How to satisfy a male Scorpio in bed
October 9, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
Sex advice columnist Dan Savage has coined the abbreviation GGG: “good in bed, giving equal time and equal pleasure, and game for anything — within reason.” The Scorpio man is drawn to taboos and the underworld of sexuality, so a few kinks are to be expected. Bondage, domination, sadomasochism … power and pain are old friends to the Scorpion. This is not to say that all Scorpios like to dole out punishment: The sign is truly about the depths of intimacy, which means exploring every nook and cranny of your English muffin. No! I mean that he will want to connect intensely with you — staring into each other’s eyes (even during orgasm), or achieving tantric bliss through controlled sexual techniques.
If you want to satisfy him, you have to overcome your fear — fear of closeness, fear of exploring the boundaries of pain and pleasure. By all means don’t do anything that feels violating (unless, of course, you’re into that sort of thing.) But be willing to turn lovemaking into an attempt to excavate your hidden turn-ons and wounds, eroticizing power dynamics and family traumas to gain a sense of mastery over them.
And if all else fails, stick your finger up his patootie.
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Hey Bryan, and hello again LibraLady,
I overlook alot of these posts without commenting, but beings your first time and all….. (lol), I want to reply.
First, I have been married to a Scorpio for 27 years, and am ussually on the receiving end of the skinny of things. We are very compatible in the fact that we can read each other quite well, without words. this has been a practicing technique for both of us.
I know what it is like to be controlled, and now that I am older, I have to wonder why it is he that gets the his way most times and not me. (lol) I am the one who is as a slave to his wants and needs, and the point being, he doesnt even know this bothers me. He has al;ways had to have things his way, and for once, maybe, I’d like to see how the world is ran from my point of view. when these things were brought up about 5 years ago, we were both going to have a life, now, I find myself back in the comfort zone, and without much releif.
Second of all, it doesnt matter to talk talk talk, if no one appears to be listeninjg, and this happens because, it is simply not implyable to your life. as if it is so small, that it does not really matter to you, being a scorpio.
Ok now, you are right in that a scorpio when he is in a trustable situation, he can open up, without hesitance, however, my response to, “I did everything for her, ” would be explained with, “yes, but help her to be happy.” This is an individual thing, no one can control how to make one happy. this is THEIR decision.
My husband says that he will never leave, but there is alot of tthings he WONT do, or dont CARE to, that he could. you see, this is what the problem is, love that is controlling does not leave the person controlled al,ot of room to grow. you got to, and still get to grow. Some women have been stiffled by men who claim to love them, but sees control as doing so. Control is loving someone so much that you catch them when they fall, not tell them they will.
My husband will never leave, my response, Why would he? He never has to change.
In response to the above post, I wrote this for positive critisizms to help me understand my way out of resentments in my near future. A re-post, no matter how harsh, would be pleasantly welcomed. Scorpios are sure ready to see things from THEIR SIDE without taking notes on the partner’s. I swear, they can only see through those rose colored glasses.
A good place to start is, What did I, CAPITAL, I, do. It helps to know this so simular mistakes dont repeat themselves in future relationships.
But hey, what the flake do I know.
Cancerchild
I think that Scorpios only come accross as illogical on the surface. They know when they sound irrational, they will in turn forgive you for all your silly faults, as long as it wasnt hurtful. They rant and rave and bark and growl but when your covered in mud and everyone flees the scene, they stay and help if they love you……Cancers are the same
I think Cancer / Scorpio relationships are great for that mutual tie….Its not so bad to be “owned” by someone, as long as they love you LOL
I was raised by a Cancer man and Scorpio woman, they were codependent, never go anywhere without eachother unless they had to, it was beautiful….
I’m in the same kind of relationship with an Aquarius man right now, he’s not a true Aqua and Im not a typical Libra so we cling to eachother, I let him take the lead, its not so bad with him, he never lets me down….
Oh by the way, mom was the boss. Scorpio women are just as in charge as the men, and get this, she always tried to make it look like he was in front of us kids LOL we always knew who was the one that was driving the bus…He was very loving to us, for a man in those days, he never cared about how yucky a mess was or whatever, there was so much affection…..A Cancer parent is probably one of the most nurturing….My mom gave us the strength to survive and he gave us the cuddles when we fell down…..Funny thing is too, when its time to let go, the possesive Scorpio can do it first…then they suffer inside, It must be the hardest job in the world for a Cancer, something about wanting to keep those pinchers out to protect the kids, I hate it when everyone complains at how clingy a Cancer is, I sort of enjoyed it as a kid, he babied us a lot longer then mom did
I miss him so much now. He was pushy and bossy and critical of my decisions and I miss that so much…I would love to have that all back
LOL
Hello people!
Anyone come across a scorpio with taurus moon, capricorn venus and virgo mars??
Any insights are greatly appreciated!!!