Wait … does the Aries man even get obsessed? He may have the ability to tune out all other stimuli to accomplish his goal, but that’s not obsession — it’s single-mindedness. If he really wants you, he’ll garner all his resources to capture you, but once he loses interest, you’ve lost.
The best way to extend his attention span is to fuel his competitive drive. Although I am not a fan of “games,” you may want to flirt with someone else at a party he’s at, if you already know he’s interested in you. Seeing you with another man will spark his instinctual urge to be Alpha Male, and he’ll want to beat out the other guy for your attentions.
In other words, play hard to get.
The venerable Bruce Springsteen (a Libra) once wrote that you can’t start a fire without a spark. I can’t help you there (although a tight red dress will turn him on!). You need to be distant enough to be a challenge, but not so unattainable that he’s easily distracted by the next pretty young thing that comes his way. The art of attraction is a Libran balancing act, and a tip of the scales in the wrong direction will send the whole contraption toppling to the floor.
Comment below: How have you kept an Aries man’s attention?