How to satisfy a male Scorpio in bed

Sex advice columnist Dan Savage has coined the abbreviation GGG: “good in bed, giving equal time and equal pleasure, and game for anything — within reason.” The Scorpio man is drawn to taboos and the underworld of sexuality, so a few kinks are to be expected. Bondage, domination, sadomasochism … power and pain are old friends to the Scorpion. This is not to say that all Scorpios like to dole out punishment: The sign is truly about the depths of intimacy, which means exploring every nook and cranny of your English muffin. No! I mean that he will want to connect intensely with you — staring into each other’s eyes (even during orgasm), or achieving tantric bliss through controlled sexual techniques.

If you want to satisfy him, you have to overcome your fear — fear of closeness, fear of exploring the boundaries of pain and pleasure. By all means don’t do anything that feels violating (unless, of course, you’re into that sort of thing.) But be willing to turn lovemaking into an attempt to excavate your hidden turn-ons and wounds, eroticizing power dynamics and family traumas to gain a sense of mastery over them.

And if all else fails, stick your finger up his patootie.

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About Jeffrey Kishner

Jeffrey Kishner is founder and publisher of Sasstrology. He is a licensed mental health counselor and has been doing astrological counseling since 2001. Jeffrey has been published in print magazines including The Mountain Astrologer and Dell Horoscope, and has written online for sites including AOL, Tarot.com and StarIQ. Jeffrey has also been heavily involved in the astrology blogger community. Read his personal blog at JeffreyKishner.com.

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  1. Sharon, I’ve been there done that so trust me when I say this man will not marry you.He is already making you suffer and doesn’t understand your emotional needs.Let go of him for the sake of your own sanity and happiness.All this emotional roller coaster is not worth it.Let him procrastinate, you at least think of a back up plan girl.Please find a single guy who gives you the kind of attention,love and care you deserve.He will keep you around until he suddenly realizes one day that oh well he actually does get along with his wife,he just didn’t notice how caring and giving she is blah blah..trust me girl..run faster!

  2. OK my Scorpio is so wishy washy it’s been a month since we had sex yesterday it WAS so passionate it lasted for at least two hours but when we fist had sex it was fast ,then it became I’m not having sex now it long lasting, passionate and kisses durning and he gives a a sweater or hat when I leave his house I’m trying to figure out does he like me tho I’m a Pisces BTW and he suffered a really bad relationship that lasted 10 years I’m the first girl that he has been seeing consistaly with sex involved besides he ex and he sleeps close to me now at first he would separate his shelf after we have sex now my hand is on his and his legs are leaning on me ,is that signs of progress ?towards a relationship I Also give him time because of his 10 relationship and she was also a Pisces he also says from time to time he is not dateing anymore network girls knowing I just moved down here from Atlanta a few months ago !

  3. OK my Scorpio is so wishy washy it’s been a month since we had sex yesterday it WAS so passionate! it lasted for at least two hours but when we fist had sex it was fast ,then it became I’m not having sex now its long lasting, passionate and kisses durning and he gives me a sweater or hat when I leave his house I’m trying to figure out does he like me tho I’m a Pisces BTW and he suffered a really bad relationship that lasted 10 years I’m the first girl that he has been seeing consistaly with sex involved besides his ex and he sleeps close to me now at first he would separate his shelf after we have sex now my hand is on his and his legs are leaning on me ,is that signs of progress ?towards a relationship I Also give him time because of his 10 relationship and I don’t want to rush or scare him off I Also take little breaks to give him space ,we argue witch I assume if I wasn’t worth the time he wouldnt!right ?and when I give breaks he always replies like nothing ! Has happen with a I’m happy to hear from you kinda additude never a delay or no reply ,what you all think ,let time take it’s course?

  4. OK my Scorpio is so wishy washy it’s been a month since we had sex yesterday it WAS so passionate! it lasted for at least two hours but when we fist had sex it was fast ,then it became I’m not having sex now its long lasting, passionate and kisses durning and he gives me a sweater or hat when I leave his house I’m trying to figure out does he like me tho I’m a Pisces BTW and he suffered a really bad relationship that lasted 10 years I’m the first girl that he has been seeing consistaly with sex involved besides his ex and he sleeps close to me now at first he would separate his shelf after we have sex now my hand is on his and his legs are leaning on me ,is that signs of progress ?towards a relationship I Also give him time because of his 10 relationship and I don’t want to rush or scare him off I Also take little breaks to give him space ,we argue witch I assume if I wasn’t worth the time he wouldnt!right ?and when I give breaks he always replies like nothing ! Has happen with a I’m happy to hear from you kinda additude never a delay or no reply ,what you all think ,let time take it’s course?

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