Comments on: Virgo woman with hot-and-cold Gemini man

By: Alexus

Alexus — Fri, 22 Jan 2010 20:43:29 +0000

Well Im a virgo woman,I was dating this gemini man. I been knowing this man for 17 years we lost contact he told me he was searching for me for 10 years claimed he been in love with me all these years So he found me I gave it a chance. He was all caring and so into me constantly telling me he love me. We spent long hours on the phone daily texted each other. Then 2 months later he became distant the calls became once a week, We went from spending hours on the phone to less then 10mins once a week on the phone. Then he would text me once every 4 days to say he was about to call me and he love me, That was confusing but, He never called when before when he text and said that he normally called. He did a whole 360. Im not the type to run after a man. So I called him and left him a message and told him its over. As a virgo woman I think to much as it is, this relationship with this gemini man was an emotional roller coaster. I hate that I waste my time. I didnt have time for his mind games. BTW he told me he had alot goin on but still acting cold to your woman and being distant isnt the answer dealing with a virgo woman that would push us away. We have to feel secured in a relationship being cold wont work. Oh yeah this happened 3 days ago he still havent responded to me ending it any body have any advice to what could of happened? Did he lose interest once he got me dont know still clueless can somebody help?

By: Renae

Renae — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 18:42:41 +0000

I am a virgo woman, and I am sorta kinda dating a gemini man. That’s the thing every site on horoscopes say that you are not suposed to presure a gemini, but am I supposed to go on clueless because I don’t want to come on to strong by asking him where are we in this, I just don’t know. It feels as thought we are supposed to be together sometimes and other times I have to wonder, see he has been married before and I guess he has up this wall that is very hard to cross or even go around. So what should I do stare at it until it wethers away. I love him though and I guess I’m willing to face it, so I guess my new name will be clueless. lol

By: jennifer

jennifer — Thu, 05 Feb 2009 00:25:08 +0000

I dated a gemini for 17 years on and off. We could never seem to make it work. His other personalities didn’t mesh with mine. However, we were young when we met and I feel he wasn’t mature enough and I wasn’t patient enough to deal with each other. I loved him very much and really wanted to be with him. I went through 2 marriages and still ended up with him after each one. He recently got married and I have chosen to cut ties. Presently, I met another gemini, he is my neighbor. We developed a friendship for 7 months before any romance was added to our interaction. I am much older now and feel that my interaction with the previous gemini has prepared me to be with the new one. We have taken it slow but after we became intimate we can’t stay away from each other. He has never been married and wants stability in his life now. As a virgo woman, I exude stability and he seems to be very attracted to it. I keep asking him when is he going to reveal the ‘other side’ of himself. He says he has grown and matured and realizes his fee nature doesn’t always serve him well. We are talking about the future and marriage is very likely. I have learned to work on my negative qualities because they don’t serve me well in relationships no matter what sign I date. He is a really sweet man and makes me feel as if I am the most special woman to him. I know the stars say that we will have challenges but I have challenges in every relationship, however, I feel he and I have a special connection and I want to explore it and take it day by day. We are committed to working through things as they arise. No relationship is perfect. I feel this is God’s will. I have learned it is not about the sign but more about the person and their level of maturity and desire to be in a relationship with you.

By: courtney

courtney — Tue, 23 Dec 2008 04:09:55 +0000

That is so true about me i’m a virgo woman and i have a lot of leo ways i just have a problem with dating new guys.That come on to strong i find that very tacky and i always attract bad boys.They find me very attractive i wish i new why.

By: Someone

Someone — Thu, 08 Nov 2007 23:57:00 +0000

Hi Jeff! Thank you so much for the answer! I think you are right about me. I think too much and I feel too much too as I’m very passionate! And romantic, this part doesn’t go with him I think, but the put going and independent part does! I will follow your advice! I will try not to be too picky too because I know sometimes I can be like that! Thank you very much! I’m thinking seriously if I can handle the coldness of my boyfriend. I don’t know what to do for now but I will take this time out (because he is cold) to think about it. Sometimes I think the less I care about him the more he wants me, but I cannot pretend my feelings. When I’m into someone, I really am. Sooooo Leo!