Sagittarius woman misses Cancer man, deletes him from MySpace
December 14, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
Saj provided a birth time (click chart to view) and writes,Ive always heard that Sag and Cancer don’t get along but in my case I feel like we are somewhat compatible. His moon is in Aquarius and my moon is in Libra. His mars is in Leo and Venus in Cancer and my mars is in Scorpio and Venus in Capricorn. Anyway, when we first met we got really tight and slowly after like a month we started to kind of fade and stopped talking as often but i still slept over sometimes and each time was amazing. The last time we were together was the best. It felt so right like we knew exactly how to take care of each other.He wont talk about it with me so I stopped trying to force him to share his feelings with me but I got so uncomfortable not really knowing where we stand and not knowing the truth for sure so I told him we should stop seeing each other the way we did and I told him I deleted him as my friend off myspace because i was trying to get over him a little bit and now he’s not talking to me.
My question is, is there a chance he could miss me too? Because I miss him so much and I wont IM him or text him or call him just because when I tried to before, I got no response. Sometimes I feel like when he puts sad love songs as away messages they are for me but I can’t be too sure because theres a million other girls in the world and who really knows.
I’ve met a lot of guys since and I’m going out with them sometimes but i still think about him even when I’m out and I have no desire to be with anyone else.
You have a powerful Mars: it is dignified in its own (traditional) sign, conjunct your Midheaven, and intensified by a conjunction to Pluto. It’s actually a pretty potent combination: the two planets of sexuality conjunct, in the sign that they both rule, at the cusp of the very public 10th House. You’ve got sexual drive up the yin yang, and he’s probably scared of you. A poor little Cancer could get destroyed by that combination. And with Venus rising in Capricorn, you’re probably really attractive, albeit in a very classy and dignified way. You’ve got high standards, and maybe he feels he’s not good enough for you.
However, you’re attracted to him because you have Cancer on your Descendant (the cusp of your Seventh House). You’re drawn to the sensitive type who can provide nurturing and care. But you have to remember that Cancer feels easily vulnerable and can pull back into his shell to protect himself, thus giving a hard appearance. Perhaps he doesn’t feel safe enough to share his feelings with you right now.
You have a stellium of planets in Sagittarius: Mercury, Sun, Saturn and Uranus, all within orb of a conjunction, and opposite Chiron in Gemini. Deleting him off your MySpace is a little extreme, but suddenly (Uranus) cutting off (Saturn) a guy (Sun) because you feel wounded (Chiron) fits with your chart. Also, the vindictive nature of Mars-Pluto in Scorpio makes me wonder if you’re punishing him for not opening up to you after you felt so connected to him.
The key is to stop forcing him to share his feelings with you. He may indeed still have you in his heart, but he’s not going to take off his armor if he feels backed into a corner.
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I’m a sagittarius stellium with moon in libra, too, and this sounds exactly like something I did to the cancer I was dating. Things moved too fast and he wouldn’t talk to me, so I mentioned breaking up. Following radio silence, he showed up and berated me, then disappeared again. Jeffrey’s advice is dead on here, if you pull any moves he will resist it and punish you for it. It seems like everything has to be done on their terms.
Oh gosh, I have a Pisces man with Moon in Cancer, and Leo rising.
Well, this sounds like what he does/did! I am a Sag, and I also deleted him off myspace a while back. I sent him messages, and he didn’t respond. He went into quite a shell.
But I have found ways to nuzzle up to him again, and I actually got HIM to send ME a friends reaquest by sending him a message that said: I really would like if one day in the future we could be myspace friends again. I have been afraid to send you a request because I thought you would reject it and I just couldn’t bear that happening. Of course I will put you in the number one spot, but really I don’t even think that would do you justice because you deserve even more than that.
Five minutes later he sent me a friend request, and I have learned a lot from that maneuver. Maybe try being mushy….lucky me I have a Pisces moon so I can pull out the mushy card. Maybe it would be harder for you. But I recommend getting mushy with that sweet darling waterboy, and put yourself out there first rather than trying to get him to open up. After all….you started it!
I saw him two days after I posted that and everything was fine. We were drinking with our friends and flirting and slowly sitting closer and closer and then his arm was around me and he was tipsy so i guess he was less inhibited but i played with his hair and i could tell he wanted me to sleep in his bed with him but he couldnt ask me so i just went with him and it was nice as always.
i absolutely love being with him but after that was over he hasnt called or texted or even IMed since, he doesnt try at all to contact me…not even on my birthday and he knew it was my birthday. i was very sad.
should i just let it go for good? i’m so heart broken i’m so scared he only wants me for physical reasons.
What happens if saggitarius man shows interest in a gemini girl and at first gemini woman does not pay attention but when she does, she finds out that he has a girlfriend. When gemini woman backs away because of this the sagittarius man draws closer to her. what is a gemini woman to do?
Meet his girlfriend. See what he sees in her and get the sh** on this guy in a casual way. She’s already done the homework. He may be a good catch then again he may be a prick. Usually they’re in it for the sport ie recreational sex. He means you no harm, but harm you he may. Either way, he likes to think of you as his catch and not the other way around.