Comments on: Loving an Immature Leo http://sasstrology.com/2007/08/loving-immature-leo.html Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:52:42 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: anotherariesgirl http://sasstrology.com/2007/08/loving-immature-leo.html/comment-page-3#comment-54262 anotherariesgirl Mon, 02 Nov 2009 03:05:58 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/08/25/loving-an-immature-leo/#comment-54262 jolie, actually, i have lots of Leo guy friends and one of my cousins whom i am close with is also a Leo. but they are very competitive. me and my cousin are almost the same age and i remember when we're kids, he'd always try to outshine my achievements though there's no competition in my part. we went to different schools and there was a time that we almost have to compete each other for an interschool drawing competition. but now that we're older, he became less competitive since we pursued different careers. i pursued my interest with computers and he's now in medicine profession. my ex on the other hand graduated as a computer engineer like me. but he ended up taking another path due to lack of opportunities. i only sensed that he's trying to compete with me when he'd express desire for things that i just recently acquired. sometimes i would just humble myself down so he won't feel inadequate. about the slut comment, the word came from my own mouth cuz i was so pissed at him when we broke up. he alienated me by talking to my mom, my aunt, my friends, and telling them that the current guy i'm dating is no good influence. he thought i was being rebellious because we broke up. the truth is, i ditched him. i told my mom the truth, and my aunt. i asked some of my friends to intervene so we could talk. two guy friends arranged this talk with him, cuz i know he won't listen to girls. he said it's unfair that he learned that i was sleeping with this guy then he's still trying to win me back. i told him it's none of his business and i wasn't being unfair cuz as far as i know, he's not my boyfriend anymore. i just want him to stop talking behind my back, and if he can't forgive me, at least be civil or stop stalking my friends and leave my mom alone. we're going back in circles so i thought he'd stop when i told him, "okay, so i'm a slut. are you happy? can you stop now?" next thing i knew, he told everyone that i'm a slut, ugh. i gave him a doze of his own medicine. since he mostly told everyone online that he knew, i thought of shutting down his accounts. i was able to guess his messenger password lol which connects to all of his social network accounts and e-mails. i changed all his passwords and saved all the conversations with the lies that he told to my friends. after that, i sent those conversations to the friends he alienated me from. after reading the whole thing they were like, "wtf is wrong with this guy. i never knew he'd say that cuz he sounded nice and was playing the victim." his coworker, whom i befriended sent me a message saying my ex looked like he's going to cry when he can't sign in his accounts lol. he's able to retrieve one of his accounts later on, and even sent my boyfriend (which is the guy i was dating that time) an e-mail saying i hacked his account. he's trying to give the impression that i was obsessed with him. my boyfriend knew about this even before i did it. my bf replied with, "i know that, dude. she did that because you are being a d%ck. she wants you to shut the hell up." he still appeared to the forums i frequent, telling people i hacked his account. i kept quiet and let him act like a fool. people got annoyed by him cuz he kept talking about it nonstop lol. though karma still got him by now, the karma i brought him really blew his ego down the drain. jolie,

actually, i have lots of Leo guy friends and one of my cousins whom i am close with is also a Leo. but they are very competitive. me and my cousin are almost the same age and i remember when we’re kids, he’d always try to outshine my achievements though there’s no competition in my part. we went to different schools and there was a time that we almost have to compete each other for an interschool drawing competition. but now that we’re older, he became less competitive since we pursued different careers. i pursued my interest with computers and he’s now in medicine profession. my ex on the other hand graduated as a computer engineer like me. but he ended up taking another path due to lack of opportunities. i only sensed that he’s trying to compete with me when he’d express desire for things that i just recently acquired. sometimes i would just humble myself down so he won’t feel inadequate.

about the slut comment, the word came from my own mouth cuz i was so pissed at him when we broke up. he alienated me by talking to my mom, my aunt, my friends, and telling them that the current guy i’m dating is no good influence. he thought i was being rebellious because we broke up. the truth is, i ditched him. i told my mom the truth, and my aunt. i asked some of my friends to intervene so we could talk. two guy friends arranged this talk with him, cuz i know he won’t listen to girls. he said it’s unfair that he learned that i was sleeping with this guy then he’s still trying to win me back. i told him it’s none of his business and i wasn’t being unfair cuz as far as i know, he’s not my boyfriend anymore. i just want him to stop talking behind my back, and if he can’t forgive me, at least be civil or stop stalking my friends and leave my mom alone. we’re going back in circles so i thought he’d stop when i told him, “okay, so i’m a slut. are you happy? can you stop now?”

next thing i knew, he told everyone that i’m a slut, ugh. i gave him a doze of his own medicine. since he mostly told everyone online that he knew, i thought of shutting down his accounts. i was able to guess his messenger password lol which connects to all of his social network accounts and e-mails. i changed all his passwords and saved all the conversations with the lies that he told to my friends. after that, i sent those conversations to the friends he alienated me from. after reading the whole thing they were like, “wtf is wrong with this guy. i never knew he’d say that cuz he sounded nice and was playing the victim.”

his coworker, whom i befriended sent me a message saying my ex looked like he’s going to cry when he can’t sign in his accounts lol. he’s able to retrieve one of his accounts later on, and even sent my boyfriend (which is the guy i was dating that time) an e-mail saying i hacked his account. he’s trying to give the impression that i was obsessed with him. my boyfriend knew about this even before i did it. my bf replied with, “i know that, dude. she did that because you are being a d%ck. she wants you to shut the hell up.”

he still appeared to the forums i frequent, telling people i hacked his account. i kept quiet and let him act like a fool. people got annoyed by him cuz he kept talking about it nonstop lol. though karma still got him by now, the karma i brought him really blew his ego down the drain.

]]> By: Jolie http://sasstrology.com/2007/08/loving-immature-leo.html/comment-page-3#comment-54190 Jolie Sat, 31 Oct 2009 12:57:32 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/08/25/loving-an-immature-leo/#comment-54190 @ anotherariesgirl: uhm i think what you said about the jealousy thing is true, he was indeed very jealous of me, because everyone was saying, openly or not, that i was too good for him and that he was never going to find someone better than me. about your situation, although is none of my business, your ex sounds like a total son of a bitch-saying that you were a slut? oh my god,i constantly forget that such people exist. how did you torture the hell out of him? i'd be curious to know:) @ anotherariesgirl:
uhm i think what you said about the jealousy thing is true, he was indeed very jealous of me, because everyone was saying, openly or not, that i was too good for him and that he was never going to find someone better than me.
about your situation, although is none of my business, your ex sounds like a total son of a bitch-saying that you were a slut? oh my god,i constantly forget that such people exist.
how did you torture the hell out of him? i’d be curious to know:)

]]> By: anotherariesgirl http://sasstrology.com/2007/08/loving-immature-leo.html/comment-page-3#comment-54094 anotherariesgirl Fri, 30 Oct 2009 05:11:27 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/08/25/loving-an-immature-leo/#comment-54094 if he doesn't say anything good about you, it's because he's jealous of you lol. my ex never even had a girlfriend before me. yet he struts and tells everyone like he's don juan incarnate. i think he only went after me because when i met him, most of the guys were eager to meet me. he pursued me literally everyday because there were 2 guys trying to get me on a date. he likes the attention he gets whenever a guy would look at me when we're walking together. it's like i'm an accessory that other men should envy him for argh! when he gained status, and you know how other girls like attached men, he'd make up stories that he's busy, etc. i tortured the hell out of him later on after all the things he said to me. karma is such a b*tch for him when i left. the girls who would go after him before lost interest because of his inflated ego. i posted before that he spread rumors about me that i am a sl*t and things that weren't true between us. so everytime someone asks me about him, i'd just tell them that he was a broken-hearted virgin and i took it from him LOL sad but true, he lost his virginity at 28 hahaha if he doesn’t say anything good about you, it’s because he’s jealous of you lol. my ex never even had a girlfriend before me. yet he struts and tells everyone like he’s don juan incarnate. i think he only went after me because when i met him, most of the guys were eager to meet me. he pursued me literally everyday because there were 2 guys trying to get me on a date.

he likes the attention he gets whenever a guy would look at me when we’re walking together. it’s like i’m an accessory that other men should envy him for argh! when he gained status, and you know how other girls like attached men, he’d make up stories that he’s busy, etc. i tortured the hell out of him later on after all the things he said to me.

karma is such a b*tch for him when i left. the girls who would go after him before lost interest because of his inflated ego. i posted before that he spread rumors about me that i am a sl*t and things that weren’t true between us. so everytime someone asks me about him, i’d just tell them that he was a broken-hearted virgin and i took it from him LOL

sad but true, he lost his virginity at 28 hahaha

]]> By: Jolie http://sasstrology.com/2007/08/loving-immature-leo.html/comment-page-3#comment-54089 Jolie Fri, 30 Oct 2009 03:42:51 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/08/25/loving-an-immature-leo/#comment-54089 i'm a cancer girl and i had a story with a leo man. we started sleeping together (i live in sweden and boy, here dating is something unheard of...) and then it developed into a strange thing...we were together but we were not. in a strange way i felt i had to comply with his bullsh!t because i felt he also cared about me, and i still feel like it. he was an a$$hole nevertheless, treating me badly, bossing me around, making me feel like crap about myself, wanting to be adored and sucked up to when he never had a good word for me. yet i knew that this was just the shell, and i think that with this kind of men you just feel it before you get a clear response. i mean it is obvious the man is a liar and a con (something a previous comment said) when he's playing with several women at the same time but my man had only me, so i kinda knew...anyways. we ended the story when he had to leave the country and now we still see each other sporadically and never talk too much, and only in public. hasn't called, haven't called. what for? it was psychological warfare indeed because i was so longing for him and he was never there for me. so i got tired of 'feeling' he reciprocates and forgave him. it's as simple as that. it took me months to get over him but i'm clean now. i would never take him back considering his past record and i know people don't change overnight, especially a man like him, arrogant, selfish, full of himself. everyone has their own flaws and we're all selfish animals if you boil down the instinctual story but there are also things that differentiate us from animals- we have feeling as we have the articulate language for example. somehow this man was never able to verbalize anything positive towards me and i got tired, at one given point my system just cracked and i couldn't take it anymore. end of the story. i missed him desperately, there were days i didn't want to get out of bed and it hurt like a bitch but i've moved on. now it seems like a journey of a thousand years but i've put him past me. and i know this is not the thing to say on an astrology-related forum but i think a$$holeness is in the eye of the beholder and anyone can be an asshole. it is true that leos are crappier than other with respect to egos. this guy was like a soviet missile.totally destroyed me, and i really loved him. uhm what can i do. if you're in a passive-aggressive relationship with a leo take the aforementioned advice-RUN! i’m a cancer girl and i had a story with a leo man. we started sleeping together (i live in sweden and boy, here dating is something unheard of…) and then it developed into a strange thing…we were together but we were not. in a strange way i felt i had to comply with his bullsh!t because i felt he also cared about me, and i still feel like it. he was an a$$hole nevertheless, treating me badly, bossing me around, making me feel like crap about myself, wanting to be adored and sucked up to when he never had a good word for me. yet i knew that this was just the shell, and i think that with this kind of men you just feel it before you get a clear response. i mean it is obvious the man is a liar and a con (something a previous comment said) when he’s playing with several women at the same time but my man had only me, so i kinda knew…anyways. we ended the story when he had to leave the country and now we still see each other sporadically and never talk too much, and only in public. hasn’t called, haven’t called. what for? it was psychological warfare indeed because i was so longing for him and he was never there for me. so i got tired of ‘feeling’ he reciprocates and forgave him. it’s as simple as that. it took me months to get over him but i’m clean now. i would never take him back considering his past record and i know people don’t change overnight, especially a man like him, arrogant, selfish, full of himself. everyone has their own flaws and we’re all selfish animals if you boil down the instinctual story but there are also things that differentiate us from animals- we have feeling as we have the articulate language for example. somehow this man was never able to verbalize anything positive towards me and i got tired, at one given point my system just cracked and i couldn’t take it anymore. end of the story.
i missed him desperately, there were days i didn’t want to get out of bed and it hurt like a bitch but i’ve moved on. now it seems like a journey of a thousand years but i’ve put him past me.
and i know this is not the thing to say on an astrology-related forum but i think a$$holeness is in the eye of the beholder and anyone can be an a******. it is true that leos are crappier than other with respect to egos. this guy was like a soviet missile.totally destroyed me, and i really loved him. uhm what can i do. if you’re in a passive-aggressive relationship with a leo take the aforementioned advice-RUN!

]]> By: eccenwoman http://sasstrology.com/2007/08/loving-immature-leo.html/comment-page-2#comment-50830 eccenwoman Wed, 30 Sep 2009 13:31:21 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/08/25/loving-an-immature-leo/#comment-50830 Curious to know what others have experienced with a Leo sun with Libra rising (Aquar moon), I'm an Aquarius sun w/Scorp rising. I've recently started dating one and seem to be falling hard but can't seem to figure him out. Any insight would be great!! Curious to know what others have experienced with a Leo sun with Libra rising (Aquar moon), I’m an Aquarius sun w/Scorp rising. I’ve recently started dating one and seem to be falling hard but can’t seem to figure him out. Any insight would be great!!

]]> By: Margaret http://sasstrology.com/2007/08/loving-immature-leo.html/comment-page-2#comment-49450 Margaret Mon, 21 Sep 2009 06:04:47 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/08/25/loving-an-immature-leo/#comment-49450 OMG...I(Virgo woman) have been involved with a Leo man for 7+ years...it has been a roller coaster! I live in Costa Rica and he is Tico (costa rican). I don't know why I keep hoping that things will smooth out...I have been through the wringer...anyway he has been gone for 4 months as a captain of a yacht to bring from Texas to Costa Rica...he is finally due in tomorrow...can't believe I am reading this tonight...uncanny... talk about immature...I just hope that this long sea voyage with its huge responsibility will have taken him to another level... God help me What am I in for...every year things have gotten worse...right now the DNA test for a child he was told he fathered (while I was away) came out positive. the truth is I can handle that if he would just grow the f--- up and face life like a man! Wish me luck..there is tons more involved..property and houses especially..we are complicated..and the whole story? it is long and very dramatic..why do I persist? guess we will find out soon enough if i do... thanks for listening Margaret OMG…I(Virgo woman) have been involved with a Leo man for 7+ years…it has been a roller coaster! I live in Costa Rica and he is Tico (costa rican). I don’t know why I keep hoping that things will smooth out…I have been through the wringer…anyway he has been gone for 4 months as a captain of a yacht to bring from Texas to Costa Rica…he is finally due in tomorrow…can’t believe I am reading this tonight…uncanny…
talk about immature…I just hope that this long sea voyage with its huge responsibility will have taken him to another level…
God help me
What am I in for…every year things have gotten worse…right now the DNA test for a child he was told he fathered (while I was away) came out positive. the truth is I can handle that if he would just grow the f— up and face life like a man!
Wish me luck..there is tons more involved..property and houses especially..we are complicated..and the whole story? it is long and very dramatic..why do I persist? guess we will find out soon enough if i do…
thanks for listening
Margaret

]]> By: Marcy http://sasstrology.com/2007/08/loving-immature-leo.html/comment-page-2#comment-46700 Marcy Fri, 28 Aug 2009 07:55:47 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/08/25/loving-an-immature-leo/#comment-46700 I had a Leo as a romantic interest. He was this, it all makes sense why we weren't compatible. It was very one-sided because I wanted to do everything for him/give him everything which left me feeling neglected instead of rewarded. I had a Leo as a romantic interest. He was this, it all makes sense why we weren’t compatible. It was very one-sided because I wanted to do everything for him/give him everything which left me feeling neglected instead of rewarded.

]]> By: Leogal13 http://sasstrology.com/2007/08/loving-immature-leo.html/comment-page-2#comment-45785 Leogal13 Wed, 19 Aug 2009 19:54:10 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/08/25/loving-an-immature-leo/#comment-45785 OMG ! Im a leo myself and i totally relate to Sapphire8's story. I am going through the same exact thing with my immature leo (ex) WHY MUST LEOS BE SO COMPLICATED ? I dated my leo for a while and at the moment he was giving me EVERYTHING i wanted and the attention ? I was getting it, oviously me being a typical leo i ****ed it up and broke up with him for an ex that i thought i still had feelings for (he doesnt know that though). A month after my Leo guy starts dating a Libra girl, and oviously that was short lived because HE broke up with her. I still dont know for what reason their relationship didnt work out and honestly i could care less BUT im aware of what he was doing.. As a LEO i would know we DO NOT like to look stupid, but seeing him walk around with another girl just pissed me off, made me secretly jealous of "what they had" and i wanted to break them up, thank GOD i didnt even have to do that because he just broke up with her. NOW im trying to get him back, i did realize that he is the person i want to be with and that i was just scared of falling for him. IT IS EXTREMELY HARD for a LEO to open their heart up to someone especially someone who seems almost perfect, we would think something is up and we like to have something to work at.. I dont know i guess now ive seen him act distant and all guarded towards me, we are still intimate here and there BUT i dont just want that, everytime i talk to him (which lately it has been almost NEVER) but when i did he seems really hurt by what i did to him. I dont think he expected me to do that to him, he even told me himself its hard to even consider getting back with me because he believes i might just do it again. BUT I WONT !! im whilling to do everything to gain back his trust, and it has been the hardest thing i have ever tried to do in MY LIFE to get him back. WHAT DO I DO ? im so anxious and im so sad thinking i really lost a great guy over some old ex boyfriend who doesnt even compare to my Leo guy. My moon is in taurus and my venus is in cancer, and his Moon is in Cancer and his venus is in virgo. can someone state their opinion please so i atleast know how to start off lol, i dont know what to do ! im a leo too i want attention and he is being mean just acting like he doesnt care !! but yet when we are good he is all over me ? I DO NOT GET HIM ! OMG ! Im a leo myself and i totally relate to Sapphire8’s story. I am going through the same exact thing with my immature leo (ex) WHY MUST LEOS BE SO COMPLICATED ? I dated my leo for a while and at the moment he was giving me EVERYTHING i wanted and the attention ? I was getting it, oviously me being a typical leo i ****ed it up and broke up with him for an ex that i thought i still had feelings for (he doesnt know that though). A month after my Leo guy starts dating a Libra girl, and oviously that was short lived because HE broke up with her. I still dont know for what reason their relationship didnt work out and honestly i could care less BUT im aware of what he was doing.. As a LEO i would know we DO NOT like to look stupid, but seeing him walk around with another girl just pissed me off, made me secretly jealous of “what they had” and i wanted to break them up, thank GOD i didnt even have to do that because he just broke up with her. NOW im trying to get him back, i did realize that he is the person i want to be with and that i was just scared of falling for him. IT IS EXTREMELY HARD for a LEO to open their heart up to someone especially someone who seems almost perfect, we would think something is up and we like to have something to work at.. I dont know i guess now ive seen him act distant and all guarded towards me, we are still intimate here and there BUT i dont just want that, everytime i talk to him (which lately it has been almost NEVER) but when i did he seems really hurt by what i did to him. I dont think he expected me to do that to him, he even told me himself its hard to even consider getting back with me because he believes i might just do it again. BUT I WONT !! im whilling to do everything to gain back his trust, and it has been the hardest thing i have ever tried to do in MY LIFE to get him back. WHAT DO I DO ? im so anxious and im so sad thinking i really lost a great guy over some old ex boyfriend who doesnt even compare to my Leo guy. My moon is in taurus and my venus is in cancer, and his Moon is in Cancer and his venus is in virgo. can someone state their opinion please so i atleast know how to start off lol, i dont know what to do ! im a leo too i want attention and he is being mean just acting like he doesnt care !! but yet when we are good he is all over me ? I DO NOT GET HIM !

]]> By: Ness http://sasstrology.com/2007/08/loving-immature-leo.html/comment-page-2#comment-45291 Ness Sat, 15 Aug 2009 18:06:55 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/08/25/loving-an-immature-leo/#comment-45291 Well, this has been my experience with a Leo man...we were married for 17 yrs. He was so different from any man I had ever met. caring, compassionate, loyal, dedicated...I though I had died and gone to heaven with him. Then as the years went on...I got to see the real him...indecisive, moody, critical. Nothing I did was good enough for him, always finding fault with everything. Never could make a decision always flip flopping back between A and B. Cranky and grouchy and just not pleasant because of his frustration with his own inadequacies. In short, we separated 5 years ago and still he did not know if wasnted to be divorced. Now he has a girlffiend, sho ironically has been his friend for like 10 yrs. How convenient. Yet he still up till the other day does not know what he wants, who he is and had the nerve to tell me that he will be sad if I get with someone and be happy!! HELLO!!!! Well, this has been my experience with a Leo man…we were married for 17 yrs. He was so different from any man I had ever met. caring, compassionate, loyal, dedicated…I though I had died and gone to heaven with him. Then as the years went on…I got to see the real him…indecisive, moody, critical. Nothing I did was good enough for him, always finding fault with everything. Never could make a decision always flip flopping back between A and B. Cranky and grouchy and just not pleasant because of his frustration with his own inadequacies. In short, we separated 5 years ago and still he did not know if wasnted to be divorced. Now he has a girlffiend, sho ironically has been his friend for like 10 yrs. How convenient. Yet he still up till the other day does not know what he wants, who he is and had the nerve to tell me that he will be sad if I get with someone and be happy!! HELLO!!!!

]]> By: luvalileebra http://sasstrology.com/2007/08/loving-immature-leo.html/comment-page-2#comment-45284 luvalileebra Sat, 15 Aug 2009 17:07:00 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2007/08/25/loving-an-immature-leo/#comment-45284 Leo men are sexy as the sun is bright, extremely charming, magnetic and generous but MY G-D, how long can you keep feeding that ego?! It's like a bottomless pit -- you have to keep telling them how wonderful they are, agreeing with them when they say how wonderful they are and alas, if you should ever challenge or question them, they might just relegate you to the proverbial "peanut gallery," question your loyalty and then bug the heck out of you for constant reassurance after they (finally) realize that the suggestions you were making were helpful or that your criticism was constructive afterall. I dated two accomplished and proud Leo men who were extremely handsome in the trademark regal way -- one in college and the other after I started working. I also worked for a successful Leo boss who indicated that he was interested in having a relationship. Their confidence and ability to command any situation is soooooo attractive -- if they would only realize that they can share the spotlight without losing their brilliance/radiance and that the more that others shine around them, the brighter/better they look. These men have no problem building themselves up at anyone and everyone's expense and what's so infuriating is that they often do it in public. Mind you, most Leos cannot tolerate anything less than absolute adoration in public. As friends, I've often found that Leo women can be the exact same way. I have friends of both sexes who are Leos; although I genuinely like them, I have learned to sometimes keep them at arm's length - I can only take them in doses. Leo men are sexy as the sun is bright, extremely charming, magnetic and generous but MY G-D, how long can you keep feeding that ego?! It’s like a bottomless pit — you have to keep telling them how wonderful they are, agreeing with them when they say how wonderful they are and alas, if you should ever challenge or question them, they might just relegate you to the proverbial “peanut gallery,” question your loyalty and then bug the heck out of you for constant reassurance after they (finally) realize that the suggestions you were making were helpful or that your criticism was constructive afterall. I dated two accomplished and proud Leo men who were extremely handsome in the trademark regal way — one in college and the other after I started working. I also worked for a successful Leo boss who indicated that he was interested in having a relationship. Their confidence and ability to command any situation is soooooo attractive — if they would only realize that they can share the spotlight without losing their brilliance/radiance and that the more that others shine around them, the brighter/better they look. These men have no problem building themselves up at anyone and everyone’s expense and what’s so infuriating is that they often do it in public. Mind you, most Leos cannot tolerate anything less than absolute adoration in public. As friends, I’ve often found that Leo women can be the exact same way. I have friends of both sexes who are Leos; although I genuinely like them, I have learned to sometimes keep them at arm’s length – I can only take them in doses.

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