Comments on: The worst way to break up with Aquarius http://sasstrology.com/2007/08/worst-way-to-break-up-with-aquarius.html Sat, 21 Nov 2009 03:02:09 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Annie http://sasstrology.com/2007/08/worst-way-to-break-up-with-aquarius.html/comment-page-3#comment-55448 Annie Thu, 19 Nov 2009 14:49:41 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/08/22/the-worst-way-to-break-up-with-aquarius/#comment-55448 Actually, things like that can backfire. The Scorpio I was involved with has an Aquarius best friend, who moved into my building when he found out the me and the Scorpio. I had a feeling the potential for drama was very likely. Little did I know it was going to destroy my life. Oddly enough the article above states that Aquarius hates this... ( creating subdivisions among his circle of friends. This egalitarian sign isn’t all too keen on group rifts, so don’t spread malicious half-truths or try to get the majority of your mutual friends to take sides with you. ) That is exactly what the Aquarius did to me. Turned out he is in the closet and possessive of the Scorpio. Being they were best friends, The S. was in denial of his A's feelings for him and chose to believe the lies and such. Its best to never create triangles or play games. Actually, things like that can backfire. The Scorpio I was involved with has an Aquarius best friend, who moved into my building when he found out the me and the Scorpio. I had a feeling the potential for drama was very likely. Little did I know it was going to destroy my life.

Oddly enough the article above states that Aquarius hates this…

( creating subdivisions among his circle of friends. This egalitarian sign isn’t all too keen on group rifts, so don’t spread malicious half-truths or try to get the majority of your mutual friends to take sides with you. )

That is exactly what the Aquarius did to me. Turned out he is in the closet and possessive of the Scorpio. Being they were best friends, The S. was in denial of his A's feelings for him and chose to believe the lies and such. Its best to never create triangles or play games.

]]> By: sosensual24 http://sasstrology.com/2007/08/worst-way-to-break-up-with-aquarius.html/comment-page-3#comment-55446 sosensual24 Thu, 19 Nov 2009 09:39:52 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/08/22/the-worst-way-to-break-up-with-aquarius/#comment-55446 you know aquapiscescusp that was some really intuitive insight that now, has me thinking deeply of an aquarius in my life... you know aquapiscescusp that was some really intuitive insight that now, has me thinking deeply of an aquarius in my life…

]]> By: ashleytaylor84 http://sasstrology.com/2007/08/worst-way-to-break-up-with-aquarius.html/comment-page-3#comment-55311 ashleytaylor84 Mon, 16 Nov 2009 21:00:03 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/08/22/the-worst-way-to-break-up-with-aquarius/#comment-55311 I am dating an aquarious male, and care very much for and very attracted to him as well. He is one of the best lovers ive ever been with and brings out the best in my between the sheets. But other then that we dont have much in common and he is very distant and with drawn from me. he a hard man to love and is 100% aquarious. BUt all those traits that drive me crazy and baffle me,well theyre exactly what attracts me to him. BTW i am a scorpio!! so you can only imagine the differance is us I am dating an aquarious male, and care very much for and very attracted to him as well. He is one of the best lovers ive ever been with and brings out the best in my between the sheets. But other then that we dont have much in common and he is very distant and with drawn from me. he a hard man to love and is 100% aquarious. BUt all those traits that drive me crazy and baffle me,well theyre exactly what attracts me to him. BTW i am a scorpio!! so you can only imagine the differance is us

]]> By: Alexandra http://sasstrology.com/2007/08/worst-way-to-break-up-with-aquarius.html/comment-page-3#comment-54261 Alexandra Mon, 02 Nov 2009 02:51:17 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/08/22/the-worst-way-to-break-up-with-aquarius/#comment-54261 LibraLady and Christina, Thank you and you related to my post. Last week, I decided to tell him how I felt (I couldn't hold the pain in any longer), and went over to his place. He started crying... a lot. And told me that i'd never lose him and he'd always be here for me... and that we shared beautiful, simple memories... I told him I didn't want to be a memory but that something had to change... I made it clear that I wasnt asking for him to be more emotional or affectionate, just for him to pay a little more attention to me. Anyways, to make a long story short, i slept over, and we "slept" together, if you know what i mean.... I had to leave early the next morning for school, so we never really concluded anything. Last time we spoke was thursday, we said we'd give everything some more thought and talk Today (Sunday). Ive had the strongest urge to call him ever since i last spoke to him, because i know that that's the worst thing to do with an aqua. They hate clingers! So it's almost 10pm, and I am still waiting to resolve this issue... I think I still want to be with him for some reason... I haven't been sleeping or eating and this guy is driving me nuts!! Should I call?? ughhhh LibraLady and Christina,

Thank you and you related to my post.

Last week, I decided to tell him how I felt (I couldn’t hold the pain in any longer), and went over to his place.
He started crying… a lot. And told me that i’d never lose him and he’d always be here for me… and that we shared beautiful, simple memories…

I told him I didn’t want to be a memory but that something had to change…
I made it clear that I wasnt asking for him to be more emotional or affectionate, just for him to pay a little more attention to me.

Anyways, to make a long story short, i slept over, and we “slept” together, if you know what i mean…. I had to leave early the next morning for school, so we never really concluded anything.

Last time we spoke was thursday, we said we’d give everything some more thought and talk Today (Sunday).
Ive had the strongest urge to call him ever since i last spoke to him, because i know that that’s the worst thing to do with an aqua. They hate clingers!

So it’s almost 10pm, and I am still waiting to resolve this issue… I think I still want to be with him for some reason…

I haven’t been sleeping or eating and this guy is driving me nuts!!

Should I call??
ughhhh

]]> By: Christina http://sasstrology.com/2007/08/worst-way-to-break-up-with-aquarius.html/comment-page-3#comment-53836 Christina Wed, 28 Oct 2009 05:37:27 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/08/22/the-worst-way-to-break-up-with-aquarius/#comment-53836 This article helped me out so much. i have such a great friendship with my boyfriend (aquarious) and i was so scared that breaking up with him would ruin what we have. reading this made me more conifident on telling him how i feel. im a taurus and ive realized we are way too different for eachother. im excited to let him know how i feel tomorrow, without being scared he's gonna snap at me. thanks This article helped me out so much. i have such a great friendship with my boyfriend (aquarious) and i was so scared that breaking up with him would ruin what we have. reading this made me more conifident on telling him how i feel. im a taurus and ive realized we are way too different for eachother. im excited to let him know how i feel tomorrow, without being scared he’s gonna snap at me. thanks

]]> By: LibraLady http://sasstrology.com/2007/08/worst-way-to-break-up-with-aquarius.html/comment-page-3#comment-53652 LibraLady Mon, 26 Oct 2009 18:46:49 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/08/22/the-worst-way-to-break-up-with-aquarius/#comment-53652 Alexandra That is so sad, I almost cried when I read your post....I hope that you find someone else soon. Me too, I was so emotionally attached to my Aqua BF, he wasnt as cruel as yours, we hadnt gotten to the physical stage yet, but it still hurt when he left after asking me to marry him....I still love him but Ive waited so long for him now that its obvious that I need to move on. As for your situation, I hope that you have familly around to help, being a single mother myself (libra ex took off when kid was 4) I have been lucky to have so much support from my familly.. Dont let it wear you down, keep positive that baby will give you more love then any man will Alexandra
That is so sad, I almost cried when I read your post….I hope that you find someone else soon. Me too, I was so emotionally attached to my Aqua BF, he wasnt as cruel as yours, we hadnt gotten to the physical stage yet, but it still hurt when he left after asking me to marry him….I still love him but Ive waited so long for him now that its obvious that I need to move on. As for your situation, I hope that you have familly around to help, being a single mother myself (libra ex took off when kid was 4) I have been lucky to have so much support from my familly.. Dont let it wear you down, keep positive that baby will give you more love then any man will

]]> By: Alexandra http://sasstrology.com/2007/08/worst-way-to-break-up-with-aquarius.html/comment-page-2#comment-53423 Alexandra Thu, 22 Oct 2009 23:25:24 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/08/22/the-worst-way-to-break-up-with-aquarius/#comment-53423 I have been with an Aquarius guy (won't dare to call him a man) for almost 2 years now. I am Sagittarius, scorpio rising, moon in aries, sag. venus, he is moon in leo, venus in capricorn, and taurus rising i believe. He has left me 3 times. First time was for 4-5 days, second was about 2 hours, third was 1 hour. LOL. I have just found out that the first time, he went out and slept with another girl, and then decided to call me back, and made sure i didnt find out. UNTIL NOW, i have found out that he has lied to me SO MANY TIMES. He got me pregnant this summer and STAYED AWAY, was so UNSUPPORTIVE i cannot even describe. Complete asshole, he was with another girl while i was pregnant with his kid!!!!!!! He is still lying to me and i know because i have proof, but keeps on telling me he is completely honest. He has always been unaffectionate, it doesn't even feel like he ever gives a sh*t about me, or anything i do. He's a DJ on top of that, and just got signed to a label, so now he's walking around like he's the center of the world and everyone should look up to him. I AM STARTING TO HIM HIM I thought this man was the love of my life, the deepest person, the only one who understands me. Turns out, he's a lying sack of sh*t, who only wants sex and attention. I am still with him because my stupid Scorpio rising and other factors make me so emotionally attached and co-dependant, but i am at the point of ending it. Within the next week hopefully, this coward will know what I have been with an Aquarius guy (won’t dare to call him a man) for almost 2 years now. I am Sagittarius, scorpio rising, moon in aries, sag. venus, he is moon in leo, venus in capricorn, and taurus rising i believe.

He has left me 3 times. First time was for 4-5 days, second was about 2 hours, third was 1 hour. LOL.
I have just found out that the first time, he went out and slept with another girl, and then decided to call me back, and made sure i didnt find out.
UNTIL NOW, i have found out that he has lied to me SO MANY TIMES.

He got me pregnant this summer and STAYED AWAY, was so UNSUPPORTIVE i cannot even describe. Complete a******, he was with another girl while i was pregnant with his kid!!!!!!!

He is still lying to me and i know because i have proof, but keeps on telling me he is completely honest.

He has always been unaffectionate, it doesn’t even feel like he ever gives a sh*t about me, or anything i do.
He’s a DJ on top of that, and just got signed to a label, so now he’s walking around like he’s the center of the world and everyone should look up to him.

I AM STARTING TO HIM HIM

I thought this man was the love of my life, the deepest person, the only one who understands me. Turns out, he’s a lying sack of sh*t, who only wants sex and attention.

I am still with him because my stupid Scorpio rising and other factors make me so emotionally attached and co-dependant, but i am at the point of ending it.

Within the next week hopefully, this coward will know what

]]> By: FaithfulLibran http://sasstrology.com/2007/08/worst-way-to-break-up-with-aquarius.html/comment-page-2#comment-53403 FaithfulLibran Thu, 22 Oct 2009 16:39:51 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/08/22/the-worst-way-to-break-up-with-aquarius/#comment-53403 TCA & Aquarian - I am so glad to read your comments, and so grateful for your advice. To be honest and open is what I am all about, and I am ready to do as you suggested. Thank you, and wish me luck! TCA & Aquarian – I am so glad to read your comments, and so grateful for your advice. To be honest and open is what I am all about, and I am ready to do as you suggested.
Thank you, and wish me luck!

]]> By: Aquarian http://sasstrology.com/2007/08/worst-way-to-break-up-with-aquarius.html/comment-page-2#comment-53369 Aquarian Thu, 22 Oct 2009 05:39:03 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/08/22/the-worst-way-to-break-up-with-aquarius/#comment-53369 I agree with TCA and if he responded negatively at your openness, no matter how upset you are after hearing it, tell him to think about it and set a date to discuss further when you two have the time to think about what just happened. Aquarius often reacts conventionally as if they do not care at first and may say thing that sounded like they don't have feeling but often not that simple. When I first asked my ex whether he was dating others, he said yes and then instantly I gave him this biggest smile and said I was happy for him. You see that was what was conventionally expected of me but I was like shaking and holding back my tears. My ex was so upset with my response even though he was in the wrong and supposedly moved on. I agree with TCA and if he responded negatively at your openness, no matter how upset you are after hearing it, tell him to think about it and set a date to discuss further when you two have the time to think about what just happened. Aquarius often reacts conventionally as if they do not care at first and may say thing that sounded like they don’t have feeling but often not that simple. When I first asked my ex whether he was dating others, he said yes and then instantly I gave him this biggest smile and said I was happy for him. You see that was what was conventionally expected of me but I was like shaking and holding back my tears. My ex was so upset with my response even though he was in the wrong and supposedly moved on.

]]> By: TCA http://sasstrology.com/2007/08/worst-way-to-break-up-with-aquarius.html/comment-page-2#comment-53341 TCA Wed, 21 Oct 2009 20:19:45 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/08/22/the-worst-way-to-break-up-with-aquarius/#comment-53341 FaithfulLibran - Your welcome. You should know though that you could be setting yourself up to wait a while if your waiting for him to just come out with his feelings. Aquas don't really dig confrontational type situations and will often try to logic themselves out of feeling something just so they can move on. It's really only in the most dire situations that they just come out with it quickly. So if the circumstances really bothered you that much the best thing I could suggest for you to do is not wait for him to come out with his feelings. Just bite the bullet make an honest apology and tell him why the circumstances bothered you. It sounds like its more about what happened than it is about him really. Also if he's often misjudged and he's been clear about that with you then it probably also affected him more by being misjudged by someone that knows that. That could also be a reason for him being silent. Doubt is a relationship killer. However doubt exists for a reason its your intuition telling you to keep an open eye, and an open ear and an open mind. Ignoring your intuition only allows you do live in a state of denial. While over believing it leads a person to jump to conclusions. Find your balance libra. FaithfulLibran – Your welcome. You should know though that you could be setting yourself up to wait a while if your waiting for him to just come out with his feelings. Aquas don’t really dig confrontational type situations and will often try to logic themselves out of feeling something just so they can move on. It’s really only in the most dire situations that they just come out with it quickly.

So if the circumstances really bothered you that much the best thing I could suggest for you to do is not wait for him to come out with his feelings. Just bite the bullet make an honest apology and tell him why the circumstances bothered you. It sounds like its more about what happened than it is about him really. Also if he’s often misjudged and he’s been clear about that with you then it probably also affected him more by being misjudged by someone that knows that. That could also be a reason for him being silent.

Doubt is a relationship killer. However doubt exists for a reason its your intuition telling you to keep an open eye, and an open ear and an open mind. Ignoring your intuition only allows you do live in a state of denial. While over believing it leads a person to jump to conclusions. Find your balance libra.

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