Sex advice columnist Dan Savage has coined the abbreviation GGG: “good in bed, giving equal time and equal pleasure, and game for anything — within reason.” The Scorpio man is drawn to taboos and the underworld of sexuality, so a few kinks are to be expected. Bondage, domination, sadomasochism … power and pain are old friends to the Scorpion. This is not to say that all Scorpios like to dole out punishment: The sign is truly about the depths of intimacy, which means exploring every nook and cranny of your English muffin. No! I mean that he will want to connect intensely with you — staring into each other’s eyes (even during orgasm), or achieving tantric bliss through controlled sexual techniques.
If you want to satisfy him, you have to overcome your fear — fear of closeness, fear of exploring the boundaries of pain and pleasure. By all means don’t do anything that feels violating (unless, of course, you’re into that sort of thing.) But be willing to turn lovemaking into an attempt to excavate your hidden turn-ons and wounds, eroticizing power dynamics and family traumas to gain a sense of mastery over them.
And if all else fails, stick your finger up his patootie.
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nutty….as in feeling impatient with something or longing for something or just bored with the mundane?
dreamy oh my lol
ohh Phoenix.. hahaha..
glad i met everyone here..
thanks
oh i guess i didnt write well im feeling energetic playful flirty and gigly or im laghing alot anxiuos a little and thats about it
dreamy no prob hope i helped in some way.
you helped a lot phoenix
hey me again somethings happend this weekend tha i aim left in the clouds confused as to wats goin on….my scorp has bn a bit offish with me l8ly he asked me to go up there on weekend so i go up there i was ment to be going clubbing got all dressed up an redy to go an then i ended up there…i gets in his house and he tells me sorry if i really stress you out i really like you bu i dont really trust girls he told me not me in geral just not girls he says that he dont want to rush in to a realtion ship bu he dont want me with no over men!! an he wont go with no other girl sooo ok to me that sounds like a relationship i really dont get him on times he has been textin me all night wich i dont get cus he never used to txt me now he cant text me enough …i asked him if he dint trust girls because his last realtionship scared him he dint really wana talk abou it bu yet he replied no…now i have come from a realtionship were he was constatly cheating on me and all sorts of things i told him this thinkin he was gona open up he sed tha his ex slept with another man an so on…do you think he still likes his ex am i just a rebound ?
he also told me he really likes me bu dont really want to as he dont trust girls bu he cant help bu like me bu dont thibnk its fair on me if he gets paranoid
lolly- i wouldnt worry about it to much. most likely hell resent her to the point that her starts hateing her. He may still harbor feelings but its most likely not enough to forget she cheated. as for a rebound i dont think theres sucha thing for a scorpio a sex spree maybe lol but not a fling. Scorpios often go from one relationship to the next. For instance i had a 3 or was it four year relationship and now im on my second year with a different woman after we broke up see nothign to worry about. Though if hes weak willed he will most likely try chasing her but he’ll land on the same resenment.
I make sure that past relationships admit they were whores and need help .. If i am emotional drained by you and i supported $$ ,heart and care and then treat me like an ass.. Be prepared to admit your a whore and brainless bitch..I always make sure that they know what there are before they even try to go into another relationship. Dumb bitches need a reality check on using and abusing men while getting there way and then going man2man..
wow
lol mr wizard lol must hav e caste a spell lol imfao lol that made me laugh. It think its fnner to mess with em but you gotta get that out first huh i hate those types of wemon to jump man to man
mr wizzard was dat mesage aimed at me…. i am not a hoe well i am but only for my man im not a hoe in the sense that i sleep around or i will go behind my mans back hes satifyihg me company wise and sexually so i dont need to look no otha place or i dont need to lay down for another man if i felt tha he dint satisfy me then he wudnt be my man and i wudnt be sleepin wit him i would be looking for a man that did satisfy me…..
@mrwizard…why still so much hatred still?! Not all woman are going man2man!!!
definition of a hoe
1. A skank 2. A woman that is too loose in the booty. 3. Woman or man that fuck anything with two legs. 4. A promiscuous person.
I fit #2 and #4….so im 50% of a hoe…but not an all the way hoe…i have standards and i dont skank it out….ironically, my scorp enjoys the hoe in me and i enjoy the hoe in him
in the words of the famous hoe of em all from the movie HARLEM NIGHTS….
“I’m an honest ho. And all my hoes is honest.” – Della Reese
i think i can decribe the hate i hate them because the are free slutty wemon who can let go and not care about it and somehow the hoes feel less to me less the worthy only worthy to use becuase they are what they are id never want to marry one show to friends etc because she is what she is and to marry her would be something less and in a way make me perceived as less and the hate would be something worse becuase you have loved a hoe and your heart has been brolen by one that would double the hate sorry im in between things at the momment . So thinking in a different way id say mr wizard is like me in a way because nice guys usally get picked after the bad guys and are thus used first id hate to keep leftovers however nice they are so in effect hoes are hoes and are to be used for the time being whew i sound bad sorry jsut in an odd mode
lol i stop now
@sag24/7 i heeeear u gal lol i like ur way of thinking (50% hoe) lool i tink every gal is a hoe itss just diffrent aspects of being a hoe it depends how ya cum across a hoe is not just abou sleepin around u can also be a hoe in the bedroom with ya man wich i like to be a hoe for my man its between me and him i still wud have respect infront of family an friends they wud neva think of me as a hoe….id ather be a hoe for my man than a str8 up ironing boared really not fun just layin there…
haha ironing board
sag24/7 i was just readin ur wall an i see u no alot abou astrolgy im a taurus and hes obz a scorp do u think thats gd compality at first he neva opend up to me bu now i like him more thn eva and im pretty sure he feels the sae he makes me feel special sort of like im the only woman on earth haha how sad bu true
Its very differnt being a hoe or whore for the male himself to be with several partners instills a hatred in a man who once loved one of them. Its different.
@ lolly…can we talk tommorrow…i saw ur question but im having a moment of confusion
@the wiz
yo dude! your the man
The society is unfair when it comes to male and female having more than one sexual partner…
“A lock that can be opened by many keys is useless whilst a key that opens all locks is a master key!”
As for scorpio male, the only way to please them is to let him f*** u like a slut and show how much u love it…show him he’s the man as he has complete control over u…both physically and emotionally.
And of course…scorpio men being visual beings…add in a bit of costumes, toys and porn in the background will surely do the trick! And finally tell him how you’ve been very naughty and would love him to punish you because u deserve it from him…let him strangle you and slap you as scorpio men love to be in control..bring in the handcuffs and blind folds…you’ll have them drooling in no time!
If your scorpio loves you, he will show it through awesome sex, followed by cuddle and gentle kisses to bed…and if he doesn’t, you’ll just be a toy that he enjoyed f****** and nothing more…beware of scorpio male…awesome sex always comes with a high price…you can’t live without it…but if u do decide to stay with him, he will torture u, emotionally until you lose your mind and soul!
@big hearted sag:
If u really decide to stay with him, what happens after he decide to torture you emotionally? Will he love you then? Or depends? Or he already loves you but still still tortures you?
@Dreamy piscean,
Do not decide to stay with him until he’s in love with you…otherwise you’ll just end up heart broken.
And if you really do decide to stay with him, be prepared for a life time of commitment. You will need to show him endless love, spoil him in bed, satisfy his stomach…and of course be mentally prepared to play his games…your relationship will never be boring but it will take a lot out of u.
He will always torture you because that’s how they love….if he doesn’t torture you then he never loved you to begin with. A relationship with a scorpio is a game all the way through!
@Big hearted Saggi:
I dont know if youve reAD my post before about my scorpio telling me that we should just be friends after our 2nd break up.. and now this is the third time we made up but this time he’s become more sweeter..
Im not sure if he already loves me but he told me im the only one for the rest of his life and told me about his dream about us having two kids and a dog..
I think he’s starting torturing me because this is the third day he hasnt contacted me.. and i didnt contact him too because i want him to contact me first..
should i contact him first? i was thinking im giving him space for awhile..
@DreamyPiscean, please do not contact him first…if u do, he’s won.
I’m sure he will contact u after 2 weeks…scorpio are hard to deal with in a relationship…they are very manipulative and play the game well…i’m sure he’s thinking about u everyday but his ego want you to make the first move…don’t let him win…it has only been 3 days!
ok big hearted saggi
thanks for the advice… i just hope he wont change his feelings for me if i dont contact him..
patience.. patience… i guess i need to do some diversional activities while waiting for him to contact me..
hey big hearted saggi i was wondering if u could help me i have been with my scorpio 5 months now and feel very attached he tols me that he wants to say he loves me but its to soon the sex is amazin im definatly a slut just for him, he always hugs and kises my fore head tells me how beautifull i am we have been ova a few bumps already i dnt no were to start lol, he has an ex who is on his case well the tghing is he let her in his flat about 2 weeks ago he dint tell me she inboxed me that she slept with him i forced it out of him but he swaers and promises he neva slept with her and that she sleeps on the settee i was very upset by this and wasnt sure were i stood he fnes me every night etc… well wen i was upset i made the stupiedest move and took a boys number never had no intentions of ontacting this boy i just supose it made my ego feel beter well any way he noticed the number in my fne and was really not happy about this they say scorpios has a sting well belive me i felt it he started callin me names out of anger that hes apoligesed or but i cant get it out my head he wanted me to leave an i refused but we talked abou were we are guna go from here he usually fnes me every night but i no its only 1 night he aint fned me now but i got the feeling theres plenty more to come i have now broken his trust its my own fault an i no its only been 5t months bu i realsie now how much i actually am in klove with him i havent stoped crying sad i no im not an emotinal person bu i have been these last two days i wonder if he thinks about me and if he will ever take me back he sed when he calmed down that he just wants some time to think bu he nos he will be fneing me to come up on the weekend im reaaaaly confused as of were i stand and no its guna be a depressing time utill/if he phones
my heart goes for you lolly.. hope it will be better for you and your scorp..
i hope so to do you rekon he will phone me when hes thought about what he wants t9 do from here or do you rkon he thinks about me im sorry to ask you all these questions but i would just like a peace of mind an i seen your advise above must have helped the person asking
lolly, maybe he will phone you.. just like what big hearted saggi told me, he will mail me…
but he have different situation.. so im not sure with your case.. i just know that if scorps have feelings for you, they cant let go easily
thanks for your advice dreamy i hope all goes well for you scorpios are diffucult to work out but when times are good its the bests times of wat feels like your life…hopfully big hearted saggi can help me out when she looks at this page x
@bigheartsag
its not unfair. men and women both have pros and cons. dont be jealous just enjoy.
i get mad cuz women can buy clothes for pennies. but i gotta spend 50 just for jeans
but hey i can pee any where ha ha. yo seriously enjoy. we could argue this for a centurian ha ha horse humor
Lolly, how are you and your scorpio doing? Better now?
dreamy piscean…heeeya yee were geting there i went up there on weekend hes still not gone back to phoning me every day hey but 1 step at the time..i asked to go up there on weekend he said no at 1st bu i got my way in the end he left his friends house so i could go and see him i left early sunday cus he sed he had somhing to do but he will phone me he then text saying hes sorry that i had to go he got the feeling that he took the piss so i dont really no were i stands cant help the feeling that hes sliping through my fingers even though he told me he wants me an no other girl i guess its goin to take a while for things to get back the way its was!!
dont lose hope lolly.. hope everything goes out well.. give your scorp time.. if he’s for you, he’ll always come back to you..
heya dreamy piscean thanks for concern.. my scorp has gone back to phoning me on a regular fingers crosed he keeps it up yaaaay
in his voice now he dont seem distant no more its almost like hes phoning me now more than ever i feel wanted again lets hope that lasts i dressed up for him (in the bedroom) for the first time last weekend he loved it i was really nervous at 1st bu then wen i seen his reaction it give my ego a big boost and its mad because he seems to almost like me more dont get that bu im glad he is being the way he is with me im really happy at the moment 
hope i havent spoke to soon though lol
THAT’s good news lolly! im sooo happy for you… keep it up and hope everything will be well
scorpio is worth keeping for.. 
i have a Question everyone..
have you done se* marathon with a scorpio? like nonstop se* in a day? do you do this everyday when free? my scorp guy told me when we meet he’ll do me nonstop so i got curious. thanks
i have a Question everyone..
have you done se* marathon with a scorpio? like nonstop se* in a day? do you do this everyday when free? my scorp guy told me when we meet he’ll do me nonstop so i got curious.
is it possible?
thanks
@DreamyPiscean – An all day se* marathon is totally possible. I’ve been down that road before. One piece of advice… drink lots of water. If he’s a true Scorpio, then you hopefully won’t be able to walk the next day… and you be very happy about that.
Cheers,
Thanks Eagle Scorpio..
he did tell me he’ll do it til i cant move
@dreamy…anything is possible…stranger things have happened.
oh my scorp guy by the way has mercury in scorpio, venus in scorpio, pluto in scorpio and he’s a double scorpio born oct 2*..
Yikes–I’m scared! An all day marathon?? Do people actually do that? 0.o Oh my gosh, I’m not sure i could handle that much passion in one day. But guys can’t keep going for that long anyway, can they?? I thought like a coupla times and they’re done. Oooh sounds saucy though, and the idea of not being able to walk the next day is just freaky.
Ummm…I didn’t do an all day marathon with my Scorp, but I did do a 9 hour (5 sessions at the rate of about 20-25 minutes each) with Mr. Aries. 9pm – 6am of pure passionate sex and cuddling. It was divine! Yes, people actually do this. lol ha ha ha
My Scorp was more laid back. We just had sex everyday for 2 weeks straight when we first got together. After that, it was like 3 or 4 days on, 1-2 days off until we broke up.
Watergirl – guys can go wayyyyyy more than twice. lol I think they only stop, because they don’t want to scare women off. If you’re ready to go, they will GO! I’ve been having these back to back sex session experiences with guys in their 40′s. So if a 40 year old man can go back to back, you can only imagine what a young buck can do. lol ha ha ha
Oh really! ^^ That has not been my experience, but then I’m not very, so there you go. Wow, that’s a surprise.