Comments on: Capricorn and Gemini breakups

By: ComplexCappie

ComplexCappie — Sun, 27 Sep 2009 05:37:44 +0000

I’m was in a relationship with a Gemini for a year and this is the exact definition of our relationship, especially this section:

“Gemini will resent Capricorn for her inhibitions and rigidity, while Cap will look down on Gemini’s lack of focus and inability to commit.
After the ambulance has departed, Gemini will dish to his buddies how long it took for Cap to warm up in bed, while Capricorn will share with her closest confidante that she felt more like a parent than a partner.”

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 20:03:45 +0000

I am a Capricorn with a Gemini moon and Pisces rising. My chart is dominated by earth and water, however, with just the Gemini moon and a Uranus in Libra to lighten me up, and Neptune in Sagittarius which doesn’t do much on the energy front. I dated a Gemini (Cancer cusp) and it was a disaster; we met via work channels, and there was a sort of complicated fishbowl aspect to it b/c I’d be with him in his “social crowd” which was a group of people w/whom I needed to be professional. It was complicated. I wasn’t sure, ultimately, if he was dating me for my ability to be a “good work contact” for him to bring around his crew or if he genuinely liked me. The worst thing about it was that he played mind games, or he’d bring up an important issue he wanted to discuss in a venue where I couldn’t respond (like he’d say something major in a traffic intersection 100 yards from the entrance of a work party, then before I could reply we’d be inside schmoozing and I’d have a knot in my stomach). I was definitely supposed to learn something. I kept running into him until I told him off, then I never saw him again. He dumped me in a bar one night, told me that, and I’m not making this up, he wasn’t nice enough to me and I didn’t get upset enough about it, and thus, I really needed to go to therapy. I know many Geminis, but am glad to be done dating them. I married a Sagittarius with heaps of Taurus and water in his chart. Fun-loving on the outside, stable and funny on the inside.

By: Alonewiththesea

Alonewiththesea — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 09:25:14 +0000

I am a Gemini with a rising sun in Virgo Venus in Cancer and Moon in Aries. My Capricorn boyfriend has a Libra Rising, Aquarius Venus and Moon in Aquarius. We get along so well though we also debate and argue some at times. We have so much understanding for each other. He is ok with understanding i take alot of time to understand since im bouncy on everything, dont stick to anything, perfectionist and really typical gemini though my cancer makes me anti social and i have a tremendous need to stay at home and be with family which he does too. I found that out 7 yr age difference him being younger helps because i dont feel like i have to be so overly mature even though he acts as though hes 50 in his 20’s lol. But i guess what im saying is this is either a really really good match or a complete nightmere ive dated other capricorns who drove me nuts but for some reason i cant get enough of them. I need a rock to hold me still.

By: cocoayin

cocoayin — Fri, 17 Apr 2009 10:28:28 +0000

Cap.Sun/Gemini ASC. here. I am always drawn to Gemini, but I do have a strong Jupiter & Moon influence within my own chart. Perhaps it is the combination of their unattainability & mutable nature that draws me in? I do get frustrated with their short-sighted logic & sporadic autistic moments. The comment regarding dating an excessively religious Gemini was amusing, because Gemini’s never lose that Mercurial nature! A good Gemini friend of mine is a church-going Catholic who is still plagued by indecision, as well as the autistic moments. Cappy definitely needs to LISTEN to Gemini though. I’ve found that most Gemini’s will talk non-chalantly about extremely personal matters, then move quickly onto some run-of-the-mill conversation. Later they’ll question your emotional depth & empathy simply because you didn’t listen to the mundane details of their story. With Gemini, that’s all life is: details; almost as if they’re unable to see the trees for the forest. How adorably child-like.

By: cappie chick

cappie chick — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 22:09:49 +0000

I’m talking with a Gemini guy that has an aqua moon.. He’s very weird. I don’t really see it going anywhere. It’s hard to believe anything he says, it comes off very pretentious and detached, void of real meaning. Sometimes I believe him, but other times it’s really hard to. I get annoyed easily, he doesn’t believe in himself and he thinks that talking about his emotions is embarrassing and beats himself up when he does. It’s just very strange. He also claims I belong to him. This freaked me out because we haven’t known each other very long. In a way I think he’s trying to push me away, because I understand his emotions and he doesn’t want anyone to get close… It’s like he’s sabotaging himself.

By: Angela

Angela — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 12:27:02 +0000

I am a gemini female who has been in a relationship with a Capricorn guy for 3 years now…It is just amazing!!! It just requires the making the effort like all relationships require…..
I absolutely love him…he brings out this person in me, that is not afraid of being taking care of (not clingy – just knowing that there are decisions that I know he will make that will that will bee good for both of us)

By: Irene

Irene — Fri, 27 Feb 2009 12:08:25 +0000

i’m a gemini. have not dated a capricorn, yet. but i have rejected one before.

to anonymous who was wondering if “gemini’s ever have regrets about breaking up?”.
Speaking for myself, I have never had regrets about break ups.
And I would never even imagine reconciling with someone I broke off.

By: Kellee

Kellee — Thu, 26 Feb 2009 20:37:30 +0000

Imagine this one, I am a capricorn with a gemini moon! Just imagine what I go thru in relationships. The cappy in me wants a stable relationship, but the gemini moon loves variety, lol.

By: Crystal Hayward

Crystal Hayward — Wed, 18 Feb 2009 17:26:05 +0000

This combo is a disaster – long term- experience speaking here! On a positive note- Gemini will help Capricorn loosen up his TIE & Cappy has the perseverance to teach Gem a thing or to about FOCUS & hard work…

This is a karmic match in the sense that once both have learned the lessons they were meant to teach each other – they move on with little regret despite the little emotion call LOVE:(

By: polkaa

polkaa — Wed, 21 Jan 2009 03:32:21 +0000

i’m a gemini and my boyfriend is a capricorn, and the tihng is – both my rising & moon signs are in VIRGO. maybe its why it’s working out so great, despite all the beliefs about cap & gem being such an incompatible couple.

i reckon with relationships youll have to look into the ENTIRE birth chart. not just the sun sign. add in the VENUS sign too, with the ascendant and moon sign.

my venus is in cancer, and his is in capricorn – voila, a compatible one again. and everyone probably know that venus is rep love/relationships etc.

so this relationship def works, there are lots of other things in a chart that has plenty of influences