(Disclaimer: This blog entry is for humorous and educational purposes only. Adhere to the following advice at your own risk.)
Venusianprincess provided her birth information and writes:
There has been this Scorpio guy that I have been talking to for quite awhile. We’ve known each other for 4 years and now, out of the blue, I am starting to fall for him. I have always kept him at a distance, but now I want to be with him and I’m scared that I will be hurt (he hasn’t given me any reason for feeling this way, he actually treats me like a princess) So I don’t know why I feel this way. I am 26 and he is 40 (a young 40). His venus is in sagittarius and his moon sign is in pisces. A part of me wants to go further (he wants to marry me), but a part of me wants to keep it like it is (because I’m scared). Any insight would be so greatly appreciated. Thanks so much.
Taurus and Scorpio are opposite signs, which could explain the magnetic, yet uncomfortable attraction you have for this Scorpio guy. Scorpio is a passionate sign that yearns for something deep. When in love, Scorpio wants to make a lasting commitment and know that you will always be there for him. This should appeal to you, since Taurus is an earth sign that also needs to know where a relationship stands. Your Venus in Taurus reinforces this core value regarding relationships, as well. But maybe your Scorpio’s intensity is making you feel pressured…
Your chart is loaded with the fire element, which contradicts the long-term commitment valued by your Taurus Sun. Your Moon, Mercury and Mars are all in fire signs (Sagittarius and Aries, respectively). Since you don’t provide any specific external examples, the overwhelming amount of fire within your chart could be the main cause for the let’s-wait-awhile, commitment-phobic feelings regarding making the ultimate commitment of togetherness – marriage.
Your Sagittarius Moon dislikes the emotional burden of being responsible for other people’s feelings (especially if they’re complex). Perhaps your Sag Moon is intuitively sensing that your Scorpio man (with his sensitive Pisces Moon) will require more from you emotionally than you’re willing (or able) to give. Not only is your Moon in a freedom-loving fire sign, but it’s also located in your 5th house (naturally associated with Leo). Short-term love affairs and fun are 5th house concerns. In other words, having fun is an emotional craving for you, so keeping things “as it is” is your way of keeping things light and fun (are you catching the pattern here?).
Having so much fire in your chart (your Ascendant and North Node are in Leo – yet another fire sign), you most likely have an idealized definition of love. You mention “falling for” your Scorpio “out of the blue” despite having known each other for 4 years. What Aries, Leo and Sagittarius all have in common is that they are prone to sudden infatuations (or falling in love, as they call it), which can lead to disappointment when the affair doesn’t go as they expected. In your considerations of getting engaged, are thoughts of how past relationships ended making you less optimistic (i.e., scared) about the future?
In addition, you have lesson-instilling Saturn in Libra, which means you have some karmic concerns about relationships/partnerships. You have learned over time to take entering into and exiting them very seriously. Mr. Scorpio may get impatient with how long it takes you to weigh all of the pros and cons of where your relationship is headed, but this process is necessary for you to feel comfortable with your final decision. The upside is that once you finally make a decision, it will be a lasting one.
As I write this, the Moon is now in Taurus and Saturn is in trine aspect to your Sun. The next 2 days or so is a great time for you to take advantage of this period when you’ll be able to exchange your foggy, rose-colored glasses for a level-head in order to view your relationship realistically.
With your Mercury-Mars conjunction in your 9th house of long-distance travel, I suggest you book a trip to a foreign city, state, country or continent for you and your Scorpio sweetie. This getaway will be a great boost to creating a safe emotional environment for your Sagittarius Moon to open up to your Scorpion about your marriage concerns. And who knows? It might also stir his Venus in Sagittarius (the 9th house’s natural sign) to officially pop the question. 
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Jara Dan-Fodio has been gazing at the sky and observing people all of her life. After reading her first astrology book that went beyond the 12 zodiac signs 15 years ago, the patterns she noticed began to make sense. Although she dabbles in vocational, predictive and electional astrology upon request, her favorites are depth astrology and synastry. She’s an eternal student of life and astrology is just one of her many teachers. You can find more of this 8th houser’s astro-notes at Random Astrology or Twitter.
well i had a talk with someone about there behavoir and then i got into an argument and had to clear things up lol before i came back
…:-)….I’m sorry…come back on…haaa
….hmmm…you must be starved for attention haaa…
maybe a bit but we all like that must be the leo in my chart lol
ms.t sorry about earlier it would seem our freindship hit its first bump hopefully we can smoothe it out.
…and WHO is this?….jay, juan, javier, juan javier?…you don’t deserve a smoothing…or my friendship…
Only friends call me jay so u should feel at least a bit better. and im phenix on here remember
but talking to u im jay cause thats the name i like to be called. And besides i will miss our convos Good luck on your dates ms. t
uuummmhhhmmm…..i don’t know what to call you anymore….you obvi don’t miss them enough….
call me what your combterable with i will be on later if u decide to talk to me i will be happy if not then ill wait another day or two days again lol if your date goes well maybe three
if my date(s) go well…then there’s no need FOR me to come back…..i’m done.
u r so hard on me i am only your friend despite it all id whish to countinue
an untrustable “friend”?!….naw man….
can u just not give me a little room here i was being ohnest havent lied to u once. U r a diffucult freind but worth it hmm what do u need to know or want for me to gain your trust back?
why am I even talking to you?…go handle your taurus and scorpio woman…They too can have a conversation with you…hey…may even a truthful one….it’s all good….no hard feelings…
Hmmmm….I want and need to no longer speak or have conversation with you….
bah jealousy? lol prolly not i like our convos nd the other comvos arent the same as ours. and i was being truthful but i guess it does seem a bit suspiciuos. Sorry about that and u like talking to me to thats y we talk.
u r so confusing on thing and your backking off from nothing in particular ok so let me ask u this then do u enjoy our conovos do they make u smile even a little bit i mean come on u make fun of me enoough to luagh. I smile well luagh alot to
bah…get it all out now….I’ll be leaving in five mins…you can talk to your next scorpion victim…there’s plenty of other prey that have made posts on here…take your pick….
whether or not there was enjoyment no longer matters…..you do you…it’s ALL gravy babay! DO what you have to….and best of luck with it all….you can make NEW friends…..and work on your relationship with your woman – the scorpio….no need to worry about ME in the least.
oh geeze ill wait for u to cool off before we talk again right now is jsut not the time.
if its all gravy then jsut talk to me silly. Isnt like it doesn any harm.
no more talking and I’m leaving…take care of yourself “jay”….pffffttt
so hard headed fine no more talking for now but we’ll talk again ms.t
have a great weekend k.
later ms t
R u alright?….a bit concerned here….I’m still on….just in case.
im fine ms t i promse get some sleep and relax k
u deserve it
Please come online…:-)
I need u…and I wanna talk to u….come online
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Pls….pretty please haaa…come online
I know you’re up…please come online…..you got me worried here…
o actually when to sleep and im up up now getting readty lol
sssuuurrree….well then since you’re getting ready for your trip…I guess I won’t talk to you today…Have a safe trip…..
come online – I wanna ask you something….:-)
ohhhhhhhhhhhhh fine lol
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Jay….r u alright?
You have me worried….can you please come online?……for me….
im here sorry just thinking and i didnt get back from my trip till early this morning
Jayyyyy…pls come back online….I wanna talk to you….
ok so maybe i dont feel like sleeping lol
Jay….can you come online please….need to talk to you….
Like….seriously….
come online
come online
come online and talk to me….please
Hi tyg515. Your comments were cute. My friend is going thru something similar….did you ever figure out your situation? And no…I’m not a scorpio so don’t be scared to answer lol…scot
Hi scot….sorry I haven’t been on for a while so many apologies. Got sidetracked. Anyways, I recently posted under scorpio and cheating. So the answer to your question is no. I just want out of the situation altogether. I’ve just been trying to move on and start over and be happy. Trying not to regret having had this person in my life but its quite difficult to not to regret it. Anyways if you’re on pls see my post and I hope your friend has better luck then I did. For me…its just not worth it anymore.
Hi @tyg515…wow…I forgot that I posted. Lol. Read ur posts and you seem mad as hell! With that much passion and conviction – there’s no way that you can tell me that you don’t still have some kinda feelings for this guy – albeit it sounds like hatred lol but that’s still a feeling last time I checked….so what gives if you don’t mind my asking? My friend and her scorp dude didn’t work out either. I guess trying to understand the underlying pattern for behavior and inactivity or emotionalism that belies the scorp nature. It seems to be a running theme by those who’ve interacted with them. So spill it! Lol….sorry to be so blunt. But…curious. thanks!