Leos can bring endless amounts of fun and romance into a relationship. They can also be passionately generous with their hearts, time, energy and money. But what if your Leo isn’t resembling any of this sign’s typical positive traits? What if your Leo likes to play mind games, is stingy (or worse, hot and cold) with his or her affections, dishonest or disloyal? If this is the case, then you’re in love with an immature Leo.
An immature Leo is one of the hardest signs to deal with in love, because when things are good, they’re soooo good that it almost makes it worthwhile to put up with the more difficult aspects of the immature Leo’s personality. They are usually very charming, which they can use to persuade you to see the pros of giving them their way all the time. However, this is the exact opposite of what will help them grow up and learn how to consider others in love. Like their astrological representation, the Lion, they believe themselves to be the Kings (or Queens) of the Jungle. When you cater to this belief, the immature Leo will take advantage and get stuck in the “Gimme, ’cause I deserve it” mode. They will take everything you have to offer and still want more. Nothing you do will ever be enough to convince them you are the love of their lives. The more insecure a Leo is, the more arrogant and inconsiderate he or she will act.
Ironically, the only thing this kind of Leo will respect (or respond to) is someone who has the courage to walk away. They may initially view your walking away as a sign that you don’t love them enough, but eventually they will come to respect you for not taking anymore of the crap they know they’ve been dishing out to you. (Because they’re very aware of how to leave a good impression, Leos know when they’re mistreating someone. Sidenote: RUN, don’t walk, if your Leo doesn’t care at all that he or she is disappointing you.)
As Leo’s partner, you might have come to expect that Leo won’t be able to survive without the daily doses of Vitamin A (affection), Vitamin C (compliments), Vitamin D (devotion) and Vitamin E (excitement) they’ve come to depend on from you. However, even immature Leos are very self-sufficient when left to their own devices. Either they will find someone else who will enable their “me, me, me” attitude or they will learn how to depend on themselves to get what they want. Doing the latter will help them gain the confidence that will bring out the generosity, loyalty, and lovableness that mature Leos already possess. While it will always be important to Leos that others admire them, a sign of Leo’s growing maturity is that they can recognize their own sunshine regardless of whether there’s a moon (i.e. you) around to provide a reflection.
When you’re feeling the urge to shower your immature Leo with more love, just remember that cats always land on their feet. And if they don’t, they have 8 more lifetimes to learn how…
What kind of Leo are you? How have you dealt with an immature Leo? Have you seen an immature Leo become mature?
About the Author
Jara Dan-Fodio has been gazing at the sky and observing people all of her life. After reading her first astrology book that went beyond the 12 zodiac signs 15 years ago, the patterns she noticed began to make sense. Although she dabbles in vocational, predictive and electional astrology upon request, her favorites are depth astrology and synastry. She’s an eternal student of life and astrology is just one of her many teachers. You can find more of this 8th houser’s astro-notes at Random Astrology or Twitter.
i’m a cancer girl and i had a story with a leo man. we started sleeping together (i live in sweden and boy, here dating is something unheard of…) and then it developed into a strange thing…we were together but we were not. in a strange way i felt i had to comply with his bullsh!t because i felt he also cared about me, and i still feel like it. he was an a$$hole nevertheless, treating me badly, bossing me around, making me feel like crap about myself, wanting to be adored and sucked up to when he never had a good word for me. yet i knew that this was just the shell, and i think that with this kind of men you just feel it before you get a clear response. i mean it is obvious the man is a liar and a con (something a previous comment said) when he’s playing with several women at the same time but my man had only me, so i kinda knew…anyways. we ended the story when he had to leave the country and now we still see each other sporadically and never talk too much, and only in public. hasn’t called, haven’t called. what for? it was psychological warfare indeed because i was so longing for him and he was never there for me. so i got tired of ‘feeling’ he reciprocates and forgave him. it’s as simple as that. it took me months to get over him but i’m clean now. i would never take him back considering his past record and i know people don’t change overnight, especially a man like him, arrogant, selfish, full of himself. everyone has their own flaws and we’re all selfish animals if you boil down the instinctual story but there are also things that differentiate us from animals- we have feeling as we have the articulate language for example. somehow this man was never able to verbalize anything positive towards me and i got tired, at one given point my system just cracked and i couldn’t take it anymore. end of the story.
i missed him desperately, there were days i didn’t want to get out of bed and it hurt like a bitch but i’ve moved on. now it seems like a journey of a thousand years but i’ve put him past me.
and i know this is not the thing to say on an astrology-related forum but i think a$$holeness is in the eye of the beholder and anyone can be an asshole. it is true that leos are crappier than other with respect to egos. this guy was like a soviet missile.totally destroyed me, and i really loved him. uhm what can i do. if you’re in a passive-aggressive relationship with a leo take the aforementioned advice-RUN!
if he doesn’t say anything good about you, it’s because he’s jealous of you lol. my ex never even had a girlfriend before me. yet he struts and tells everyone like he’s don juan incarnate. i think he only went after me because when i met him, most of the guys were eager to meet me. he pursued me literally everyday because there were 2 guys trying to get me on a date.
he likes the attention he gets whenever a guy would look at me when we’re walking together. it’s like i’m an accessory that other men should envy him for argh! when he gained status, and you know how other girls like attached men, he’d make up stories that he’s busy, etc. i tortured the hell out of him later on after all the things he said to me.
karma is such a b*tch for him when i left. the girls who would go after him before lost interest because of his inflated ego. i posted before that he spread rumors about me that i am a sl*t and things that weren’t true between us. so everytime someone asks me about him, i’d just tell them that he was a broken-hearted virgin and i took it from him LOL
sad but true, he lost his virginity at 28 hahaha
@ anotherariesgirl:
uhm i think what you said about the jealousy thing is true, he was indeed very jealous of me, because everyone was saying, openly or not, that i was too good for him and that he was never going to find someone better than me.
about your situation, although is none of my business, your ex sounds like a total son of a bitch-saying that you were a slut? oh my god,i constantly forget that such people exist.
how did you torture the hell out of him? i’d be curious to know:)
jolie,
actually, i have lots of Leo guy friends and one of my cousins whom i am close with is also a Leo. but they are very competitive. me and my cousin are almost the same age and i remember when we’re kids, he’d always try to outshine my achievements though there’s no competition in my part. we went to different schools and there was a time that we almost have to compete each other for an interschool drawing competition. but now that we’re older, he became less competitive since we pursued different careers. i pursued my interest with computers and he’s now in medicine profession. my ex on the other hand graduated as a computer engineer like me. but he ended up taking another path due to lack of opportunities. i only sensed that he’s trying to compete with me when he’d express desire for things that i just recently acquired. sometimes i would just humble myself down so he won’t feel inadequate.
about the slut comment, the word came from my own mouth cuz i was so pissed at him when we broke up. he alienated me by talking to my mom, my aunt, my friends, and telling them that the current guy i’m dating is no good influence. he thought i was being rebellious because we broke up. the truth is, i ditched him. i told my mom the truth, and my aunt. i asked some of my friends to intervene so we could talk. two guy friends arranged this talk with him, cuz i know he won’t listen to girls. he said it’s unfair that he learned that i was sleeping with this guy then he’s still trying to win me back. i told him it’s none of his business and i wasn’t being unfair cuz as far as i know, he’s not my boyfriend anymore. i just want him to stop talking behind my back, and if he can’t forgive me, at least be civil or stop stalking my friends and leave my mom alone. we’re going back in circles so i thought he’d stop when i told him, “okay, so i’m a slut. are you happy? can you stop now?”
next thing i knew, he told everyone that i’m a slut, ugh. i gave him a doze of his own medicine. since he mostly told everyone online that he knew, i thought of shutting down his accounts. i was able to guess his messenger password lol which connects to all of his social network accounts and e-mails. i changed all his passwords and saved all the conversations with the lies that he told to my friends. after that, i sent those conversations to the friends he alienated me from. after reading the whole thing they were like, “wtf is wrong with this guy. i never knew he’d say that cuz he sounded nice and was playing the victim.”
his coworker, whom i befriended sent me a message saying my ex looked like he’s going to cry when he can’t sign in his accounts lol. he’s able to retrieve one of his accounts later on, and even sent my boyfriend (which is the guy i was dating that time) an e-mail saying i hacked his account. he’s trying to give the impression that i was obsessed with him. my boyfriend knew about this even before i did it. my bf replied with, “i know that, dude. she did that because you are being a d%ck. she wants you to shut the hell up.”
he still appeared to the forums i frequent, telling people i hacked his account. i kept quiet and let him act like a fool. people got annoyed by him cuz he kept talking about it nonstop lol. though karma still got him by now, the karma i brought him really blew his ego down the drain.
omg i have a leo boyfriend and he is a headache. Idk what to do anymore it always feels like he is lying and he constantly TRIES to flip the script on me. But i know how to work around that because in more ways then one i am smarter then him. I believe his attention is elsewhere because i am pregnant so my body isnt like it was before even tho i still keep up with my looks (hair nails eyebrows nd clothes) but i think sincce i have gotten a little fussy and i request a little more from him he keeps away frm me and ventures out to other females because i dont please him sexually and stuff. I tried on numerous occassions to jus let go because this relationship is very stressful and i definitely dont need that right now. But he always does something that makes me what to stay… or says things that makes me wonder if i may be walking away from someone who loves me and doesnt know how to show it the way i wish he would.
Im a Sagittarian woman. Well where do i start!I met a leo guy 3 months ago on holiday..he looked after me,we hooked up,then i went home and we kept in contact. A week later he told me he had met someone else..wanted to be friends with me etc etc..Several wks later we were still mailing but its getting smutty,lots of sexual tension,no mention of the gf so i assume he only said it in the 1st place 4 my reaction and his ego! After 1 particular sexual email,he tells me hes off out to meet herself(his words) and i flipped..surely he shld be feeling bad as it is cheating but oh no not him,didnt get what the fuss was about!!We didnt speak 4 days,then he charmed his way back in..sure enuff its starts again, he has this knack of reeling me in but stops me in my tracks if i get too close or if i have an opinion but ok 4 him..At one point we got very close then he pushed me away again,harsh words were said and we didnt speak 4 a wk. He actually apologised,which i accepted, as it a rare thing.,he even said he missed me..even said he wld look after me when i come to live in his country and we are friends!! Then said hes told his gf all about me,surely not everything eh,and she wld love to meet me!! I went over last wk to sort sum things out,he met me,had a few drinks and slept with me!! He knew what he was doing,how i feel bout him.. Hasnt contacted me since…until yesterday 9 days later,(bearing in mind i had told him where to go 4 days ago)..telling ME GOODBYE!!..it didnt make sense..the email started with ‘look iam talking to u,but i just want things how they were,if u dont mind..ending with have a good life,goodbye’??!!Whats that all about? The one that loves the least is always in control..thats def a Leo..egos all the way..!My friend reckons he will be back,i was his audience 4 3 mths,in a weird way he respected the fact i did stand up to him and im glad i did..i wonder if he will miss me,as they hate to be ignored…i even accused him of liking me more than he wants to admit..why do i care,but i do,cldnt and shldnt trust him now,he needs to grow up..hes made me feel proper shitty bout myself but it wont stop me coming to his country holding my head up high..and hopefully a good dose of karma on my side!!
they like to have a taste of aloof women, especially what other guys seem to like but can’t have.
Niki,
Tell that A WHOLE.. You are now an ESCORT.. And that your so tired of sex your in it for the money now. Then go on and on about the wealthy men that erase all your worries with c)ck and dough.. LOL
HA Ha HA! I’m a leo lady. The part about RUN, don’t walk, if your Leo doesn’t care at all that he or she is disappointing you ->> SO. TRUE. Seriously, I HATE hurting people, I try to give the subtle hints, I withdraw and I behave comepletely intolerable to which men generally respond with chasing all the harder. Little do they understand it’s not worth it. In every other sense of a Leo, I have very much matured over the past three years but THAT behavior pattern remains. I act like a jr high boy.
I just broke up with my leo man (very immature)last month. He is very angry with me right now. I injured his pride and said bad things to him. We started texting a week or so after and when I told him I was going out of town, he had a million questions. we finally spoke and talked about what happened. I told himI was moving back to my home state, again a million questions but he kept asking to make sure I was comingback to the state we live in. At first I was calling and texting (a desperate move). I still want him but its been a week since he has texted me. I was told to just ignore him. At this point he thinks I am still moving but my plans have changed…Do I have a chance to get him back?
my ex was exactly like this…dishonest and disloyal….always lying and cheating…
i really loved him…i guess even today…2yrs have passed….
waiting for a loving scorpio or a piscean…..
Ok, my leo man called me to talk about some texts that I sent in a fit of rage..whatever I said in the text was all truth…so he calls my cousin two days before to talk about the text messages…why call me after you have already spoken to my family member about the text…he just wants to keep the door open but I am ready (or almost ready ) to close it
okay, I just dont get these leo men…My leo called me on tues, just to let me know he didnt call my cousin…who cares what I think?? Apparently he does, I am so confused, this man claims that he is so done but yet still in contact..I refuse to return his call.. Is ignoring him the best way to go?? I do wnat him back but not like before…I dont know what to do..I am not putting my life on hold for him. Please advise me..why do they keep doors open??
Ok, I just found out my immature ex leo man, told his job that we both worked at, that I was up there and I wasnt, according to the date of the letter, it was after i sent him the texts i mentioned above in other posts. We have spoken since then and there didnt appear to be any bad blood between us… He seems miserable still and just wants a rise out of me..Are they that malicious?? And do I really need to ignore him?? I will not call and ask about the letter because I know how hot tempered I can be and I know what types of things will come out of my mouth?? Please help with this miserable immature leo man
Leos need to be discipline like children.
Karen IGNORE HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!don’t ever let a leo take the lead he will play with you as if you were a toy.
I am a leo woman and I wonder if were opposite of the leo man. Don’t get me wrong, there are times I’m proud, but it seems everytime I met a guy I’m willing to give him my 100 percent. I don’t like to play games or cause drama. I did date a cancer who had multiple personalities and an attitude of rage. Me being the leo won’t stand for someones criticism if it’s not contructive. I will say, who ever it is to win my heart, I would like him to have goals and ambitions in life. I would never settle for someone who just flat out was happy doing absolutely nothing. I don’t hold grudges and I am easy to forgive. Call it niave, but I believe everyone deserves a second chance…were human. But if you cross the lines that shouldn’t be crossed, thats when the pride comes in. I admitt we can be hard to deal with, but we are very loyal. I stick up for the things and people I believe in no matter what. And yes attention is our fortay, but it doesn’t have to be all the time. We just like to know you still believe in us. That’s all. So I’m sorry for all the women who have been hurt from Leo men. You have to remember sometimes boys are just boys and can all be dickheads in every sign. It’s the ones who treat a lady right that are the one’s for you. I hope one leo male doesn’t make you refrain from all leo men, i would rather blame it on the type of person he was rather than his sign.
Hi, i was living with leo man for three years, i also married him and have his child.Well what can i say, it was horrible.Of course, its not only about the sign he is leo or not,all other things matter too, but talking about him beeing leo i truly believe he was that exact type – immature leo.i really loved him, i gave him my all, i forgave him so many horrible things, i was so loyal to him, so devoted, and he destroyed me like a woman, like a person, he was playing mind games,didint cherish anything we had together.to b honest even now after three years together having his son, i still dont know him and i dont even know what it was all about.it was smth like one day i love u another day i dont love u and then i loveu again and then i dont love u anymore etc etc.it was just messing with my mind my pride my self respect my confidence just everything.never heard a good word from him about myself maybe a few in three years.he would never admit his terrible faults but would always notice my little ones.absolutely horrible character so difficult to deal with.i was really unhappy with me i couldnt be myself near him but strangely love is blind i was always thinking things will change but they never did.in the end after all i didi for him after i helped him a lot after i gave birth to his son he left me and moved in with smbd else.he doesnt even care about his son anymore.in a way im thankful i met him as i learnt a lesson dealing with really difficult immature person, suffering a lot, longing and crying for him ass**** many nights etc.im also thankful i met him as i got my wonderful son, but if not him, i would say i rather didint met him at all as he really ruined my health my young days and in general im still recovering after that sick relationship and im getting much better and happier.im myself again and i love myself again:)
also to add..it was my biggest mistake i was too good to him and i should have RUN from him long time ago but..whatever i was like towards him nothing was worth it.one option and best option the only way to deal with such kind of person is just to move on just leave it and forget it without analysing anything as it is just a waste of time.
Wow, I must admit .. I’m 27 and I’m a immature Leo ,i like things done my way,I tend to dominate . I do have a boyfriend in which thinks I don’t appreciate because I’m never satisfy with anything, and if I do get something I want the next big thing..I do nottt like when a person speaks over me, I tend to be very messy too… But out of all my flaws .. I am a very loyal person to my family and friends, if they need me for anything even if I’m busy , I drop my things quickly to help the other person out..I can’t see nobody hurt or suffering because it hurts me . I love being around children .. And I get furious if I know somebody might be hurting a child …but like every sign we have our good and bad .., it’s just a matter of time and knowledge that would effect a person to become a better person
I have been married to an immature Leo for 2years and dated 3 years before that. We are now separated after our 6-8 time, of him leaving when he can’t have is way! I love him so much. I have shown him love and dedication for all the time I have been with him. He is usually good person, but doesn’t share his true inner self with me…Well, I have not asked for a divorce yet because I am trying to let him feel his loss (he been gone for two months now) We have had up to 2 and a half (the longest break-up) and I just hoping he will change and come back mature enough to give our marriage a true try? Are there any leo men ages 31-35 years old can help me with some insight? We usually make up after me giving in and calling him back..he’ll give me that “Its over stuff” but usually gives in and comes back..but that’s with me pulling for it…I want to know if he will come back without me doing anything…I read an article that stated when Leos are immature “you can’t let them walk all over you” you must stand your ground and this is what I doing this time. I just scared he want come back and I will have to file for divorce…He knows I love him..He calls to ask for stuppid things he left in the house and the last time he call I said I was too busy..and I have not heard from him in two and ahalf weeks…I feel so bad and hurt, but if he dosn’t come back on his on by end of June I giving up! What should I do? He always told me he loves me. I help him in his most desparate time of need in his life…Is he thinking about all the sacrafaces I made for him or do immature Leos even care…His family love me..and has often told me he has a great wife and that even they wouldn’t put up with his immaturity. I wondering if he even thinks of me? Well, PLEASE ANY MALE LEO HELP ME..I TRULY NEEDING SOME INSIGHTS TO HOW TO HANDLE THIS IMMATURE LEO OR END IT AND SUFFER JUST AS I HAVE ALL ALONG?
THANKS IN ADVANCE FOR YOUR INSIGHTS
SAD IN VA
I started dating a Leo man about a three months ago. I was engaged to the love of my life about about two years ago and he died. I was scared at first he was charming, handsome, and alot of fun which I needed. I have been somewhat been existing the last two years. I never even thought that I could even like someone again. I am a female Sag so we match fairly well together. I know he likes to be the center of attention and I allowed him this with no problem. We had alot of good times. Eventually we had sex and then all the sudden I received an text from him saying that he was in trouble with the law, and that he thought we shouldn’t see each other anymore because he might have to go to jail. OMG number one I haven’t even cared about anyone since my fiance died, and now this guy that I am falling for is telling me he doesn’t want to see me anymore. I don’t get it. I have not contacted him and it has been about a week and a half. What do I do I can’t stop thinking about him. I did know he had a past, but is he filling me full of crap and just didn’t want to see me anymore. I just wish he would have had enough respect for me to call me on the phone or tell me in person. I can’t stop thinking about him, but I refuse to call him I do not want to be pathetic. What do i do?
@ marie1234…..I am also a Sag female whose first and only boyfriend was a crazy ass LEO..
A Leo is supposudly a match for a Sag, but how do u handle both of you wanting to be the center of attention? Im sure u want to have your moments 2! Is he ever jealous of your Saggi ways when your out in public?
another Leo in trouble with the law? whats with these guys? some have a complete disregard for the law or being told what to do? does ur Leo ever have problems lying, with manipulation, or the law?
i honestly cant tell u whats in his mind, he probably feels ashamed to be going to jail, thats one reason why he wont tell u to ur face. i dated a jailbird leo as well with a past….after 3 years, i came to seem him as a charity case that i tried to fix,,,u get me?
tell me a little bit more about your courtship…immature, jailbird leos have also been known to be womanizers as well, so be careful…..but the sex is great isnt it?
@ angels r 4 me……standing your ground aganist an immature Leo that can play dirty…..couldnt have said it better myself…..a leo can and will use love as a weapon….
are you guys an item? or is he married? i bet his family likes you….you created a buffer between him and them! they probably have a hard time with him as well and so does the other women in his life…it will always be that way. unless something drastic happens to him, but leos are hard ppl to teach new tricks too….would u honestly tell the king of the jungle that he wrong lol…
@ emma….i love the caring side of a leo….i love their charm….i love how kids take to them and how they take to kids….i love how they will drop everything for the ones that they care about….those are definitely the good traits
Honestly, guys I have not found someone that I have been happier with in a few months I have fallen head over heels in love with him. He is caring, compassionate, fun, and makes me laugh. This joy I have not had in a long time. The sex is great. He may be going to jail and sent me a text that said he was indicted and that he did not thing it was a good idea for us to get more attached. I was left hurt and dumbfounded. I have been waiting two years to find someone great and I don’t care about his past or that he might go to jail I just want to find someone that makes me that happy. I really don’t know what to do. It has been almost two weeks and I have not contacted him at all. I miss him soo much what do I do. I am a single mother who goes to school full time and can support myself I am very fortunate I don’t need a man in my life, but I want him in my life and I am willing to wait for him. I still have a few years of college left anyway.
Please tell me if I should just walk away after loosing my fiance two years ago in a car wreck, I can’t take another heart break. I would rather walk away now if he is just playing with me.
@ marie….i think you should hedge your bets
There is this leo girl, a very unique, intelligent, fiery woman with a lot of imagination. 100% proud, leo personality IS basically pride. (Or at least she calls it “pride”, to me, it seems rather like this: pride + narcissism + selfishness = leo pride). She lives in her world, where she is so noble, strong, brave, royal and warm. Her logic is like this: she has these qualities and so much passion and pride, THEREFORE she is without a doubt always right about everything. And almost everyone, who doesn’t agree with her on something, is seen as worthless, weak, not noble. She thinks that maturing means tolerating other’s opinions more, and being more modest about being so noble and prideful, about being the Sun. Bah.
But she completely can’t understand, that it is still only her own world, her way of seeing life, and everyone else lives in a different world! Understanding this would question her pride I think, and her whole personality would collapse. Another thing is her “survival of the fittest” attitude and her “weak souls who are trying to achieve something deserve to be punished” bullshit.
The really annoying part is this: she constantly wants to “argue”, to “fight” about everything, just for fun, just because. To her, arguing is nothing more than some gentlemen’s sport, two noble souls showing each other their fighting spirit, so they can be proud of themselves and of each other. She is like: “Come on scorp, you are strong, let’s have a fight, you can criticize me too, I can take everything!” I’m like: “Are you sure? Do we really have to compete? Can’t we just discuss things without a fight, just once? Are you sure, you want to hear my version of how things are?” She sais that “she has prepared herself to every possible argument and already knows, how the debate will end”. Bah again.
She sais that she rarely wants to win or lose in an argument, she simply wants to show her point of view and how she got to those conclusions. But all this in a very agressive and I-am-right style. So tell me, is this REALLY an argument? How can we have a real argument, when she has already figured out, how it will end after an hour or so?
Then I try to tell hear my honest opinion, without trying to “sting her in some evil scorpion way” or whatever. Yes, I think she deserves some strong criticism sometimes because the way she is acting, but still, I try to play by her rules. My honest opininon is usually something that totally doesn’t fit into her little world and she can’t understand, how I could say something like that, so she totally goes mad at me every time.. She becomes very angry, she just can’t handle it.
“How can I disagree with her like that, so mean, why am I thinking so differently, it’s all so unjust, why can’t I see her nobility, I’m so not noble and mean”, bla bla bla, all the drama. We scorpios have strong pride as well, well it’s a different kind of pride, but still, we had so much fun together that I sometimes try to swallow some pride and just give in. It’s pointless to argue anyway, if she can’t say anything that really has a point in the real world (others have the same opinion about her views as I). Giving in only works if she doesn’t notice it, because she can’t handle that either, I would lose her respect.
So it goes like this: if I try to prove with facts (!) that she is wrong, I am mean and wrong. If I don’t argue with her or give in, I’m weak or dishonest. If I don’t try to argue, just explain why I’m thinking the way I’m thinking, then I’m guilty of not listening to her and what she has to say. So what now?
Still, I tried to worship her as a goddess, gave her many compliments, helped her achieve things, tried to explain to her things she didn’t understand about people. It’s always fun to be around her, leo women can be some crazy goddesses..
We were good friends (she is a lesbian btw, I’m a man so it’s easy for us to be nothing more than friends), but now she doesn’t want to talk to me anymore, she said that we are way too different and I only drain her energy with these arguments now or something like that. I mean come on, SHE wanted to argue all the time.
She was very good at hurting my feelings with all the things she said, and she usually never noticed it. Still, I stood by her side, knowing, that she is basically good-willing, respects me, doesn’t usually want to hurt me, it only appears like that. I think I changed quite a lot, gave her all the respect I could, so we could get along. She said she did the same, well maybe a bit, still, it’s not working.
I’m a scorp and my girlfriend is a scorp, and we get along wonderfully, so I don’t think that it’s the strong sign vs strong sign problem on my part with the leo girl.
So is my leonine goddess mature or immature? Or am I the one, who is doing many things wrong?
Or both, I honestly don’t know anymore. I really don’t want to lose her as a friend, we had soooooo much fun for a year and so many deep conversations about mostly everything, too. And also, I’m worried about her, noone understands her because of her strange personality, she is also single for some time now, a bit lonely.
Marie, you have so many positive things going for yourself with school and trying to improve your life. You want a man who will enhance your life, not compound it with more problems and unnecessary drama. If you can, write down what you love about him, what you can live with, what you are settling for, what you gain from being in a relationship with him, and what you can live without. Will it effect your child? There is love and then there is self protection. There is drama, then there is facing reality.
Fantastic sex is great, but it doesn’t make a stable relationship. Great sex doesn’t give you peace of mind or security. If he is bringing you more frustration and anxiety, let him go. It’s emotional abuse, and it’s not healthy.
It’s been 2 months since I dumped my sexy Leo. I had a “dark night of the soul”, but I believed that the right man will be in my life, and to not hang onto the wrong man who is bringing more stress, drama, and anxiety than I need.
Please don’t ever settle because you are lonely. Do things that will enhance your life. Most women think our love is powerful enough to change a man. It’s not. He has to want that for himself. Don’t enable him.
Work on yourself and be happy for yourself. Please look into grief counseling for the loss of a loved one. I had to with this breakup and it helped.
Marie, from one college student with 2 more years left on her degree to another: Please refocus your energy on yourself and healing. Your education will open doors for you. In time it will get better, but take the necessary steps to do so. Learn to let him go and live your life. I really do wish you the best.
I recently dated an older Leo male, 52 (i am 43) and it was so great. Problem is his ego! Soon as he is hurt, he withdraws and silence. He did that once and I made nice. He’s doing it now and now I think he has severe issues. Me going older I thought would increase my chances of being with someone more mature. Hmmmmmmmm. Can’t accomodate stroking his ego – so sorry, true Aries just don’t do that easily.
No one is perfect we all know that, but this behavior says IMMATURE all the way! Grow up Leo guys!!! We Aries (or as I like to think, women who have confidence and are absolutely not desperate or needy) simply cannot stroke your ego regularly! If you want to be with an exciting Aries, you must learn to yield! I am tired of other sites saying we need to stroke them!
OMG!!! You just described a Leo guy I dated this summer!
)) I’m a Scorpio and I’m a couple of years older than him! 
The thing is we are still “friends”, and we have no choice, as we are part of the same organization, so whether we like it or not, we still get to see each other pretty often, and have lots of mutual friends and activities together. Here’s how things went: last summer when we first met, we liked each other from the 1st moment, and he was very quick in pursuing me. About 1-2 weeks after our first kiss (very, very, passionate indeed, but we didn’t go TOO far, as I’m a bit cautious in that “area” 
), he started blowing hot & cold. Sometimes he was all sweet and flirty, sometimes I felt like he was pushing me away, and he was also flirting with other girls. Therefore, I pulled away: I told him that although I liked him and cared about him, I didn’t want to put up with that kind of behaviour. At first, he was acting like I was the one to do something bad to him, tried to making me jealous saying that he went back with his ex (but it turned out it either wasn’t true or it didn’t last too long either), and we had no contact at all apart fron organization meetings and related e-mail messages. But last week he started blowing hot again: he brought a female friend at a party, and this girl was always hinting at what a nice couple him & I are, and that, if she were in my place, she would marry him. Of course, he was very flirty and kept close to me for almost the entire evening. Soooooo high-school!!!! 
))))But at least, we started speaking to each other on a one-to-one basis again. I’m still crazy about him, although I’m well aware of his immaturity! What I’m thinking about is to invite him for a casual drink and chat in town, just to try and talk things through. Should I? I keep changing my mind over and over again… :-/
Girl your Leo is messing around with more then One Woman. He needs the mommy wife at home and girlfriend at work, the girlfriend in another city he frequents. They are a total mess! They have secret babies and play till death. Can’t change em don’t try to . Save yourself grief
I am a Leo female and I dont necessarily agree with a leo being considered immature when they distance themselves. I think a lot of Leos are misread. I know I might distance myself from a situation or person b/c I am feeling unsure about that situation or person. Or if I am feeling unloved (which yes Leo’s do feel b/c we are feeling people with big hearts that get hurt very easily) I might distance myself from that so called friend or relationship as a way to think and meditate…is this relationship or person good for me? It is my way of getting out of that unloved feeling. Some might think of it as being selfish, but sometimes a person has to be and I know with me I feel I need to step back from a situation or person and think about myself in order to protect my heart. Also if one second I am mad and distance myself and then you think you give me what I want and I am all of a sudden nice and sweet again….once again misreading….at least for me. I forgive easily. So it’s not that you are giving me what I want…I just forgive easily. Also I might be confused not knowing whether you are a true friend or not or whether you are someone I should be with or not. Happened with my marriage. I have very strong views about marriage, but was having problems in the marriage. Tried everything to keep the marriage going, until I was drained. then I started withdrawing b/c I felt as if I was not being listened to, my feeling did not matter, and husband was a jerk. It took 3 times me leaving relationship, before I left and left for good. Basically, if a leo withdraws…or at least if I withdraw from a person, it is because I am confused about the relationship and need time to think on what’s best. So maybe the people that say leos act like this…maybe they are giving off mixed signals.
Also trust is very important to me. If I am unsure if I can trust you or not or if you are using me …I will withdraw. Its to protect myself.
I am a Sag woman; I like leo men (generally) but Ive only dated one briefly and he was an utter mess. Fortunately, I wasnt very attached to him and kept an emotional distance throughout. The worst thing was his temper. He was psychotic. He had a lot of anger towards his mother. The first time he lost it I told him to leave. He also sponged off me and was very tight with money. Didnt want to pay for anything. He couldnt understand why women didnt like him. Laughable. In the end, I got bored and dumped him.
Leo women seem to take an instant dislike to me and I have no idea why. I share an office with 2 leo women and they are pretty difficult to get along with. Theyre in the 40s and 50s by the way. Bossy and domineering; one of them will not let you get a word in; if you try, she just talks louder and louder over you. Its incredibly rude. She’s the nicer of the two! The other is totally wrapped in herself and does not like to be questioned about anything and refuses to bring her working methods into the 21st century. Neither of them display any leo warmth either. You have to treat them with kid gloves otherwise you get the nasty side of their tongues. They are both very judgmental people; small minded, gossipy and opinionated. I always take them to task over their thinly veiled bigotry. Interestingly, 2 women in my organisation who are the most hated and who have been done for serious disciplinary offences are also leos. Humility does not come easily to these ppl.
I dun know wat to say. Well, I’m a scorpio female & have been married with leo for 8yrs. He never respect my feelings, abused me infront of others & never let me do the things I want. Flriting with other grls coz he’s so handsome that every grls like him. Now we r in diff country & still the situation is same. He’s always the same, immature leo. I sacrifice everything for him but now i’m fed up. I can’t take it any more & I talked to him twice abt this issue. He’s so jealous & always fight with me which i hate most. He’s not willing to leave me & been acting like My life is only for him. He even threatened me that he will commit suicide or something if it happens. He realized his mistake & trying to win me back. I feel sorry for him but no more further relations from my side. Hmmmmm, Immature Leo. now I’m determined wat to do next.
wow this is so helpful! thanks!
If my feeling sounds helpful to anyone then I feel gr8 but I know how you feel when you suffered most without telling anyone. Right now I’m just acting passively but I know what I’m thinking will happen anyhow in the future. It’s so hard to wait for the right time. Hmmm poor fellow, now nothing can be done. I don’t love him anymore. The fact is, when i needed him he was never there for me. I suffered & cried alone. Now he wants me more than himself. How mean.There’s a huge difference between loving & taking care. I’m just taking care of him so that he won’t get hurt emotionally.Everyone says Scorpio can do anything compared to others coz of their strong will power but I think It’s totally hard for them to step out from the relations whom they love most. The only thing is they give lots of chances to their loved ones & If the situation’s same then only they quit. Otherwise their loved ones R so much precious for them. Hmmmmmm
Hi I need Leo young woman advice..??? meaning i was or am or soon not be dating a Leo July 23 and me being a scorpio never fully trusted her.. Well she actually caught me.. or “busted ” me talking to someone in flirt on fb.. And she slaughtered me for a confession.. I broke down and confessed she thanked and forgave me..
Well recently i noticed she was so excited over a new chat guy and fb and he fits the part of what she is into.. well being a pure detective and all the woman in my life i have busted.. noticed he logs on and off with her. on and on.. i asked her gently.. and she snapped saying i will not let her talk to anyone.. blah blah blah.. I asked nicely and she said never again???? we are not that serious
Well the other evening her sister who is a complete attention whore wpent the night with her.. and this guy they both new were on video chat.. online.. to get a mushy over him.. How i know trust me i know..
I logged on and said nothing she instanly called me saying in a whisper why are u on at 5am??? i was fixing my computer on and on stumbling and fumbling and she nervously said i must get to sleep..
Her sister was still on as he was also.. we have not spoke in 3 days she knows i know she is in a romance with this guy??
What shall i do.. I want to slightly have her spit out her confession.. oh wait i want to torture her to confess.. and i realize we are a thing of the past afterwards..
Leo loves a sexy cute guy.. and will lust over his voice and eyes.. She is a huge attention whore as well as her pisces sister.. My girl is so beautiful trust me i prayed with her and cried with her.. so i created a deep soul tie I now am suffering over this after 4 months.. YET i know evil and all his wicked friends create much turmoil..
So how should I make the Leo Princess confess.. ??? she panics.. when caught??
Come on LEO girls please admitt do you sneak??? do you cheat and do you LYE.. be honest. ..
I have leo rising, aqua sun. I’m 29, I haven’t cheated in a good minute. At point when I did cheat, it was after I was obviously unhappy in the relationships. Not everyone agrees to a breakup, know what I mean? And I’ve lied from time to time in my past, but it was about dumb stuff that most people lie about i.e. “are you smoking?” “uh…no”. I’ve played my parents the most probably, but with boyfriends I’ve only lied about stuff that I thought was okay whereas they would not. I got Aquarius sun, so my freedom is very important to me. I do not mean freedom, sexually. I mean my chosen friends. I have many male friends, and sometimes I’d lie that I was with a girlfriend when I was really kickin’ it with a guy friend. I do not have sex with my friends either. They get hugs. I’ve had fwb, who are not long-term friends, when I’ve been single. So…. that’s it on this end.
I always figured this was because I was raised an only child lol (with the leo characteristics),… I do have pride and I do have a knack for being the center of attention. I’ve only been jealous of one person in my life, and that’s because they treated me like dog shit and still went into public like they were the nicest person on the planet. With me, you get me as pure as can be from the get-go. So, although I might not be the favorite on everyone’s list. I’m still respected.
I need some woman LEO advice.. Meaning i want to put some torment and spin on this Leo who i love
she is now with another guy yet keeps me around..
I want to make her run to find me.. and spin some torment on what she did to me..
I need some great woman LEO head game advice… what makes them tick.. she does stalk and has a some jealousy..
Immature and unreasonable. Most Leos have the tendency to be selfish and self-consumed. It sometimes can be irritating that you already gave out everything and still they would demand for more.
Leos are natural born stars…in their own worlds that is. It’s true that you always have to please their whims or they’ll be looking out for somebody who can. Talk about immaturity. But anyways, Leos can be gentle and loving creatures, so in the end, it’s a win-win situation.
Hi, i’m an aries woman who fell in love with an immature leo… My story is very similar to yours: after a lot of giving without receiving, he finally recognized that he loved me. I continued to cherish him, gave him space, no pressure… and after some time, I actually pressed him. First he said he hadn’t time, continually postponing… and in the end he recognized he knew someone else in the meanwhile and was dating with her.
It was quite a shock to me. I stayed silently and just told him that we would never see each other again.
Guess what? He answered me “of course not, i’ll call you! I’ll call you and we’ll have a drink one of these days!” How is it possible to be so insensitive…? In the first days I actually thought he would calm down, think and appreciate all the things I’ve done and miss me… but now reading your comments I actually believed he just said that to “leave a good impression” and he forgot me forever the minute we said goodbye.
I feel exactly like you described above… my self-esteem totally destroyed.