Why is my Leo man ignoring me?
November 16, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
Sure, our shining star loves to send warmth and light your way, but when there’s a threat to his dignity, he’s just focused on himself. Mars could blow up, but he couldn’t care less … except for the fact that he no longer has someone to do his dirty work.
Maybe Leo is ignoring you because you haven’t provided him the attention he obviously deserves. Leo has set his sights on finding a new admirer, someone smart enough to appreciate him for who he is, who would never doubt for a second how lucky he or she is to have a man like him.
If you’ve wounded Leo’s pride, he may retreat with his tail between his legs, plotting how he will pounce on you … when the time is ripe … and for increased dramatic effect! Don’t underestimate how stubborn this fixed sign can be. Just because he’s ignoring you does not mean he’s not thinking about you … as his next prey.
Or maybe it has nothing to do with you. Leo may be on a creative streak, working on his play with abandon, or lost in his painting. His is the sign of creativity and self-expression, and all that fire has to be channeled constructively. Better into his art than into endless preening, don’t you think?
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Because I told him off. When I called a few days later to apologize, he was at the Piano House, putting the finishing touches on his Sonata in F# minor.
Afterwards he drove by for sex more passionate than usual, after which I threw him out at 4 am, exhausted already as he wouldn’t let me sleep (Eveready battery)
After which he promptly ignored me for the next three months. We were both busy elsewhere, I suppose.
The cat came back, though. This has been going on since the summer of ‘04.
As a Leo (a woman though) I would ignore you if you had thrown me out at 4 am, or at any other hour, but in the middle of the night it’s even worse. A sense of abandonment, rejection and disrespect. Though I understand the situation and you being exhausted, but the insult might be too big to be easy to forgive or be overlooked and would have cast serious doubts in me about the compatibility with my lover had he done that.
What does it mean you “told him off”? My English isn’t good enough to understand what exactly does this expression “told him off” mean. Anyway, you told him off, called after a few days and then when he came back all passionate you threw him out? To be thrown out of my lover’s house at 4 AM during make-up sex after a previous fight? – that’s critical! I’d most probably leave him thinking he’s just not the man for me and it could never work out because he doesn’t love me enough, isn’t sensitive enough, doesn’t value my affection and is too cold-hearted and not romantic enough for me. Not to mention the wound to my pride. You don’t throw the queen out in the middle of the night just for loving you too much
. This goes against Leo’s every fiber.
I never got involved with any Leo men to speak of.
Leo women I have found get their feelings hurt, and don’t call or write if they’re not admired and treated a certain way.
Or, if someone else is admiring them more.
Could this also apply to a person with his Venus in Leo? I’m not really being ignored, but there’s some kinda voodoo in the air….
Hey Madusa,
I think that is exactly how he felt. The last time the cat came back (last Monday at 1:30 am) I didn’t open the door. Spared us both the drama
His sun is square mine, that’s all, setting off sparks, and Fire + Water makes for great steam.
Like you said, I put his fire out (telling him off = dumping a potful of boiling water on his head).
He started it. His fire had blow-dried my water sensitivity up long before that with his insatiable over-the-top come-ons (give me a break, this dude is on the roof 7 am serenading Don Giovanni style with his head in my bedroom window, flaunting muscles and flashing teeth)
Did have a nice mane, though, for running my fingers through
PS– I hate to admit Leos can be a whole of fun, damn those Leos
PPS–
Who said we were compatible?
correction, a WHOLE LOT of fun!
(sigh) maybe I should’ve opened the door . . .
correction, maybe not
Lion performances are best left for the circus
we’re living real life here
anonymous Scorpio,
LOL. For some reason I see a lot of attraction between Leos and Scorpios. Don’t ask me why.
oh yes! absolutely
scintillating squares between the suns
definite attractions
definitive drama
and yes (as you suspected)
My on and off Leo left the area for better opportunities…but this bull was unwilling and also unable to pack and go too when he suggested for me to come. Our last encounter was friendly and lusty, but I know that I will not hear from him unless he is visiting the area and is in heat….already knew it would have never last anyway.
Victoria,
Yes, the square is very dynamic. Yet, – and it can definitely be due to my limited experience, – I don’t come across Leo-Taurus or Scorpio-Aquarius attractions as frequently as Leo-Scorpio. I think it’s also because out of these 3 Sun-square-Sun combinations Leo and Scorpio are the more fiery, intense, emotional and passionate (about everything, don’t mean just sex). Scorpio is a water sign, but is still ruled also by Mars which is more fiery, so maybe there’s also a bit of similarity to the Leo-Aries factor in the mix as well. Lots of sparks and flames, that’s for sure
yeah ima mess… me and this leo have been dating for almost 5 months and after the 2nd month he pulled away and now its horrible he doesnt wanna talk to me doesnt call me for late night conversations anymore non of that. im and aquarius. Im so upset i really fell for the kid the last i tried calling me he was avoiding we got into a little argument after that i havent called him back its been 2 days and im just depressed. should i not call him till he calls me or should i do something..?
this is the same person with the comment above… just to add that when were together we have a great time have alot in common we laugh, he tells me everything which friends he dislikes,his personal things. and the sex is great. so yeah what am i soppose to do.
I got this leo who promised to call when he was in town, he’d love to see me. Then I’m in a bar and see him and didn’t know he was in the air. Then I texted him and said I thought I saw someone like him. He wrote back right away and said “that was me.” But nothing else, no suggestion that we hang out or anything. Insulted, I wrote back “Oh.” Days later he wants to know why I was ignoring him and was being petulant as if I was the one avoiding him. Wrap your head around that one!
i’m a capricorn woman who went on a date with a leo guy..it was so such a good time and at the end of it he wanted to know when my next day off was..when i told him in another week he said he couldn’t wait that long and wondered if he could see me in the sometime in a morning before going…i said ya..after a couple of days i didn’t hear from him i called didn’t leave a message and waited a couple of day exspecting to leave a message on his b-day, he answers saying you don’t like it either when you don’t get a message.. i guess he called the same day i first called..he was joking but serious when he answered saing that..he was suppost to call me when he wasn’t busy before i ledt for work..day 2 still haven’t heard from him..what is he doing, does he like me or not? when i talk to him or if he can’t get ahold of me he’s blowing my phone up..oh he 10 years older then me
sorry for the miss spelled words..oh his messages before seeing me when he couldn’t get ahold of me were call him to what did i do for you not talking to me, or why are you ignoring me..i would get 2-3 calls within a couple of hours like that..it’s not like he called me often before i seen him either..
I am a Sag woman and several months ago I began a passionate love affair with a Leo man. Everything was great for a couple of months. But then we had our first disagreement and now all we do is play games. I try to stop the games and be honest but he always replies with words that I know he doesnt mean and is just not being himself. How do I get us out of this rut? I know we both really want to be together but now we keep hurting eachother. help
I’ve been going out with my leo guy for just over 3 months. He’s usually really attentive, sending me cute msgs, even just to say goodnight or that he is thinking about me. All lovely but there are some times when i’ll reply and he’ll just not respond for days. but if i don’t respond to HIM? well the next time we talk, i get a “you could have just replied”. !! So at the moment my Leo is away but is online a lot, yet whenever i’m online at the same time and try to contact him, i’m just getting nothing back and then moments later he’s logged out. But when we have chatted online, it’s all gushing and great. feels like it’s his way or the highway. anyone else get that? im an impatient gemini with taurus in venus – maybe that is why i get uptight about him not contacting me as much as i like?
For the post above me…I get that. I’m a Scorpio, he’s the Leo. When we talk, it makes me high. When we are together it is fireworks galore. Then , he’ll go a whole week without calling. During that week I’m running the gamut: “who the hell does he think he is?”, all the way to figuring he’s “just not that into me.” Then, he leaves the sweetest message, and I’m soaring again. Or, I see his smiling face, and it hits me like a ton of bricks, THIS is why I’m doing this rollercoaster! He’s dangerously hot, and so happy and outgoing, it makes an emotional creature like me wonder why I ever had worries to begin with. It’s making my head spin. So, is this just the way Leo men are? Attentive to the point of possessive one minute, and aloof and unavailable the next? I wonder if I’ll be able to handle it, but when I’m high, it’s all worth it. *sigh
I met a Leo last month. For 10 glorious days, we were inseperable. He was talking about including me in future holidays, he said it was love at first sight. Then nothing! He just stopped. I finally called him and he said things were going to fast and he does not want a relationship. It ended as quick as it began, He crushed my heart.
Crushed Cancer:
This Scorpio girl is right with you. My hot Leo told me the last time we were together that, “You let me talk, you cook me dinners… you’re too nice to me.” Some more naive girls may have took that as a compliment, I saw it for what it was, that he was out the door. I’ve talked to him once since, and he hasn’t contacted me for a week. But, I wouldn’t dream of calling him. I can take a hint.
I’m reminded that there are two emotions. Love and fear. If big, bad Mr. Leo is ignoring us, which emotion do YOU think he’s acting from?? *wink
Aquaries here
Im kida starting to feel better reading all these comments. I thought all along I had did something to provoke my Leo man and the was he acts and ignors me if any one can leave me somesuggestions as to what to do please.
Well Sunday me and my Leo man had a wounderful day together time of my life. Then in the evening I made dinner started to be a great night. then I asked my leo if he would like to stay over then he said no he will talk to me on monday. Kind of wierd but ok. So he left then I gave him a call he picked up asked if he was allright. but his mood changed in just a few sec then he started with saying that I had something that I needed to tell him I then stated no and that is true I have no secrets that I have kept from him I have been 100% honest and faithful to him I love this Leo man dearly. but anyways he then said Im getting upset Ill talk to ya soon. ok finelove ya bye. then I had a sick feeling in my gut went to get my keys and guess what I left my darn keys in his car.so I called no answer fine. I called a friend to pick me up take me to get the keys. Went to his house he was not home. was going home when I passed a night club and my gut feeling was worse. ok his car was there I went in to get my keys he had a very surprised look ok went to the car to get the keys I did not say one word to him gave him a pissedoff look and left.ok he started the car and left ya right I thought. ok I went home got dressed went back to the club and guess what he was there ya I thought he was going home.Anyways I made it known for him to see me and he did. he did not say one word to me just kept passing by acting like if he was not looking but he was anyways. after an hour of me being there he left I just sat down did not evan drink I was too mad anyways I have not talked to him since sunday and I want to call but I have not tried too. He is so use to me always running to him saying im sorry when I know good and well it was not me im tried off feeling like im always doing something wrong when im not does anyone else feel like this with Leo please help…I miss him so much and dont know if I should give in got get out…
Being a Leo here I have to agree with the reasons.
If I feel a partner isn’t giving me enough attention or praise I feel bad, Like I’ve done something wrong or that said partner has fallen “unlove” with me. So I quickly dettach from the partner who doesn’t feel they need to show me any affection.
So naturally when someone else comes by giving me praise or attention they catch my eye and now have my full attention.
Ok wow! i have been doing research for quite a while now about the absolute lover Leo Boy. I was 19 and he was 20. Both of us either had ever been in a relationship. ever! we met at a lil party. i came the second night and he asked me out… we took everything slow…. then once they picked up i got excited and loved every second of every minute. long story short. I ended up moving out 300 miles away. I am a cancer. So i come off strong, but can only hold that stregnth for so long…. until my emotions take over. I swear this pain hasnt left me. we still comunicated every few months… but he’d totally do the ignoring thing. it killed me. I had no friends in this new town so im glad i didnt have a damn gun in my hand. jk…. i ended up moving back home after living there 8 months… then home to mommy. I was SO hopeful that him an i would be stirring things back up. but we saw eachother once…. had passionate loving as usual…. but as i read more an more of these comments…. im seriously feeling better and better. I actually cried, and luaghed becuase this all makes sense. Everything that has happined so far matches up…. oh yea! ill finish what i was saying…. i have not seen or heard from to Mr. Leo since last DECembEr!!! ok its october now…. thats practically a YEAR! i still called and texts my deepest thoughts. im so used to not ever gettin a single answer…. UNTIL…. YES!!! about 4 weeks ago… he text me…. like seeing his name in my phone as if it were a ghost!…. i screamed in my car as i was driving.. HAHA but then i took a deep breath and kinda chuckled back at him. like “wow, suprise suprise…” not bursting out in emotions. my world has been pretty much on pause since… ive got lil conversations the past couple nights…. he was drinkin and i was also but at seperate places… and i told him we should hang… but he said he wasnt ready yet…. i didnt make a big deal…. Just the stupid texting brightins my day right now,, But ive past the first test of not giving up on him… now hes opened the door of communication…. to reel my man in i have to have confidence in myself and not give him everything he wants. He likes alil chase. I gota let him starve a bit for me like I did for so long. with that control i will build the power to break this love spell that has been put on me! and he will mine forever and ever…. Im the Queen in his fantacy future and he is my King… I dont wana say Im playing a game, but it almost is…. ive just finally figured out the rules… LOL
wow, this site may have really saved me and givin me the awesome chance to have my fairy tale.
Thanks everyone!!
~S~
Wow! Leo’s are a handful. Now grant it, they are charming and love to show you a good time, but what’s the catch. I personally love the passionate sex they bring, but trying to ride that emotional roller coaster they have you on is a something I could do without. I really had feelings for this Leo, and he switched up like day and night. I was so confused that I finally had to be blunt and draw a line in the sand. I stated exactly what wanted and asked him what he wanted. Well according to him he doesn’t like to put labels on relationships. Translation, he has commitment issues. We could act like we were in a relationship, but we could never talk about being in one. That sh*t was crazy. I never felt so confused in all my life. Finally, I had enough and cut my losses and decided I was done. I told him that it seemed we were heading in different directions and that I agreed that we should not be in a relationship and that I was going to begin seeing other people and encouraged him to do the same. Well needless to say we didn’t talk for two days and guess who called. Well I was pleasant, but preoccupied when I spoke with him and kept the conversation short and sweet. I felt validated but not enough to go back to that foolishness. I feel it is better for him to search for his lioness somewhere else.
Hi All!
I’ve been scanning the internet to find an answer to the puzzle that is the Leo man. I’m an Aries who now finds herself to have fallen for a Leo man. We met over a year ago after a show that he was playing in( he’s a musician), it felt like love at first sight and the chemistry seemed there from the off. We both live on opposite sides of the Atlantic so after our first meeting everything was through email. I was wary at first and he seemed very eager to communicate but after a while(as is the case it seems from here) he stopped emailing. I didn’t want to chase so let him be, and waited till I saw him in the December and to my joy the attraction was still there, when we met again after one of his shows. After our second meeting he emailed me to say that he was thinking of me and missing me. And being the Aries I am, I decided to let my cards out on the table and told him that I found him exetremely attractive and would like to stay in contact. To my joy he reciprocated my feelings and I thought that maybe something could come out of this. BUT once again, months went by without any word from him. So after an email showing interest that he wanted to meet up outside of the show, I suggested coffee which was agreed to be a good idea. BUT when he was over last week, coffee was off but hanging out after the show was ok. I understand that being in a band is demanding and the show was big but I can’t understand Leo’s when the chemistry is there, the attraction but the communication seems to cut off to the point where you’re going to move on and they just come back, still enthusiastic and interested!!! I feel like when we’re together theres chemistry but that I’m doing all the chasing when we’re apart. New tactics is to completely ignore him and see if he gets into contact. I don’t want to give up on him, but I’ve not had the best luck with men and have found that chasing things up with them leaves you getting hurt. So my question is, when it comes to Leo, will ignorance lead to bliss?
Ok looking back on the comment I just left, I left one piece of info out, that he does seem to be sorry that he didn’t get to hang out with me. Sorry the obvious answer would be, yeah he’s not interested. My friends are rather puzzled he hasn’t replied because they saw that he seemed genuinely disheartened that we ddn’t get to go for that coffee. Anyways, actions maybe louder than words who knows….
As a pisces with my moon in leo who had to end it with the leo whose moon is in pisces . Who wanted me to allow them to do everything and wanted to allow me to do nothing…I am reminder of a rolling stones song Line what was it ??? ” You can’t always get what you want”. They said that they like to make thier own rules and I told them that sometimes you have no choice but to play by anothers
OK i am a Sagittarian born on 3rd dec so not sure of rising signs or anything like that. I have started dating a Leo well been talking loads last 3 weeks and due to meet Sunday. Now the thing im wondering about is what happens if they do that to a sag as in my case if that was me, i would only give him one chance to do that and thats that.
But my question is lately he has been getting very jealous about men on facebook, even though they are friends, and i think he is used to simple easy women as when he came up a bit fiery yesterday i unfortunately instantly reacted being a fire sign myself, this is bound to happen. But he nearly ended the call saying dont ring me again etc etc so i thought ok… thats life but before i did go he changed his mind. He is super adamant he doesn’t play games etc etc and i dont think hes a lier or cheater etc but what is it.. And how does a sadge deal with it, as i am very lazy and doing all the chasing wud just put me off…. any ideas?
i dated this Leo from a dating website a unsure about because interracial dating (his white &am black)and his profile seem messy ,unclear etc.. we talk online about 6 weeks b4 we meet and text on the phone as well
when he saw me he was shock & went red he told me oh i didn’t know you was going to be that beautiful i love your eyes ear rings etc… he keep telling me everything i wanted to hear like your so beautiful, i miss you, i only think of you , am growing feeling toward u but after best 2 dates of my life we not sleep together
he started to make up 10000001 excesses why we cant see me but i felt that his friends and family didn’t approve of us he didn’t tell me directly but hinted so i except it then he would call me tell how he feeling about me i love u i miss u etc… then when i return his calls he ignore them i feel that i was becoming emotional clingy and needy so i left him alone he started again so i left him a messaging asking him where i stand if you wanna dating then let date if you cant don’t worry no hard feeling 2 weeks later he started again so i ask him when can i c you again he tell me i call you and sent him text messages i send two to be ignored 2 weeks hear nothing and now i am back on line and so is he
i feel if interracial dating was such a problem 4 him why do it and why tell me that you love me and think the world of me but have no intention of seeing
A leo needs a challenge..
He wants to chase after you
Once he’s had you and the game is over..
If he is still interested, you will know.
Though they don’t express themselves emotionally well, they are strangely easy to read.
You will know if they want you, and you will know when they don’t.
Chances are, if they’re ignoring you.. They’ve lost attraction to you, found something better, or just realized you’re too much for them. They use the not talking to you strategy because they think they’re doing you a favor by not telling you and also.. leo’s don’t like it when people don’t like them and they don’t like ending things.
If they are coming back to you however, the same way as before and leaving .. then they still feeel there’s a chance. Sometimes, a leo gets their priorities out of wack, and they’ll eventually just say screw it and give up on you. If this is happening to you my best advice is to either …1. Just let them go and save yourself trouble or.. 2. if you cant let them go wait it out.. keep in touch but in a friendly manner.. and see how it goes from there.
Leo’s are really good with:
aquarius
saggitarius
aries
gemini
libra
and other leo’s.
Leo’s do get along with most everyone, but don’t be fooled.
COmpare your venus signs.
and water/earth signs dont expect him to show himself emotionally to you on the level that you would like because it will just frustrate you and it will be a horror story.
Hope this helped.
I am 21 cancer girl in love with a workmate who is a leo. It started at the xmas party 2.5 months ago and i kissed this guy. Mind you i still had a boyfriend (scorpio) but i told this new leo boy that i am leaving him. He was so sweet at first, saying that he does not want to influence my decision in anyway and that he will wait for me until i break it off with my boyfriend.Everything was fine until 1 month later whereby he stopped texting me and asking me to go to lunch with him. When i confront him, he said that he is distancing himself away from me because he doesnt want to get hurt as i don’t seem to be able to make up my mine. One week later i break up with my ex and this leo boy knew about it. Since then, nothing has happened, he was even colder to me. When I asked, he said that he doesnt know what he wants with ‘us’ and it is at the back of his mind…he said that he however liked me…So..a word of advice anyone? I really like him, what should i do?
That Leo sounds like a bit of a playboy to me. It was all interesting when you were hard to get and in a relationship but now that you’re available, he’s unsure of what he wants. I know that you really like this guy but play him at him own game and ignore him for the while may help. You’ve confronted him about it with little luck, maybe some a cold front on your side may be whats needed to get him thinking.
Ok I am a thirty something Aquarius woman who can not stop thinking about this 28 yr old Leo. (He has his own home, car and a good job) He knew my brother and one day I met him. There is a very strange, strong pull to him.
He fixed my car for free a few times (he’s a mechanic). Whenever I see him he comes over to me (we live close to each other). He stares in my eyes a lot and sometimes we both get lost in just starring at each other (not saying a word) WEIRD!! But he has a GIRLFRIEND!!!
He dosen’t call me on his own, but if I call him he always answers (no letting it go to voicemail even if he’s working ok) or texts (even though there is a little language barrier, he’s spanish). One time I was having car trouble and he was leaving on a road trip with his girlfriend and her father, and he turned around and came to start the car.
He even called me from the vacation to see how things were going. Valentines I gave him sweetheart candies and he said thank you. But when I asked him what he was doing with his girl that day he was like ” I don’t know, maybe something later” What happened to Mr. Warm Hearted?
It’s really hard to read him. Is this Leo flirting with me or what and what do I do next if he is?
Please help
Ok I am a Aquarius woman who can not stop thinking about this 28 yr old Leo. (He has his own home, car and a good job) He knew my brother and one day I met him. There is a very strange, strong pull to him.
He fixed my car for free a few times (he’s a mechanic). Whenever I see him he comes over to me (we live close to each other). He stares in my eyes a lot and sometimes we both get lost in just starring at each other (not saying a word) WEIRD!! But he has a GIRLFRIEND!!!
He dosen’t call me on his own, but if I call him he always answers (no letting it go to voicemail even if he’s working ok) or texts (even though there is a little language barrier). One time I was having car trouble and he was leaving on a road trip with his girlfriend and her father, and he turned around and came to start the car.
He even called me from the vacation to see how things were going. Valentines I gave him sweetheart candies and he said thank you. But when I asked him what he was doing with his girl that day he was like ” I don’t know, maybe something later” What happened to Mr. Warm Hearted?
It’s really hard to read him. Is this Leo flirting with me or what and what do I do next if he is?
Please help
Yesterday, I told my boyfriend who is a Leo to kiss my ass and go to hell! I took 2 years of emotional abuse off of him. I was lied to, cheated on, deceived, and unappreciated by this man. We had a beautiful relationship for at least the first year. I was a challenge to him though and would give him a taste of his own medicine. Leos are cruel and most are immature. I loved this man with all of my heart and he chipped and chipped away at my emotions until I could no longer take the Roller Coaster ride. Leos are cold emotionally and are VERY self-centered, a me first attitude. Although Leo men admire strong women who will tell them off; they are very insecure and feel more comfortable with women who are beneath them who constantly stroke their egos and beg and run behind them; that makes them feel secure because they are very INSECURE MEN! I am not male bashing but I am telling you my bad experience with a Leo male.
Good luck to all of the ladies who are beautiful, smart, strong, confident, loving and sexy. Leo men will take all they can get without any thanks…..THEY ARE TRUE [expletive removed by editor]!
I am a Cusp Sag/Cap.
Im a 16 year old LEO (August 7) in so deeply in love with this SUPER GORGEOUS cancer girl. i love her to death and i would give the world for her. as ive read in previous comments i know that some leos lose attraction once theyve got the girl theyve wanted. I would never do that to anyone. especially cancer. ive read that they are the sensitive type and they are clingy. i like do help a girl who is the sensitive type and i wouldnt mind at all if this girl wanted to be with me every second of ever day. that shows me that she loves me, wants to be with me, and needs me to protect her. she goes through at least three boyfriends a year and i want to be her next boyfriend and i want to ask her out but i dont want to force or push her. im scared of hurting her feelings. ive loved this girl for over a year but never really showed it to her. i need some advice from someone. if possible a cancer girl. you can post a reply here or you can email me at mr.dmmudd@yahoo.com.
Hi everyone, you probably all know everyone is different depending on their age, natal chart, cultural background, and personal experiences. Anyway, I am a female (25) August22 Leo borderline Virgo with Gemini moon, Virgo Venus and Capricorn rising. I am with my best friend/fiance Leo man (30) Aug 21 with Leo moon, Leo Venus, Leo mars, Scorpio rising. We both possess the LEO trait and personality strongly. Speaking from a very masculine orientated Leo thinker’s point of view, I’ll you all the truth, secrets, flaws and challenges of a Leo mate. Based on my Leo mind and the Leo man I am with, Leos are not as warm and romantic as astrology described us. The reason I am doing well with my supposedly “bad” Leo partner is because I too, think and behave like a Leo. Though we are pride driven, but some of us learn to comprise and are sensible with great logic. Leos love to win, hate to argue and get emotionally involved. We are always in some kind of competition to prove to ourselves we are capable. Trust me, this is a good and bad sign. We are not all drama queens but quite the “man” in situations because emotion scares us. Now the “we I am referring to is not all Leos but mostly addressing to me and my man in this topic. We started off as friends who played together, went on adventures, physical activities and long talks and creative endeavors. I chased him due to my own nature and Leo men loves a daring woman. I always had that I don’t give a cent attitude which both attracts and upsets him away. We don’t use our charm tricks on each other because the rules are blunt and our lips are not sealed. We are both kind of macho and yeah I am bit of a tom boy so this makes our decisions quick and conversations frank. I admit Leos love to woo and charm others when opportunity presents but it is not because we are intending on bad deeds but simply a type of expression. Leos love to express and are passionate in the heat of the moment. But one thing I warn you guys, me being a Leo, and from observing my bf, we come off as moody because we lack emotional memory. Our brain tend to fire up these crazy ideas and romances and when the fire is gone, we are back to neutral. I get along with my Leo boy friend because I switch from a cat to a lion. We play like kids with affections and sometimes we are both like men (though with his Latin background he wants to be macho one!)and can attempt dangerous things together. We hate being bossed by one and other so I came up with a constructive plan, business talk! Challenge your Leo, they love it! Race him in a bike ride, cook him a romantic dinner, and just let him go free for a couple days….there’s something about “I need space” in us Leos. They can be mature when you know how to confront them but not push them. I confront my man at times though I do step on his Lion tail as well. I get pissed off when he tries to give me attitude and I always run away for days…….see it’s not just Leo man! So again, being a bit of Virgo, I suggested both of us need to be more diplomatic instead of impulsive and rude……..the best way to criticize him is by being mature, political, and adjust the tone of our voice and be as logical as possible. I always say to my man, “as a man of honor, you always want to do good in everything, now you got to show me how you can make this relationship even better “. It works really well! Talk to your Leo with a firm, confident, and understanding manner when you want him to act a certain way……talk business and emotions will only get the worst of him. Give him this almost mother like support and love…..they love it and don’t be afraid to ask the same in return. We do like praises and attentions but then again, so are a lot of other signs. A relationship for Leos built on friendship is very solid, they like the idea of having a playmate and friend as a girlfriend or wife. Trust me, I have problem with my Leo too at times but it’s a common thing we all need to face. Just don’t take anything too personal from him because Leos are bit strange at times. One thing my Leo man told me is that he use to distant himself in previous relationships because it didn’t feel real or the woman didn’t express herself. He likes when I throw these over the top romantic gestures and loving expressions…….just between me and you, I always have these outburst of aggressive loving gesture just for the hell of it….not afraid to show too much and straight forward is the way he likes it. Yeah every Leo is different, once you can catch their heart, they worship the ground you walk.
Why are Leo guys so handsome? I’ve been ignored by practically every Leo guy I’ve ever met, I took it personally. Now I’m reading about everyone else, wow!
I guess they want to be admired all the time. They seem to like women chasing them, “Arn’t I great?” attitude LOL
Hi all, I have been reading this site for sometime and I really HEART it…
It gives me a lot of insight about Leo.
I have a major issue here right now though’ and it would be nice to hear from you people if it’s not too much of me to ask for.
See, I have my first crush on my first cousin since I was 11. 13 years and still I carry that torch for him.
My wedding finger is filled but still (yes, gasp… I can’t help it either. Married for 3 years) I can’t seem to forget about him. My husband is a Leo too but he is born on the 23 July so he is in between Cancer and Leo.
Me and that Leo cousin (9th Aug) been ‘flirting’ since 4 years back… On and off, on and off… Via texts, hours long phone calls and E-mails… I only get to see him once a year during New Year and each time he would hesitant but be the first one to march up to me and shake my hand and give me this really warm welcoming smile. (Awwwww, I love it…) We would then spent the rest of the New Year holiday hanging out in a big family but he and I would always been sticking close and he would always lean really close to me and he likes touching me for no reason… (My arms, hands, shoulders…) He would drop me a little compliment here and there… Doing me my favorite things… He is super romantic towards me… Last year June, things took a turn, we had a planned ‘holiday’ and I flew over to his city and he earlier on promised me times and times again that he would stay with me for that 2 nights cause he know I would rather die than to stay alone in the hotel. Even that night before flying off, I reconfirm with him and he said he would stay with me for sure. But hours later, he texted me and asked if he could stay with me till 3am or so and be back around 7am for breakfast… I mean it’s a big no-no for me since I am really afraid of staying in the hotel alone so I told him that I would ‘cancel’ the plan and I am staying home at weekend.
But infact, I called up my other cousins and they are more than happy to keep me accompany for those few days… I felt so betrayed by Leo and I really don’t understand why he did that to me. I could in fact earlier on sense that he might not wish to keep me accompany but every time I asked him about it, he would said he is more than happy to do so. So, I decided to just meet up with my other cousins and have a great time with them instead of meeting him.
That morning, the minute I landed, I turned on my cell phone and there came his message. He asked what time would we be meeting? And I replied him that I didn’t fly over and am still at home. He then replied that he would still reserve that whole weekend for me and should I be in his city, just give him a call. He knows me well enough to know that I would still fly over ’secretly’ somehow… So, I replied him that, yes I am ‘here’! The phone rang immediately and he sound so happy infact. He then told me to be at the hotel and he would meet me after work. But I told him my schedule with other cousins and he got so upset and pissed off. I mean, yes the plan was all for him at first but later he couldn’t answer for what he earlier promised so I see no wrong in me fixing dates with other cousins instead right? So he told me to think for myself but being a pure Taurus, I stuck strongly to my principle, meeting other cousins as per scheduled for meals and movies.
One of my female cousin, I had earlier asked her to stay with me for that 2 nights and she readily agree. So there goes the first night. Then day 2, after all the fun and all with other cousins, I only met him at 8p.m and surprisingly one other cousin joined in for dinner… So 4 of us (including that female cousin who was staying with me that night before) had dinner and later, my job (he insisted) is to ask if my female cousin mind cutting her stay with me a night shorter and he would help send her home but that other cousin who joined us out of a sudden, I have issue with asking her to leave cause she thought it would be nice of her to keep me accompany. They all don’t know a thing between me and that cousin.
Being almost drive to my limit of having to go against my principle of sending people off when they actually are being so kind and nice to keep me a accompany when I asked for at such a last minute. I don’t know but I was so upset and I felt that he is at fault for being so mean and only telling me at such last minute.
Somehow, I have this feeling that he wants me to be there badly but is afraid of thinking me that he doesn’t wants to sleep throughout the whole night with me for whatever-reason I don’t know. So anyway, I was left with him all alone at the end of the night… Honestly, I was just fuming within till I even want to look or even talk to him. But he, act like as if he was so innocent and slouched on the sofa and then later he broke the silent and said that we should talk about our ‘relationship’… HELL NO, I just want to’ sleep and there was nothing I want to talk to him about cause that moment, I hate him very much for being so irresponsible and selfish.
He then looked so tired and wanted to sleep and he slept at the sofa but I told him to go to the bed to sleep but he refuse. Seeing him sleeping so uncomfortably just pain me so I told him that he can go home… I would just jolly well grip my teeth and be in the company of the Tv and Internet to put me through to the next morning, eyes open. Shortly after he left, lighting and thunder came… Count myself totally unlucky when the Tv and internet cable got struck by the lighting and so I quickly called him and asked if he could head back and since he was still at the car park, he agreed to meet me at the hotel lobby instead. 30 minutes into sitting at the lobby, I told him that I would go up to check and see if the connections are back and indeed they were so I called him and told him that he can quickly drive home to sleep.
It really wasn’t my day, just 10 minutes later, the lighting came again and mind you, it’s not just short fall rain. It was pouring MADLY!
I then called him again and since his home was just 15 mins away, I asked if he can come back to accompany me because I am really scare… He replied me, ‘Impossible’…
I heard some frightening noise from the bathroom and it freaked me out totally. I called my husband and told him about it and he said, it’s too late to fly back anyway so he asked me to book for a cab and get right back. (My husband knows that I am into Leo way before we even dated but he always thinks that Leo is a gay and felt totally safe about me and him)… So I hop on a ride and it sent me right back on road for 4.5 hours at around 3A.M… I didn’t think too much about the safety and all cause all I want is just to get out of that place.
Right back at home, my husband called Leo up without me knowing by using my cell phone and he gave him a piece of his mind on how he should have handle things instead. He told him nicely that, being a man, my cousin to me, he really should have consider keeping me accompany since he knows that I am so afraid at that point of time but instead Leo just replied my husband that he would never contact me ever…
After that, he got really pissed off with my husband calling him to give him a piece of his mind and he called me nasty names and said nasty things to me. I charged back at him and he didn’t reply me thereafter but I am dying to know if he even did read that E-mail that I sent to him so out of anxiety, I ‘hacked’ into his E-mail account (yes, I TOTALLY reckon that it’s really bad of me to do so)… Yes, he reads all my Emails and I almost found that he has a ‘boyfriend’. Yes, my husband sensed it right. I don’t know how but he insisted that he is a gay which to me is of no big deal. But put it this way, he is a Bi. He likes both sexes though’. He later found out that I hacked into his Email account because I admitted to him. He said he don’t hate me and said that he is FINE with it.
It have been soooooooooooo long since I last hear of him but I know from my other cousins that he still talks about me and he still care for me but he just simply refuse to talk to me. This Dec, one of my cousin would be getting hitch and thus I would be flying back to attend the wedding and the last thing he told me was that he hope to see me during that wedding dinner cause he know I would find 1000 excuses to not attend for sure.
How or what so I do to make us back just like before? Yes, I know he is a Bi gay but I am totally fine with it honestly.
He is 7 years my senior and beside my husband, he is one man who simply sweeps me off my feet like no one does…
How should I deal with this?
I am vexed…
Thanks with tons of appreciation…
-Pink Cow
heya….m a gemini girl truly in love with a leo guy..i know him for past4 months or so..till date we have been gr8 friends….the problem started from the last month.He got busy in his work n it was not possible for both of us to talk much as we used to do earlier. although i kept in touch with him through sms n all..sometimes i got his replies n sometimes not..bt still i kept messgaing him without expecting nythng from his side..bt in reality i wanted him to reply to me..but it was pretty ok for me cozz he was really busy in work..but now when he is done with all his work..he doesn’t reply to my messages even now..n when i calls him up it appears as he is not interested to talk to me anymore..i have absolutely no idea why he is doing all this . Earlier he was not the same..he used to talk me as if we had known each other fOR many years.And it was then only that i started falling in love with him. But now there is no interst from his side..when i come online he is suddenly logged out..i don’t know what has happened to him. I love him soo much and i realy want him back. Could anyone plz tell me what should i do inorder to get my love back..i really miss him
To the girl above..
He used his work as an excuse to come off as being too busy to talk to you. If a Leo man actually likes you, he will make time for you no matter how busy he is. If he thought he did but something changed and now he doesnt want you anymore he will start acting distant. He’s either found someone else or has just lost interest in you. Do not keep trying to talk to him.. this will only make things worse. My best advice to you is to move on because you’ve probably said some stupid shit to him..{just a guess with gemini’s inability to know when to quit}…Which has already damaged the situation.
It may feel like you still love him but you really shouldnt if he’s doing this to you.
A gemini has this weird personality trait where they feel hopeless if they want something they cant have.. which can give them a false sense of liking something/someone more just because they want to be challenged and win them back.
Don’t do this.
Leo’s rarely change their mind.
Once it’s in his head that he’s uninterested you can’t win him back.
Ugh the answer is simple! I’m a leo women and when i’m ignoring you i’ve moved on since leo’s always are on the go we dont have time for either your immaturity, rudness, or disrespect! Once we’re done though we’re done! We’re a fixed sign unless like previously mentioned good sex but thats the extent on how far it goes!
we’re rather simple people and dont put up with BS like the whole throwing him out at 4 am??? yeaaaa next! 