How to make an Aries man obsessed with you
September 25, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
Wait … does the Aries man even get obsessed? He may have the ability to tune out all other stimuli to accomplish his goal, but that’s not obsession — it’s single-mindedness. If he really wants you, he’ll garner all his resources to capture you, but once he loses interest, you’ve lost.
The best way to extend his attention span is to fuel his competitive drive. Although I am not a fan of “games,” you may want to flirt with someone else at a party he’s at, if you already know he’s interested in you. Seeing you with another man will spark his instinctual urge to be Alpha Male, and he’ll want to beat out the other guy for your attentions.
In other words, play hard to get.
The venerable Bruce Springsteen (a Libra) once wrote that you can’t start a fire without a spark. I can’t help you there (although a tight red dress will turn him on!). You need to be distant enough to be a challenge, but not so unattainable that he’s easily distracted by the next pretty young thing that comes his way. The art of attraction is a Libran balancing act, and a tip of the scales in the wrong direction will send the whole contraption toppling to the floor.
Comment below: How have you kept an Aries man’s attention?
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I HAVE been married to one for the past 10 years.. great beginning.. he chased me he won we were best friends… but his ego and need for admiration and lack of self analysis got the best of him.. in short… the higher he got … the more entitled he felt for more attention form other ladies always work friends … he has to be a hero to most of them… self centered to a fault… always looking for action outside the marriage but for adoration …. sexually i was always more sexual….
for passion and stamina look for Taurus…
Aries… are and do read HOROSCOPE… very self centered and will cheat i know.. fathers that are aries that cheat.. old ,, young.. but in their eyes they can justify it…
generous yes, relaxed yes, less moody, very driven etc… but not to be trusted … one will always feel alone at the end with these creatures emotionally …
Miss Sag:
Thank you for the post. I’m a Scorpio trying to make it work w/an Aries. I decided to walk away yesterday. Your post is exactly what I;m finding.
EXTREMELY self-centred. I thought the sex would be great! It started to get really good but he has pulled away emotionally and now he doesn’t want to tell me what he was doing the other night…There are LOTS of red flags!
He is VERY moody and, yes, I feel alone. So now I am really alone but it’s ok…
Thanks again for posting; you never know who you may help.
Miss Sag certainly helped me. I sort of blame myself because I am into astrology and should have known from the start that we were not a match. In the beggining, he used to call text email (some type of communication) every day. I began to like him alot. Once he caught wind of this he started treating me different. At one point we were on the phone all night (like when I was a teenager smh) to not calling or cutting conversations short. It sort of puzzled me because I didn’t ask for any of this, he pursued me and now I am the one who is hurt. I think he felt as if he were better than me. I don’t really like people who think this way. That’s what drew the line for me. I couldn’t stand his arrogance anymore. BTW I just met him this past July so at least I learned sooner than later.