Sagittarius woman breaks up with Pisces man after looking through his text messages, and now wants him back
September 10, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
Torrain included a birth time (click chart to view) and writes,I have had a on again off again relationship with a pisces male for 2 years. Recently I accused him of cheating after I went through his cell and discovered some text messages. Needless to say I put him out.He has answered the phone when I called and he has responded to my text messages. When I send him messages such as I miss you and I want to see u he does not respond. I want him back what can I do. I am Miserable…. Please Help
Why did you go through his cell? Oh, I know why! You have Venus in Scorpio and Pluto conjunct your Ascendant! Your paranoid, probing nature seems to have gotten you in trouble. You don’t say if your Pisces ex admitted to infidelity. It’s certainly possible — his Mars in Pisces, which can have sexual boundary problems, has been stimulated the last few years by both Uranus and a number of eclipses. Uranus excites him to act on his impulses, and to Pisces, there are many fish in the sea.
Regardless of whether you found him out or just alienated him by invading his privacy, it sounds like he is being civil but has written you off. I hear you’re aching over this loss, but what do you expect? If he really did cheat on you, then why do you want him back? And if he didn’t, his refusal to respond to your affectionate texts ought to teach ya to stop poking around. Pluto/Scorpio heavy people have a tendency to leave no stone unturned, often because they lack trust (often due to past betrayals) and expect to be burned. But don’t you see how it can feel invasive if you’re on the other end?
If you’re feeling suspicious in the future, just be upfront about it! Don’t go looking for clues.
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UPDATE:
I called and spoke with him last night he was receptive and we made up on the surface. He has maintained that he did not cheat on me and his feelings were hurt when I accused him. I am going to try and not be so snoopy and he is going to try and not be so secretive. We are giving it another go. On and off for 2 years he may be the one. I really missed him and I am glad he is BACK!!!! YEAH!!
@Lovehandles: Congrats! I hope it works out.
Awww *sniff*
Glad you are back together and really hope it works out for you.
I am dating a Pisces and know their tendency to love everyone can be a bit disconcerting at times. He doesn’t see it as flirting or being unfaithful, just spreading his love….
Also your comment about on again and off again reminded me that Pisceans are not for pinning down, you have to leave them room to swim, I think.
I also think that Piscean men have a tendency to try to help every lame duck that waddles past, so if he says that he was texting someone who needed a friend, support, whatever, then I would probably believe him.
I think, if we are honest, we have all snooped at some time but I was once given a piece of advice (which I try to remember when the urge to snoop strikes) and that is ‘you find what you are looking for’.
I was interested to read that he says he is going to try not be be so ’secretive’. I think that Piscean men have a rich fantasy world and actually need this. He may be communicating with others and (possibly) fantasising but not actually be doing anything ‘wrong’ – this may be a need in him to feel as though he is not tied down, keeping his options open (Pisces hate to have to choose!)
I think I am right in saying that Pisceans are the sign least likely to marry, the sense of cutting their options off by marrying one person petrifies them.
I think they can also have the idea that faithfulness is more to do with the heart than the body but, having said that, I would definitely have ground rules so he knows where the line in the sand is and what happens if he crosses it..
Good luck to you both x
Spot on, Jackie!
This situation sounds all too familiar; MINE.
I’m dating a pisces, and we’ve been together for a year and a half…I LOVE him, could think of no better friend/supporter, and I already see him as a future mate. HOWEVER…both of our Moons are in Scorpio, so u already know how emotional we can get (we have the most EXTREME fights, and the most EXTREME happy/in love moments).
With that being said, I am very suspicious of him. I’ve snooped COUNTLESS times, and find that he’s always flirting with some female. He says he hasn’t cheated on me, and I believe him. Hell, I’m with him almost 24/7, and know of his whereabouts when I’m not with him (most of the time). But those unknown hours apart always haunt me…
He dated this Aquarius girl before me for 5/6 months, but they fell apart because of the misunderstandings and insecurities. However, when I ‘facebook’ her, I find that her statuses are always about missing him, being depressed about not being with him, and an occassional text message from her will find its way to his phone. I asked him if he had feelings for her, and he was slightly evasive, saying that “even if I did, you should know they aren’t important by my actions towards u.” but I also know that if his feelings for her actually mattered, I would know (believe me, I always find out).
I know that pisces never fully get over their last love, and the fact that SHE still wants him makes me always on edge…and that sometimes affects my relationship with HIM.
I can’t do anything about it until something happens. But my mind won’t let it go.
With all of that said, I STILL love him to DEATH. Our love is telepathic, we can always feel each other, so I know that WE (together) are irreplaceable.