Why do some Aquarius women cheat?
September 27, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
An Aquarius wants the unfettered right to do what she pleases. Government and religious institutions only serve to squash her freedoms, and they must be overthrown! Down with the morality police!
Face it — rules are made to be broken, and who better to flout the laws of God than an Aquarius? If she wants to lay down with her neighbor’s wife, she’ll do it! Independence means more than being able to move out of your parents’ house and pay your rent. It’s about expressing yourself in spite of society’s rigid constraints.
As for the cuckold, well he ought to be liberated enough to be beyond antiquated notions of fidelity. Faithfulness is not about submitting only to your husband’s sexual desires. It’s about being true to your unique erotic impulses. To do otherwise is to court death, to be a caged bird yearning to explore the expanses of the heavens.
In a truly egalitarian society, we’d be able to sleep with whomever we want (consensually, of course). Is it any wonder that the dawning of the Age of Aquarius coincided with the Free Love movement? There are so many sexual opportunities in life! There’s nothing wrong with shacking up with one person, but why does the “couple” label have to have so many shackles?
Comment below: Cheating Aquarius women unite!
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sugarcookie so your satisfying your needs?? what if he falls in love and had all of the qualities that your looking for?
@hurtinscorps
be careful who you love. i am sorry about what happened to you. my appetites are indeed being met. my statement was not what i do actually lol.
i don’t believe people just “accidentally” mess around, or by “chance” go out on their partner. that just reminds me of stray dogs locking mindlessly in the front yard.
funny, how many “Anonymous” contributors are Aquarians… so, much for being up-front and confident…
reviewed the first 50 threads… certain I’ll have more to say when I plow thru the rest…
Ayla-092807, “start getting more and more involved in other friends… known to segue rather quickly.” – Aqua’s autonomous, but they can’t stand solitude… they apperceive “alone”, they will fill that void with another… 100% of the time…
Rob-032708, “nobody should be chained because they’re having sex” – maybe you should ask yourself why good pet owners neuter cats and dogs…
Trisch-040808, “But EVERY Aquarian has this really unique gift to seperate the physical from the emotional – (and a lot of people don’t understand this)” – EVERY Aqua has this really unique gift to not be in tune with their emotional side, they unconsciously repress (a lot of Aqua’s don’t understand this)
“they’ll tell you straight up and just break it off” – YES, then it’s called NOT CHEATING, right?
Anonymous-051408 at 11:46 pm, “why do we believe that one person can provide us with all the physical, mental and emotional needs we have. I mean c’mon.” – WHY NOT believe it? WHY NOT work at it? If your mind is free to wander, why not condition it to be free to come up with solutions to ‘getting no satisfaction’?
“But it’s because I want to–not because it’s expected.” – What happened to the “US” in Aquarius? Oh, I see it comes after “i”…
“because I was crying for NOT feeling bad about it” – when do you see an Aqua cry? when they can no longer stifle their emotion… at least a Virgo is aware they have them, and they distrust them… an Aqua, they wonder, ‘hey, what’s that bird?’… ‘it looks like an albatross’…
Anonymous-051808 at 3:40 pm, “Is it freedom? I think its terribly lonely. I dont know very many people that would put up with cheating.” – Ms. Libra, relationships asphyxiate Aquas… there’s a dichotomy… if you “put up with cheating” Aqua, they don’t “put up with cheating” you…
aquarius girl-071108 at 10:26 am, “some food for thought: emotions guide actions whether you like it or not, emotional circumstances will affect the ways in which you live your life. Even aquarians.” –
I don’t see this. I’ve witnessed flawed logic guiding their actions… brainwashing influencing their decision process under certain cirumstances… 2 Aquas and counting… One’s a fluke, Two’s a coincidence, and Three’s a trend…
JK-071108, “There are many ways to be an independent spirit without betraying your lover/spouse.” – do they see it as a “betrayal of lover/spouse”?… or do see it as ‘I am unfaithful to myself’?
Anonymous-072908 at 12:05 am, “i have never been in a relationhip for longer than a few months because i dont want to cheat” – see comment about “just break it off”…
Anonymous-080208 at 7:37 am, “who better to flout the laws of God” – Zeus is hurling lightening bolts at Ganymede on Mount Olympus…
“I love the friendship in any relationship-no expectations, no rules, no obligations-only a love for your fellow human being” – uhm, doesn’t friendship mean expectations, rules, obligations?… if I can’t expect my friend to fulfill duty, honor, and loyalty… I might as well sleep with the enemy… at least, I know I’ll get a bottle of f.c.u.k. (and I’ll prolly smell nice, too)
Anonymous-080608 at 4:44 pm, “We cheat, emotionally and or physically, when we feel that our mate is trying to change us, when we feel emotionally abandoned and not taken care of.” – that makes it better… I cheat because my Aqua gets too cold and distant and sometimes she’s a prude…
Anonymous-081308 at 3:41 pm, “LOL So I’d rather tell the truth, break up and move on before I cheat.” – we have a theme here… plus, make up sex is better, right?… more exciting and charged…
Anonymous-090508 at 11:51 am, “That cheating starts when certain “needs” are not being met” – please rephrase in the form of question like ‘Does cheating start when certain ‘WANTS’ are not being met?’… “Cheating IS an act of Selfishness.” – thank you… finally, the voice of a rational, logically sensible Aqua…
Anonymous-091408, “when you fail to captivate we stray. boredom is a cage i cannot endure.” – this explains why so many Aqua’s perform at the circus…
Anonymous-091608, “they can’t understand how I can have sex with someone and not be emotionally attached to that individual” – Domo Arigato, Ms. Roboto…
karmaguy-121908, “She cheated like crazy now she’s after me when we broke up.” – Aqua’s have ‘Plan A’ and ‘Plan B’, and the good ones have ‘Plan C’… as indie as they appear to be, Aqua’s always need a man in their life… as either a sexual outlet… or to yap to…
Anonymous-012609, “it wasn’t even physical, but on the phone” – Jeff, I request another blog, ‘Physical, tawdry affairs vs. Emotional separation… only an Aqua would try and delineate this… I guess bible study was right, m@sturb@t!0n, and self-luv is so wrong… now, I know why the 1st Aqua left me… I should have never downloaded those pics of Gwen Stefani…
Michael-020509, “if you dont care – why should others care about you, is what I advised her” – they care, they just don’t know it… and don’t know how to show it… unless their levee overflows… (your advice is precious, but presented to the wrong audience)
xander-031409, “Pity aquarian girls dont know what it means to be really connected to the ones you love” – they know when they connect… it just scares the sh!t out of ‘em… and when they’re scared sh!tl3ss, they run… but, it’s normally in circles… you just have to be strong, and stubborn enough to be there when they run into you, again…
I shall reintroduce myself as PiscesVirgoCancer (the male counterpart to PiscesLibraVirgo)
I luv Aqua gals because they are soooooooooo ridiculous… lmao
aTrueAquarius-060609, “If your taking us for granted…we will seek other options” – what is this an Aquarian provision?… can you imagine if I asked an Aqua to sign a similar contract?… ’somebody help me’…
“I’m naturally just not a relationship oriented person so please make it worth my while : ]” – I was born into this world to accede to true Aquas…
aquarius-pisces cusp queen-01909, “but, stick to the motto out of sight out of mind. ” – Why not tell your husband? If you are OK with it, he should be OK with it?… your an Aqua, and he should be aware that natives of your sign are the exception to the inherent rules of matrimony that are widely accepted by nearly every ‘humanitarian’ culture since homosapien emerged as the dominant species…
whatever-062609, “If you want a relationship with an aquarius woman you have to abide by the rules of being loyal and loving to her and she will return the favor.” – this doesn’t work (tried and tested)… how can a person who rebels against established rules, claim that others should follow their rule?
Louise-062809, “i fancied i jst went for it, Yes rather upsetting for him, and yes it is selfish but i honeslty couldnt care less!” – B-I-N-G-O, B-I-N-G-O, Bingo was his name-ho…
“yes iam quite emtionally oblivious and emotions are confusing and ireelevant things that seem to get in the way!” – thank you… read up boys, emotion never enters into their thought process… decisions are made irregardless of how it impacts the others feelings… ironically, each justification for cheating in these threads, is an emotional response, yet Aquas fail to see it as such !!!
“Nothing worse then being a sheep sticking to what is ’socally right’!” – thought this was the Age of Aquarius… so, aren’t you a sheep when you behave as an Aquarius would?
thecountess-063009, “we’re not prone to actual affairs. that’s way too emotionally complicated” – I thought sex is sex, and love is love ??? How did it get so complicated ???
“no guilt about it. but I was smart enuf to forwarn myself &the guys exactly what they were & to kno their place.” – a one time thing, sure… a more time thing – I guess you have not had to deal with the complication where you do commit, and your BFF just won’t disappear even when you ask him to…
whatever-063009, “In actuality we do not cheat unless our partners have driven us out of love being that we are emotional abused, disrespected, etc.” – if you’ve been emotionally abused, wouldn’t a psychiatrist be a better crutch ???
whatever-063009, “i don’t want him to cheat on me because if he does it means that he doesn’t fully belong to me.” – Aqua possesses, but does not want to be possessed… how comical is that?
thecountess-070109, “But my actual REASON for cheating, at least in my opinion, was simple lack of knowledge of how to handle my situation” – isn’t this the sign of the knowledgable scholar, innovation, the revolutionary ??? pleading IGNORANCE ??? come on, you know this wouldn’t hold up in your judicial system…
“Again it’s just lack of knowing what to do about things, inexperience.” – cheating to gain experience, awesome… here’s a foreign concept for Aquas… how about studying an issue, and going to work at it?… you might actually get a burst of insight from it…
“pisces would ’swim away’… minor bumps in the road.” – really ??? I can provide evidence to the contrary… 2 freewheeling Aquas… you should see my laundry list of their messes which I’ve had to clean… they’re the only two woman who’ve made my chart worth living…
“we think perfection is actually IN imperfection.” – cute… is this like logic IN illogic ???
“i don’t find many aqua women or men particularly prone to it.” – that’s ’cause the other 11, now, we are law abiding members of the Aquarian Cheat Club… the 1st rule of the Aquarian Cheat Club is: you do not talk about Aquarian Cheat Club…
“Sex for shear sexual gratification or better yet,experimentation” – if this is all it takes, I’ll buy you a copy of the Kama Sutra, and you can make use of it with your partner…
PiscesLibraVirgo-070109, “why more Aquas and Pisces don’t date” – simple… Pisces can read Aquas… you get so good at it that you approximate their cognitive abilities… but, they can’t intuit their own emotions… what makes you think that they would know how to embrace ours?
“Pisces is about imbalance” – interesting theory…
whatever-070209, “What is it about this union, I can’t explain?” – it’s easy, Pisces understands you… you recognize this fact… but, don’t accept it… you are hostage to your collective beliefs that “no one can grasp” the eccentric, the novel, and the thought provoking nature of inhibitions… if you lend credence to astrology, I was you…
TauVirGuy-091009, “You can do whatever you want! I want to be a good friend and for you to be happy!” makes them feel restricted.” – what you fail to understand is that their BFF is at their disposal, and must meet their whims… they are fully aware of the demands of a “good friend”… you can’t remind them what it means to be a “good friend”… or ask them to reciprocate in kind… or that you are… they need to tell you or offer it… so you gotta be sneaky with them… like “oh, I need some sugar, haven’t had any for dayz”… then, they’re like “I have some sugar for you honey, would you like some ?”… then, they deliver sweet’n'low… and they’ll ask, “was it good?”… nod, smile, and avoid saying, “I’m Taurian, I don’t want imitation sweetner”…
Aquarian-092109, “why did TauVirGuy need to say that” – uhm, ’cause Aquas need to hear it…
In closing, this topic is a bit maddening… I feel like I’m dealing with a bunch of Librans… excuses as to why you cheat… a CHEATER CHEATS… plain and simple… if you know the WHY, you can invent a reason not to; otherwise, all you’re doing is enabling yourself, and exposing yourself to another liaison…
trust me, doesn’t take much to tempt me with the most recent flavor of Krispy Kreme donuts… bad for a lifetime of consumption, good for that 2 min.
Chip
P.S. Never understood why an Aqua would adopt and master such a tool as logic… it sets conditions… in and of itself, it is limiting… I think Aquas like being ensnared… they enjoy fidgetting to set themselves free… ever wonder how a fly gets tangled in a spider web?…
usually when i have an OCD moment for like several hours in a row, i just stay away from forums
Maybe you should disclose your name, address and telephone number and warned all Aqua girls to stay away from you. You are assuming your values are the values everyone should have. We are individuals for a reason. Seek your own happiness, and let everyone else do the same. Your rules do not apply to us all… move on…
Can I assume that your comment is directed at me AquaSag?