The worst way to break up with Aquarius
August 22, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
Friendship can be more important to the Aquarius man than romance, so a breakup ending with, “And I never want to see you again!” can be particularly hard on the Water Bearer. And, although “Let’s stay friends” can be the salt on a wound to many others, the Aquarian will say, “Coolio!”
You see, the Aquarius man isn’t going to be as devastated by the ending of a relationship as those born under some other signs, so maintaining a friendship isn’t as painful for him. He’s not going to be jealous when you talk to other guys. He’s not going to pine for you and sing love ballads from outside your window.
As much as the Aquarian needs distance, he doesn’t want you cut off from his community. Speaking of which … another bad way of breaking up with an Aquarius is by creating subdivisions among his circle of friends. This egalitarian sign isn’t all too keen on group rifts, so don’t spread malicious half-truths or try to get the majority of your mutual friends to take sides with you. They ought to (according to Aquarius) be able to view the breakup with some perspective, respect the reasons for the demise of the relationship, and not get all emotional about it! It’s not like they slept with him — you did! — so why should they be all that invested?
Can’t we all just get along?
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I have been with an Aquarius guy (won’t dare to call him a man) for almost 2 years now. I am Sagittarius, scorpio rising, moon in aries, sag. venus, he is moon in leo, venus in capricorn, and taurus rising i believe.
He has left me 3 times. First time was for 4-5 days, second was about 2 hours, third was 1 hour. LOL.
I have just found out that the first time, he went out and slept with another girl, and then decided to call me back, and made sure i didnt find out.
UNTIL NOW, i have found out that he has lied to me SO MANY TIMES.
He got me pregnant this summer and STAYED AWAY, was so UNSUPPORTIVE i cannot even describe. Complete a******, he was with another girl while i was pregnant with his kid!!!!!!!
He is still lying to me and i know because i have proof, but keeps on telling me he is completely honest.
He has always been unaffectionate, it doesn’t even feel like he ever gives a sh*t about me, or anything i do.
He’s a DJ on top of that, and just got signed to a label, so now he’s walking around like he’s the center of the world and everyone should look up to him.
I AM STARTING TO HIM HIM
I thought this man was the love of my life, the deepest person, the only one who understands me. Turns out, he’s a lying sack of sh*t, who only wants sex and attention.
I am still with him because my stupid Scorpio rising and other factors make me so emotionally attached and co-dependant, but i am at the point of ending it.
Within the next week hopefully, this coward will know what
Alexandra
That is so sad, I almost cried when I read your post….I hope that you find someone else soon. Me too, I was so emotionally attached to my Aqua BF, he wasnt as cruel as yours, we hadnt gotten to the physical stage yet, but it still hurt when he left after asking me to marry him….I still love him but Ive waited so long for him now that its obvious that I need to move on. As for your situation, I hope that you have familly around to help, being a single mother myself (libra ex took off when kid was 4) I have been lucky to have so much support from my familly.. Dont let it wear you down, keep positive that baby will give you more love then any man will
This article helped me out so much. i have such a great friendship with my boyfriend (aquarious) and i was so scared that breaking up with him would ruin what we have. reading this made me more conifident on telling him how i feel. im a taurus and ive realized we are way too different for eachother. im excited to let him know how i feel tomorrow, without being scared he’s gonna snap at me. thanks
LibraLady and Christina,
Thank you and you related to my post.
Last week, I decided to tell him how I felt (I couldn’t hold the pain in any longer), and went over to his place.
He started crying… a lot. And told me that i’d never lose him and he’d always be here for me… and that we shared beautiful, simple memories…
I told him I didn’t want to be a memory but that something had to change…
I made it clear that I wasnt asking for him to be more emotional or affectionate, just for him to pay a little more attention to me.
Anyways, to make a long story short, i slept over, and we “slept” together, if you know what i mean…. I had to leave early the next morning for school, so we never really concluded anything.
Last time we spoke was thursday, we said we’d give everything some more thought and talk Today (Sunday).
Ive had the strongest urge to call him ever since i last spoke to him, because i know that that’s the worst thing to do with an aqua. They hate clingers!
So it’s almost 10pm, and I am still waiting to resolve this issue… I think I still want to be with him for some reason…
I haven’t been sleeping or eating and this guy is driving me nuts!!
Should I call??
ughhhh