there’s heavy mind-climate for most people: saturn is retrograde in libra, that makes it easy to find fault in relations. there’s no genuine affection here – but time for reality assessment.

there’s mars retrograde in leo. that makes for _a lot_ of “genuine frustration”, if creative energies can’t express themselves.

there’s ongoing saturn (in libra: friendship, social relations, social obligations) square to pluto.

the day you post, we had venus-conjunct-uranus – & though many people make-themselve-believe _this_ is a passage to “freedom”…; well actually it’s just disruption.

next week we’ll have venus-square-pluto, depending on your natal scope… that might offer power games, jealousy, dependency or… a transformation for a revived honest relationship.

but too bad… next week also we enter venus-opposition-saturn: & all fires of passions will go cold, to ashes.

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i’m pisces man even cancer arising but there’s mars & moon in leo, there’s a strong pluto, there’s a fine saturn square to neptune to keep pisces-illusion in check.

having said that:

1) you _cannot_ get a pisces “back”. actually, beware, most of them _will_ be with you – even years after you finally made decision “to quit”.

2) don’t be afraid. pisces need spaced-out-space. most pisces don’t know that, especially male – so they just drift off. into whatever kind of arena. don’t worry. it’s just what we need.

3) pisces has “boundary problems”. that is, as “all is all & we’re all inter-connected”, pisces has to learn & to adapt to (saturnian) “reality structure” – that is, “we’re separated. i _am_ _NOT_ you.” that’s really an issue.

4) “mixed messages” is exactly pisces. where most people feel inclined to “take a position” & things appear as “black” or “white” — uiiih, for pisces, what’s the difference between “black” and “white”?

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i’ve met 2 kinds of pisces males. the ones who are lying, cheating, unreliable, evasive & eager to indulge in whatever mind-obsession that’s present. & the ones who “touched their heart”: that is nourishment, inspiration, love to embody & to share.

I’VE BEEN WITH MY PISCES FOR 3 YEARS. IT HASN’T ALWAYS BEEN SMOOTH SAILING, BUT WHENEVER THINGS GET REALLY BAD, I REALIZE HOW MUCH HE MEANS TO ME AND I TRY TO MAKE IT WORK. I’M A STRONG GIRL WHEN THE GOING GETS TOUGH AND DESPITE MY FLAWS I THINK MY PISCES TRULY APPRECIATES ME.

HE STARTED SMOKING TONS OF MARIJUANA A FEW MONTHS AGO AND HE HASN’T STOPPED, EVEN THOUGH WHEN HE STARTED UP I TRIED TO WARN HIM ABOUT HIS ADDICTIONS. HE DIDN’T LISTEN. INSTEAD, HE JUST SHUT ME OUT AND BROKE UP WITH ME OVER AND OVER AGAIN. I KEEP GOING BACK TO HIM BECAUSE I CAN’T STAY AWAY. WE’VE HAD THIS PATTERN REALLY BADLY IN THE PAST FEW MONTHS. I EVEN MOVED ON AND DATED SOMEBODY ELSE BUT FOUND MYSELF BACK WITH PISCES.

I’M A LIBRA WITH A MOON IN CANCER AND A VENUS IN SCORPIO. I’M VERY POSSESSIVE, UNDERSTANDING, CARING, GENERALLY A MAGIC MYSTERY WOMAN. BUT THE PROBLEM IS, I TRY TO COMMUNICATE WITH PISCES TOO MUCH AND HE JUST SWIMS AWAY. TODAY I GOT FED UP AND YELLED AT HIM ON THE PHONE! HE AVOIDED MY CALLS AND HAS NOT CALLED ME BACK TODAY.

DESPITE THE STUFF THAT HAPPENED BETWEEN US THINGS WERE REALLY GOOD RECENTLY UP UNTIL I STARTED ACTING TOO NEEDY AND CALLING HIM TOO MUCH ON HIS TELEPHONE. I WANTED SOME REASSURANCE ABOUT HIS FEELINGS FOR ME, TO GET TO THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER, BUT HE EVADED ME, AND GOT ANNOYED, AND BROKE IT OFF WITH ME YET AGAIN.

I NEED SOME ADVICE ABOUT WHAT TO DO NOW. I WANT HIM BACK, FEELING FOR ME THE WAY HE DID WHEN THINGS WERE GOOD, BUT AT THE SAME TIME I DON’T WANT TO LOSE MY POWER OR CONTROL AGAIN AND GET TOO NEEDY AND INSECURE. I WANT TO FEEL IN CONTROL SO IT DOESN’T HAPPEN AND I CAN GIVE HIM HIS SPACE!

PLEASE GIVE ME FEEDBACK. THANK YOU AND MUCH PEACE.

Ms. queen, I don’t know what to say..I was like that before when my Bf dumped me..whatever the reason that caused of dumping you IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT. don’t beg.stop it. as I said above , the more we are chasing the man , the more they find a way to run away…we look needy dear and tehy are laughing to us.. ouchhhh. so bad baby. But no one loves you like loving yourself. Why are you so cruel to yourself. You give them to be your PRIORITY while allowing yourself to be their OPTION. BABY, MOVE ON. forget that man. learn to love yourself. Find something that which you can turn on your energy and attention. Be firm. stop complaining about yourself. Time heals. all you can do now is REST WITH GOD. the more you feel the pain the more you have to praise him. I tell you, God knows how you struggle and God is waiting for you when you give all your heart to HIM.not this man who treated you unfair..he is powerless dear. why you want that man who can settle you for less and you look so desperate. that less matter you can give it by yourself.Twist that game into reality that “true love never play”. Stop contacting him.. give all the multiple space. if he is cruel to you tell him…he’s not the type of man who can bruise your ego..just leave even if it hurts and just brush off your shoulder. I masteres any relationship.I’ve been with great professionals men in my life. Now , It makes me tougher to any man. men didn’t know when I fall in love..I won’t let him know that.I don’t give all the access to any men out to pass my life… opps I am just but a private woman. Ms. quenn enough begging dear. be smart. not his doormat.

Wish you can overcome that situation. Just pray and GOD will make it alright.
Give him some time to think. don’t panic dear. If that guy truly loves you then he will come back to you. Just Be strong.