How to satisfy a male Scorpio in bed

Sex advice columnist Dan Savage has coined the abbreviation GGG: “good in bed, giving equal time and equal pleasure, and game for anything — within reason.” The Scorpio man is drawn to taboos and the underworld of sexuality, so a few kinks are to be expected. Bondage, domination, sadomasochism … power and pain are old friends to the Scorpion. This is not to say that all Scorpios like to dole out punishment: The sign is truly about the depths of intimacy, which means exploring every nook and cranny of your English muffin. No! I mean that he will want to connect intensely with you — staring into each other’s eyes (even during orgasm), or achieving tantric bliss through controlled sexual techniques.

If you want to satisfy him, you have to overcome your fear — fear of closeness, fear of exploring the boundaries of pain and pleasure. By all means don’t do anything that feels violating (unless, of course, you’re into that sort of thing.) But be willing to turn lovemaking into an attempt to excavate your hidden turn-ons and wounds, eroticizing power dynamics and family traumas to gain a sense of mastery over them.

And if all else fails, stick your finger up his patootie.

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Jeffrey Kishner is founder and publisher of Sasstrology. He is a licensed mental health counselor and has been doing astrological counseling since 2001. Jeffrey has been published in print magazines including The Mountain Astrologer and Dell Horoscope, and has written online for sites including AOL, Tarot.com and StarIQ. Jeffrey has also been heavily involved in the astrology blogger community. Read his personal blog at JeffreyKishner.com.

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  1. Sharon, I’ve been there done that so trust me when I say this man will not marry you.He is already making you suffer and doesn’t understand your emotional needs.Let go of him for the sake of your own sanity and happiness.All this emotional roller coaster is not worth it.Let him procrastinate, you at least think of a back up plan girl.Please find a single guy who gives you the kind of attention,love and care you deserve.He will keep you around until he suddenly realizes one day that oh well he actually does get along with his wife,he just didn’t notice how caring and giving she is blah blah..trust me girl..run faster!

  2. OK my Scorpio is so wishy washy it’s been a month since we had sex yesterday it WAS so passionate it lasted for at least two hours but when we fist had sex it was fast ,then it became I’m not having sex now it long lasting, passionate and kisses durning and he gives a a sweater or hat when I leave his house I’m trying to figure out does he like me tho I’m a Pisces BTW and he suffered a really bad relationship that lasted 10 years I’m the first girl that he has been seeing consistaly with sex involved besides he ex and he sleeps close to me now at first he would separate his shelf after we have sex now my hand is on his and his legs are leaning on me ,is that signs of progress ?towards a relationship I Also give him time because of his 10 relationship and she was also a Pisces he also says from time to time he is not dateing anymore network girls knowing I just moved down here from Atlanta a few months ago !

  3. OK my Scorpio is so wishy washy it’s been a month since we had sex yesterday it WAS so passionate! it lasted for at least two hours but when we fist had sex it was fast ,then it became I’m not having sex now its long lasting, passionate and kisses durning and he gives me a sweater or hat when I leave his house I’m trying to figure out does he like me tho I’m a Pisces BTW and he suffered a really bad relationship that lasted 10 years I’m the first girl that he has been seeing consistaly with sex involved besides his ex and he sleeps close to me now at first he would separate his shelf after we have sex now my hand is on his and his legs are leaning on me ,is that signs of progress ?towards a relationship I Also give him time because of his 10 relationship and I don’t want to rush or scare him off I Also take little breaks to give him space ,we argue witch I assume if I wasn’t worth the time he wouldnt!right ?and when I give breaks he always replies like nothing ! Has happen with a I’m happy to hear from you kinda additude never a delay or no reply ,what you all think ,let time take it’s course?

  4. OK my Scorpio is so wishy washy it’s been a month since we had sex yesterday it WAS so passionate! it lasted for at least two hours but when we fist had sex it was fast ,then it became I’m not having sex now its long lasting, passionate and kisses durning and he gives me a sweater or hat when I leave his house I’m trying to figure out does he like me tho I’m a Pisces BTW and he suffered a really bad relationship that lasted 10 years I’m the first girl that he has been seeing consistaly with sex involved besides his ex and he sleeps close to me now at first he would separate his shelf after we have sex now my hand is on his and his legs are leaning on me ,is that signs of progress ?towards a relationship I Also give him time because of his 10 relationship and I don’t want to rush or scare him off I Also take little breaks to give him space ,we argue witch I assume if I wasn’t worth the time he wouldnt!right ?and when I give breaks he always replies like nothing ! Has happen with a I’m happy to hear from you kinda additude never a delay or no reply ,what you all think ,let time take it’s course?

  5. Reading all of this makes me miss my Scorpio so much! Wish we could be physically together right now, and I can just stay in his arms – holding each other…

    I’m a Libra w/ a Scorpio stellium. His Sun conjuncts my Moon (as well as Mars, and 3 other planets w/ a wider orb) and his Venus conjuncts my Sun and Venus, among other aspects.

    This guy just makes me melt. Just thinking about him turns me into a pool of water – words can’t explain. He brightens my heart and lights me up :)

    My kink is less around him; he brings this affectionate, playful side out of me…. for example, I feel more inhibited in expressing my ‘wild side’ (think super kinky, BDSM, porn star, pure sex) mainly to not give the impression he’s all sex to me (not to worry, he’s not). Plus, in the past, there’s no feeling or I tire of a guy when this becomes the norm.

    I’d like to try but it doesn’t feel right. Think this side of me also makes him curious, because we sext and/or plain talk dirty, and it’s probably better to leave his fantasies to task d:

    Yeah, what we do is love making haha. It feels so warm, safe, secure and tantric – it’s beautiful! He dominates but he’s gentle and oh so attentive; he’s not very affectionate, so it makes it super nice when he is. In any event, I pour enough affection and touch out for both of us lol

    He seriously needs to quit being so bloody handsome and magnetic; it’s hard to focus!!

    A question for Scorpios out there: what is your take on karezza or tantric sex? It’s my preferred form of sexual expression, for lack of better term.

    I’d like to give it a serious go with this guy some time down the line. I suggested it to him, he’s read and still is reading about it (although he hates reading…bless him). We’re both busy academically so maybe in the summer we’ll have time to set aside for it..? I’onno. Will keep you guys posted :)

    I’ve probably come off all goo and mush hahaha.

    As an aside, my father’s a Scorpio too. Actually there are strong Scorpio/Plutonic elements in my family. What intriguing creatures!

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