How to satisfy a male Scorpio in bed

October 9, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner  


Sex advice columnist Dan Savage has coined the abbreviation GGG: “good in bed, giving equal time and equal pleasure, and game for anything — within reason.” The Scorpio man is drawn to taboos and the underworld of sexuality, so a few kinks are to be expected. Bondage, domination, sadomasochism … power and pain are old friends to the Scorpion. This is not to say that all Scorpios like to dole out punishment: The sign is truly about the depths of intimacy, which means exploring every nook and cranny of your English muffin. No! I mean that he will want to connect intensely with you — staring into each other’s eyes (even during orgasm), or achieving tantric bliss through controlled sexual techniques.

If you want to satisfy him, you have to overcome your fear — fear of closeness, fear of exploring the boundaries of pain and pleasure. By all means don’t do anything that feels violating (unless, of course, you’re into that sort of thing.) But be willing to turn lovemaking into an attempt to excavate your hidden turn-ons and wounds, eroticizing power dynamics and family traumas to gain a sense of mastery over them.

And if all else fails, stick your finger up his patootie.

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146 Responses to “How to satisfy a male Scorpio in bed”
  1. LibraLady says:

    Teddy bears also show her you think of her as a girl :)

  2. Cancerchild says:

    Open honesty and communicating towards a solution could work wonders in bedroom areas. As a scorpio yourself, you should think of ways you would like someone to tell, show, or fullfill you, then do the same for her. Most women know all men are different, so she should be able to step forward to any advise you may give her. However, scorpios are easily slighted, so choose your words carefully.
    My husband and I can tell each other exactly what and how we want it, soft and sweet, or tear my hair out, top and bottom or both, touch me here like this,, or that. We seem to do ok in this area.
    On the other hand, how would she know she turns you on?
    Just for fun, sometimes when my husband goes, I joke that he’s a faker. This takes the sexual pressure off and eases his mind to relax and enjoy instead of jumping into am orgasm. Make it fun………

  3. Phenix/scorpio says:

    I’ll take the advice to heart and give it a try and there are other things on my mind.Thak you everyone Though fun and passinate hmm idk ill have to see something…

  4. Cancerchild says:

    LibraLady. While I long for inner connection, you seem to desire, passion. Libras are the most romantic sign. I’m sure you know this though. Sex is not romance and romance dont lead to better sex. I feel we are in close proximity with each other. While a scorpio male is passionate, an inner depth takes you out of the “just go” phases, I’m feeling there has to be more. I hate to admit this, but as a scorpios wife, she is the one to do the pleasing. While I find this erotic most the time, it gets old when I am the one who has to come up with the imaginative stuff. I am the one to lube him and I, do the tasting, do ALL the touching, and sigh at just the right time. I dont mind this most the time, but think my man is not interested in me much. Please dont think all scorpios follow the suductive, passionate roles. However, they are said to be the ones to make the first move. Not true. What bothers me the most is I orgasm once in the thirty times he gets too.
    I could say, my turn, but then its not very sexy. Do all scorpio males think the women is there to please you? Aint this a one sided point of view? And if so, do you always have to feel like your getting attacked when this is brought up?
    I am very curious to know. I have a son who is almost thirty, and he says he wouldnt let his women out the door if she hadnt had her daily allowance of pleasures. (Aries) I’m curious as to why one feels they dont have to please and its all about what he wants, but others are more willing to see that sex is suppose to be two sided, not one.
    How do you view this LibraLady? Do you find this wam bam stuff ok?
    Like you, where is the passion? I like fast hot sex occasionally, but I cant stop till he goes, even when holding my breath. haha. Why does he not see that I would like to be a partner in pleasures too?
    (what a dork)

  5. LibraLady says:

    Cancerchild,

    Passion, desire, romance, inner connection all of the above…I havent really had any of those yet, I’m almost 39 and every relationship I’ve had required me to be “their one” with no effort from them , regardless of their sign. I’m always the “friend” of the one they really wanted or a nice addition to their lifestyle or whatever, I’ve never been “loved”. As a fool I would try to show him how I could please, and I was very good, I’m not talking about sex, I mean the other ways…I would patiently wait for them to do whatever they wanted to do, never crowd or cling, on the surface…Inside I ache but never judge or demand.
    It always ends up the same, LOL I give space, they take it and never come back….When I read about women complaining about their guys clinging to them or trying to possess them , I get a bit jealous, for once I’d like to be loved like that, I’m so tired of the indiference….Its been very cold

  6. Phenix/scorpio says:

    Libra lady be clingy but in doses to be ohnest i love and crave when a girl is clingy and needs me around. I love feeling wanted and needed as for sexual im all about the girl for me it matters very little. Maybe its a scorpio thing.

  7. LibraLady says:

    Phenix/scorpio

    When I get clingy, men run LOL
    When I show need, men roll their eyes, thats why I back off now :) I have to keep some dignity…LOL

  8. Karen says:

    Libra lady be clingy but in doses to be ohnest i love and crave when a girl is clingy and needs me around. I love feeling wanted and needed as for sexual im all about the girl for me it matters very little. Maybe its a scorpio thing

    Now yer confusing me a little bit..i thought scorpio men liked it when woman were independant and not clingy. Or how is it i can convince him I need him without making myself look weak and clingy?

  9. LibraLady says:

    Hi Karen

    I think its complex, a scorpio guy wants to do the chasing but wants to catch the woman that wants to be caught LOL

    I’ll tell you one thing, in a relationship with Libra Scorpio, its usaully sub dom LOL

    Benificial for both :)

  10. Karen says:

    Hi Karen

    I think its complex, a scorpio guy wants to do the chasing but wants to catch the woman that wants to be caught LOL

    I’ll tell you one thing, in a relationship with Libra Scorpio, its usaully sub dom LOL

    OMG!!!! i think you inadvertanly answered somethign for me that was on my mind.
    He used to sorta chase me and it got on my nerves and i let him know that i didn’t like it…although I like him very much (it’s just that I am adirect person and didn’t like all the playing i guess) anyhow i must have broke his spirit and cuz he stopped and that is probalby why he is hybernating in his houese and I don’t see him around anymore. dang……how cna i bring him alive again…i am going to aplogize for urting his feelings tho. thanx

  11. LibraLady says:

    Are you a Libra? I dont know about other signs, but a Scorpio guy likes to “play” games with Libra girls, thats how we got his attention in the first place, it starts out with the smirk, he liked watching you do something “bad” or nasty to some poor unrelated fool, then he thinks, hey, I’ll show you how to be on the other side of that cruel fence…..
    Trouble is, the game is dangerous because these two souls love to fast…love destroys the whole point of the lesson or game that was just going to be for a few laughs…..
    I would apologize too :) LOL

  12. Karen says:

    no I am a scorpio…. he he

  13. LibraLady says:

    Good, LOL
    I think he probably would be surprised then when you apologize :) Surprise is always fun

  14. Phenix/scorpio says:

    Another scorpio woman im always intruged to learn more about wemon but especially scorpio wemon. I believe clingy in doses at first. Then let it go. When he asks you what are yu thinking and your thinking you want him forever and excetera excetera he knows your thinkin somethi and wabts to hear it. Especially if its that. Be wary though i have no clue if im a normal scorpio male lol. I dont think ive ever been cosidered normal (dont know if thats a good thing)Dignity yes but i think things like pride are foolish what matters is getting what youwant in the end. The end justufys the means sometimes. As for the guy licking his wounds is prolly true. rejection is something noone wants especially scorpio males. We instantly free and back away if were maters youll barley notice the change or you wont notice at all.

  15. LibraLady says:

    No Phenix/scorpio

    you are not normal, who would want to be ? LOL
    What youre doing, talking to dif women, of ages ands expeience is a very mature decision, that is exactly what is wrong with a lot of people, they dont ask questions, they dont talk and they dont learn, you are a very wise man :)

    You also help women understand men better :) Not just Scorpio man but men, Its so refreshing to read about your thoughts, Im 20 yrs older then you and Ive learned a lot from you, thanks :)

  16. Phenix/scorpio says:

    idk normal people seem happier is all. I feel isolated. Being smart or different is to be misunderstood. Especially now in school its boring most students arent stimulating and it takes awhile. Everyones so nsecure and make poor decisions. again idk on this one

  17. LibraLady says:

    I’ve felt isolated my whole life and sometimes I enjoy it :) Its like being an alien observer on this planet LOL
    I dont really think that people are that happy, all trying to blend in to be “normal” there are a lot of followers and very few that take a different way. Ive heard people complain that they felt too “typical” I really dont think its a pretty world for a lot of people, regardless of sign or gender….
    I had a lot of friends at school, not real freinds but those who would follow me around as if I knew anything they didnt (foolish) I had scores of guy friends that liked what they “saw” and never knew the person inside :) I kept them all at a friend distance, ha ha…..But I had a lot of guys around, and there were a lot of fights, it was frustrating. I was kind of pretty :) and that meant “air head” I beagn to avoid everyone, noone took me seroiusly, some still dont even 20 yrs later, the brunette with the bright green ayes and the curves, thats all anyone sees. It interferes with job hunting, it interferes with meeting people…I dont feel “cute” anymore, but yet they still look at the “air head” And thats what I mean about normal, everyone is steroetyped in the minds of the “normal” LOL

  18. Phenix/scorpio says:

    I think i share your pain. In all ohnesty i look like the bad boy. Muscels spiky hair kinda tight pants. And i keep everyone at a distance. Noone knows me except for my scorpio girl and cancer ex. Though even they are left out. I call most people aqqintences i usually shrink back and help people and dissapear when its all done.

  19. Cancerchild says:

    Us cancers are hermits too, and need seclusion at least half of the time. While it is easy to fit into a crowd, I get bored with idle conversation and chit chat. Now, talk about something important, and you may have my attention. I do find it fun to probe into the male sychy on different topics because I find I am narrow minded on some things.
    I find that when I dont fret or trouble over my scorpios personality changes, the easier he figures things out and the less friction I cause for him. I am to deep and make him think of things he normally, dont. He needs to stay simple as he can. I think he must overthink himself crazy. If he needs advise, he asks me what I think. We keep to ourselves alot and welcome mainly our children over for visits, but dont let the outside world influence us. When we hear of stories from our sons of this women coming onto them this way or that, we are sure surprized at the role reverse that has taken place over the past fifteen years.
    I find that a balance between having people around and needed seclusion can be easily found. If you want to be around people, then go out, otherwise we stay in. He talks to friends but we want to spend every minute alone with each other mostly. I guess that makes us each others friends that dont need any others. Complete.
    In this case, both cancers and scorpios need alone time and dont care for any more than aquaintances. (We are both spiritual, so we try to keep our motives and attentions on higher things than the crazy now day pleasures of mankind. I guess we dont really want to be a part of it.
    Another thing, there are people who are visual and hearers and feelers. My husband is a visual scorpio. I think all scorpios are into the visual. However, I am a hearer kinda girl. So, for him, me walking into the bedroom with little on would be more of a turn on than for me to tell him something “juicy”. In return, when he tells me those sweet nothings, I melt.
    I am curious as to how you view yourself, hearer, visual, or feeler?

  20. Cancerchild says:

    A scorpio is so intesely interested in the universe, cosmos, and outer space things. I know almost everything there is to know about StarTrek.
    Now, if we go for walks or are outside, I find him looking up, while I look at the ground. I love this plane. Mountains, streams, water, trees….
    He likes cloud, stars, planets. Strangely, I am the one who can look at the moon in fascination for an hour, and it is his least likely spot in space to be looking. While I love mountains, he loves the ocean.

  21. LibraLady says:

    OMG you sound like a Libra :)

  22. Phenix/scorpio says:

    Cancer woman again… (sigh) To tell the truth i look at everything. I feel i see i touch explore i hear. Again am i a rarity. Even among my own. I’m interested in how beuatiful every little thing is from small blade of grass to the moon beyond. I like to close my eyes and just listen for ohurs to noting but nature or mabe even peoples convo’s. Feel. i distacne people becuase once there attached there with me. There apart of me. I feel there pain i know them and it becomes to many when i have to many i cant sort out the feelings they have from my own. I do love just about everyhing and have thoughts n everything from mythology of ancintes and epic heros to a gosip about some poor girl im gonna save. (somehow. one of my frieds has started cutting themselves : \ ) From music and musical instruments to teaching to whatever lol. Guess im on a quest forever searching for satisfaction. Whatever that might be. SOrry i think i need time to think… later…(or a distraction)

  23. Denise says:

    I had my first sexual encounter with a scorpio last week & to be honest he blew me away! We made love twice but the foreplay went on for nearly 3 hours & I had 4 orgasms! definitely a first for me within such a short space of time. He was tender, urgent, forceful, passionate, loving & downright sexy as hell & I can’t wait for the next time. By the way, he is 56. :0)

  24. LibraLady says:

    Phenix/scorpio

    If your seeking perfection, sorry, you wont ever find it…. I had big expectations on everyone, it gets me disapointed fast…. You are just going to have to accept that noone else can be like you, I’m just learning that myself, People will always disapoint you, its hard to tolerate hard to accept but we have to just do what makes us like ourselves, and let others be themselves, at thier pace, what I mean is, if your a fast runner, you will never be able to make others run as fast as you, love is the same way, nature picks on a few of us, makes us love stronger then other people can love, makes us help others more then they would be willing to help us, you know the rest…..
    Its like that saying, its hard to soar like an eagle when your surounded by turkeys :) Where you are mentally and spiritualy, is a lonley place. I have sad news, its just as bad when you get older, you will have to just tolerate others shortcomings or limits :) Just figure out how much you can accept :) Maturity taught me to “like” myself, I cant expect anyone to think like me not even a potential life partner. I know I will find one :) But he will never be at the same level when it comes to love :)

  25. Cancerchild says:

    When I met my husband twenty seven years ago, it was at A&W drive in. Remember, you use to be able to say what you want over a speaker phone? Well, I had pulled in with a younger girlfriend, and we parked on the other side of him. He was the passenger, and when I looked at him, he was already looking at me.
    When I realized he was staring me down, I tried to turn my eyes away from staring back, but couldn’t. I smiled and he smiled back with this dimple that would buzz the whole world if it were possible. I honestly sank in my seat, literally. Wow! Wow! When I sat back up I looked over one more second, and his friend and he, were geting ready to leave. It was so excillerating, energetic, and wild.
    Being an intense scorpio, I was actually scared of him. He seemed to be playing his part way to well. He was good looking, had manners, knew how to conversate with a girl, and seemed generally interested in all the right ways.
    First date. He took me to a drive in where we both really enjoyed the screen. He must have sensed I was not moving towards intimacy at all. After the date, he took me back to my apt. and while expecting a good night kiss, I withdrew and said, “THank you. I had a great time.” Then, I headed out the car door like a scared rabbit.
    Three weeks later with him showing up anywhere from seven in the morning to four or five in the afternoon, we had gone out to his sisters house and drank a few shots of tequilla. After returning to my place, we sat and talked and laughed with each other for three hours or so. Beings how I hadnt done more than let him kiss me till it turned passionate, he didnt expect me to appear from the bath area with nothing but a comfortable robe on.
    He, although disbelieving, worked right into motion. There was not one moment I felt uncomfortable. We just kinda intermixed with each other, several times.
    When morning came close, he left. He was back over at 2pm. We have never been away from each other mostly from that day on. Scorpios are devoted probably more than any other thing. THey are never the fools as they are to quick witted and intuitive to fall for nonsense. They DO play with their hearts, for keeps.
    Even though my husband and I were seperated for three years, he truly does love me and shows me he thinks I am special.
    Scorpions are as much about love as they are pasionate about life, feelings, and embracing the challenges of this world with ease and confidence. They are excellent with business matters, math, and detailed asignments. They can multi task and please the customer at the same time. They have a remarkable world where principles make sence and are worth standing up for. They have no fear in defeating defensively.
    Now, wind this all up. This is just the beginning of a scorpions life. They can be very intense emotional characters, but if they have the one who appears weak to keep the solid, the are undefeatable.
    Is this more like it, phenox/scorpio? Incredible words being spoken without anyone speaking. I can honestly say that you can most always trust a scorpio unless you play with his feelers. Then you better hope he don’t pinch and sting you at the same time.
    I have found that if he realizes I’m retreating into my shell, he comfortably draws mew back out, just a little at a time, till I’m back out in the open air, securely and safely. I think only he can do this so efficiently.
    Scorpions differ in he fact that cancers are screamers while scorpions are breathers. Whatcha think? ;-)

  26. Cancerchild says:

    LibraLady,
    I have to say that you have looked into yourself ona very deep level. I watched one of my oldest son’s girlfriends, cringe, when he, once again, did something he knew drove her mad. She shook her head in disbelief, looking down, with a half crooked smile. When she looked up, she smiled at me and said, “I have told him and told him that that bothers me, but, that’s one thing I love about him.” The thing she loved about him was his desire to be himself even though she didnt like it. I have held onto this for years and ponder it often. While those around us are not as complete as we would like them to be, there is a beauty about individuality. To me, although her being quite young and inexperienced in relationships, she had figured out an “attitude” I hadnt yet. I thought this was very refreshing and encouraging in a positive way.
    My youngest son asked me one time a couple years ago, what it was about his dad that I would change, if I could. After several minutes, I said I would change his jelous nature, but then, I wouldnt know when something bothered him about me and this would change our communication. I would change his “higher than thou, personality, but then, he wouldnt feel as important as he is. I would change his negative attitude about others, but then, he wouldn’t feel as unique, or better than average, and then he wouldnt try as hard as he does.
    The things that I have noticed is that those who are different than us, give us the inner challenge to see the wider picture. Those who do not share our passions, have their own, and by us watching and accepting them, we grow ourselves. This can only happen if we dont try to change them to how we want them to be, but try to be more as they want us to be. I have found that when changes need to happen, its ussually me, or my attitude about the situation, that needs adjustments. (It is impossible to change someone, but a good example is ther closest we can come)
    You are correct from my point of view. Choose carefully what you can tolerate. There will be less to have to “deal” with later on.
    I’m taking it that you do not believe in solemates? Someone for everyone?
    After being married for so long, I can say that it is alot of hard work to intertwine two distinct personalities to think and cooperate into one. The lyrics, “when two become one, which one do they become”, is decided by what example has been presented more efficient and good. This is how you know when a relationship is going to last forever. This is the “mature” state of love between two people, that has become one. Individuality. That’s a tricky one, but can be accomplished well if youre willing to keep trying to adjust yourself, not others, to get there.

  27. LibraLady says:

    Cancerchild
    Oh yes, I beleive in soul mates, I even thought I’d found mine. I beleive in deep love and improving a perspective , maybe changing ones karma, but I am waiting for mine… I wait, thats where I am… As far as life goes, I’ve seen a perfectly happy couple (my parents) soul mates destroyed, my father died in Nov and everyday I see my Mother suffer… I beleive in love before everything else, its all Ive ever wanted, I just never get it coming my way, when it does, I will never take it for granted :) I know I come off as a cold observer, Ive been hurt so many times there are tire tracks on my back LOL I also wonder if what killed my happiness when I had it come a bit close was my worrying and impatience. I think I destroyed a realtionship a few times just from worrying too much, I dont know, but I will never let it happen again :)

  28. LibraLady says:

    Cancerchild
    You have some pretty smart kids too :) My son is 14 (cancer) and of I were to ask him about his father I would get a groan…they never bonded. If it wernt for my son(who has autism yet) I would have gone crazy years ago. He makes me laugh so hard sometimes with his humor. Sometimes when life kicks us in the teeth our kids say or do something that makes you smile :) I dont think any relationship can beat that :)

  29. Cancerchild says:

    Denise,
    Your age? I am curious as to the outcome. After having a scorpio last week, how is it going this week? The reason I ask is that another woman wrote in here awhile ago that she had a friend, scorpio who she had just “done” it with, and now, he aint calling, and seems very aloof. She was asking for Help!! Clarify!!
    I eagerly look forward to your next post. Don’t take to long.
    My husband, scorpoin, was around, continuously from the day after the first time we fooled around, and is still going and going and going…. ;-) I am thinking most scorpios would be this way also, as they think things out well, before proceeding. Thanks!

  30. Cancerchild says:

    LibraLady,
    I am so very happy you have your son to keep you on your toes. I thought you were alone in this world, looking, but seems your son shines every minute for you. Sharing that kind of beauty with another like minded and appriciative soul will be a blessing you’ll never come down from. Wow!! Ever dated a cancer man? Cancers love the romance and humorous ways about cha, while libras love the nuturing natures. Seems like a wonderful match to me.
    (We do find alot of our best qualities in the closness we share with our children, as a reflection back to our hearts.) Love is a truly wonderful gift.

  31. LibraLady says:

    True Cancerchild
    Our children our gifts. no Ive never dated a Cancer man :) My Dad was one, my son is one, we get along great only one problem Cancer men and Libra women should never shop together LOL especially in a candy store or for icecream :) They would get very fat together quickly. I am not a “true” Libra anyways, I have an Aries moon and Scorpio rising. Its complicated to be water, air and fire :)
    No, Im not alone :) I have a terrific son and familly around, I just dont have “the one” its been 10 years of living like a nun but it was worth it to raise my son :)
    I agree, my son really does shine for me :) I love him like crazy. As for girls, good god, he is always surounded by them and I see o shyness of his Cancer sign the way he walks over to a girl and says “hi Beautiful” Its really cute how he can get a few blushing at the same time and doesnt care if anyone is watching, I have no idea where he gets his confidence, I think he was born with it, hes an artist and loves a good laugh. He shines like the sun :)

  32. Phenix/scorpio says:

    Cancer child what do you mean for me to see. that he was intese i know i am. The one thing is the cancer girl is etched upon my memory and did you know a cancer woman and a scorpio mans relationship is almost guraenteed by the stars?
    I guess im still in thinking. The two girls are so very different but the same. i stand by my descion and now i feel i should charge who i want. I think ive hesitated but i need to get rid of my old feelings or otherwise make peace. Sorry tired and confused.

  33. Cancerchild says:

    I can and do understand how you feel. A cancew has so many traits and behavioral patterns that would be hard to forget. My husband always says, “See? There it is again.” (These are traits only I would do or say) It’s the individuality that he likes and says there is no one like me. To me, this is probably a good thing. I am very into pleasing others and ussually always choose whatever is best for everyone, not what I want. He told me a couple weeks ago that I remind him of Jesus. Out of total profoundness, I thought, Ok is this going to be a compliment or insult.
    He said I remind him of Jesus, because I overlook the words of the Law, (God’s Laws), for the love, compassion, and understanding I have in people. For me, this must have taken him alot of insight to see because as I said before, he has no grey areas in his reasoning, and is one that stays inline with the law. Love can blind our thinking….
    My x daughter in law told me that you cannot make yourself love someone you dont, just the same as you cant make your heart not love someone you do. To me, you can only move through the processes until you dont think of the “other” one anymore. I tried anger, I tried acceptance, I tried drinking the care and love I felt away, and it never went away. How long? I never found the answer.
    If you are looking for something special about this scorpion woman, there is alot of wonderful qualities they possess. Straightforwardness, exceptional logic and reasoning powers, doers not just hearers, and devotion that is unlimited. In time, I am sure you will be able to let go of thoughts about the cancer girl and the scorpio one will start taking more of your mental facilities. I always heard, Time fixes the pain and frustrations. This, to me is not true. The feeling of why this didnt work out was always there. Night and day, in my prayers, in every song I heard, and of course, every sweet memory I had. No one, even though better FOR me filled my heart with what I truly desired forever.

  34. the countess says:

    @cancerchild – for such admiration it seems you and your scorpio have, why the estrangment and separation. I know sometimes, “things” get in the way, love is not the cure all, but i wonder for you…is there no way to close the gap and reunite? Or is it out of your hands?

  35. Phenix/scorpio says:

    cancer child i take your advice to heart and sincerly hpe that i forget her. And move on.

  36. LibraLady says:

    Phenix/scorpio

    Hi, hows it going with your Scorpio Girl?

  37. Phenix/scorpio says:

    Me and her are doing smoothley and openly. Im giving more and she is doing the same. I feel more combterable and im willing to give her whatever she whishes. So far ive got one more thing to get and yes shes won me around. Though she deosnt know it yt or does she. All i know is my confliction is at an end and im chasing what i want. Less tests then before and more of a constant bf a great one whenver wherever she neeeds me i am there always watching andd waiting and helping any way i can for her friends or her. It makes her happy so it has t to be done. Shes been doing the same actually. She set me up with a friend i kept not hanging out with and we ended up recording some songs together. Im happy to say ive found a worthy love.

  38. LibraLady says:

    Im so happy that things are getting better :) Just concentrate on how good things feel when they do and try not to over worry…. It sounds beautiful and I hope it lasts a LONG time :) Just dont overlook your happiness today while you worry about tommorrow… Love grows when its meant to be, I think your really showing her affection and that will make her heart grow too…. Then you’ll just be there for eachother, with or without pushing the sex, she’ll learn to apreciate you and not just the physical connection :)

  39. Phenix/scorpio says:

    aalright so how do i not worry so much and overthink things. I dont know when to stay away or when i should withdraw. My gf usually becomes my best friend and my lover all the same.

  40. LibraLady says:

    HI Phenix/scorpio
    I know its hard not to overthink things, I do that too, from what you’ve mentioned, about the places you go with her and the friendship that you share with her, she is on the way to being your bestfriend and GF. That is the best way, when the friendship comes first, it makes you a lot closer :) If I were in your situation, I would try to enjoy everything, let it slowly happen, Youre building the relationship stronger by letting it take its course, I wouldnt put her in situations where she’s alone with other guys right now because she will be worried about you, and talk about you and they will try to fool her into a mess. Also. if she thinks you want her to spend time with other people, she might think that your feelings arnt strong,I know it sucks, your heart gets possessive, which we are all told is wrong so we try to make it look like were not and it blows up in your face….. I guess all you can do is communicate a lot, which you seem to be doing :) I have a feeling that things will last a long time :) Just keep reminding yourself that she LOVES you, even when you argue :)

  41. Phenix/scorpio says:

    sounds good ill work on this new thing and geeze scorpio wemon are dificult but not i dont understand it.

  42. LibraLady says:

    Phenix/scorpio

    Everyone os difficult :) Man,woman, whatever the sign. I find everyone difficult to please or understand…..I guess we just have to understand ourselves and even more importantly, “like” ourselves. I find the people who do that are easier to get along with anyways :) THats the tough part, looking in the mirror and saying , that person is okay, even though noone else likes me, I like me so f@#$ them :) Just kidding, what I really mean is, if you can except other people, except yourself too :) And your lucky, youve got love :)

  43. Phenix/scorpio says:

    yeah the whole except people for who they are thing. hmmmm sorry been contenplative latley

  44. Phenix/scorpio says:

    update- me and my scorpoi girl have taken a new turn. It seems we go to sleep at the sametime and do the same things before bed weird huh. Another wired thing is for some reason i cant understand ive become more sexual latley like i want bad and i want it from one person and she wants it to but she wants to wait at least til after her b-day in nov. I really don know what happened usually im so controlled and have been the whole entire time we’ve been going out but this week phew. I guess i have been toping myself each week it getting worse for me and with me starting to give in more its intereting. To scorpios lol past limits right lol sorry im feelin good.

  45. LibraLady says:

    Phenix/scorpio

    I think your more sexual because youre starting to relax with her :) Never apologize for “feeling good” Sounds like she wants things to be special too :) Happy for you both….. BTW October born people always get frisky in October LOL Today is my Bday, and for the last week, Ive been really affected by Venus….. October is a mystical and powerful month for Libra and Scorpio

  46. Phenix/scorpio says:

    Really maybe that explains it then idk but today it was worse. I hope it last and grows stronger usually im in such control and i can block the feelings and whew lol its harder. Well i ended up i guess touching her and then when i was done i licked my hand and said she tasted good. And i said some other things and yeah tonght i bad lol. I hope i made her happy and i think i di :D whew lol. Yeah i in a good mood lol

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