how are you, unable to leave you a comment on your profile or even a message, presume there is a technical problem in the sasstrology site.

Anyway am doing great missing your lovely lunar voice/words.

Yourscorpmale R.Gopi

Wow, that’s a lot! I can’t say I had the same experience myself. I’m the opposite: I grew up in a very loving home. My Cappy sister is much prettier than I am. People usually compliment her before they notice me. My mom’s an Aqua so we get along like two peas in a pod. She’s already a pretty lady, so she has no reason to be jealous of her daughters . . . And I was the one who dumped all of my ex boyfriends (except the 1st one, he just beat me to it).

Yes I do agree that we Librans have a desire to be loved. I’m a fussy libra though, I have to have the entire pie. I’m not satisfied with one wedge, I want the whole deal. He has to meet my needs/wants, as I meet his . I do believe that some girls fall into this pattern though. I think a lot depends on what you learn from your past relationships.

Interestingly enough, he has Libra rising. He’s told me communication is very difficult between them.

I’ll keep reading on all these Scorpio posts. Very interest.

Here is a very provocative question for all of you libra females. I have come across two very recurrent instances as i quote below.

1. A surprising number of libra girls or ladies or abused by either of or both their parents verbally, mentally, majority physically, and few of them sexually. Even if the sexual abuse is not overt, it is bound to be subtle psychological signals on part of the father.

2. The mothers tend to be jealous of the libra girl’s beauty and virtues in most cases and tends to do them more harm than good in the garb of motherhood.

3. Most libra females dont realise this because the sign despite its supposed flirtatiousness is one of pure innocence, the innocence of libra girls is likely to bring tears to my eyes in sharp contrast to the cruelty of this world. The capacity for instrospection does not exist in libra females since the sign rules mirrors, they depend on the partner for their self-awareness. God bless these ladies with a husband who helps them achieve this else they remain innocent and abused throughout.

4. The childhood trauma is so ingrained in their subconscious that reactions to any crisis is the collective effect of the trauma embedded in their subconscous.

5. This trauma dictates the terms for their future relations and they end up marrying someone who ends up brutalising them financially, emotionally, physically and so on, THEY keep the illusion of love alive till it burns them and they let go and separate

6. The deepest need of a libra girl is to be loved and she is willing to give all in return with no aces up her sleeve, when this is thwarted the psyche preys upon itself as a hungry snake.

7. Success in academics and business is not the same as psychoemotional success.

A libra girl may or may not be superficially good looking but there is a invisible light in the aura of most libra girls i have known, and i can identify one in a crowd.

Here the beauty becomes a curse for them. The soft nature invites the more villanous types of people like abusive parents and husbands, it is the attraction of the masochist and sadist.

Deconditioning these girls becomes a herculean task, i have seen the above patterns in the girl next door as well as the more famous examples like Rita Hayworth

Pls give me your opinions

1. If you can link the astrological wheel to a horseshoe magnet the arches of it comes under the various signs and the poles of the magnet with libra being the north and scorpio the south pole, the opposite poles of the earths magnetic field it is this balance of the magnetic attraction that keeps the earth in a elliptical shape and helps in its axial revolution.

2. The poles again are ruled by venus (north) and mars (south), they are destined to be with each other but by overcoming karmic obstacles.

3. When the opposing intense energies of male-female, diurnal-nocturnal, positive-negative unite it leads to a creation of a energy field which vibrates to ZERO or nothingness which is a higher plane of energy and awareness than the dual energies. This is energy is the source of librafemale scorp male conflicts in all unions, some evolved couples overcome this and live happily the others succumb to this energy and separate.

Hope it solves your question

I think a man really likes it when a woman does little things for him – things that she knows he’ll enjoy. My BF loves it when I leave lil post-it notes hidden in his apartment. When he’s cooking, I’ll help him do the dishes and clean the kitchen. I’ll give him a nice massage when he’s tired or his back is sore. I’ll lend him an ear when he needs it. Men feel good when we tell them, “thank you”, after they’ve helped us. It makes them feel appreciated. Pay for dinner/date once and awhile. Give him that special touch you know he goes crazy for. Actions speak louder than words . I know these all sound like small details, but they really add up to a lot. Men pick on these patterns. It makes them feel wanted, shows them that you really care. This is the advice that I’ve heard coming from a guy.

Speaking of libras/scorpios being clingy: I’m learning to give my man space when he needs it. It helps that he gets his alone time when he travels for work. Otherwise, we’d both probably go stir crazy, yet when we get together – you can’t pull us apart. Yeah, why are libra/scorpio so clingy to each other?