reviewed the first 50 threads… certain I’ll have more to say when I plow thru the rest…

Ayla-092807, “start getting more and more involved in other friends… known to segue rather quickly.” – Aqua’s autonomous, but they can’t stand solitude… they apperceive “alone”, they will fill that void with another… 100% of the time…

Rob-032708, “nobody should be chained because they’re having sex” – maybe you should ask yourself why good pet owners neuter cats and dogs…

Trisch-040808, “But EVERY Aquarian has this really unique gift to seperate the physical from the emotional – (and a lot of people don’t understand this)” – EVERY Aqua has this really unique gift to not be in tune with their emotional side, they unconsciously repress (a lot of Aqua’s don’t understand this)

“they’ll tell you straight up and just break it off” – YES, then it’s called NOT CHEATING, right?

Anonymous-051408 at 11:46 pm, “why do we believe that one person can provide us with all the physical, mental and emotional needs we have. I mean c’mon.” – WHY NOT believe it? WHY NOT work at it? If your mind is free to wander, why not condition it to be free to come up with solutions to ‘getting no satisfaction’?

“But it’s because I want to–not because it’s expected.” – What happened to the “US” in Aquarius? Oh, I see it comes after “i”…

“because I was crying for NOT feeling bad about it” – when do you see an Aqua cry? when they can no longer stifle their emotion… at least a Virgo is aware they have them, and they distrust them… an Aqua, they wonder, ‘hey, what’s that bird?’… ‘it looks like an albatross’…

Anonymous-051808 at 3:40 pm, “Is it freedom? I think its terribly lonely. I dont know very many people that would put up with cheating.” – Ms. Libra, relationships asphyxiate Aquas… there’s a dichotomy… if you “put up with cheating” Aqua, they don’t “put up with cheating” you…

aquarius girl-071108 at 10:26 am, “some food for thought: emotions guide actions whether you like it or not, emotional circumstances will affect the ways in which you live your life. Even aquarians.” – I don’t see this. I’ve witnessed flawed logic guiding their actions… brainwashing influencing their decision process under certain cirumstances… 2 Aquas and counting… One’s a fluke, Two’s a coincidence, and Three’s a trend…

JK-071108, “There are many ways to be an independent spirit without betraying your lover/spouse.” – do they see it as a “betrayal of lover/spouse”?… or do see it as ‘I am unfaithful to myself’?

Anonymous-072908 at 12:05 am, “i have never been in a relationhip for longer than a few months because i dont want to cheat” – see comment about “just break it off”…

Anonymous-080208 at 7:37 am, “who better to flout the laws of God” – Zeus is hurling lightening bolts at Ganymede on Mount Olympus…

“I love the friendship in any relationship-no expectations, no rules, no obligations-only a love for your fellow human being” – uhm, doesn’t friendship mean expectations, rules, obligations?… if I can’t expect my friend to fulfill duty, honor, and loyalty… I might as well sleep with the enemy… at least, I know I’ll get a bottle of f.c.u.k. (and I’ll prolly smell nice, too)

Anonymous-080608 at 4:44 pm, “We cheat, emotionally and or physically, when we feel that our mate is trying to change us, when we feel emotionally abandoned and not taken care of.” – that makes it better… I cheat because my Aqua gets too cold and distant and sometimes she’s a prude…

Anonymous-081308 at 3:41 pm, “LOL So I’d rather tell the truth, break up and move on before I cheat.” – we have a theme here… plus, make up sex is better, right?… more exciting and charged…

Anonymous-090508 at 11:51 am, “That cheating starts when certain “needs” are not being met” – please rephrase in the form of question like ‘Does cheating start when certain ‘WANTS’ are not being met?’… “Cheating IS an act of Selfishness.” – thank you… finally, the voice of a rational, logically sensible Aqua…

Anonymous-091408, “when you fail to captivate we stray. boredom is a cage i cannot endure.” – this explains why so many Aqua’s perform at the circus…

Anonymous-091608, “they can’t understand how I can have sex with someone and not be emotionally attached to that individual” – Domo Arigato, Ms. Roboto…

karmaguy-121908, “She cheated like crazy now she’s after me when we broke up.” – Aqua’s have ‘Plan A’ and ‘Plan B’, and the good ones have ‘Plan C’… as indie as they appear to be, Aqua’s always need a man in their life… as either a sexual outlet… or to yap to…

Anonymous-012609, “it wasn’t even physical, but on the phone” – Jeff, I request another blog, ‘Physical, tawdry affairs vs. Emotional separation… only an Aqua would try and delineate this… I guess bible study was right, m@sturb@t!0n, and self-luv is so wrong… now, I know why the 1st Aqua left me… I should have never downloaded those pics of Gwen Stefani…

Michael-020509, “if you dont care – why should others care about you, is what I advised her” – they care, they just don’t know it… and don’t know how to show it… unless their levee overflows… (your advice is precious, but presented to the wrong audience)

xander-031409, “Pity aquarian girls dont know what it means to be really connected to the ones you love” – they know when they connect… it just scares the sh!t out of ‘em… and when they’re scared sh!tl3ss, they run… but, it’s normally in circles… you just have to be strong, and stubborn enough to be there when they run into you, again…

Wow..now never go back to that adultress relationship because you had asked for forgivness if you return your going to pay. Get you in your husband into a healing church and seek counsel from a strong man of god.. make sure they do not have pride and ego’s a clean family.. bible church with a strong pastor..clean your life up and settle things.. if you dont you will always live in turmoil and lust.
The outcome is ugly and your kids will repeat the same patterns..it will carry down and you need a high power to protect that. If your going to divroce him make sure you wait and do it correctly and clean..or do what the lord wants and hte kids want restore your marriage he will bless you with happiness

He said he will leave them alone for me, it is three women. He told me they are attractive and nice, but he has never had sex with any of them. the only reason I don’t belive him is because in the beginning of our relationship he cheated with the mother of his first born. He also promised to marry her before he proposed to me. For about six months he was talking to both of us promising to marry us both, he ended up choosing me. He told me this story two years ago when I was pregnant with our third child. He told me he cheated after our first together was born two years later. I am always forgiving him. I am tired.

Two I am not sleeping with numerous amounts of men I was one man, one affair. I did break it off, but I sometimes think of what could have been. In the back of my mind I wonder if the grass is greener on the other side. I know the saying.

For some reason I can not make myself fall back in love with him, I ask myself is it because I can’t fogive myself for cheating or I can’t go on living a lie. I can’t bear to look him in the face knowing that I have been with another man, a man that I liked a lot and if it continued I think I could have fallen hard for gemini. He was charming, and intellegent and did not care that I had kids. I also feel really horrible for allowing him to meet my kids.

I am so confused and I have asked the man upstairs to forgive me. It all comes down to should I tell him or not and should I end it or not. Either way i kicked him out of the bedroom and show no affection for him. We are living like roommates and he is confused by my behavior.

You should have never moved in with him !! his stimuli/ goals /future dreams are off.. Then the nagging its all un healthy.

He too has another girlfriend and it sounds like the couple who stays together for the kids yet has there happiness outside the home.

Men are usually hunters..and Aqua females are dreamers? haa lol i hope it works out for you