Sex advice columnist Dan Savage has coined the abbreviation GGG: “good in bed, giving equal time and equal pleasure, and game for anything — within reason.” The Scorpio man is drawn to taboos and the underworld of sexuality, so a few kinks are to be expected. Bondage, domination, sadomasochism … power and pain are old friends to the Scorpion. This is not to say that all Scorpios like to dole out punishment: The sign is truly about the depths of intimacy, which means exploring every nook and cranny of your English muffin. No! I mean that he will want to connect intensely with you — staring into each other’s eyes (even during orgasm), or achieving tantric bliss through controlled sexual techniques.
If you want to satisfy him, you have to overcome your fear — fear of closeness, fear of exploring the boundaries of pain and pleasure. By all means don’t do anything that feels violating (unless, of course, you’re into that sort of thing.) But be willing to turn lovemaking into an attempt to excavate your hidden turn-ons and wounds, eroticizing power dynamics and family traumas to gain a sense of mastery over them.
And if all else fails, stick your finger up his patootie.
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all night. un. all night. yeah. all, all, all, all night.
all night long.
love it Xavier..
Scorpios and sex…that’s what I’m talking about…
Why haven’t I been to this forum sooner?! Ha!
Hey…how come there is no “How to satisfy a Scorpio woman in bed?”
I nominate that forum for the sake of peace on earth…
and the underworld.
Her.. well just never talk whoreish to her and she will rock ur world respectfully. lol
Sex
Anywhere, anyhow, anytime.
Full exposure. Feeling inhibited.
Forget about it, he doesn’t care.
Wanna try something new?
He’ll top it.
There’s only room for one room
in a Scorpio’s head. And it’s wall to
wall mattress mart.
how do you satisfy a scorpion woman?
November Lady?
wall to wall matress.
check.
gotta remember that one my mirrors have gotten to be old hat. ha ha
oh darn. forgot i had wall to wall matress too. got tired of the long climb in and out but oh yes it had its FUN
Im a sagittarious and my ex bf is a scorpio, and omg they are so fgood in bed..
B U T
HE DOESNT LAST LONGER THAN 5 MINUTES! && I KNOW WE DONT GET ALONG GREAT BUT THERES GOOD TIMES TOO. AND EVEN NOW THAT WERE NOT TOGETHER I CAN STILL GET THAT FEELING WHEN HE LOOKS AT ME,…. WITH A REALLY NICE ATTRACTIVE SENSETIVE SIDE. I LOVE HIM<3 AND I BET HE FEELS THE SAME WAY ABOUT ME. I JUST HOME WE CAN STAY TOGETHER FOR A LIFE TIME
Hey, I have those pair of underwear in the picture! lol
@AquaTrainer:
LOL how funny…so do I!
Aqua with Taurus rising ha ha ha ha
give me head and im happy
Still tryin to figure out my scorpio friend. We were dating for months. The passion was definately there but he would not initiate anything. The only thing he would ever do was take my hand and direct it to his crotch. That is the only signal I got that he was ready for something more then kissing. Otherwise, no noise, no direction…no nothing..he never offers to do anything for me since the first time we were together . Kind of frustrating.
I can work with him but I’m always scared to tell a guy how to open up sexually because it can have the opposite effect sometimes.
He is going through a divorce and I know she messed him up but he still wants to do it…he just sucks at it. lol What the heck?
@mia,
hello fellow sag! boy these scorps just cant stay away from us saggis.
so what is the relationship like? since youve been dating for months, what are you guys doing together.
that would be frustrating for me 2. that my scorp wasnt doing anything for me. i think you should tell him.
scorpio men have huge egos so just tread with caution about what you want sexually. saggis need adventure in the bedroom.
what does he suck at?
@beatriz,
my first scorp was really good in bed.
my second scorp was whomp whomp. he held back alot. i remember the first time i had sex with him, i was disappointed after reading all this stuff about scorpios and great sex.
@mia, if he isnt paying attention to your needs after youve spoken to him. then he isnt going to. thats selfish behavior. and thats a no-no in the bedroom.
even outside of the bedroom, a relationship is a two way street
He said at one point that he was intimidated by my experience. That was kind of insulting to me but I didn’t say anything. ( What kind of a girl do you think I am? )
He is having issuses keeping it hard. So he actually went to the Dr. and said he got Viagra. We never had a chance to test it out. The ex keeps messing with his mind and of course kids want to know why mommy and daddy are not getting together. So, we are now split because of the pressure. At least thats what he tells me. He also told me he would still like to be with me once he gets past his issuses…but it may take a long time. Thats where we left it. Sucks but I am dealing with it but trying to stay loyal as a Sag should. He even told me to go ahead and date other guys for now. He didn’t like the thought of me possibly having sex with them but says..if it happens just use protection. (But of course.) I’m wondering if this is a test. So, far I’m passing it cause its hard to get him out of my mind. Grrr! lol
“And if all else fails, stick your finger up his patootie.”
LOL – this is why I love this forum!
heya guys looking for some advice me and my scorp decided to be just friends because he had a bit of a trust issue and if im honest so did i…but now its hard i sort of wish he treated me like a twat so that it wud be easier to let go he rings me still at least 2 times a day and then at night when hes in bed and were on the phone till early hours in the morn i guess i need to stop talkin to him as often as i do because as much as id love to have him back if its nt going to happen then i want my feelings towards him to stop and then we can devolp a great friendship but the thing is hes telling me hes missing me and he never wans me to be compleatly outa his life and it feels strange that i dont go and see him no more and he misses my company the sex etc he also tells me he dont want to see me with a another man or hear that im having a sexual relationship with anyone and says if i am its non of his buiseness i would love to no whats going on in his head because when he says he misses me i feel the same way i miss him loads and am very confused because i feel like i want to get back with him but also no if i dont we will be good friends and hed still be there for me
Someone reply to Lolly cause I’m having the same problem!
I thought that if a scorp was done with you he would walk away completely. But he hasn’t and its driving me crazy cause I want him totally back. Not just an email a few times a week.
Can a scorpio really just be friends with someone he was once in love with?
@mia, nope. no in my case. we are bitter enemies.
curious about something….my scorp was a giver…terrific in bed…BUT…i have one complaint…he DIDN”T know how to relax and receive….
is that a control thing?
AG
My husband jokes that he married me because the head I give buckles him to his knees. Gee thanks baby !
Ah yes…seeing my Scorpio now for almost 6 months. It is THE most wonderfully satisfying sexual relationship, ever. He is one of the most giving men and we are both really into exploring each other and what we can do together. Outside of bed he is shy…in bed he is the take-charge sex machine I have been waiting for…woo hoo!!! Adore my Scorp!
It is interesting to know that Scorpio men have the tendency to be masochists. As gentle as they are, they can be quite the opposite in bed. They also have the tendency to go all ‘Indiana Jones” in bed, exploring every possibility of finding satisfaction in love making. Very interesting! Keep it up!
My scorp and I have AMAZING sex but he cum’s fast AND can be a little selfish.
I am a Capricorn woman, dating a Scorpio man and I must say its a great match. He’s so sexy and doesn’t even know it. He makes me laugh wildly. He’s slightly dominating, but not in the dangerous sense. It’s more of the caring sense. Its easy to love him.
I am a Capricorn woman, dating a Scorpio man and I must say its a great match. He’s so sexy and doesn’t even know it. He makes me laugh wildly. He’s slightly dominating, but not dangerously.
I am a Capricorn woman, dating a Scorpio man and I must say its a great match. He’s so sexy and doesn’t even know it.
Scorpio men are awesome. I’ve been with mine since March of this year. I think the Capri/Scorp combo is a powerful match.
Scorpio men are awesome. I’ve been with mine since March of this year. I think the Capri Scorp combo is a powerful match.