How to tell if a Taurean man likes you

A Taurus man may be initially slow to express his affections, but once he acts on his feelings for you … you’ll know. Taureans are sensual beings, born under an Earth sign ruled by Venus, goddess of art, beauty and love. He’ll touch you with a sensitivity to how you needed to be treated — whether you’re firm clay that needs to be molded with insistency and penetration, or a fine silk garment that requires exquisite care.

Unlike many men, he knows how to pick a gift, having an eye for objects that bring you both visual and sensual pleasure. The Taurus man knows the value of money, and although he’s not as status-conscious as a Leo or Capricorn, he’s not unwilling to spend well on something that either lasts the test of time or makes the most of its limited lifespan. If your gift is not ruggedly durable, it will be heartbreakingly beautiful in its ephemerality.

Your Taurean may be of the more gruff variety — he’ll tend to your garden (wink), mow your lawn, and trim your bushes. But perhaps most importantly, he won’t give up. This fixed sign doesn’t quit until he gets what he wants — and if he covets you, he’ll persist with an admirable stubbornness that will either win you over or have you filing a restraining order.

About Jeffrey Kishner

Jeffrey Kishner is founder and publisher of Sasstrology. He is a licensed mental health counselor and has been doing astrological counseling since 2001. Jeffrey has been published in print magazines including The Mountain Astrologer and Dell Horoscope, and has written online for sites including AOL, Tarot.com and StarIQ. Jeffrey has also been heavily involved in the astrology blogger community. Read his personal blog at JeffreyKishner.com.

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  1. kemi oyebade

    I am a Taurean true to the core….
    Comments on your Taurean character;

    Taureans can become just about anything depending on the life experience that is dealt to them. What is important to remember when getting to know a Taurean is:
    To be his friend is one thing as it should be clear and obvious to him, do not generalize ever.
    To have a more intimate relationship you must follow a few things;
    Taurean men need to be challenged or they will get lazy.
    They need to be pushed by those they respect and they will naturally want to excel to please.
    If you’re colorfully attractive yet simple in your manner he will most likely see you as a prize that must be concurred. That being the case you will have to always give him that challenging pleasure or he may not take you serious. Taurean men are truly working animals with keen senses and they use them religiously. He will derive pleasure from sudden explosive contact and or conversions that involve crazy thought just to prove its worth. He is not trying to show off he’s just analyzing the heck out of it. What this means is that you can start off with an explosive topic but transition it to something challenging that involves work that turns into profit. If you can make him see clearly the benefit derived from such work he will do everything in his power to obtain it. He is a sucker for flirtatious behavior so use it to your advantage and feel free to abuse it he loves it so long as it is directed at him. The hire you place him and the more others rely on him, he will learn to grow into his stable self simply because he hates to fail.
    Taurean men can be extremely sarcastic individuals as they are developing their life experiences growing into whatever don’t take it personal they are just built that way. For every amount of work they do selflessly they will expect naturally an equal amount of respect and honor and credit without asking for it, it must come naturally.
    Rarely have I seen or met a fellow Taurean that is a couch potato, if it gets to that point they are probably depressed and too embarrassed to admit it. Again they have to be pushed but in a way that they see their worth as beneficial and the challenge is interesting and the profit is great. If they do something for you, whatever it is, stroke their ego and make a big deal out of it they may be inspired to do more.
    Find their itch and scratch it. If you but horns with them do it calmly and acknowledge that you understand them but cannot see how exactly everything fits they way they are explaining it. They have a funny way of belittling an idea, don’t take it personal, they’re not trying to hurt you; they are just naturally seeking a way to explain whatever. If you get in a rut with one by accident you can easily throw them off with ooohs and ahhhs that stroke their ego…lol its true….and it changes the mood…If they have made up their mind you shouldn’t argue a point more than 3-5 minutes then move on.
    Good Luck

  2. kemi oyebade

    I am a Taurean true to the core….
    Comments on your Taurean character;

    Part 2

    Find a seasoned Taurean .. move on…

  3. kemi oyebade

    I am a Taurean true to the core….
    Comments on your Taurean character;

    Part 3

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xH-_9cwdLug

  4. @Bliss
    Thanks for looking out, I appreciate the tough love and need to hear it always!
    We’re not exclusive and he hasn’t told me he loves me but I do believe there is an emotional bond, it’s just not shown the way most people show it (which has taken me awhile to understand) and it is developing at a glacial pace. Meanwhile, i’m sure a lot of that has to do with him being a Taurus and Scorpio moon.

    You’re absolutely right, all I can do is be direct with him. Seek the truth and act accordingly in the best interest of myself.

    @Kemi –
    Re: your observation on April born cheating Taureans, here’s a little interesting fact; Hitler, unibomber Timothy McVeigh and Saddam Hussein are all April born Taurus’s. Sense of Entitlement (to put it very lightly)? Men with no moral compass and think they’re above the law? hm…. ! (there are many great people born in the taurean april too so, who really knows..)

  5. Hi all! I just wanted to tell my story about a Taurean man.

    The first one came along when I was 19. I added him on FB because I loved his profile picture (Nine Inch Nails cover). Then from that, he started messaging me on AIM. I would jump to get out of class and talk to him on AIM every night. Then, the long calls started. Probably about a month from our first conversation, he changed his FB status to “non single.” What a punk.

    So, I pretended that I got wasted and confronted him. I told him I had a minor crush on him and then he said “Oooh baby, I wish I’d met you before I met my girlfriend.”

    Ladies (and gents) let me tell you that this guy was 22 years old and hooking up with teenagers online. His gf was 17 (she turned 18 the day he said he was “not single”) and lived in Alabama while he was in Ohio and I lived in S. Carolina.

    Basically, me being a silly girl messing around with a boy in a man’s body, I was dilly dallying with this fool for about 2 years. I bought a plane ticket to see him for my fall break. 3 days before I was supposed to leave, I felt that something was wrong. So I called this a-hole and it turns out he didn’t have a place for me to stay. HE WAS NOT GOING TO NOTIFY ME! So I stopped talking to him after that day.

    Then he contacts me about 5 months later to ask how I was and to apologize. I told him I was in a relationship and he said that he just met the girl of his dreams… mind you, this guy said I was his soulmate lol. We broke off contact for some reason.

    The last time I spoke to him was two Decembers ago. I could tell he was checking me out to see if I still looked good. We started talking about music and he told me all the lies he said just to get into my pants. He also told me that he went back to his Alabama girl, that he kept my photos (TWO freaking years later) and that he still wanted me. So, I guess he found someone else he still wanted considering he stopped talking to me a week later.

    I have to disagree about a synopsis of the Taurus man given earlier. This one must have been psychologically affected on something. All of his girlfriends were clinically diagnosed with some disorder. Two of them were bi-polar and one was schizophrenic. He was the type to want to “fix” broken women. He said he loved crazy women the best because they were the best at sex.

    That was the first (and hopefully the last) time I’ve been played by a man. He was SOOOO good at it too. And the sad thing is, is if he contacted me today I wouldn’t be opposed to being friends. I’d definitely have sex with him to see what it’s about, then drop him like a bad habit!

    I think what you ladies here have to understand is, some of the behavior is due to the star sign, but the men you’re attracting are basically useless. If you look at the Virgo thread, the women say the same thing. If you look at the Sag and Pisces thread, the women say the same thing. These are just GUYS who have low self esteem and a big ego that are breaking your hearts. Another thing is that it’s not all their faults either. YOU ladies are attracting and staying with these guys. Be with them if you must, and when the breakup is over, analyze what just happened and learn from it.

    When a guy is into you, he will not disappear for weeks sometimes even months. Seriously, no matter what star sign.

    With that first Taurus, I needed exposure to immature men. I needed to stop deluding myself about how aloof/needy I am (Venus-Sag Mars-Scorp. Tough combo for any man to handle) and that I didn’t know everything.

    Good luck ladies. I’ve been meeting some very beautiful men lately, but they’re ALL taken. What can I learn from that?

  6. Oooh, I forgot about the other Taurus man. He was like 60 or 63, married to a beautiful Colombian woman (45) but was still taking perverted pictures of his female office assistants. I’ve found that Taurean men are indeed touchy-feely, but this guy took the cake. He was a straight up perv.

  7. DON’t KNOW WHERE THIS COMMENT BELONGS….BUT…Ok I have an issue, my sister is an aquarius, venus in capricorn and mars in aquarius, dating a taurus venus in taurus and mars in leo. I am a taurus too, venus in taurus and mars in taurus…. My sister dates taurus’s often, don’t ask me why they never last.

    Anyway, her new dude is a succesful, good looking guy but for what ever reason he and I are not getting along very well. I DON’T KNOW WHY!!!???

    Everytime we’ve met we haven’t talked very much. I didn’t really go out of my way to initiate conversation but that doesn’t mean I hate him. Here’s how it started….when he and my sister first met she told me about him and I told her jokingly, no funny business yet or I’ll kill him. Note: we are adults all in our 30s…She relayed the message. I was just teasin her. Then next thing you know, when I meet him every opportunity he has to speak to me, he jokes about having sex with my sister. Just teasin me in his terms but I think its tacky and trashy and I don’t need to hear about it. I told him, what they do behind close doors is not my business and I’d like to keep it that way.

    Well that would be the second time he and I talked about that so I lost respect for him in that sense. I think it’s rude and gross! Of course thereafter, at a get together I’m reluctant to talk to him. I am always corrdial with him but I avoid conversation. So at this point he seems more irritated that I won’t engage in conversation with him or kiss his ass…. So he makes comments that I hate him and this and that. I told him, I don’t hate you, I don’t even know you. I give everyone the benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise. I don’t get why he wasn’t buying it but I was honest. I just wanted him to be more respectful when talking to me not say things to get my attention or whatever he was doing. By the end of the night he was completely frustrated it seemed and I went inside to say bye…NEXT THING YOU KNOW, this Douch bag says yea we’re about to go to sleep to but before we do we’re going to F*&% first!

    We are standing side by side and I look over and say ” do you understand how disrespectful and inappropriate that is to say to me?” he looks at me with almost hate in his eyes and says “I don’t care?” ok my cue to leave. WHAT IS THIS DUDE’S PROBLEM WITH ME?????

    WHY CAN’T HE JUST DEAL and leave me alone? Mind you he really does seem like a good guy and from what his friends say they believe he’s a real class act and don’t understand why he acts like that around me. So because I want to believe that, I don’t hate him just really confused as to why he treats me that way and shut his mouth! Sometimes, honestly, I wonder if he likes me or is attracted to me so he acts that way cause he feels insecure that I’m not talking to him and he says stuff like that to try to get under my skin. I’m not sure…but what ever it is HELP ME UNDERSTAND. I just never met any one who acted like that toward me.

    SO HELP ME!!! PLEASE???

  8. Your sister put you in a bad position. Why not ask her to talk to him? Let her know that you’d like to be on good terms with him but he won’t let it go. Or, you could give a good come back that says you’re over it like, “Oh, isn’t that sweet! *pat him on the shoulder* “You’re such a romantic!”

  9. Why does he do this..

    I’ve only been dating a Taurus guy for a few weeks. Last night we go to a dance and in the middle of a conversation with another he was having, he moves to stand directly in front of me. Blocking me. I thought ok, and just wrapped my hands around him from behind while he continued his convo.

    Later, he does the same thing again while talking to his friend outside a bar. I ended up walking away and went into the bar to let them have their convo alone. He ended his convo pretty quickly then! LOL

    And then in the bar, insists on sharing the stool with me and again, blocking me with his body.

    He does it very directly and with intent..blocking/shielding me when a man comes up to talk to him and I am beside him or when they come up to talk to me.

    He is Taurus sun and Leo rising.

  10. Sounds like he’s claiming you as his and wants everyone to know it. Taurus men are well, quite old fashioned in that respect. Somewhat domineering and as much as you, a strong Cap woman who knows her own mind and can decipher for yourself whether or not a stranger is making advances and can handle it, eh, Mr. Taurus will guard his prize. Don’t take it like he doesn’t think you can’t handle it but maybe things are new enough between you where he might not trust you 100% yet. This may just be something in his own mind and nothing you may have done that made him not trust you. It takes a very long time for a Taurus to trust completely.

  11. Thanks Bliss. I guess it doesn’t matter now. He decided to end it after i called him out on some of his bull..pun intended.

    Or i guess he did. After talking on the phone and parting ways amicably, not 10minutes later he texts me and wanted to see me that night. ???? I said no..maybe in a couple of days, and he said ok. I figured give him a few days and he might change his mind.

    I don’t get him..break up with me (after he insisted we date exclusively), and then when i am ok with letting him go, he charges back with..”come see me…”

    He has no Pisces in his chart, but i went thru this with a pisces/aqua guy not long ago and i’m not doing it again!

  12. Oh I should add..he does have a bit of aqua in his chart…

  13. @Capbaby

    Hes hard headed and slow to tie down…If he called you and literally broke up with you then it should be over, don’t go back. If you interpreted loosely his mysterious way of communicating his thoughts then that may be the reason why hes back. Sometimes us Taurean Men like to test the water to see how fiercely you may be loyal…I know know it sounds weird but the fact is we like that “heart of king” “heros welcome” tale, we are writing our on chronicles …lol

  14. @taurus01

    If the Taurean is disrespectful using abusive language….then kick his tail to the street….and don’t look back..

    Aqua + Taurus might be good if the Taurean is much older than her the Aqua ….maybe

  15. LibraLady11 says:

    Are there any taurus men in here ?

  16. Ok! I have a questions…. I’m a Aries woman with two Taurus men.
    The first Taurus has a very intensive history. He is 9 yrs older than me. He stays in trouble. We were just starting our relationship when he got in trouble again. He has a lot of kids and different mothers as well. I love being around him, but he smothers me. He use to stalk me at my job before we started dating. He was very consistent in getting me. He actually cried on my shoulder about his past and other things. But I don’t know what to really think about him, because he does like to tell white lies. So I did put our relationship on hold and he was cool with it because he wasn’t going to be around for a year. Well the year is almost up and I have been talking to another Taurus man. He has these hopes and dreams that are far fetched and I don’t see myself in them. He actually is more lively (club going) than I am. I’m more of a homebody.

    The other Taurus man. He is three years older than me. Is in school like me. He is trying to make a name for himself. No kids. He actually use to make fun of me, before he approached me. But I knew his jokes and teasing was because he liked me. He did admit to liking me since he saw me. I like with him, I can ask him a question. He will answer with sincerity, no lies. Only problem is he will not answer questions about us. When he approached me, he told me he doesn’t want a relationship just FWB due to us both being in school. That school needs to be the focus. I was cool with that at first. But he started changing. He would me to have a body part touching him or want me to hold his hand after sex. He doesn’t like to kiss and he would kiss me. Then say you know I don’t like kissing, (cause I love to kiss). He would come over everyday and play with my son. He was even using phrases with “us” and “we”. Then he went cold turkey! What! So me being an Aries, I went off. He forgave me and he came over and mind you never spent the night before and spent the night spooning me and holding me. Then cold turkey again after the spending the night and spooning. He told me later what he wants in a mate. But he is doing the peek a boo thing that Taurus man like to do. I put him on blast for it last night and he has opened back up and starting to call me pet names again. But how long will this last? I know I should just drop it because of the agreement we had already made. But this man has giving me mixed signals and now has me very interested in him. He is a hard worker. School and work like me. But he use to make the time and now he doesn’t. Does he want me more or just playing a game?

    My problem is the first Taurus man is coming home soon and wants to start up our relationship again I haven’t told him about the new Taurus in my life because so many insecurities. I know this is sad, but I was just starting the relationship with the first Taurus to have a year taken away. Now the second Taurus has me blown away. My question is does the second Taurus actually want to be with me? I know this is very selfish if not then I will go ahead and rekindle the romance with the first Taurus.

  17. Dump the first one totally.

    2nd will probbaly be back but I wouldn’t sit around waiting for him..

  18. You’re a half-Cap, Capbaby! You got Aquarius in you, too… you know you love it :P

  19. Mmm..that cap/aqua cusp thing is to die for, hahaha, oh and my aqua merc…

    Does make it easier to deal with aqua moon men too, depending on my mood! ;)

    Taurus is back…sorta..but I’m so into Virgo I aint about to let him go..

  20. @Nola,

    You have a kid (s?). Stop playing with guys who have low character or tell you up front they just want fwb. Why are you selling yourself so short? They are both awful prospects. The first is nothing but trouble and the other sounds too young and is just having fun playing with you.

    Enough with extraneous stories surrounding the fundamental root of the issue. Men say what they mean and that was your cue to leave and not stick around to see if they would get affectionate with you. Surprise, surprise, if they find you attractive enough and have nothing else to do, yeah, he’ll hit it and say nice things but do not let it dissuade you from the obvious truth.
    Sounds horrible, right? But that is the reality of the situation. It’s not like I get a kick out of making you feel bad but to put you back on track of his true intentions of which he made very clear.
    Hear it and keep you & your kid’s best interests at heart. A solid, stable man who wants a commitment is your best partner.

  21. Great advice, Bliss. We get what we think we deserve, and sometimes it’s nothing.

  22. @ Bliss, thanks I needed that!!!

  23. Okay someone must help me because I’m finding myself OBSESSING over this which is SO unlike me. At work, my supervisor ( who has 6 supervisors above him, meaning I wouldn’t even really call him my “boss”) is incredibly cute and a Taurus. Now a little bit ago I missed a few days of work, which I explained reasons in full to my boss “boss.” Well, I came back to work after that little absense and I’ll call him “Russ.” Russ calls me into the break room and goes “So, what’s up?” Now I work in sales and my sales began to dwindle at the end of the night so I began explaining that and why I thought that was. He interrupted me “no no I mean just what’s up?” Anyway we ended up spending about an hour (while I’m logged off on break) discussing literally everything. Family lives both of us. He told me about a girl he dated who broke up with him n added he went all out upset bangin a bunch of ppl doing drugs ect. He was just a wreck. I mean we had this intense and serious talk. We laughed and we also saw many comparisons in how we were raised ect. He just told me a LOT of things u wouldn’t think a “supervisor” would. He kept saying “I love this back and forth between us” you’re so easy to talk to ect. Now I’m obsessing like is this just my supervisor concerned that I missed work? Or does he like me? ALL of my guy friends r saying he likes me but honestly I wouldn’t peg me as his type. Can someone please help me try and analyze this? Bc I’m starting to really like him and I’m going to feel like an ass if he’s just being friendly. HELP any guys out there taurus or not email me with ur thoughts jessfeldmann@yahoo.com

  24. Okay someone must help me because I’m finding myself OBSESSING over this which is SO unlike me. At work, my supervisor ( who has 6 supervisors above him, meaning I wouldn’t even really call him my “boss”) is incredibly cute and a Taurus. Now a little bit ago I missed a few days of work, which I explained reasons in full to my boss “boss.” Well, I came back to work after that little absense and I’ll call him “Russ.” Russ calls me into the break room and goes “So, what’s up?” Now I work in sales and my sales began to dwindle at the end of the night so I began explaining that and why I thought that was. He interrupted me “no no I mean just what’s up?” Anyway we ended up spending about an hour (while I’m logged off on break) discussing literally everything. Family lives both of us. He told me about a girl he dated who broke up with him n added he went all out upset bangin a bunch of ppl doing drugs ect. He was just a wreck. I mean we had this intense and serious talk. We laughed and we also saw many comparisons in how we were raised ect. He just told me a LOT of things u wouldn’t think a “supervisor” would. He kept saying “I love this back and forth between us” you’re so easy to talk to ect. Now I’m obsessing like is this just my supervisor concerned that I missed work? Or does he like me? ALL of my guy friends r saying he likes me but honestly I wouldn’t peg me as his type. Can someone please help me try and analyze this? Bc I’m starting to really like him and I’m going to feel like an ass if he’s just being friendly. HELP any guys out there taurus or not email me with ur thoughts

  25. Needing some advice and assistance asap

    I am Virgo (4 sept 85) who last night went out to dinner with a Taurus guy (5 may 80) I had given this guy my number at a pub last weekend when he caught my eye. The attraction was mutual, I found out 20 mins after dropping my number in his lap when he rang..
    So we went in this date last night, and as a fussy Virgo, I can honestly say it’s the best date Ive had; conversation flowed freely, laughs, sensuality, common interests, easy to be around eachother.. I could go on. He told me he was hugely attracted to me n asked me to accompany him to his Xmas work function next wkend.
    We also made plans to go to my friends party tonight. However he bailed on me last minute, stating he was super tired from working all day n just wanted to chill….I could hear he was in a noisy bar at the time of the call.
    I’m freaking out a bit, feel like the date was too good to be true. Are taurean men full of shit, someone pls tell me?! Is he just being slow n cautious or was the charm all a lie?

  26. Needing some advice & assistance asap
    I am Virgo (4 sept 85) who last night went out to dinner with a Taurus guy (5 may 80) I had given this guy my number out last weekend when he caught my eye. The attraction was mutual, I found out 20 mins after dropping my number in his lap when he rang..
    So we went in this date last night, & as a fussy Virgo, I can honestly say it’s the best date Ive had; conversation flowed freely, laughs, sensuality, common interests, easy to be around eachother.. I could go on. He told me he was hugely attracted to me & asked me to accompany him to his Xmas work function next wkend. We also made plans to go to my friends party tonight. However he bailed on me last minute, stating he was super tired from working all day n just wanted to chill….I could hear he was in a noisy bar at the time of the call. I’m freaking out a bit, feel like the date was too good to be true. Are taurean men full of shit, someone pls tell me?! Is he just being slow n cautious or was the charm all a lie?

  27. Needing some advice & assistance asap
    I am Virgo (4 sept 85) who last night went out to dinner with a Taurus guy (5 may 80) I had given this guy my number out last weekend when he caught my eye. The attraction was mutual, I found out 20 mins after dropping my number in his lap when he rang..
    So we went in this date last night, & as a fussy Virgo, I can honestly say it’s the best date Ive had; conversation flowed freely, laughs, sensuality, common interests, easy to be around eachother.. I could go on. He told me he was hugely attracted to me & asked me to accompany him to his Xmas work function next wkend. We also made plans to go to my friends party tonight. However he bailed on me last minute, stating he was super tired from working all day n just wanted to chill….I could hear he was in a noisy bar at the time of the call. I’m freaking out a bit, feel like the date was too good to be true. Are taurean men full of sh*t, someone pls tell me?! Is he just being slow n cautious or was the charm all a lie?

  28. I’m a pisces woman I am going crazy on a taurus guy…he is so sweet always treat me to dinner then next day not even text me…. after months he invited me to meet him….he treats me again and he is holding my hand, we had sex and now I’m confused if he is just lusting for me or whatever,,,, he is not texting me now! damn I hate mind games…someone help me.

  29. I’m a pisces woman I am going crazy on a taurus guy…he is so sweet always treat me to dinner then next day not even text me…. after months he invited me to meet him….he treats me again and he is holding my hand, we had sex and now I’m confused if he is just lusting for me or whatever,,,, he is not texting me now! damn I hate mind games…someone help me…………

  30. i need some help from a taurus POV and he said nothing and ofcourse there is something or else how could he act such way? and so itxted him very angrily that he doesnt care for me anymore that he dont loves me that his just using me..blah blah blah u know,,but i apologize after saying that because i know thats not the right way to do it,well it happends because he seemed to provoke me all the time to ignite the fire…and i know that he is maybe interested to someone else,and incase if its like that well i will accept that but he must tell me the truth, i asked him what do you want? do u want us to save this or do you want me to go away from you? his answer is i dont wanna loose you but i dont want a commitment..i asked why? he told me that while he has a commitment with me the other people will think that his just using me, but i was not convinced, i told him that how can he say he loves me if there is no commitment? and he never reply on me..well it hurts a lot untill i discover again something that he drop me because he knows her ex still waiting for him, she’s also gemini like me… well thats ok in this case even if its hurt i cant do anything about it first bcoz im also commited to someone else,but after breaking up with him,he never reply any of my message but he still send me a txt of where he is and he also tried to called me but i dont pick his call anymore,i dont know whats the right thing to do..it even come to the point that i will ask my hsband a divorce because of him because i love him so much..but im confused

    please give me point of view taurus
    if my taurus still loves me or he totally wants me to be out of his life…

    thanks

  31. gemini28, please get it together and read between the lines what this Taurus guy is doing to you.

    Fist off do you respect a man that is ok to cheat on your husband?

    Read what he told you: his answer is i dont wanna loose you but i dont want a commitment..i asked why? he told me that while he has a commitment with

    he never reply any of my message but he still send me a txt of where he is and he also tried to called me but i dont pick.

    This man is playing with your heart using you as a puppet.

    Do the lady like thing and go back to your husband.

  32. I have a Taurus guy friend who I’ve known for 11 years now. He used to write letters to me when we were 12, and he really liked me back then. After that, he moved away when we were 14, I’ve not seen him until we were about 18 years old.

    Last year, I broke up with my bf. And Mr. Taurus started texting me everyday. Last december, I got really drunk but still aware of everything. Mr. Taurus took care of me. Drove me, held my hair when I puked, patted my head til I fell asleep. It was then, I realised I had feelings for him. And I told him about it. His response was, “sorry, I don’t know what to say, but I don’t want to hurt you.”

    I understand that. And we remained friends. But he’s always giving mixed signals that confuses me. Recently, he said that he loved me, twice. On 2 different occasions. While being drunk. But he did get my name right.

    The signals he gives which confuses me:
    He asked me if I’d want some flowers.

    He asked me to help him with his assignments, but then suggests that we go for movies instead. And we never touched the assignment. Then he asked me for help again, but he said we can never finish it in 1 day, can we meet everyday?

    When I pick him from his house, he was syncing his itunes to his iphone 4. And when he got in the car, he switched off the radio and played old songs from his phone. Songs from Bee Gees, Beatles, etc.

    He gets upset when I say F*#k you to him, and he’ll never say badwords infront of me. But he does say badwords infront of his other girl friends.

    He’d ask me if he can go out for beer with his friends.

    He always asks if I’m seeing other guys or if I’m going on a date.

    But then again, in other times, he told me, he’s been going after a girl who looks like an angel, but he doesn’t like girls who look like angel, but he’s been going after her for a long time, but he’s never spoken to her.

    He’ll ask me to give the guy I went out for movies with a chance.

    He’ll say that I’m a mean person. Or that everything is my fault because I never gave him a chance when we were 12(?)

    This has been going on for a year. I really like him. He’s the only guy I’ve been thinking about since I’ve broken up with my ex. And he’s been the only one who has been making me smile the past 1 year. He does a lot of things that confuses me. Sometimes he’s really sweet. And times, I feel like he just doesn’t give a crap. What does this mean?

  33. Oh, last year he had his car stolen. But he said, we should go on a date sometime. After I have my car, though. You owe me one.

    When I cooked for his friend and him, he didn’t eat and he left. But after that, he said I owe him 2 meals now because I was supposed to cook for him personally.

    Then this year, he asked me if I am free for valentines day. When I asked why, he asked me if I wanted to have dinner.

    But then again, there were other negative signals too… *pulls hair*

  34. I’m a taurean man or boy should I say at the age of 18.. My pov on taurean men is that if he captivates you on the first date he’s most likely aiming to satisfy his sexual needs later on that night, as a taurean I like to observe, analyze a woman/girl before making my decision on whether she fits the bill so normally she would be the one doing most of the talking on a first date. I think that once a taurean man is scarred emotionally by something or someone he becomes a dangerous person, if this someone is a woman then I believe this leads him to him taking out this anger he has towards one woman on as many women as possible to make himself feel somewhat better about himself. It is easy for us to cover our emotions with a smile, a laugh, when we are in fact very sensitive people, the littlest things someone does to harm us we will remember and find it hard to let go. Patience is one of our main traits, if a taurean man is quick to rush into things think twice about actually pursuing him because what you are seeing may not be what truely lies within… My point of view on this topic :)

  35. Thank you, Jordan!

    Does it mean that he is just making sure I fit the bill? He has been hurt before and thus, been single for 4 years. And at times, I feel as though he is testing me. And most recently, he got angry with me and we got a huge fight. Worst fight you can imagine to have with a guy friend. I asked him out for dinner, but he didn’t reply. So as I continued working, I totally forgot about it. Around lunch, another guy friend asked me out for dinner, and I said ok. Later that evening, Mr. Taurus texted and said he’s going for movie but he’s unsure about dinner. So I said, okay, enjoy your movie then. His reply was, who are you dating tonight? So, I replied not a date, just dinner. And he got so angry, he said you asked someone else before I even reply. When I tried to explain, he said, “Liar… Liar… Liar… Liar… Liar… Liar…” repeatedly. After that he went MIA for a week. Then the huge fight happened. Then after that he apologised saying he was sorry about what he said, he was just pissed at the moment. Then after that he started his “Good morning” text ritual everyday again. But I don’t know what happened after that, I have not heard from him for a week 4 days now.

    Is it a bad idea to make a Taurean jealous? He has been asking a lot about the guy I’ve been hanging out lately. But everytime I said, he is nice. Or he is funny. He’d say, good for you. Go ahead. I guess, that means he doesn’t like me the way I do, huh?

  36. I need help with a Taurus (and dating in general.) I just met this guy and this is VERY premature, but i DONT want to mess this up. When it comes to texting, I’m usually very forward and make the first move. Should I be doing that with this guy, or taking a step back and waiting for him?

  37. You guys are funny. Taurus guys are extremely jealous and possessive. If you give us one small reason to think you will be hanging out with another guy, you will push us away. You have to make us feel like we can approach you with out getting hurt or jealous.

  38. groovin cancer lady says:

    I’m a Cancer woman (40) and I’m into this Taurus man (35). We work in the same department and see a lot of each other. It’s a busy factory with a lot of people passing through. I was instantly attracted to him. He’s handsome, hardworking, funny, charming & very masculine. I’ve been working closely with him for 3 mos. We chat a lot through out the day, joke & have fun. I would always catch him looking at me smiling. Every time I looked in his direction, he seems to always be watching me. He then started to mention every guy I would talk to. He would say “I see you & Steve had an interesting convo” I would be like “ugh yeah I guess.” I never thought anything of it really. I’m a natural flirt. I like to talk to a lot of people. I never thought he was watching me so attentively. I never thought he would be interested in me. People would ask him if he had a girlfriend, he would laugh & say yeah. So I thought it wasn’t that serious, just a fling or whatever. So, my female job partner would always obnoxiously flirt with him. All 3 of us would talk & joke around. My job partner has a crush on Mr Taurus. She would tell him everything her & I would talk about in private about him. Like we would play this game to pass the time, Marry, F*ck, Kill. She would tell him that he’s the only one who hasn’t been killed, ever. Ofcorse he loved that. Anytime she told him anything “we” said about him being hot or fun, he would always turn it to me and tease me about it. My friend is an obnoxious flirt, but I am more reserved, subtle flirt. She would always call him out in a group to say Hi, I would just smile. She would always push me to be more forth coming in flirting with him; I told her it wasn’t my style. Plus me being a cancer, I wasn’t sure what I even wanted yet. I’ve only known him for a month. So time went by, Mr Taurus and I got even closer. One day this male coworker was a total asshole to me for no reason & told me off. Mr Taurus was a true gentleman and totally defended me. I told him he was a sweetie & thank you. Ever since that day, it went from an attraction to a full blown crush. I would tease him and tell him he was my eye candy. He would smile.
    My partner made a very rude comment about me being a midget. Yes I am short but by no means a midget. My Taurus told her that was rude & defended me again. He always calls anyone out for being anything but nice to me. Which means a lot to me…my hero! He asks a lot of questions. Like my bday. Then one day we were talking about people we didn’t like in our past. Out of the blue he looked at me with those eyes & said “Ya know haft pint your alright” I told him he was alright too. I could tell he was sincere & we have this connection. Next thing he disappeared. Next 2 days nothing. Just friendly chitchat. No flirting. Then he came back full force flirting again. We both always joke about how we are never getting married. I told him I don’t plan on it but if I met a good guy I might. You never know but I’m in no hurry. It sure isn’t going to be any of the bums I have been dating. Then he disappears again for the day. When he disappears on me we have polite chitchat but nothing like we usually do. Then one day my partner asks him why he’s not with a steady girlfriend. He says “I do have a girlfriend, we’ve been together 10 years & live together” Wtf?! Wow talk about shocked. I never mess around with guys in serious relationships! Not my thing! Married or committed men..off limits! But I have this connection with Mr Taurus & I can’t stop it! He comes at me with that charm & I’m under his spell! I tried time & time again to pull back from him. He flirted even more. I ask him questions about his girlfriend. He answers me. She sounds like a good girlfriend. I feel so bad. He never talks about her, not even to his guy friends at work. The only time he says anything about her is when I ask questions. Things go on as usual. Us flirting & talking. He can be a jerk to everyone in our department. He says rude/joking comments to everyone except me. He has never said one bad thing to me. He’s sweet understanding funny & protective. Even if someone is teasing me about some silly thing he comes to my defense. And he is very jealous. I talk to a lot of guys at work (only 4 women in whole department) I talk to this one man a lot. He is married. I am in no way interested in him. I think his relationship with his wife is adorable. She also works for the company in a different department. The married couple is soo sweet. After working with the married man for 4 hrs with lively conversation. Mr Taurus came to me in a huff & asked me point blank “Are you fucking Steve?” What?! I told him hell no! We are just friends! I think his marriage is is adorable! I would never do that! I was shocked. He said “Yeah they are sickenly sweet aren’t they?” He then disappeared for a bit then came back like nothing happened. Then he started telling me he thinks this girl I know is hot! I agreed that yes she is very pretty! It did make me jealous but I tried to play it cool. He changed the subject. Everything was cool again. My job partner told him I have a crush on him. I said yes I do. He had the cutest look on his face & was playful the rest of the night. All last week we had intimate conversations, flirted, teased & spent every possible minute together while we worked. One day my job partner blurted out “Why don’t you guys just get it on already?” Mr. Taurus & I just laughed it off. Last week, he was going to take a day off. I told him I hope he has a nice day off but I will miss him very much. He looked at me and sincerely said “I’ll miss you too” This week went good with us. Thursday this coworker Dave came up behind me and started rubbing my shoulders. Dave looked at Mr. Taurus and said “Hey man, are you jealous? Come on are you jealous?” Mr. Taurus said “No..No, but I will still smack the hell out of you”. Dave laughed then left. Mr. Taurus was red faced. Later he came & told me that Dave was an asshole. Tonight while we were talking I told him “I’m the only person your never mean to. Mr. Taurus told me “I like you, you’re a good person”. To me this sounds like I’m in the friend zone, but Mr. Taurus is so confusing! I just don’t know what to think!
    I adore this man! God, I wish he was single then it would be a no brainer! Go for him! I find myself not flirting with guys anymore because of him. I only want him & I don’t want him to get jealous. I’m single & ready to mingle but I don’t want to mess around with a guy with a girlfriend. But he is the only guy I want. This is the only time I have ever been tempted to do so. So, my question is is Mr. Taurus just wanting me for sex or does he want something more? I will not be his mistress but if he’s looking to dump his girlfriend & looking for a more long term relationship with me, I’m game! I’m a firm believer in karma but I’m willing to take my chances for Mr. Taurus! I have never met a more confusing man as Mr. Taurus! I need to know if I should move on or wait patiently ..Help!

  39. Capricorn woman says:

    Any replies will be greatly appreciated. The taurus guy is late 40’s and lost his wife to cancer a few years ago, me, I recently divorced after 25 years, so we were both single I thought. He replied to me on a personals site and we chatted slot it was great, he took a trip with family to a tropical place and emailed me the whole time and thanked me for helping him make it through trip. When he got back we met and immediately there was chemistry… His words not mine.. But it was crazy everything flowed great.. Well our second meeting he cooked for me and we had dessert first (sex)…. It was off the charts for me … Best I’ve ever had…and he could not keep his hands off me.. When we are together he seems entranced with me and says all the right things.. Even plans for future meetings, like we are going to ride the horses next time. But I found out he is seeing another lady!!! He birthday is the same as mine so I have no advantages sign wise. I told him I don’t like to share and that sex was more than just sex for me, I told him it was great but I can’t share. So he told me that the sex was fantastic and if I ever wanted to play he was always ready. Any thoughts on where he is at with his thinking? P.S. I’ve made food for him which he completely loved and pleaded for the recipe.

  40. Hello Ladies,

    I have been off this site for a while.
    Whats up ;)

  41. pisceslady87 says:

    @ taurus01. Sorry to say but I think ur sister’s boyfriend liked u at the time. Sorry but it’s obvious.

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