Should Taurus Woman Commit to Scorpio Man?
September 1, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
This guest post was written by Jara aka BlahBlah.
(Disclaimer: This blog entry is for humorous and educational purposes only. Adhere to the following advice at your own risk.)
Venusianprincess provided her birth information and writes:
There has been this Scorpio guy that I have been talking to for quite awhile. We’ve known each other for 4 years and now, out of the blue, I am starting to fall for him. I have always kept him at a distance, but now I want to be with him and I’m scared that I will be hurt (he hasn’t given me any reason for feeling this way, he actually treats me like a princess) So I don’t know why I feel this way. I am 26 and he is 40 (a young 40). His venus is in sagittarius and his moon sign is in pisces. A part of me wants to go further (he wants to marry me), but a part of me wants to keep it like it is (because I’m scared). Any insight would be so greatly appreciated. Thanks so much.
Taurus and Scorpio are opposite signs, which could explain the magnetic, yet uncomfortable attraction you have for this Scorpio guy. Scorpio is a passionate sign that yearns for something deep. When in love, Scorpio wants to make a lasting commitment and know that you will always be there for him. This should appeal to you, since Taurus is an earth sign that also needs to know where a relationship stands. Your Venus in Taurus reinforces this core value regarding relationships, as well. But maybe your Scorpio’s intensity is making you feel pressured…
Your chart is loaded with the fire element, which contradicts the long-term commitment valued by your Taurus Sun. Your Moon, Mercury and Mars are all in fire signs (Sagittarius and Aries, respectively). Since you don’t provide any specific external examples, the overwhelming amount of fire within your chart could be the main cause for the let’s-wait-awhile, commitment-phobic feelings regarding making the ultimate commitment of togetherness – marriage.
Your Sagittarius Moon dislikes the emotional burden of being responsible for other people’s feelings (especially if they’re complex). Perhaps your Sag Moon is intuitively sensing that your Scorpio man (with his sensitive Pisces Moon) will require more from you emotionally than you’re willing (or able) to give. Not only is your Moon in a freedom-loving fire sign, but it’s also located in your 5th house (naturally associated with Leo). Short-term love affairs and fun are 5th house concerns. In other words, having fun is an emotional craving for you, so keeping things “as it is” is your way of keeping things light and fun (are you catching the pattern here?).
Aries is not exactly the most relationship-oriented placement. With both your Mercury and Mars in this headstrong, independent sign, you are probably concerned about whether your man will be able to keep up with you or hold you back from doing what you want to do. Your fear could be the result of you questioning if the relationship will provide the constant mental and physical stimulation that you enjoy. As I mentioned before, boredom = no fun to that 5th house Moon of yours.
Having so much fire in your chart (your Ascendant and North Node are in Leo – yet another fire sign), you most likely have an idealized definition of love. You mention “falling for” your Scorpio “out of the blue” despite having known each other for 4 years. What Aries, Leo and Sagittarius all have in common is that they are prone to sudden infatuations (or falling in love, as they call it), which can lead to disappointment when the affair doesn’t go as they expected. In your considerations of getting engaged, are thoughts of how past relationships ended making you less optimistic (i.e., scared) about the future?
In addition, you have lesson-instilling Saturn in Libra, which means you have some karmic concerns about relationships/partnerships. You have learned over time to take entering into and exiting them very seriously. Mr. Scorpio may get impatient with how long it takes you to weigh all of the pros and cons of where your relationship is headed, but this process is necessary for you to feel comfortable with your final decision. The upside is that once you finally make a decision, it will be a lasting one.
As I write this, the Moon is now in Taurus and Saturn is in trine aspect to your Sun. The next 2 days or so is a great time for you to take advantage of this period when you’ll be able to exchange your foggy, rose-colored glasses for a level-head in order to view your relationship realistically.
With your Mercury-Mars conjunction in your 9th house of long-distance travel, I suggest you book a trip to a foreign city, state, country or continent for you and your Scorpio sweetie. This getaway will be a great boost to creating a safe emotional environment for your Sagittarius Moon to open up to your Scorpion about your marriage concerns. And who knows? It might also stir his Venus in Sagittarius (the 9th house’s natural sign) to officially pop the question. 
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Wow, this girl’s got a lot of the same stuff I do (another Taurus with Sag moon, Mercury in Aries).
In my life, I have found that Taurus and Scorpio go together like peanut butter and jelly. My parents were of that pairing, and my last ex is a Scorpio. It works as long as nobody gets pissed off- but then again, that’s kinda true for all relationships
I do have to agree with the Sag vs. Pisces moon being a big problematic, though. My mom’s a Pisces moon and emotionally we are night and day and clashing over it all the time. He will definitely feel more and need more nurturing and attention than you may be inclined to give (especially if he’s being really needy for a long time)- then you’ll want to just run away!
But overall…I dunno, I’d at least give it a shot. It’s hard to avoid getting involved with other fixed signs, in my experience!
Update: Taurus woman made a serious, long-term commitment to Scorpio man.
i was a good relation with a taurus girls for 3 years.when i was with her i know that i can’t live without her and every time give my attention for her even fight with my freinds for her leave my jobs for her i accept that when i was in love with her i have loss manythings even many girl freinds for her with joy’s. but when i was leave her i come to know that i was fool that i was realy waisting my time but. she have not said me once in 3 years that she love me. but give me many gifts and roses. and that a reason why i leave her.
And have you ever said that to her scorpio???
Wow. I am in a similar situation I a friend also who is a Scorpio man. he makes me laugh and smile and feel all mushy inside lol i havent felt this way sense highschool. He makes me feel like he’s got my back until the end. also makes me feel secure he’s wonderful its so funny we are so drawn to each other we always lose contact but always end up staying either in the same apt complex or just a couple min down the road its crazy we met at work and he admitted to me that when he seen me on my first day I started working and bet a guy that he was going to get me loll well he still trying but Im starting to fall I think but I just have this feeling he will be the one that would break my heart and its so funny he told roommate the other day he feels the same way I do. Im stuck because I don’t want to give to much and be hurt he seems like he wants a good chase but once Im in love I love hard so I don’t like to chase at that point I mean a little chase is fun but it depends on which kind I am a down to earth cool calmed (unless angered) type I dot like to argue unless Im right or trying to get a point across I like stress free relationships I know they are not perfect but I want almost close. So Im torn I don’t know if I should go with my heart and my body of course (the Scorpio turn me on to no limit) or my mind
Wow. I am in a similar situation I a friend also who is a Scorpio man. He makes me laugh and smile and feel all mushy inside lol I haven’t felt this way sense high school. He makes me feel like he’s got my back until the end. also makes me feel secure he’s wonderful its so funny we are so drawn to each other we always lose contact but always end up staying either in the same apt complex or just a couple min down the road its crazy we met at work and he admitted to me that when he seen me on my first day I started working and bet a guy that he was going to get me loll well he still trying but Im starting to fall I think but I just have this feeling he will be the one that would break my heart and its so funny he told roommate the other day he feels the same way I do. Im stuck because I don’t want to give to much and be hurt he seems like he wants a good chase but once Im in love I love hard so I don’t like to chase at that point I mean a little chase is fun but it depends on which kind I am a down to earth cool calmed (unless angered) type I dot like to argue unless Im right or trying to get a point across I like stress free relationships I know they are not perfect but I want almost close. So Im torn I don’t know if I should go with my heart and my body of course (the Scorpio turn me on to no limit) or my mind
I am in such a similar situation..and usually I have plenty of self control but this..THIS i tell you is unlike anything I have ever experienced.
o he is a scorpio with a leo ascendant,moon in pisces and venus in sagittarius.I am taurus(aries cusp-april 20) with gemini ascendant,moon in gemini and venus in gemini.
Point is there is this bloody magnetic attraction/connection that you can even breathe in the air when we are together.It’s almost like the air between us screams.We seem to not be able to stay apart from one another but he keeps playing some sort of game,likes me,wants me,does not want to lose me yet we do not take it further.(by further I mean,beyond the eyeing one another and scarce conversations)He enjoys chasing me.Till when?He once opened up to me,even when I presented him an ultimatum he insisted on keeping me close.Is there some sort of dark,sick manipulation developing underneath this..or could there be some kind of emotional attachment that finds him doing all this?It’s been 3 bloody months
Jara,
Sounds like you took a step forward. Everything is a risk and nobody wants to be hurt, to my knowledge, unless they have some fetish. Either way, thank you for posting. I am a Scorpio man and I like a Scorpio woman, who is 14 years younger then me. I’m 37 and she is 23. She’s amazing. She’s not interested, though, I still try to be there for her and do things for her, as to show that I care as her friend first and foremost. She got me. She really did, where nobody else has got me this strongly since my mid 20s’. Other Scorpio guys who I know are exactly like me. Nice and friendly, but if you cross us, we freak out inside and we become rude and can ruin a person’s day if we’re crossed too far. If you’re faithful with us (at least all the ones who I know of the same sign, as well as Scorpio women), we are faithful back and want to help any way we can in life if we can. Sex is a big part, but for me, it’s not only about sex, of course. I want that faithfulness and surely, some space at times, where I can give it, too. Jealousy has been an issue, but as I have aged, I have learned to control it and realized that whatever is going to happen will happen and to at least give the other a chance. But, if we’re cheated on, it’s see you later and take care. We need that security immensly.
I need to back off from this one from here, since she is younger, but still more mature than others her age, so it seems. I need to tread litely, though, since I don’t want to scare her away. For me and my other Scorpio guy friends, we like to seduce a woman gently and being romantic is a big thing for us, where we believe in it totally. We also like that chase, but we want to get that right woman, too. The chase is thrilling for only so long, and we won’t do it forever.
Good luck to you and may you be happy with this Scorpio man and may he be happy with you, where you know it works both ways. I’m sure you made his heart melt and I know the feeling. Best to you and him.
What I meant to type was I’m a Scorpio man and I like a Taurus woman. My typo, and hardly a Freudian slip.
I need help!
lol
im a taurus born 4\28
weve been talking for a while,none the less not very long.
he took me to the movies and to a basketball game.
I feel like he’s a player but I have pretty good intuition and won’t allow him to play with my emotions.
he recently told me he’s falling in love with me, and I believe him. when were together its amazing, and he looks deep into my eyes. he also said he’s lucky for having me in his life. its just so magnetic with us and I want him to be the one. do u think he’s being genuine?
and do u see this working?
I coyld say im falling also.
Hmmmm…..where to begin…I’m a 33 yr olf Taurus woman 5/15/75 one of my friends sent me a pic of a GORGEOUS guy…All i did was look into his eyes – mind you it was an email – and i was like mesmerized…it was surreal and i had to find out more about him – well he’s a Scorpio – 11/7/79 – 29yrs old and it was almost magnetic. Another friend of mine can get in contact with him….is there a certain body type, height, feature that they’re attracted to. Would this be a good pairing. I’m sorta iffy about the age thing – never dated any one younger than myself – but THIS – this is unlike any thing I’ve EVER experienced and I get so giggly like I’m 12. Lordy….
….please help this blushing bull 
Would a Moon in Scorpio act like these other Sun in Scorpios? I am strongly attacted to an Aries with a Moon in Scorpio. When I met him I never would’ve thought he was an Aries he doesnt act like one he seemed very cautious and slow to act on his feelings for me he seemed content to just stare at me from a distance for what seemed like forever
I am a Taurus with Taurus moon, so neither of us were making the first move, it was very very frustrating.
Sammi — I am Aries with a Moon in Scorpio. Marry him. Your Taurus moon will make him feel very comfortable and unthreatened at home. It is important for us. Scoprio moon’s sensuality makes any Aries slower, and more deep (unless other planets not pushing it). We are deeper than deep. Intense, yet appear aloof to others. You two must connect nicely. Just give him time to trust you and don’t give up. Aries is loyal and a Scorpio moon as well. i am cautious too, because I have a fear ( a little) of being controlled. It sits right in my stomach. Give him some time please. He will come closer and you won’t meet a more loyal friend ever. Up to you though. Keep him.
Thanks Larisa! I have never met an Aries like him that’s for sure and to top it off his Venus is in Taurus! Intense is a great word for him. When we talk we seem to be on the same wavelength, my only worry is that I feel he may be very possesive and I am not sure how I will handle that.
Sammi – interestingly, my Venus is also in Taurus.
You got yourself a very sensual warm friend. Lip smaking desires. BUT… Taurus Venus is not in a rush, or no, commmitment for us is a serious thing. Some people think I am a prude, regardless of desires, I do not jump into adventures, never. It takes time to commit fully. Yes. Just give him some time. You will love it. And respect the thing that he is not rushing into it. 
Love him
Oh wow Larissa it’s almost like I’m dating you! I wish I had talked to you a few months ago when I was trying hard to understand him and his ways. Quite a different breed of guy seems like I’m dealing with
I hope my Gemini rising or his Mars in Aries don’t give us too many issues
Thanks for all the insight
@ Larisa – So I’ve discovered that Eric Clapton also has these Sun in Aries, Moon in Scorpio, Venus in Taurus placements…I think I may have to follow one of you around for a day or two to observe to try to help me understand all that these placements entail…either that or I will just have to keep getting to know my guy more and more and deal with and adjust to all of the idiosyncrasies along the way
Sammi – so glad to hear you again! Follow me and ask me, I love questions and if it helps to understand something then it is good. Yes, also Mariah Carey is Aries Sun, Scorpio Moon. Did you hear her song “All MY”? I love this song, she does have intensified passion and desires. I do
. It is more a burden if you can’t share it when you want. Strong passions is heavy stuff. I also wanted to tell you that my Mars is in Aries, I think I am your boyfriend’s twin. Ask me anything, I can tell you about me though and if you’d like you can draw an analogy in your head regarding your friend. so far, main planets – Sun, Moon, Mars and Venus are in same signs, i think it could be helpful. 
stay in touch
Thanks Larisa, Oh wow, yes, you could be this guys twin! I would love to take you up on that! I have a trillion questions, I know Scorpios and I know Aries (not an expert by any means) and well I am a Taurus, but I’ve never met a person who is a combination of all three (or maybe I have since I don’t usually even know people’s sun signs until birthdays come around or it comes up in discussions much less all the others)
One quick question and although I have many more I may just have to give you my email address so that I don’t annoy everyone on here and turn Jeff’s wonderful site into a Sammi Q and A w/ Larisa. Would you say that you get obsessive over things or people? I feel like my guy was and is still very fixated on me and sometimes it makes me uncomfortable but I am getting used to it a little. I’ve also learned that with him there is a lot of either love or hate, I like everyone and he either loves or hates them no real in between seems like.
Oh and yes! that is a great song!
hey, I’mma a 21 yr. young scorpio male falling head over heels for a older Taurus woman. I go to her profile on myspace just to stare at her eyes. I have known here for about 4yrs. & I just recently expressed my feelings for her in part. They’re too deep to convey clearly so instead of talking about it (& I am long-winded), I simply & secretly obssess. I write poems & entries (I’mma writter & arttist) & brag to everyone about how mature she is. How spiritual she is & how her spirituality leads her decision making into a well-balanced lifestyle I find commendable & pure. However, my feelings are sincere. I fell in love with hesitation because I didn’t want to risk a heartbreak unneccessarily. But now I’m in love & don’t EVER want to leave. Sadly, she is soon to leave for Seattle & here I am in baltimore. We barely hang out & talk off & on but I swear on my future she is thee greatest friend to have EVER!! I think highly of her & value her family/love-oriented soul. I can see deeply into myself when I become aware of how much I hold love for this other person. I am not bitter over her departure for it is neccessary (school) but I am silently struggling to deal with this. Because we are TRUE friends I don’t fear any of the choices she’ll come to face & make, but I love & want to marry her. I won’t rush it, in fact ~it took 3yrs. just to say I really like her like that. I admitt to some jealousy but, I understand how finite envy can make one’s effort to love correctly. I guess, I’m desparately online, seeking answers for a next move that I know is already in me to make. I just want to calcute the right-timing without throwing off our friendship or putting any pressure on her. Her family is awesome also!! But how do I win her heart??? We share the same life-goals & values yet, she is deserving of some1 who won’t merely go on a chase after her. She deserves a TRUE man, & everything in my heart & sol wants to be that. I find myself rushing maturity just to stabily be with her how I desire, in married union. Iunno, just blogging. But. . . I need help. How to convince her I’m serious & she’s not a thrill to chase?! How do I prove I’m sincere in my word & when do I just come out or do I allow time to work into my actions toward showing that love???
scorp87 – First off congrats to “falling head over heels” with a Taurus. FABULOUS!! We’re awesome…and Scorps are great too. Wow…myspace huh? She must be pretty special for you JUST to obsess over a pic..imagine how you are with her in person
. Spirituality for a Taurus is VERY important and if you can connect with her on that level – she’s hooked – TRUST ME!!. Since you’ve noted that you’ve conveyed your feelings to her in part – what was HER reaction? Does she feel the same way – she may as well. Us Taureans can go a LONG time – if the guy is worth it – just standing back and seeing what he does. If she’s worth it, and it certainly sounds like she is – I say to definately pursue it. Looking at a picture and looking at the person are 2 different things. She may very well have those butterflies…or be to the point that you didn’t show any interest UNTIL NOW that it’s time for her to go away to school wat should she do. That bites. How do you feel about long-distance relationships? I can tell you from my standpoint, and being an “OLDER TAURUS” *wink* that marriage and commitment is huge – and it sounds like a huge thing for this woman based off of what you wrote about her spirituality. YOU already know what the next move to make is – there’s nothing online to find out about in how to proceed with her. That’s within yourself. It’s also something that you need to discuss with her. Don’t make decisions in your mind for her – let her decide for herself – talk to her. I’m sure that’s all that she wants is for you to talk to her and honestly tell her what’s on your mind. Being in a scorp/taurus relaionship myself, they can be trying – and my scop can go to extremes with his thoughts and jealous tendencies – BUT once we’ve spoken about things, we move on. And if you’ve been pining for this woman for 4 years now, c’mon – what are you waiting for? Your wasting time on a great girl from what it seems like. If you’re an artist/writer why haven’t you written something to her to tell her how you feel? Don’t be afraid – we’re the MOST approachable of the zodiacs and sweetest (as far as I’m concerned). It looks like your “calculations” is just another word for wasting time. Just do it – it may surprise you and it may bring you too closer together but you’ll never know until you do it. You don’t need help (only – haha) you NEED courage. Stop analyzing, stop over-thinking. You’re trying to find the way to a Taurus woman’s heart…TALK TO HER…honestly, openly. If she’s on myspace, then I’m sure she has some stuff up there about herself. What was your last conversation about? Was there nervous dead air? Is she seeing someone? You’ve come to the right place for help with Taureans and hopefully we can help you. Ask away. Also, is she a May baby? Sometimes there’s a difference between the April and May taureans. Any extra info you can provide can help in us getting to the heart of the matter.
scorp87 – hmmm….myspace stalker…haaaa (just kiddng) – wow…it’s somewhat flattering in a stalkerish way I guess (hahahaaa)…wow….I normally don’t respond to these posts – but this one intrigued me. So… you’re a 21 year old (writter & arttist) (writer & artist – haaa – hoping these are typos
) and you HAVEN’T expressed yourself in poems to this woman yet? WOW….you seem really gung-ho for a 21 year old for marriage. You have your entire life ahead of you to settle down and you’ve already put this woman into your future – respect. I haven’t met many 21 year olds who’re ready to settle down and get married – BUT we Taureans are irresistible – haaaa…Spirituality is very important to Taureans – especially myself. “Falling in love with hesitation” is like a missed opportunity. (Or in a nutshell – FEAR). The interest is there but the follow through isn’t connecting. I’m sure you’re a great guy, ready willing and able BUT she’s not going to wait around forever or she may lose interest soon. Look…you want her heart – then communicate HONESTLY and openly with her and stop trying to figure her out. TALK to her and let her make her own decisions for herself. She sounds like she’s worth fighting for. And I agree with MamaBramaBull’s post, “YOU already know what the next move to make is – there’s nothing online to find out about in how to proceed with her. That’s within yourself. It’s also something that you need to discuss with her.” Stop trying to convince her and be yourself….I’m sure she likes you as well – it’s just that the lines of communication may be getting scrambled. And in all honesty…..you’ve already ALLOWED enough time to work your actions toward showing your love…so much so that she’s going away to school (haa)…no offense but enough time has been wasted…get it off your chest while you still have an opportunity and reach out to her honestly and see what happens…Once you’ve started dialoguing with her, she’ll see the sincerity, and seriousness. The love is ALL that matters so stop analyzing…ad relax, chill out and know that you’re still maturing (are you ready to settle down really?) cuz once a Taurus settles down – she’s done – haaa…..Talk to her….I’m sure you’ll thank us for it and I’m sure she’s beyond worth it. It seems like she is.
MAN OH MAN!!! I AM SO GLAD THAT I FOUND THIS SITE!!! My scorpio brotha scorp87 – I KNOW EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL!!! I’ve already fallen head over heels for a Taurus female and it’s just SOMETHING ABOUT HER! I can’t stop thinking about her and just wanna own her – I know it sounds weird – but it’s true. Her energy, her spirit, her laugh, her smile, her love, her eyes – they just all seem to genuinely comfort me and I just wanna protect her from the world because she deserves it. I’ve been trying to find the courage to approach her – even though just about everyone knows I want her. It’s not easy because the idea of rejection is there but I’ll never know unless I try. When she smiles it just – man oh man – beyond warms my heart and I find myself just wanting her more and more. It’s not even a sexual thang. It’s like a cosmic thing. Scorpio and Taurus are absolute opposites on the charts. I know that if I don’t say something she will go elsewhere and that may be the case for you too. Suck it up and extend yourself past your comfort zone. It’s easy for us to get depressed, jealous and possessive, and paranoid. BUT, your girl sounds incredible and you’d be CRAZY not to step it up and go after her. She’s not going to wait around forever and if she’s also expressed interest somewhat in you then you need to go for it. If this is what you want THEN WHY AREN’T YOU GOING AFTER IT? As far as I know, there’s no such thing as unnecessary heartbreak, just you learning more about love…and you seem to BE in love.
Stop being in love from afar and with the idea of her or you’ll miss out. I know exactly how you feel and it is a scary thought to put myself OUT there but I asked the universe to bring her to me and God delivered and now I’m not acting upon it. So now I have to take my own advice and just speak to her. Maybe you could send her a text asking her when would be a good time for the two of you to speak so that way she has something to look forward to from you. I’m 28 and nervous so it must be ten times worse for you at 21. I too am contemplating marriage with this woman and see her in my future and will not allow ANYONE or thing to come in between us – but I haven’t ben acting the part.
Love is a wonderful thing and if you can email her, send her a special message on myspace instead of just staring at her eyes, text her something nice, call her, send her flowers, show up for lunch – something to let her know she’s on your mind – I’m sure that she will open up and give you the world. (*I also just got up the courage to text my soon-to-be woman for a lunch date – and we’re going in a bit – so I must thank myself for my own advice). The world is in short suppy of good women – don’t let this one slip on by – you may never find this feeling again – and according to what you wrote But now I’m in love & don’t EVER want to leave. BE like Nike and JUST DO IT!!!
i don’t know what’s compelled me to post again BUT scorp87 this is for you :->. I noticed from the other posts that you received in response to you that your questions weren’t TRULY answered – including from me
… We gave you the generic TALK to her/communicate with her response and it seems that you are definately LOOKING for more – call me a romantic at heart or just someone who holds and BELIEVES in LOVE very close to her chest – BUT you deserve MORE info on the female Taurus heart and psyche – so forgive ME for being long-winded in MY response and I hope that it does help you.
1. But how do I win her heart??? – by giving her yours!!! and if she’s anything like me – it’s heart and soul/spirit. You need to bond with her (especially on a physical level. She needs actual real-life interaction.) – not just daydreaming over her pic and you’ve know her long enough to step out on faith RIGHT NOW. You’re in lala land over her and she’ll never know the extent of how you feel without communication. SO I MUST say that you have to talk to her. Nothing fancy. Just ask her how her day is – or call and see if she recognizes that it’s you – you may just put a HUGE CHEESY smile on her face; say hello and see where the conversation goes from there. You’ll never know the extent of her heart unless you share yours. You seem a bit one-sided outta fear not to make the next move. You’re just gathering intel on her and not doing anything in real life with it…HUGE MISTAKE…just b/c she’s going away – DON’T LET HER GET AWAY. I just went thru something similar – but I made the first step and it just so happened to be w/ a scorpio male and HE was younger – I didn’t get a response or so much as a head turn – BUT I put it out there – (of course there’s more to the story – you’ll have to ask if you wanna know – haa) and I really liked him – I still do and want to get to know him. A phone call – makes a WOMAN’S DAY – it tells them that you’re thinking about them. And we LOVE AFFECTION and love to give it. Just love her and show her how you feel…Don’t let what happened to me happen to you too…that guy let a great thing get away and he doesn’t even know it – sniffle (hheehee)…one call is all it takes…seriously…and be YOURSELF!!
2. How to convince her I’m serious & she’s not a thrill to chase?! – WEEEELLL – at the rate you’re going she’s gonna look elsewhere and she MAY not want to but you’re showing not a drop of interest. It’s all talk, calculations – OMG – if you were a bomb diffuser you’d have been blown to bits by now. You’re a writer/artist – BE CREATIVE with that – omg – we get totally mushy over poems and SIGNS OF LIFE and INTEREST from our significant other. If you want her focused on YOU – then GIVE HER YOU and I promise you – she will NOT LEAVE. Both signs have abandonment and separation issues – but it makes us all the more faithful and loyal. You won’t tell her where you stand with your feelings – other signs would’ve given up on you already. SPACE is a must. Your calculations and being safe is a dream. You’re gonna lose this woman. I wouldn’t think that you’re serious especially all of the years that have gone by? COME ON!!! You view her in friend mode – step up – WE LIKE THAT – the initiative. It makes us blush and shows us that you care and WANT to get to know us. Especailly if the chemistry is there. GIVE IT UP ALREADY – jeeez.
3. How do I prove I’m sincere in my word & when do I just come out or do I allow time to work into my actions toward showing that love??? – Honestly dude…you’ve wasted enough time. Enough already. You’re like gripped with fear and she’s probably nowhere near thinking like this. You’ve obviously overanalyzed this and have become obsessive-compulsive with it as well – and BTW how has THAT WORKED OUT FOR YOU?! haaa – dude – make her yours – SCREW the age thing and do it!!! Call her – you may make her weekend
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Okay – I’ve taken up enough space and time – so final tips…SUCK IT UP or you’ll regret it
…She likes you too – I’m sure of it. And you know you may be on her mind all the time – (MY crush was and still is – in a way I’m still holding out that he WILL call – wishful thinking.) Either way, we’d like to know how you handled it all. After you’ve read this let me know what you think…I feel like the faceless sister. Haaa…God Bless…and CALL HER!!! TALK TO HER!!!… tyg515@yahoo.com
I am in love with a scorpio man, I am taurus. He chased me a bit, now he no longer call me, he said he talks too much on the phone for his job, he doesn’t like to talk on the phone again after work. I called a couple times with different number, he doesn’t pick up, yeh, he doesn’t care the number he doesn’t know, or he knows that it is me. He does pick up his guy friend’s call. And I think he doesnt like me. but he says he really like me, but why can’t he say he loves me instead, I have been hearing that for a year. We had a long distance and it is hard for me to move there because of my job.
I am into him, so I always write and call. He always write back by emails, but recently he is not writing much.
I don’t know why i am into him, he has so many bad habit, smoke, drinking,few call, i convinced myself that he doesn’t love me. I want to move on but i can’t.
Now i don’t want to see any man. Why he stays in my mind. He treats me really well when I am with him at his place.
I am also very jealous of him letting hid EX live in his house, She has a boyfriend, how he can stand his EX having a boyfriend and still in the house. I don’t understand. He told me she is like her daughter he need to take care of.
He should take care of me. But he said i am strong, i am not like her.
I am very jealous of her even though i trust him. I can’t even move in with him, because i don’t trust living with her.
I am so frustrated. Should I dump him?
I am a 31 year old Taurus woman that has been dating a 40 yr.old Scorpio man for 14 months. I am deeply in love with him and he says that he loves me too. There’s just a couple of issues that I have with him. This man has been there for me in ways that you can’t imagine, but he never seems to express himself to me enough. I constantly tell him I love him and he says it in return, but he never tells me on his on. He says that I should know by the way he treats me, which is more important than saying words. I continue to let him know that it is not enough. I need, and want to hear those words come out of his mouth. I would love for him to randomly text or call me to let me know that he misses me, loves me, and wants to do erotic passionate things to me(lol)! He recently landed a very good job in Washington D.C. and we’re both from Detroit. He has been gone for a week now, and returned yesterday for the weekend to finish getting things together. He asked me months ago when he started applying out of state would I move with him. I told him yes I would, because moving out of state has been something I’ve been wanting to do for years now. The issue is I didn’t think It would be this soon! Among other things thats going on in the relationship(nothing bad) I told him that I needed security. In order for me and my children who he really adores, to make such a big move with him, he needs to at least put a ring on my finger before he leaves. It would be very difficult for me to have a long distance relationship with him until I am able to relocate which will be in 2-3 more months.I didn’t get that ring yet, what should I do, please help me.
Wow I am glad I found this thread. I am 27 yr old scorpio male, and I am dying to date a Taurus. After reading this site I am even more eager to meet one. I usually see a mix of reviews with other pairings, but this pairing looks great. =)
hey
im taurus woman 20-5-1986 and i love a scorp 30-10-1979
we were really gr8 a friends but i once emplied that i like him or he sensed then we kept talkin but he suddenly got silent and dissappeared and i dnt know nothing abt him
why he stopped talking 2 me i dunno
can this work out…….. the last thong he did was to add me on his fb and he still silent
but he was too sweet
how can i win him bk and how much does scorp and taurus match
thxxxxxxxxxxxxx
I’m a Taurus and currently dating a Scorpio guy.
It’s the best relationship bcoz of the deep chemistry between us.
how do you know if a scorpio man is telling you the truth though? are they sincere, or are they con men? we’ve been writing for awhile, and have gotten to know one another through mail and he says he cares for me, but im not sure. he lives far away in wy and i live in fl. is this for real or what? can i believe him?
My Sun, Moon and Venus are all in Taurus. My intended’s Sun is in Scorpio, his moon is either in Aries or Taurus (I don’t know positively) and Venus is in Scorpio. I’m unhappily attached to someone else right now but this Scorpio man came into my life through a friend who likes playing matchmaker. We see each other periodically and he delightedly flirts with me (which I give right back). When we are alone (which hasn’t happened much yet) we’re like white on rice – can’t keep our hands off each other. The attraction is so intense and passionate I’m totally breathless! However, he has emotional baggage (wife no longer in picture but I think he still cares about her) and I don’t know if this is something worth pursuing just for the fun of it or if there is more under the surface. How to get him to talk about it? He is a tough nut (shell) to crack for sure. And how do I know there aren’t other women out there as he is now able to play the field? As a Taurus, I like to know where I stand, but he doesn’t talk about it.
Hi everybody
I’m a Taurus and I met a scorpio man 2002. We loved and married 2005. We can understand each other very well even we have problems sometimes. It is wonderful. Scorpio man isn’t open but if he loves you, you are his queen and he doesn’t cheat you.
Hi, I’ve met a Scorpio man would anyone be able to tell me if we would make a good match?
my date of birth May 4,1975
His date of birth Nov 3,1975
What do you think?
I am a Taurus woman and I just started seeing a scorp. Like all the others said we have an amazing connection and chemistry. I know now for sure that I want him and I want him to be all mine and psycho jealous about me. We did not have sex but came dang close. Ive been on ice for a long time due to a string of broken hearts. I needed some time off. The man I “thaw” for will be around for awhile. Not just a fling.
My issue is that I cannot pin down where he lives. He claims he is staying with a cousin who lives close to his job b/c his car is down and he can just walk to work. He also spends alot of time at his mothers home close to me. He says he has his own place too. But the area he said he lived in one convo was where his mother lived in another. Anyhoo…the pieces just don’t fit and my “Spidee Senses” are telling me something is not right.
I want to give him a chance to be honest with me but I don’t want to approach it like I am calling him a liar.
I know now I want to have sex with him. I felt the passion between us and he knew instinctivly everything I like!!! However, I don’t want to give him the most intimate and precious part of me and find out he living with some chick and her kids. I would be crushed. Since Ive never dated a scorp before I don’t know how to have this conversation since he says he is single…without seeming like i don’t trust him. But if he is lying I wanna find out before its too late.
HELP!! Oh the kicker was he asked me to not put anything “sexy” on his FB wall only in the “inbox” part. I was like..why not?? he said “Cuz I just dont like that” *RED FLAG ALERT*
My gut is screaming something is not right!!! I don’t want to be one of many or the other woman…I refuse!! Should I leave now or give him a chance to fess up?! HELP!!!!