and meaning it is always a good place to start. But my Sag Brain tells me that if you cheated on her then perhaps you aren’t meant to be.
HONEST HONEST HONEST…
These sag people love to brag about their honesty. But their “great virtue” is for their own sake only.
I am a cancerian man, I definitily condemn this man’s cheating: it is a personal weakness not something about astrology.
On the other hand let me explain the legendary Sagittarius honesty.
You like someone when you are still engaged to another one. And you say to your partner “? am sorry but ? like someone else goodbye.” Wheter he loves you or not is not important. You leave him alone in the half way and go for the sake of your own p****. This is virtuous sag honesty! No commitment, no respect to a unity or feelings of one. Just yourself and nothing important.
So don’t brag about your “truthfullness”, think about your selfishness instead.
I AM SAG WOMAN.
I K33P FALLIN N LUV WIT CANC3R M3N 4 SOM3 STRANG3 R3ASON.
IM NOT SUR3 IF WAT YUU HAD GOIN ON WAZ GONNA WORK OUT ANYWAY.
YUU PROBALY SHOULD HAV N3V3R CH3AT3D AND LI3D.
3V3N THOUGH DATS HOW M3 AND MY LAST CANC3R BOI FRIEND BROK3 UP.
NOW IM WITH A N3W CANC3R MAN.
I KANT STAY AWAY 4RM TH3M.
To SAG WOMAN: defy stereotype, lower your voice.
I am a sagittarius and I really like cancer guys (my mom is a cancer). I am not a typical Sag though because I have lots of and water signs in my chart.
IM SAG WOMAN & IM RIDICULOUSLY IN LOVE WITH A CANCER MAN….I FEEL OUR PERSONALITY’S ARE ALOT ALIKE BUT THEN AGAIN WERE ALOT DIFF TOO…I LOVE EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM EXCEPT I FEEL LIKE HE DOESNT PAY ENOUGH ATTENTION TO ME WHEN WERE NOT TOGETHER..(WE LIVE VERY FAR FROM EACHOTHER) BUT WHEN WERE TOGETHER EVERYTHING IZ BEAUTIFUL!!! LOL…ESPECIALLY THA SEX…….I KNO IM BETTER OFF WITH A GEMINI OR AQUARIUS LEO BUT WHEN I DATE THOSE SIGNS IT FEELS LIKE WERE MORE ON A FUNNY HAPPY FRIENDS LEVEL NOT SOMEONE I COULD FALL IN LOVE WITH………………IS IT POSSIBLE THAT MY CANCER MAN AND I COULD HAVE TRUE LOVE?????
Yes it is possible for a Sag and Cancer to have true love.
I’m a Sag/Sun and Cancer/Moon guy, who was seeing a Cancer/Sun girl. I think I had just as much insecurities about our relationship as she may have had (if not more!). I had those insecurities ever since the beginning of the relationship.
I had a feeling she lied to me
about things, which she sort of did. Nothing really big as far as I know, but they were still lies. She was also really clingy, which, to a degree, I really didn’t mind but she seemed to always try to “force” me to do things I didn’t want to do. I didn’t want to give her the wrong idea by saying no to something so petty, so I would comply.
I actually “broke up” with her a few times, as I didn’t see our relationship doing very well but I always regretted it because I wasn’t doing it because I didn’t like her, I was doing it instead because of my insecurities about our relationship.
She was also the one to start the relationship between us, as I usually do not start them. Maybe it’s because of my Venus being in Capricorn, I honestly don’t know.
To ottomanbear
I am a Sag woman, but I unfortunetelly have to agree with you. I have done that kind of thing thousands of times…I felt sorry later, but it´s so hard to pretend I am liking someone I prefer to hurt his feelings for a while than to continue with the relationship. Its unbearable not being honest with MYSELF. So its not that we are bitches, I think the problem is I can´t lie to myself. But now I am more mature, and I try to distance myself from the person before telling them I want to break up (not telling I like someone else).
Amen! As a Sag/Cap(cusp) and Sag in my rising. I’ve dated a cancer.A full one at that .He was romantic and affectionate and protective. On the flip side he was a lier a cheat and a manipulator (a huge fraud) and i’ll NEVER date him again because of that….i don’t care if i do forgive him which i do. But if he did it once,he can do it again! Regardless if you forgive him or not. And like most of ya’ll said we Sag’s don’t like liers….i rather the truth then a big fat lie….thats what i always noted to my family n friends to just tell me the truth rather then a lie . Because if you lie to me…i don’t think i can trust you no more for a while or maybe forever. And another thing….i can’t STAND manipulative people…. the minute i feel like someone is doing that to me ….i give them the silent treatment or depending on who the person is ….i’ll act as if i ain’t NEVER met that person in my LIFE. And thats one thing a cancer friend can’t STAND is when you don’t won’t nothing to do with them no more because he done got all attached to you and possessive over you . Well guess what ,get over it ! Think about what you can lose if you betray the ones you cared so much about before you do the dang stuff! Let go of that “pride” that you have over yourself because your not confident about your self as much as you want to be, that causes you to lie. Learn to try to be direct in what you need and by that you won’t need to manipulate . And if you can’t have what ever it is that your trying to get , maybe you didn’t need it anyway!
I’m a sag woman in love with a cancer man and i must say that my main complaint about men – being distant and removed (maybe because i keep them at a distance) is completely absent in this man. he is not afraid to get close to me and will fight me when i push him away. it is disarming and intriguing. we’ll see how long it lasts but so far so good.
I am a saggie/cap cusp girl who has recently got herself entangled with a Cancer Man. I have no idea how this happened as I know from reading many astrology books that this relationship is not destined to end well.
Okay well to be fair, I had no reason to know he was born in the month of July when I first laid my eyes on him. We were in a bar and I thought he was just so gorgeous.
After and inital bit of eye flirting and body language manovures, I decided to take the plunge and offer him my number. At the time he was with someone and he told me so which I admired, because he was not prepared to go any futher. Although he had indicated that they were going through a rocky patch. We became friends and spoke on the phone a few times and shared the odd text message. After a while we lost contact, as he asked me what I wanted from him. A bit taken abck by this question I replied “Nothing”.
Well he had a girl didn’t really give me much indication he wanted anything more than a friendship so what on earth was I supposed to say. I mean sure I wanted to get to know him better and then some, but I couldn’t say it. The protective guard came up. (Oh did I mention that at the time I was just 5 months out of an 8 year realtionship). Anyway with that he upped and walked away and I didn’t hear from him again.
A few months later I resolved to send him a text just to say hi and see how he was. I mean why not and I was curious, only to find that he had broken up from his then Missus and he was getting himself together in another country. I was happy he replied and text conversations continued from there. When he arrived home he asked me to come and see him, one thing lead to another and we slept together. Look I had been dying to do it for ages and was not gonna miss the chance to know what it was like with him. This happened a few times.
I guess this is kinda my fault (for jumping in so soon) but for the last few weeks he has not botherd to contacted me at all.
Although this hurts as I do really like him, (theres just something about him and the sex wasn’t half bad either). I guess after reading all of the above I have had a lucky escape and should count my blessings that he didn’t like me how I hoped he did…or it could have ended up in a bigger heartbreaking rejected feeling for me in the end. Do you know I admired his honesty in the begining when he showed me about his girlfriend and would have been happier if he had just said it was a sexual thing. Nothing more nothing less. At least I would know where the hell I was at and could have made a decision based on all the facts whether or not to go ahead. Instead he gave me some bulls*** about how he really liked me and he wanted it not to be just about the sex. Even insisted on saying that we had made love……men I ask you!
wow to a sag/cappie i really admire the way sags are because they are so honest frank straight. once met a sag guy and he was like “what you see is what you get” not very common, because people can be manipulative, calculating without even realizing because they may not think or understand better otherwise. Needless to say i did learn a lot from converasation from the sag person i knew, because they are so straight forward matter of fact compassionate. Just an obervation. [I'm a virgo female by the way] i think it would be the end, if i ever fell for a sag guy side note. But i learned, the prize of genuinity.
Moving on…i can understand how Sags can be taken aback by someone who isn’t straightforward, or who doesnt come straight out into the light, seems just downright dirty, senselee, and i think sags are romantics, innocent in the view and ideal of love. So, when they do find someone they like, it’s like “I found the one” while they do keep their perspective open. Must have an expansive view of the world, it’s objects and people so to say. So to a Sage girl, i can understand the hope of a genuine love building underlying the situation.
Cancer guys can display such romantics when they are in that mode, they are truely charming. They are wise and..not reserved, but i think they just retreat and protect themselves when not sure because they can be so caring, while having an delicate ego. I think they are afraid of relationships too, to a sentimentality so therefore selective. Just wanted to share a vague observation.
~Virgo
I am a Sag women in love with a Cancer man. I was reading all of your post and its funny because I got out of a relationship last year with a Cancer/Leo Cus. little did I know he was a lier and cheater. However, there were signs that I could have seen but just wanted to love someone for who they were, WRONG. lol Then I fell in love with a pure Cancer man, little did we both know we would fall in love with one another. He has taken much risk, has respected me and treated me like no other man since my first which was 5 years ago. He told me he loved me on New Years, he says he is a man of his word. He has introduced me to his brother who is very important in his life, mentioned me meeting his mom, etc. We are 15 years apart, but he knows I am honest, ambitious, loving and fun. He is a homebody but can party and travel. He is teaching me patience which is not very easy because SAG women like to control everything. But a good friend who is closer to his age told me good things are to come out of this relationship we are building. I too want a family, to settle down, kids and this man to be a wife too. I am willing for him to be in control of somethings due to the fact that I like a man to wear the pants and I to be treated like a lady. Don’t get me wrong I can wear the pants very well, but that is so aggressive and tiering, I want a MAN to be a MAN period, regardless of sign. He has been very honest and up front with me thus far, he is very good looking but so am I. I think thats what keeps us in check lol… So I am praying this will lead to marriage with proper communication and understanding.
Hi
Im a Sagittarius girl with cancer rising. I have fallen in love with a Scorpio male with Capricorn rising and I have been told we are doomed to failure. However, what most people say about Sag I really do not relate to, as far as love matters are concerned. I take my relationships really seriously and the only reason I have not married yet, is because no one loved me deeply enough. I don’t see how that makes me automatically incapable of a lasting relationship. Ever since I can remember I used to dream about the kind of man that would love me on the deepest level possible and now I have found this in a Scorpion. Its weird, but if I read the Cancer/Scorpio relationship it is our relationship described perfectly, but I am a Sag?
I do have Sag qualities definitely such as being dreadful with money – I am so terrible and trying to improve, I have bouts of clumsiness also even though most of the time I am graceful (well I hope so anyway lol). I can laugh at myself big time and do have a sense of humour. The animal loving side of me is extremely strong and I think I have a special connection with them, especially dogs. I hate injustice and suffering and it can keep me awake at night sometimes because I feel so bad for other people.I am very sociable and know how to have a good time BUT my real longing is for my soul mate who’s emotions run as deep as mine.
I can see how Scorpios get totally misunderstood by people. I had a Scorpio friend who this happened to, but I had a great friendship and understanding with him. I don’t see my loves personality as something negative at all. The moods I have too, the fear of being hurt I fear too, the sensitive emotions bubbling under the surface is me too. We are so alike its scary, but I have less protection around my heart and trust more easily. The love between us is so strong its like nothing I have ever experienced. I love the fact he has shown me his inner self virtually at the beginning of our relationship which I have heard is very very rare. I am honoured that he shows me this side, as he has told me NO ONE ever sees inside him.
He is so strong externally but dreadfully vulnerable internally and that, touches my heart in a way that has moved me to tears. I find him to be such a beautiful person. I can see how he is dominant and controlling but with good intentions and I actually find this very manly and I respect this. It makes me feel safe and secure. His intense needs make me feel the highest level of sexual longing for him. I want my man to be a real man which is the Sagittarian side coming out possibly. As long as I am not bossed and disrespected, I’m fine. When someone tries to do this I have the ability to make a joke out of it and am the master at diffusing anger and negative emotions. Many people have said I should be a diplomat Lol.
It seems that my Cancer Rising sign is really strong with me and in terms of love and relationships the Sagittarius sun part of me does not seem to come into play at all.
ME SUN –> Sagittarius MOON–> Cancer MARS–>Scorpio VENUS –> Capricorn
MY LOVE SUN –>Scorpio MOON–>Capricorn MARS–>Leo VENUS–> Sagittarius
If anyone has a comment about our planets I would love to know.
Thanks
i am a girl sag– but not the usual blunt, over agressive type. i’m the more laid back yet still advertuous one, who has been searching for my first boyfriend. i’m pretty much a hopeless romantic, so i haven’t had much luck thus far.
about a month ago i started talking with this sag male, and he’s kind of fun to talk to and all. he pretty much flat out told me that he liked me. okay yeah whatever, that’s how sags work. but i told him that i only liked him as a friend, and even though i can tell he still wants to be more, he got back with his old girlfirend and seems to be okay. but now i’m lonelier then ever.
that is until a few days ago. this guy at work wants to play matchmaker. he thinks me and this cancer guy that i work with would be the cutiest couple– and hes been spreading the word. he keeps saying how we have the whole “Nick and Norah’s Infinate Playlist” vibe going on, and to tell the truth- that’s exactly the kind of thing that i want. so i’ve been texting this cancer boy, who the matchmaker has also talked to, and it’s been really fun. since i’ve found that i’m pretty great at reading people, i can tell right away that he is really sensitive. we were talking about how nighttime kind of sucks, except for when you get to go outside at midnight in the summer and lay in the grass looking at the stars. i told him that i wished there were more nights that could be like that and he responded with: “stick with me girl and there will be.” it was the perfect thing to say, and i doubt he realizes it. i think i’ve fallen for him…
and i’m scared, for two reasons. one, it turns out that he’s best friends with the sag guy i mentioned earlier. can you say awkward? and two, i’m afraid that all of the things that all of these other sag girls have mentioned will come true for me. i’m scared of being dropped, and i know that this perticular cancer has done so before.
so do i take the chance and get a few starry nights? or save myself some heartache. right now i’m getting ready to take a leap.
i am a girl sag– but not the usual blunt, over agressive type. i’m the more laid back yet still advertuous one, who has been searching for my first boyfriend. i’m pretty much a hopeless romantic, so i haven’t had much luck thus far. : P
about a month ago i started talking with this sag male, and he’s kind of fun to talk to and all. he pretty much flat out told me that he liked me. okay yeah whatever, that’s how sags work. but i told him that i only liked him as a friend, and even though i can tell he still wants to be more, he got back with his old girlfirend and seems to be okay. but now i’m lonelier then ever.
that is until a few days ago. this guy at work wants to play matchmaker. he thinks me and this cancer guy that i work with would be the cutiest couple– and hes been spreading the word. he keeps saying how we have the whole “Nick and Norah’s Infinate Playlist” vibe going on, and to tell the truth- that’s exactly the kind of thing that i want. so i’ve been texting this cancer boy, who the matchmaker has also talked to, and it’s been really fun. since i’ve found that i’m pretty great at reading people, i can tell right away that he is really sensitive. we were talking about how nighttime kind of sucks, except for when you get to go outside at midnight in the summer and lay in the grass looking at the stars. i told him that i wished there were more nights that could be like that and he responded with: “stick with me girl and there will be.” it was the perfect thing to say, and i doubt he realizes it. i think i’ve fallen for him…
and i’m scared, for two reasons. one, it turns out that he’s best friends with the sag guy i mentioned earlier. can you say awkward? and two, i’m afraid that all of the things that all of these other sag girls have mentioned will come true for me. i’m scared of being dropped, and i know that this perticular cancer has done so before.
so do i take the chance and get a few starry nights? or save myself some heartache. right now i’m getting ready to take a leap.
sorry that posted twice… stupid computer. : /
Hy Norah,
Hope all goes well, but don’t expect too much this period with Venus retrograde in our solar 5th house.
I am a sag girl, and I dare say not the blunt type as well. I am curious to see how your romance with this cancer guy works out. I had a cancer sun boyfriend and a cancer rising one. If I were you yes, I would go with what I feel,take the leap, be courageous, follow your heart, maybe play a little bit hard to get and see how he reacts, let him fight for you a little bit so that he does not take you for granted… just a thought
thanks Dorina, i think i will. i’ll try and post after i see what happens just for those who are curious to know : D
i.
am.
very.
excited.
i hope this works out!
hi sag-woman!
HELP ME WITH THIS!!!
i have an important question to all sag-women.
im cancer-man and very much in love with…. my best friend (sag-woman).
this great woman walked into my life years ago and ‘beamed’ herself ‘up’ into my closest-friends circle, by just being this – there it comes again – honest, positive, people-loving, funny human being.
as part of the problem: im more then 10 years older then she is, which always put me back in taking action. she was my funny, young and sexy friend…
but the clock ticks and now, years later, we have been more together, she went through crisis, so did i, we supported eachother – never had sex, but always feld the need to – .
my sexy, funny friend turned into a strong woman with a warm-beating heart. and now….
now i find myself completely in love with this beautiful, warm-hearted woman!
what hit me: she is honest to others, but most of all, to herself! experiencing this in a woman is… well, what can i see: i want her to be mine.
question: im going to tell her this and see how she responds. she calls me her ‘best friend’, she ‘loves me down to her heart’, she feels like we ‘grew more towards eachother’. these statements of her give me hope that she feels something too. but she is sag and they have this funny thing with confusing friendship and love.
how do i appraoch my sag-woman in this manner. i feel nervous like a school-boy.
for those who know cancer-man: this is not some funny-being-in-love thing. i haven’t been in love for a very long time. she is so important to me as a woman and human being..
please, give me some advise!
thanx
If I were you, I would just tell her how you feel. She may be crazy about you and just hasn’t told you. I am a Sag woman with a Cancer moon and my friends laugh at me when they say to me that a certain guy is madly in love with me and I swear I do not see it. Not at all ! They cannot believe I do not see what is so obvious to them. Maybe she is like me and doesn’t how you feel about her. At the end of the day, she can’t read your mind and Cancer people sometimes expect others to ‘just know’ how they feel, which I think is a bit unfair and I have been guilty of in the past.
If she loves you, she will grab you with both hands and if she wants to be best friends she will let you know, but in the nicest possible way. She sounds like a nice person, so you should be fine. I think Cancer is a good sign combination for me as my moon is in Cancer.
Anyway, good luck and I hope she grabs you with both hands and if she does please treat her right, because too many men take our good natures for granted and bruise our hearts. Only the special men know how to make us happy and we only really want true love, not a second rate version of it.
Good Luck
i m in love with a girl born on 2nd dec i m born on 7th july 1988 we met on orkut then for last 3months we talked on cell phones every day n chateed with each other after 10days time i used to speak only about her when i talked 2 her she never got angry she knew that i liked her n loving her.but after sometime she is teling me to do my studies n concentrate on work she has something for me but she is only showing negativeness towards me that as if she dosent loves me.i met her 3 times b4 she said no to me at time she was knowing that i love her but she is not ready to accept that she loves me.she says that she dont belive in love if this was her then she would have told me much b4 that dont talk about love. i want ur help n tell me how can i get her.
Hey everyone..well i’m a sag and my current boyfriend is cancer, and i think i’m in one of the most amazing yet complicated, relationships ever.I can undersantd wat ppl r saying here about how cancerians can be a bit overprotective which then turns arund to become just controling and htis drives me crazy i feel like i just wana tell him to relax and take everything bit by bit and deal with things when they come instead of thinking of everything ages b4 they happen..however his way has proven to be very useful at times(most of the times)..i do sometimes feel bored and “tied down” but when i come to my senses i feel gr8 being with him….sometimes i can have the best day of my life with him and 24 hours later i have the worst day of my life…and his mood swings drive me crazy..but i do love him like crazy and i know he feels the same way.
I recently chated on him with someone over the internet, which made me feel like s***…he found out and we had a huge breakdown and we broke up for a while, but i wanted him so bad and i wanted to do anything to have him back in my life. eventually he decided to give us another chance..it’s been like 3 weeks now bak together again and we’re gona celebrate our 2 year anniversary on thursday isa…so lsn cheating has nothing to do with signs it’s an individual thing..and i do believe in hrescopes..ALOT but i do believe that sometimes it just depends on the thwo ppl in the relationship
WELL I CAN’T SAY THE SAME I’M A SAG WOMEN AND I’M DATING A CANCER MAN…AND WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 9 IN A HALF MONTHS….I MUST SAY THERE ARE SOMETIMES I FELT LIKE GIVING UP….BUT WHEN WE INTERACT THINGS BECOME DIFFERENT AND YES HES VERY EMOTIONAL…..BUT I DEAL WITH IT….AS A SAG WERE VERY FEISTY…LOL I MUST SAY…BUT HE DEAL WITH IT…I LOVE HIM SO MUCH AND I HOPE WE CAN MAKE IT LAST…
I’m a sag/cappie cusp girl who was involved with a cancer man for 6 years. Overall, the experience was super confusing. We connected and I felt he was truely my other half. I loved him. Then he left stating I was too wild for him. He was very anxious, overly critical and always worried. I tend to take life more with a grain of salt. After leaving, he wanted to remain friends. Friends who sleep together at times and do not see other people. Basically he wanted to continue the relationship without having the title or commitment yet remained very committed. It was confusing to me as this type of behavior is not my nature. It almost ruined my current relationship (with an aquarius man) who seems more suited for me. In the end, my cancer also lied to me about another woman and attempted to justify his lies. I was very hurt and I doubt I will ever allow myself to be involved with a cancer man again.