How do you know if a Virgo man does not love you anymore?
September 20, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
You know how excessive criticism from a partner makes you doubt that he loves you? Well, the opposite can run true if you’re with a Virgo. If he stops picking you apart, he doesn’t care enough to make you his improvement project. A Virgo dissects things in a quest to make them function more efficiently, and if he isn’t bothering to make you the best-running model he can … well, prepare for your pink slip.
On the other side of the spectrum, he may nitpick such minor details — that he had glossed over before because he was willing to live with a few of your flaws — that you feel every ounce of your being is under the microscope. It’s one thing to be told that a hair is out of place … it’s another to hear that the mole on your chin should be removed. When Virgo harps on aspects of yourself that cannot be changed without the help of surgery or a Scientology audit, you know he’s lost all affection for you.
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so, im a pretty outgoing leo female, attractive, the affection of many mens attention, but i am a good honest innocent (ish) genuine girl who is very comfortable in my sexuality. if it feels right, i will go there with a guy. i met a virgo male, hung out with him a few times before, hit it off, and then that night we slept together. ive pretty much been the aggresor, texting him to hang out, and he always responds and always wants to hang. he prefers to cuddle and kiss now, and we have not done much sexual interaction since the first night. we get along extremely well, along with my friends and his, we get the same humor, make each other laugh. we had a talk where i think he was basically saying hes not ready for a relationship, (i never asked) but is still down to hang like we been, cuddle, have fun, etc. but i dont know if it was his kind way of saying, lets not chill anymore, i’ll never be interested. i have the feeling that he likes my innocence and artistic outgoing optimistic nature but is conflicted by my closeted mature sexuality and straightforward outgoing nature in everything that i do.
Scorpio here. Been involved with a Virgo 3 years. Boy took him 8 months to move forward because I said this was going NO where and wanted to end it & move on.. They are very critical,run hot & cold, talk to much (probably would rather talk & analysis you then have sex) not great sex drive but OK when THEY are in the mood. He’s very generous with me and very insecure.
Over all it takes them FOREVER to move on in a relationship so if you don’t have a few years FORGET it. Young folks don’t waste too much time. Yes, they are cheats but it means nothing to them,because it takes them so long to connect they just seem to date and drop em. Dishonest?? By my standards yes, but not worse than a lot of business men. Nasty? can be INCREDIBLY nasty & rejecting, especially when they feel slighted or insecure.
If they stop doing things for you it is OVER, That is their main line of affection -doing for the ones they care about.
I LUV THIS SITE!!! k- YOUR QUESTION IS ANSWERED AT THE BOTTOM BAE! Let me first say that I am a very strong-minded capricorn lady and I have been involved with a virgo man on and off for three years. NOTICE I said ON and OFF! However, I love this virgo man. I have to agree with a little bit of everything that has been said here. Virgos are liars, cheaters, manipulative, indecisive, critical, mean, and very anal retentive. BUT once you have been charmed by one it is hard to leave them alone. Virgos are thinkers. They may be initially attracted to good looks and physical appearance but this will die quickly for them as some of the women above have experienced. Virgos are thinkers and very analytical, so I am sorry to say that a big butt and cute smile will get you only in the bed with these men but a strong woman with very high self esteem, as well as extreme intelligence and good spirit matched with keen maturity will be the ONLY woman who wins his heart. Sorry if this stings, but I want to be honest with you.
Virgo men get bored easily and their constant quest for success will make them appear like a******s when they are with women who are not as intelligent (book and street smart) as they think they are. If you have very sensitive feelings, low self-esteem, or cannot handle stress well a virgo man is not the man for you due to the intense style of their relationships. Yes, they do play mind games, but it is only to see how much you love them or really what kind of person you are. Virgo men somewhere in their lifetime has probably been hurt really badly by a woman so they really do not trust us. It will take time for him to fully let his guard down with you….but if you’re the one he surely will.
My virgo man has cheated, belittled, and lied to me. HE DID NOT BREAK ME! It took a lot of maturity for me to forgive him, but I did. He needed to see if I really loved him like I said I did and plus he is selfish and likes to see what he can get away with. Me being a capricorn woman, HE DON’T GET AWAY WITH s***. IM ON IT BEFORE HE EVENS THINKS ABOUT DOING IT! LOL.
We have a great understanding of one another and it helps that our signs are COMPATIBLE!!!!! Now that I have his full attention and he trusts me….ladies this man is soooo romantic. lol DO NOT TRY TO CHANGE YOUR SELF IN ORDER TO GET ALONG WITH A VIRGO MAN! It will be a waste of your time. He will sniff you out if your fake or trying to be something that you are not!
If you are not focused in your life and are the type of woman that waits for a phone call or a date…..the virgo man is not the one for you. His drive for success is much too high and he will view you as needy or clingy if he thinks you have no life and your waiting for his call. My advice is for you to do you! I hopes this helps.
TO RESPOND TO K’S QUESTION: you will know when a virgo man doesn’t love you anymore because he will decrease his attention he gives to you. You will see a dramatic shift in your relationship from lovers to friends or associates. His conversations will be brief and he will limit his amount of “in your face time” Virgo men like to be in your presence…..so if this has change then he is probably not in love with you like he once was. TAKE IN ACCOUNT THOUGH WHAT HE HAS GOING ON IN HIS LIFE RIGHT NOW! THEY WILL ISOLATE IF THERE IS TOO MUCH ON THEIR PLATE OR IF THEY ARE CONFUSED ABOUT YOU! When me and my virgo man broke up he still could not help but to call, come by (unannouced), and ask my friends about me even though he had jumped into another relationship at the time. Here is the trick: Ask him directly…..Virgos will always tell you the truth when its over and they are no longer trying to figure you out. If he admits that he doesn’t love you anymore than he is telling you the truth. When I had broke up with mine he couldn’t say he didn’t love me even though I broke his heart….Capricorn women can always beat you at your own game and are known for being ball breakers! lol good luck
I met my Virgo man (whom I seems to have fallen head over heels for) last summer. I made the first move to call him (2 weeks later) after finding out that a friend gave my number to him. He chose not to call because of his own fears. Okay, understood and noted. In the beginning, I must admit that I became pushy and may have even crossed paths with him. However, the correspondences continued (thank God I was forgiven) in a “friendly manner”. As a Libra female, I crave constant attention. Which I have admitted to him already. Therefore, from time-to-time he would cater to my need for attention by calling after long days work or texting throughout the day (consisting of maybe 12 -14 hrs, sometimes). All this continued up until around my birthday. During my vacation getaway (which he was invited to come and join), I called and had a few conversations with him. I immediately became very anxious to get back in town just to share my birthday with Mr. Virgo. In addition, I shared pictures of my trip and noticed he commented one a guy in one of the many pictures (most of the pictures were of myself and the men that I met). I reminded him that he too was invited and choose not to come along and not to behave jealously. He denied it and dismissed me. Besides, that stuff happens when you go on vacation alone. Right? Right! A few days shy after my arrival, I sent him poetry that had music videos imbedded in order to illustrate my feelings for him. My first time attempting to cross that threshold after the lets be friends talk. His cold response was, “thanks for sharing…. I really appreciate it”. I was embarrassed and felt rejected. I cried for days. I stopped corresponding with him for about 2 months. I was determined to get over him and ride myself off ever caring about the man.
All went so well with me….
Up until I made the mistake of texting him well wishes for the New Year. Before you know it he confesses that he is indeed attracted to me, wants to hang out and even wants to go up on an offer that I made months prior. Shockingly enough I was surprised and totally confused (I couldn’t get him to say that he was interested) and now he wants to wants to sleep with me. Shortly after his confession he says that he would like to explore the possibility of a relationship but will not because of fear and his uncertainties. He believes that there is a possible potential for us to be together can only happen if he avoids me and does not want to treat me like the other women or rush into sex. Mr. Virgo claims to want our friendship to blossom in order start our relationship with commitment and also by growing spiritually together (he is a serious Christian man) and only then can we indulge (which he has given himself a deadline for) when we go on getaway together 6 months from now. After going through my own methodical analysis, I realized that there was more to the story. I confronted him, and he admits that he is still in love with his ex of 5 yrs. Right now, he only wants to have sex with me and doesn’t know what he wants. After admitting this to me he has become withdrawn again. He says that he does not know how to handle his attraction to me and remain a friend and not sleep with me. I don’t want to be the other woman in his life, or be 2nd best and I respect his feelings nonetheless. Although he has said that he and his ex are not physically together all the while I do believe that they are and continued visits with her. I don’t mind being patient if I really knew more because I really like him. However, if he is just toying with me, I rather leave him alone and wish him all the best with his future endeavors.
Any advice for a curious Libra gal.
Im a scorpio and i’ve been dating my virgo man for four years. We hav recently decided to get married. Are attraction was instant. From day one we couldn’t get enough of each other. We have had our prolems tho.I find the virgo man to be very self centered at times,sometimes cold,and vendictive if they dont’t get there way. A virgo man is hard to snag,but when he,s yours you wil know it cause he will make sure you do. So to all the ladies on this blog who aren,t sure if there virgo man is feeling them then I have your answer. He’s not!!!!!! It’s plain if he loves you he loves wholeheartedly to the point of devotion. If he dosen’t love you he will play headgames. You have to very dominant with this sign because if you are not they will walk all over you.If you don’t have a tuff skin there critical nature can scar you or even lower your self esteem.So ladies if your dominant you will keep him,but if you are weak you can’t handle the virgo man.
i am a libra girl and i have been having an on and off relationship with this virgo man for almost 3 years now. The thing is he has 2 sides to him one I love and the other just confuses me.
on the side i love he treats me like a queen. He wants to spend all his time with me and caters to my needs and desires. he becomes possesive, which i like and can’t keep his hands off me. We engage in meaningful conversations and have fun, luxurious dates.Anytime i need anything or am in any kind of trouble he is there and willing to offer any type of help. Although he has never said he loves me his actions portray that he does have some types of feelings for me.
Now his other side i find confusing. despite the great times we spend he will disappear from time to time and i won’t hear from him in weeks and at times even months. but then he will return as if nothing happened and be this wonderful man i am deeply in love with.
When we first met he had to chase me around for about 3 months because i had no type of interest in him. but then i eventually gave in and suddenly fell head over heels for him. can anyone give me any advice on why he may be acting like that??
Hi virgo”s… ^_^
How would you know if a virgo girl is still in love with an ex and wants him back? hmmm just curious…
Um, a virgo girl still in love with an ex…
Most likely she would try and talk to the ex every day, not “oh I want you back” talk, but trying to make the ex interested. Things that he (or she) loves will suddenly be virgo girls interest. Virgo girl will suddenly be taking new classes, learning new things, adventuring out…. trying to make herself interesting to the ex. The virgo girl will be there for the ex and be caring (but never critical) when she is trying to get the ex back. The virgo girl will point out flaws in the new love interest of the ex (if the ex has one) trying to prove that virgo girl is better.
Virgo girl will do EVERYTHING she can to seem perfect and without any flaws at all. Anything that was a problem in a relationship is no longer part of the Virgo girl (or at least that is the mask she will wear).
Hope that helps….?
I’m a Scropio and have been dating my Virgo boyfriend for about 5 months, and he does nit pick at everything sometimes kind of puttuing me down but i realize this is how they are. Not quite sure if i can handle it friends always tell me he just puts me down etc. I can’t help but to feel as if there right but wrong at the same time if i could just explain to them thats how he is maybe they’d be more understanding though i highly doubt it. So should i continue to take his crap, because i do love him.. or would it be bettering myself to break things off?
Hello,
I’m a libra with a moon in Scorpio, who’s an equal opportunity dater, EXCEPT for Virgos. I’ve basically found them to be like fingernails on a chalkboard. Tactful isn’t in their nature.
Thankfully, I’ve never attracted one, UNTIL now.
And I’m finding to my surprise I’m actually interested, but what Libra wouldn’t be when the person in question is a former Playgirl centerfold and has an I.Q almost as high as mine (yes, my Venus is in Virgo).
I met Mr. Virgo at a convention over a month. We talked (briefly) a total of 2 times, but our conversations were about the length of a tweet. So, since we didn’t have much interaction I came home and essentially forgot about him.
However, a couple of days ago, I received an email message from Mr. Virgo. Again the email message was a cryptic tweet message about “sending you good thoughts…blah blah blah…nice to have met you….”
But what baffled me about this email is that we didn’t exchange email addresses. How could we when only 140 characters were exchanged in both conversations. Obviously he’d lurked on my website and pulled my email address. But I can’t be mad because I’d lurked on his, ironically the day before he contacted me. Darn Google Analytics….
So, I replied to his email with a crack reference to my cyber stalking and how I was relieved he wasn’t contacting me with a cease and desist letter. He replied back with another tweet, about “you can lurk anytime…blah, blah, blah…and again it was nice talking to you.
Can you spell confused?
There was nothing in our interactions to cause him to go through the trouble of ferreting my email and contacting me. It should have been the other way around, right??? Okay, I will admit I’m attractive, my devlish Libran dimples kills them everytime, and I can carry on more than a monosyllabic conversation. BUT how would he know this from our tweet-like conversations???
I’m sure you all are saying he was simply being superficial. You’re probably one of those drop dead Heather Locklear/Brigitte Bardot Libras. Ungh-hungh. I’m not a size six, an ascendant in Taurus drives me to eat Golden Oreos in bed at midnight…and yes it shows, a lot! AND to top it, we’re from different cultures and ethnic backgrounds.
So, what’s going on? Since he sent the last email, should I respond back? Or should I just chalk up his reaching out to his being polite or wanting to find out if the good news I shared with him panned out?
well, i know Mr. virgo on the chat and on the phone later for 10 months now ,, he is living 100 km away and have work in my city and do not bother to call while he is here to see each other, he disapear for weeks sometimes months and then come back ,, he claims that he is missing me and my voice .. but never bother to come and meet me .. we talk for hours ,, and when i become tough with him he just chose to disappear ,, he insist to have feeling towards me and he need time ,, more than 10 months ?? now he blocked me from his chating list .. i do do not understand why ,, any body has a clue ??
Dear Toto:
From what I’ve read from all of these comments is that it seems to be Virgo’s steelo. They’re here one minute and gone the next. Heck even one woman (a Capricorn) said one strung her along for 7 years. Hate to say it but no one is worth being strung along for that long. Personally, I think Virgos have low self-esteem and do the song and dance because they don’t have enough balls to step up and act like a real man due to their paranoid fear of being rejected. GET OVER IT VIRGO EVERYONE WILL BE REJECTED AT ONE POINT IN TIME IN THEIR LIFE!!
So, Toto if you’re willing to hang on then do, but the next time he calls I would give him a test of his own medicine.
u will definitely know if a virgo loves you or not. im a virgo and i find that if im interested in someone i will try and find out every little detail i can and do everything i can to make them feel loved. we virgos look before we leap. we virgos are very hard to win over, you just have to earn our respect. and if we dont feel the connection anymore then we will atomatically just write it off. and we literally do not care. and you wont hear from us again. we may nit pick at you, thats our way of letting you know we notice you. its not always mean and we dont want to hurt feelings but some things we just cant help. its our nature. but on the other hand if you are critical of us we will say we dont care when really we do. very much so. bottom line is, if we want you in our life then we will do everything we can to keep you around and you wouldnt have any doubts about it.
Ladies, Ladies, Ladies,
I have been dating a Virgo Man on and off for about three years.As most of you say they will shut u out and then disappear.The last time i spoke with him Feb 2007. On this past saturday Julu 24,2009 early a.m. my phone rang and his named showed up. Know picture this I have always loved him and thought about him every day, I decided to goahead and text him asking him had he called my phone and was he ok, he responded yes he’s ok and for me to call him, we continue to text each other then I decided to call him. the basic phone conversation after missing for 1.5 year how r u. no explaination ,I’m sorry , my dog died not a damn thing only i miss u. And know the question do you Love me? for a moment i started to ask who the hell is this but that’s part of their charm. And on And on. He says I want to see you. I really Miss U and as you girls know we fall for it. so I did see him. Still no apology but I want some Bootay. I almost fell but I thought ” I don know where or who that thing has been in LOL for the past years. Me being that Strong Leo Girl I almost fell for it but I love me and my emotions to much to allow him to play with them anymore. So I have decided to just be his friend
HEY IVE READ EVERYONES COMMMENTS AND I HAVE TO ADMIT IT IVE BEEN IN AND ON AND OFF RELATIONSHIP WITH MY VIRGO MAN FOR 4 YEARS BUT HE PROPOSED TO ME TWICE WITHIN THAT TIME BUT THEY ARE VERY SENSTIVE AND REALLY DO HAVE TRUST ISSUES BUT IF U CAN GET PASS THAT THEY ARE SWEETHEARTS AND NO MATTER WHAT THEY CAN BE COUNTED ON FOR THING AND NOT TO MENTION WELL THE VIRGO MAN THAT I HAVE HAS ALWAYS AND WILL CONTINUE TO BE A TRUE GENTLEMAN
Kudos for you sweet!
Your virgo’s actions aren’t a reflection of this mythical Virgo discernment, weighing things, and earning his respect. If that’s the case he might as well be a Libra. His actions speak of the typical male trying to see if you’re dumb enough to give him some booty after almost 2 years of not hearing from him. Gentlemen and great lovers come in all signs as do [expletive deleted].
Everyone should take a note from Beauty4ull’s aforementioned comments when dealing with ANY potential suitor whether’s its a man or a woman. Stop being a doormat! People want someone with self-respect not someone who they know they can go and play the field then come back whenever they want and pick up where they left off.
Hey everybody! I need some help. This is a very long story & I truly need some help.
Ok so I met my Virgo in HS and we were always attracted to each other and flirted but never did anything because we were both in committed relationships. After 2 years of not seeing each other (we graduated HS in 07) we started speaking again. I don’t remember when he added me on FaceBook but I know he did (taking into account that I’m have a lot of pride and refused to add him first). Almost at the end of July I found myself thinking about my Virgo and left him a simple I miss you on his FB account. I didn’t think he was going to respond when suddenly I got a comment back. He asked for my email and phone number. Ever since that day we have spoken every single day and I admitted to still liking him. He admitted he liked me too. But he confuses me. One day he wants me the next he just wants to be my friend. The next day he wants to kiss me and then the next he just wants to talk. I don’t know what to do.
In the beginning he would always tell me he wanted to see me and he would be persistent even after I shot him down. The times that I did agree to see him he would flirt with me and comment on how beautiful I looked. Sometimes he would seem distant and not answer my questions. Lately I have been getting attached to him and I noticed that whenever he opened up to me he would disappear for the next two days. I’d have to be the one who texted him. We’ve gotten into a few arguments because I’ve confronted him on his confusing behavior. I have told him that he can’t flirt with me and tell me he misses me and then expect me to not feel anything for him. He admitted to still having some feelings for his ex who he’s been on and off for an year. I told him that I understood and I would be his friend. But whenever he would get stressed (which is like 90% of the time) he would text or call me and tell me how he felt then he’d disappear. I noticed that even after we spoke about the mixed signals he still kept flirting with me and saying things that I knew friends don’t say. When we would get into a fight he’d chase me and make sure everything was fine. I’d tell him that I needed to cut our friendship and that’s when he would open up. Recently I went to his house to hang out just like friends. We were watching TV and laughing when all of a sudden he got serious and asked me to cuddle with him. I noticed he always tells me how much he wants to kiss me and cuddle and whenever I told him I don’t do friends with benefits he’d remind me he wasn’t looking for that in me. But that night he tried to kiss me, and grab me a few times. I declined and told him to stop and he did. But when we laid in that bed that night talking for those 5 hours I noticed his guard was completely down. We spoke about everything that bothered him and what he wanted to do in his life. The way he looked at me made me feel like he wanted to be something more than friends. That night when I went home he told me to call him but I didn’t. I confronted him this Sunday and he admitted that he didn’t call because he had to think about what to tell me. He said he was scared but he didn’t say of what. I have the feeling that he might be getting attached to me too but I need some help. We haven’t really spoken after that day. Should I back off and leave him alone or should I give him some time? How can I tell if he cares about me?
Lets just make this short and sweet…..for those above and on-lookers to this site…..when you become over 40…I have learned from personnel experience…Virgo Men seem to be too much work….I don’t have time or patience to wait for you to figure out what it is you A.are looking for and B.whether are not your ready for a serious relationship….and this is true for me with any sign and any man !
Agree with Alpha. Although I’m not 40 but last 2 Virgo men (what a coincidence) were driving me nuts.Yes, they do blow hot & cold and i noticed myself being trapped where I think ‘oh what i should do not to upset my Virgo …’ because the ‘confirmation’ I used to get from them was limited and patchy…. I’m so not interested in this cat & mouse, hiding & chasing game anymore but GOSH, THEY TAKE THEIR TIME & I don’t know whether where I stand with them!……too much hard work.
welp,
I have been on and off with a virgo man since 06 its now 09 almost 2010. After reading all of your comments I can def relate. THEY ARE @ MUCH WORK! I mean being an Aries we are considered not to be compatiable but we get along so well when we are together. He is a baseball player so he is consistanly on the road and away from me. I miss him all the time but it comes off so careless and cold hearted because of his virgo traits that cause him to hide his emotions. I have so much faith that I will win his heart but at the same time us aries dont have that patience to wait and see. I knw what I want and I WANT IT NOW!
Hi why are virgo men so hard to tie down.
i just met this virgo man and i wont him to wont me for me.because i really do like him lot, what must i do to keep him wonting to be in a relationship with me?
Alpha guy said Virgo men are all about work this is so true. My brother always has a project going on. He is marred but it’s like two people living in the same house no real emotions between them. I recently met a virgo guy in his 40’s and thought we could have something he had all the same interets. Work came first day,after,day. I finally got and email saying sorry I haven’t spoke but been too busy with work. Ok Virgo men you have a cell phone how about a courtesy text? maybe while your on the toilet? Virgo men would be great providers no doubt but I would take the back seat from his work then his own interests. I’m a Libra women and need space just not that much. No Virgo’s for me.
Oh, my, goodness. I can’t take it!! Someone, please, please help me. I am an Aries woman. I have feelings for a Virgo man. We connected, get this, 20 years ago and he has resurfaced three times in my life. I am married and was married when he contacted me. So, the first three times, I talked with him a bit, then cut it off because of my marriage.
Now, he’s contacted me for the fourth time and expressed a definite interested in hooking up (after 20 years). I admit that I am interested (yes, I know that I’m married, which makes this interest very, very difficult for me to deal with). We’ve chatted, texted and had a few phone calls, some of which were totally inappropriate for two married people (he’s married too). Yes, it’s a mess. Truly. I know. He has indicated to me that if we ever got together, he wants it to be an ongoing thing. (Which both frightens and attracts me at the same time.)
The last time I actually spoke to him we had a regular conversation about life, news etc. Now, I’ve sent him several emails and texts – nothing. Finally I pushed the button and asked directly – Did I do something and was the relationship over?. I got a reply that said no (I didn’t do anything wrong), that he was having a rough couple of days/weeks.
My question is what is going on with him? We have not seen each other in 20 years, but the attraction – by what he tells me and how I feel is very strong. I miss talking to him. This is not a love match by any means so it’s not like we’re planning to leave our marriages for each other. I like him, like talking to him and in true Virgo fashion, he’s given me pointers on a LOT of things that have really helped.
Any advice or insight? I’m going a little crazy because we used to talk on a daily basis (chat/text) and I’m afraid I’m suffering withdrawal!!!
Diana Virgo men are very easy to talk to because they are well rounded and have knowleges on a variety of subjects. You ask what he wants of you well to see if you will take him up pn his offer. If you met him on Facebook or Myspace think of all the other women he’s looking up from high school. Virgo men take a long time to decided on a partner 99.9% of the time. He’s finished with all the ladies in his 50 mile radius so he’s expanding further. If you are married then it’s none of my business but I would cut all contact. How would you feel if you found out some chick was chatting it up with your husband from high school. Virgo men never know what.
Ladies, one thing I can tell u about the virgo man is that u will have to give him space,watch him listen to him if you choose to stay in a realationship with him. If he loves you he will confess it, I have dealt with two one in high school through college and know we are best friends and we still have a special place in are hearts for each other. As for the current Virgo well! Huh we have some personality issues. u see Virgo men are very insercure and they don’t trust to many people. However I have come to understand and know my Virgo friend very well. By the way ladies when your virgo moves in and out with u, unless he’s married,their is a new lady around. Virgo men function very well on unfimilar ground. but once it gets old and believe me it will. he will come back they always do. Once you get to know them and u will things will b so clear to you before you know it you can deal with all of his issues if you choose to, and with a smile
I’ve liked this virgo guy for a long time now and he used to like me but he says he’s moved on…i’ve been texting him a lot now and im just afraid i wont be giving him enough space but i just always wanna talk to him..:\
I’ve liked this virgo guy for a long time now and he used to like me but he says he’s moved on…i’ve been texting him a lot now and im just afraid i wont be giving him enough space but i just always wanna talk to him..:\
So I met this virgo guy about a month ago at a party, didn’t even notice him as his NOT my type at all, and didn’t even noticed he liked me. My friend who was friends with him kept asking me to hang out with them, turned out it was because the virgo was insisting on getting me to hang out with them. after hanging out with them I started liking him, cuz he’s super cute n funny, one time we hung ou, he kept holding my hands n kissing my hair n forehead being super sweet, so when I got home I texted him and thanked him for the good time and toldim he gives me butterflies in my stomach. He ignored my text!
it was kinda awkard! And then we hung out the next night, he was per cute again, he spent the nite at my house, slept in my bed cuddled all nite, and kissed my hair n forhead DID NOT even try to make out! Wtf! 
after he called me the next couple days everything was ok! Till he said hed call me after work n he never did, so I called him no answer, I sent him a text saying it was disrespectful, he called after my text we talked when I complained he completely ignored me n changed the subject! We were suppise to meet him n frineds out, he never called I didn’t either n still haven’t heard from him! What’s going on? Does he like me or what? I know he was with his ex for 8 years they broke up 1.5 year ago, cuz he didn’t want to marry her n he said they were very different n not happy together,they no longer talk (since a few months ago).and I know his friends n they say he isn’t talking to his ex, so what’s going on? Give me some advice! What should I do? Should I call him or wait for him to call….u think he’s gonna call,..should I confront him or just act cool…plz tell me what to do!
Nobody seems to have time for love anymore, it’s Virgo ’s fault, work work work til you die rich is their motto.
HELP! He’s drving me nuts. My Virgo and I have been together for 11 months. All was great, really great until he started building a house a few months ago. Lots of stress, I get it. He wrote and said he couldn’t handle a relationship with all that was going on…had a 3 week break, he apologized. Suddenly I talk too much, I ask too many questions, and was a distraction so I need to back off. So I don’t go out until I’m invited, laid off hte questions, got quieter. I only see him one day a week cuz of the house building, I have backed off big time. Lo and behold I get an email tonight he sent referring to an article I might want to read….”do you complain too much?”
I do love him. He’s introduced me to his family, friends, neighbors and even his ex likes me. Before the project we were going and having a great time, now I’m heartbroken seeing how I can’t do anything right.
I’d like to wait it out, but not sure if I should. 2-3 months more of fault finding? I don’t know if he wants a way out or what. They say Virgo points out faults to make you better…well I didnt’ have as many faults as I do now. It hurts.
Suggestions?
I stopped seeing the Virgo I met he said he was stressed and didn’t have time for a relationship. His reason’s were: recovering from a recent injury and in the final stage’s of completion on a house he is building for a man. I hate the silent treatment. The way I see it this is a pattern of Virgo’s something I would never get used to, so I moved on.
Well, I am a virgo woman, and I understand how hard it is to date us. My man is a virgo and we’ve been together for nearly 2 years. We are alot alike. And, that’s what makes it fun. When we found out we were both virgos, it became even more onteresting. But, he was not my choice. I never would’ve put us together. There are days I won’t say a word to him and hates to hear the sound of his voice, but I love him to pieces. And, there are days he will walk around not saying anything to me. That’s just our way. We can’t help it. But, we manage to make it work. I will admit, he’s not the most romantic person, and he likes things done a certain way. But, so do I. He’s very touchy feely, always kissing ang hugging me. He never leaves without saying goodbye or telling me that he loves me. He never goes out with the guys too much, other than basketball and he tries to be with me as much as he can. One thing is for sure, a virgo in love is a good thing. The feeling is natural and it grows everyday. Just make your virgo man feel needed and desired…I promise you won’t be able to get rid of him.
Harping and nitpicking can wear people down, though. I know ppl are more than just a zodiac sign, but I'm with a virgo who has all the traits described. This is not easy to deal with. He is also overbearing and controlling, and the house must be run his way or no way. From my experience at least, they are uptight about everything and not laid back as partners. I am always at fault and in need of correction, under the guise of 'advice', even though I'm a full grown woman. As a pisces, my solution to the pressure is to withdraw and get away from him in a separate part of the house until I have sufficiently cooled down. Both of us are loners and I need my space anyway.
Virgo males are very self-centered, and analyze, EVERYTHING, they are so BUSY picking everything apart, they can FORGET YOU are even there. A Virgo male, is so concerned with being PERFECT, he is looking for PERFECTION in EVERYONE, including you. If you date a VIRGO MALE, just tell yourself they are great actors!, Because they can convince you they are caring, considerate, GOOD GUYS, when in reality, they are only playing the part of a NICE Guy!…… If you every start believing what a Virgo Male sez to you, then they KNOW they have you!…. Think of them as a 9th grade boy at a first dance, they are smooth, kind and sweet, at first but later on theyre the kind of guy who will push you down on the playground and laugh!!! cuz inside there just a scared little kid.